Crazy Ex-Girlfriend

prism

yep...as a matter of fact he just called me a little while ago. along with being a asshole he is truly a sociopath. at this point all i have to say is: FUCK HIM

OffHeGoes29

Allie wrote:

I don't think that's true

Ok, just ask a man (who is not your friend) if its true?

OffHeGoes29

goldenegg wrote:

I am so with you!!!

Thanks man, time to fight the power.....the power of the "P".

Orestes

goldenegg wrote:

STORY 2:

I won't go in to extreme detail on this one, because it's recent and I'm still pretty hurt about the whole thing. It started with her expecting me to be okay with her continuing to be in a non-intimate relationship with her ex. Then I was continually lied to, being told that things were over between her and her ex when they really weren't. We broke up and got back together months later, when her ex was apparently out of the picture. That didn't last too long, as I discovered I was just being used and she had no intention of having a serious relationship together, even though that was specifically discussed before we got back together. Her ex even came back in to the picture during this time.

ugh ... I can't go on talking about this, as it's getting me too upset. The only reason I am posting is because reading other people's experiences makes me feel better as I know I'm not alone in this. Maybe my stories will help someone in the same way.

Yo Golden, Thanks for the effort. This really helped me out. I just came back home from breaking up with my girlfriend for doing shit like this. It's a terrible feeling but it's good to know that somewhere out there there's someone who can share the misery with you!
Be strong man!

goldenegg

Orestes wrote:

Yo Golden, Thanks for the effort. This really helped me out. I just came back home from breaking up with my girlfriend for doing shit like this. It's a terrible feeling but it's good to know that somewhere out there there's someone who can share the misery with you!
Be strong man!

Sorry to hear about your evening, but trust me when I say you did the right thing tonight. It really does hurt like hell, but life goes on and the pain lessens over time.

If you ever feel the need to chat with a total stranger, feel free to send a PM

recognize

so i am sure everyone has had a crazy ex, but have you ever been the crazy ex?

goldenegg

recognize wrote:

so i am sure everyone has had a crazy ex, but have you ever been the crazy ex?

Well ... my ex who wanted me to change my work schedule to conform to her needs probably sees me as the crazy one. Hell ... even the other ex I spoke about in my post has probably spun things in her head to make me at fault. Given that neither of them are in my life anymore, I don't really care what either of them (or any of my past girlfriends) think of me.

None of us are perfect, yet we like to believe we are

PearlsGirl

recognize wrote:

so i am sure everyone has had a crazy ex, but have you ever been the crazy ex?

wouldn't you fight for what you believe in? It like calling your passion something crazy. The thing is, with time, people move on with their lives, and better themselves. Healing takes time. My last relationship, I was over it half way through our two years together. Not even a month later after breaking up, I moved on. I couldn't be happier than where I am today. I sometimes have hope in humanity, it's truly wonderful to see someone change to better themselves. My best friend did so, and now, I couldn't be more proud of her.

journeyman

Most women are really crazy. Especially the real hot ones.
The one's that aren't crazy, usually are boring. So, good luck!
It really helps if you're crazy yourself.

goldenegg

PearlsGirl wrote:

I sometimes have hope in humanity, it's truly wonderful to see someone change to better themselves.

It's nice to have those moments, isn't it? Most of the time, my faith in humanity is hanging by a thin thread.

iluvcats

thebetterman wrote:

So the other day I got an email from an ex-girlfriend of two years (the relationship ended 2.5 years ago?) saying that she was sorry for lying to me about cheating on me and that she was still not over that fact she lied just to hurt me. Whats weird is that I have also heard her call me a pansy, cry baby and that i was a prick to her. And she did this all in a way she knew I would hear it and this was all in the last few weeks. She has been bringing up memories about when we were together. Last time she did this was when I started dating my current girlfriend and boy did she go insane, and when i say that i mean really insane.

So anyone got any good psycho ex stories!

maybe she is having bad dreams about you. that's from unresolved conflicts.
so she might be trying to make peace with you, per her psychiatrist's advice.

josevolution

thebetterman wrote:

So the other day I got an email from an ex-girlfriend of two years (the relationship ended 2.5 years ago?) saying that she was sorry for lying to me about cheating on me and that she was still not over that fact she lied just to hurt me. Whats weird is that I have also heard her call me a pansy, cry baby and that i was a prick to her. And she did this all in a way she knew I would hear it and this was all in the last few weeks. She has been bringing up memories about when we were together. Last time she did this was when I started dating my current girlfriend and boy did she go insane, and when i say that i mean really insane.

So anyone got any good psycho ex stories!

talk to mookie9999 hi's last girl just gave him something to remember her by

thebetterman

goldenegg wrote:

OMG!!!! That's a WONDERFUL question! I think it's about having people around them who they know have some level of feelings which are more than just an average friend. They fall back on that when they feel they're missing that in their lives.

I got the 3rd degree from an ex when I refused to have any contact when we broke up. I just can't simply be 'friends' with someone I have strong feelings about.

I actually tried to be friends with this ex afterwards. I now agree that it can't be done... Anyway, her idea of my friendship was asking me advice on how to get with guys, and telling me stories about how she tried to throw herself at a guy and he wouldn't get with her, less than a month after we broke up.

and she broke up with me, which i think makes her even more crazy for her actions.

PearlsGirl

thebetterman wrote:

I actually tried to be friends with this ex afterwards. I now agree that it can't be done... Anyway, her idea of my friendship was asking me advice on how to get with guys, and telling me stories about how she tried to throw herself at a guy and he wouldn't get with her, less than a month after we broke up.

and she broke up with me, which i think makes her even more crazy for her actions.

Okay, here is my personal advice to you. Just forget it. Who knows what her actual intentions were, may be they were as simple as saying she was sorry for her past actions. Take it as that. You're engaged, right? So forget her! You're happily moved on, and that is all that matters. If you are saying that she moved on so quickly after your relationship ended, then I believe that she has actually moved on with her life and may be all she wanted was closure to her past. You truly never know what is happening in a persons life. She might be in the happiest place she has ever been and in order to get to her next step, she has to rewind a bit to make sure her past doesn't catch up with her, in a bad way. Here's another piece of advice, don't date a psychologist, they get to your mind! they make you think out side the circle. In life, it might just be better to take some things the way the are, and the rest, you can fight as hard as you want to change them.

libragirl

It may seem crazy to you but sometimes it takes awhile for people to realize they made a mistake and apologize for it. So instead of making fun of her why don't you gracefully accept the apology and forget about it. I don't mean to be harsh.

fanch75

I always find it interesting that everyone's exes are psycho and the one at fault, never the one talking.

libragirl

fanch75 wrote:

I always find it interesting that everyone's exes are psycho and the one at fault, never the one talking.

HA....HA...good point.

PJSerf

I've actually been friends with an ex for over a year now. We had a lot in common, but things just didn't work out. Two different career paths and lifestyles that didn't mesh. We are still good friends, and she is coming to two shows with me this summer (her first two PJ shows). I must admit that it was a little awkward at first, but after a few months, we actually became better friends than when we were together.

thebetterman

PearlsGirl wrote:

Okay, here is my personal advice to you. Just forget it. Who knows what her actual intentions were, may be they were as simple as saying she was sorry for her past actions. Take it as that. You're engaged, right? So forget her! You're happily moved on, and that is all that matters. If you are saying that she moved on so quickly after your relationship ended, then I believe that she has actually moved on with her life and may be all she wanted was closure to her past. You truly never know what is happening in a persons life. She might be in the happiest place she has ever been and in order to get to her next step, she has to rewind a bit to make sure her past doesn't catch up with her, in a bad way. Here's another piece of advice, don't date a psychologist, they get to your mind! they make you think out side the circle. In life, it might just be better to take some things the way the are, and the rest, you can fight as hard as you want to change them.

As you said, I'm engaged now, I clearly did not need to hear an apology for something that happened two years ago. I understand that people need to make peace with themselves sometimes, but that apology was selfish. I could see it if I hounded her for two years over this, and then she apologized, but I was living my own life, completely detached from her, and could care about something she said two years ago. The apology wasn't for me.

I don't think she moved on that fast either, to answer that point. She was just crazy and trying to move on by having sex with someone and transfer feelings. Right after I started dating again, 4 months later, I got hundreds (literally) of phone calls from her being all sad and wanting me back. I wouldn't answer, but the phone just kept ringing for hours. So I don't think she had moved on so quickly.

Anyway, I just hope this can finally end and I can finally be rid of her. Maybe she really is happy, maybe she is really sad? She gave up the privilege of me caring though.

thebetterman

PJSerf wrote:

I've actually been friends with an ex for over a year now. We had a lot in common, but things just didn't work out. Two different career paths and lifestyles that didn't mesh. We are still good friends, and she is coming to two shows with me this summer (her first two PJ shows). I must admit that it was a little awkward at first, but after a few months, we actually became better friends than when we were together.

how long were you in a relationship? I think that has a lot to do with it.

I'm glad you were able to stay friends though, truly.