Extremely rude merch person at Fenway

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  • Go back to the merch stand today, find the guy who was rude to you and tell him the jerk store called and they’re running out of him. Caaaaaaaaastanza 
  • Epic
  • ten474 said:
    Wanted to post this. Hoping someone who handles merch for the band sees it:

    This is my 13th show on this tour and I've never encountered a merch experience like I had today. The merch people have always been so nice. But today as I was buying merch the person helping me had an attitude from the get go. Every time I asked him for something I needed (sighing and rolling his eyes.) I said to him "What is your problem?" He responded "You are my problem." I was in SHOCK. I wasn't doing anything but trying to buy merch.

    I had my own poster tube and every time I tried to roll my posters up into my tube he would yell at me "You can't do that here!" When he gave me my total he refused to let me look at the screen to double check things which I have always done. When I again asked him why he had an attitude he yelled "Fuck off!" I could not believe it. I was looking around for some sort of authority because I could not believe this person was talking to me this way. Then what seemed to be his supervisor looking on said "Get your stuff and get out of here! And you better not come back tomorrow!" I was in SHOCK. I had no idea what I had done and the cashier behind the counter continued to tell me to "fuck off" and leave. It was literally one of the craziest experiences I have ever had at a Pearl Jam show. 

    AND THEN: After the show on Sunday I was walking past the merch table again. It was late, like almost midnight I think. No one was there.  As I was walking past I saw this kid again. I didn't say anything and he looked at me from behind the merch table and said "Bitch motherfucker!"  I confronted him and he literally ran away to the back.
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  • bootlegger10bootlegger10 Posts: 15,859
    edited September 18
    Don't go to a merch stand expecting the price to be calculated correctly every time.  Leakage.  Get in, and get the F out.  If your Large shirt fits like a Medium, get the F out.  All part of the excitement that is merch.  
  • battle1battle1 Posts: 127
    Don't go to a merch stand expecting the price to be calculated correctly every time.  Leakage.  Get in, and get the F out.  If your Large shirt fits like a Medium, get the F out.  All part of the excitement that is merch.  
    I got a genuine laugh at this.  So true. 
  • Tim SimmonsTim Simmons Posts: 7,856
    I think if you complain about a merch experience, you need to list what you purchased first. 
  • artforbwartforbw Posts: 140
    Once one of them started swearing at you, you should have started recording it for proof. Otherwise, I have no reason to believe this story is completely accurate.
    Two sides to every story, and the merch people would probably tell this story very differently. Maybe you were cursing them out, and they were just trying to ask you to leave.
  • AlaGAlaG Posts: 976
    Don't go to a merch stand expecting the price to be calculated correctly every time.  Leakage.  Get in, and get the F out.  If your Large shirt fits like a Medium, get the F out.  All part of the excitement that is merch.  
    If you get the posters first and roll them up while they’re grabbing all of your other shit sometimes they don’t get rung up at all. Then if your shirt is the wrong size it’s not really a loss. Order of operations is important here.
  • JOEJOEJOEJOEJOEJOE Posts: 10,494
    edited September 18
    Elderly Rude Merch Person behind the Counter
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  • ceskaceska Posts: 1,115
    JOEJOEJOE said:
    Elderly Rude Merch Person behind the Counter

    ... in a Bean Town

    ;)
  • I would have gone mental back. Easy. If someone treats you like shit you can then act like shit
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  • mvwmvw Posts: 1,687
    Just use the tables!



  • Merch staff at big arena and stadium shows very rarely work directly for the band or even for the venue. The venue will go to an outside contractor to provide event staffing. 

    Whilst there's no excuse for being an asshole these guys are doing a job working unsociable hours for minimum wage and have most likely had to put up with hundreds of asshole customers before you got there. Unfortunately PJ fans are some of the worst to deal with when it comes to merch. Very few other bands have fans queuing up for merch hours before the event and buying up everything available meaning the merch staff spend a good portion of their shift apologising for the wait times and lack of availability. A few years back I was at a PJ show in London and overheard a couple of the merch stall staff talking saying that not one person had said please or thank you to them all day. So I am not surprised if every now and then one of them snaps at a customer.
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  • LoujoeLoujoe Posts: 9,159
    edited September 18
    So00oooOo it wasssSsSssSss you^^^!
    ;)

    The op seemed targeted to even get a snarked up comment after the show.

    Out of line. Someone was being uncool. Not really surprising, but a little saddening. 
    Oh well.

    Take care of each other. 
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  • Go back to the merch stand today, find the guy who was rude to you and tell him the jerk store called and they’re running out of him. Caaaaaaaaastanza 
    Lol
    Appeared to be an animal, yet so polite.
  • battle1battle1 Posts: 127
    I always say “Please” and “Thank You”, as well as “Fuck You” when applicable. 
  • pjl44pjl44 Posts: 9,264
    I interacted with 2 merch people the last few days and they were both absolutely delightful. Frankly I was suspicious.
  • LoujoeLoujoe Posts: 9,159
    battle1 said:
    I always say “Please” and “Thank You”, as well as “Fuck You” when applicable. 
    Lol!!!!!
  • LoujoeLoujoe Posts: 9,159
    pjl44 said:
    I interacted with 2 merch people the last few days and they were both absolutely delightful. Frankly I was suspicious.
    Oh brother
  • tdawetdawe Posts: 2,091
    Once I went to the ocean and saw a fish. You went to Boston and met an asshole. Neither one of us should be surprised. 
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  • eeriepadaveeeriepadave Posts: 41,881
    mvw said:
    Just use the tables!



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  • EBowieEBowie Posts: 532
    First world problems.
  • YAKIMATSUYAKIMATSU Posts: 839
    tdawe said:
    Once I went to the ocean and saw a fish. You went to Boston and met an asshole. Neither one of us should be surprised. 
    I believe they prefer Masshole.  
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  • ZodZod Posts: 10,539
    Don't go to a merch stand expecting the price to be calculated correctly every time.  Leakage.  Get in, and get the F out.  If your Large shirt fits like a Medium, get the F out.  All part of the excitement that is merch.  

    Haha, that's how it's supposed to be.  Now people want to check it out, try it on, and lineup moves super slow.   I miss the days where I want this and this, here's the cash, peace out.
  • mpedonempedone Posts: 1,946
    I went to a show the other night, and the lead singer kept shouting "Fuck you" to me, then told me repeatedly that the show was not for me. Very rude!
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  • AlaGAlaG Posts: 976
    This is very quickly shooting up there as one of the best threads of this leg. Thanks, bitch motherfucker.
  • lastexitlondonlastexitlondon Posts: 13,552
    edited September 18
    If the word jagg off had been used then it would be higher rated In  my opinion 
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  • pjl44pjl44 Posts: 9,264
    I hope they're reading this and instruct the staff to engage like it's Dick's Last Resort for the last day of merch sales
  • AlaGAlaG Posts: 976
    pjl44 said:
    I hope they're reading this and instruct the staff to engage like it's Dick's Last Resort for the last day of merch sales
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