Crazy Ex-Girlfriend

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  • goldenegg
    goldenegg Posts: 371
    thebetterman wrote:
    how long were you in a relationship? I think that has a lot to do with it.

    I'm glad you were able to stay friends though, truly.

    I don't think it has as much to do with time as it does with the emotions involved. If you're not emotionally attached to the person, remaining friends would be much easier.
  • thebetterman
    thebetterman Posts: 657
    goldenegg wrote:
    I don't think it has as much to do with time as it does with the emotions involved. If you're not emotionally attached to the person, remaining friends would be much easier.

    true, but i think that for the most part, emotional attachment grows with time.
    -one thing to remember, always have a good time, all the time
  • G-force
    G-force Posts: 218
    thebetterman wrote:
    So the other day I got an email from an ex-girlfriend of two years (the relationship ended 2.5 years ago?) saying that she was sorry for lying to me about cheating on me and that she was still not over that fact she lied just to hurt me. Whats weird is that I have also heard her call me a pansy, cry baby and that i was a prick to her. And she did this all in a way she knew I would hear it and this was all in the last few weeks. She has been bringing up memories about when we were together. Last time she did this was when I started dating my current girlfriend and boy did she go insane, and when i say that i mean really insane.

    So anyone got any good psycho ex stories!

    Most everyone has a Pysco-Chick story. An ex of mine smashed my car window, spit inside and threw whatever was within reach through the window, i.e. dirt, leaves, trash... She was a real sophisticated and classy girl.
  • Character Zero
    Character Zero Posts: 96
    All women are nuttier than squirrel turd...
    I was taught a month ago to bide my time and take it slow, but then I learned just yesterday to rush and never waste a day. Now I'm convinced the whole day long that all I've learned is always wrong. Things are true that I forget, but no one taught that to me yet
  • comebackwoman
    comebackwoman Posts: 7,271
    OffHeGoes29 wrote:
    Thanks man, time to fight the power.....the power of the "P".
    haha...you mean pussalia? :p

    I think it's possible to be friends with an ex...IF the boundaries are really clear. I think it also depends on the nature of the relationship while the 2 people were together...and the circumstances of how it ended. Sometimes relationships just change form or change over time. Difficult? hell yeah...but not impossible...at least not in my experience.
    There's a light when my baby's in my arms :)
  • mindi
    mindi Posts: 1,862
    Not my ex but my husband's ex could be called psycho.
    She was furious when me and him got together. And when I had kids with him she got even worse.
    She started screwing around with me on ebay. Bidding on stuff and not paying and giving me negative feedback.
    So I put her on my blocked bidders list and got an email that said something like, if you ever out me on another list you will be attending 4 funerals. We had 4 kids at the time.
    And every other day or so I would get 100s of the same emails from her saying how she followed our van that day, or she wished my baby would die.

    Oh and the topper was when she posted , as me,on some adult bulletin board how I was looking for a someone to join me and my daughter, she was 3 at the time, to join us for a threesome. That actually got her into trouble. She got contacted by the center for missing and exploited children. Unfortunately they couldn't do anything since we had no proof it was her, but we knew it was.
    To 10c; "Your PJ tshirt should be tight enough to show you're a woman and loose enough to show you're a lady." - bionicamy
  • thebetterman
    thebetterman Posts: 657
    mindi wrote:
    Not my ex but my husband's ex could be called psycho.
    She was furious when me and him got together. And when I had kids with him she got even worse.
    She started screwing around with me on ebay. Bidding on stuff and not paying and giving me negative feedback.
    So I put her on my blocked bidders list and got an email that said something like, if you ever out me on another list you will be attending 4 funerals. We had 4 kids at the time.
    And every other day or so I would get 100s of the same emails from her saying how she followed our van that day, or she wished my baby would die.

    Oh and the topper was when she posted , as me,on some adult bulletin board how I was looking for a someone to join me and my daughter, she was 3 at the time, to join us for a threesome. That actually got her into trouble. She got contacted by the center for missing and exploited children. Unfortunately they couldn't do anything since we had no proof it was her, but we knew it was.

    if there was a prize, you'd win it... I hope that all ended?
    -one thing to remember, always have a good time, all the time
  • mindi
    mindi Posts: 1,862
    thebetterman wrote:
    if there was a prize, you'd win it... I hope that all ended?
    Luckily it did. I think right after the Governor of IL passed a new internet stalking law. Soon after that anyway. I guess she knew she was going to get into trouble then.
    To 10c; "Your PJ tshirt should be tight enough to show you're a woman and loose enough to show you're a lady." - bionicamy
  • thebetterman
    thebetterman Posts: 657
    mindi wrote:
    Luckily it did. I think right after the Governor of IL passed a new internet stalking law. Soon after that anyway. I guess she knew she was going to get into trouble then.

    Good for you, I'm glad you and your family can live your own life now with no worries of her coming into the picture.
    -one thing to remember, always have a good time, all the time
  • recognize
    recognize Posts: 8
    thebetterman wrote:
    As you said, I'm engaged now, I clearly did not need to hear an apology for something that happened two years ago. I understand that people need to make peace with themselves sometimes, but that apology was selfish. I could see it if I hounded her for two years over this, and then she apologized, but I was living my own life, completely detached from her, and could care about something she said two years ago. The apology wasn't for me.

    I don't think she moved on that fast either, to answer that point. She was just crazy and trying to move on by having sex with someone and transfer feelings. Right after I started dating again, 4 months later, I got hundreds (literally) of phone calls from her being all sad and wanting me back. I wouldn't answer, but the phone just kept ringing for hours. So I don't think she had moved on so quickly.

    Anyway, I just hope this can finally end and I can finally be rid of her. Maybe she really is happy, maybe she is really sad? She gave up the privilege of me caring though.

    thats a weird amount of time....i bet she is single again and that is why out of blue she is being nice to you. ill be the first to say it that that is something girls do a lot.
  • thebetterman
    thebetterman Posts: 657
    recognize wrote:
    thats a weird amount of time....i bet she is single again and that is why out of blue she is being nice to you. ill be the first to say it that that is something girls do a lot.

    i guess i understand that, but still... thats a long time.

    call me Columbus, that was post 1492 for me.
    -one thing to remember, always have a good time, all the time
  • josevolution
    josevolution Posts: 31,792
    just reading some of these post i have to say thank the fuckkkkkkkkkkkk i married the woman i did 16yrs ago i don't ever wan't to spend anytime with anyone else man i feel for people who have to go thru shit like this ........
    jesus greets me looks just like me ....
  • goldenegg
    goldenegg Posts: 371
    josevolution wrote:
    just reading some of these post i have to say thank the fuckkkkkkkkkkkk i married the woman i did 16yrs ago i don't ever wan't to spend anytime with anyone else man i feel for people who have to go thru shit like this ........

    Some people seem to luck out, while others must go through this apparent torture test.

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