Should I ask Agnes out on a date?

oftenreading

Yes

HughFreakingDillon said:

bootlegger10 said:

I was thinking about the cycle of parents sacrificing for their kids.  If that was the goal then only kids have fun and adults keep on sacrificing.  

Hugh - people are obsessed with work defining their lives.  You let your personal life define you and that is about as much as you can ask for or want.   

Any time I see an adult with a Mohawk or dressing differently than the societal norm I tell other adults who laugh at them that I am jealous of those people who as adults can just wear what they want without fear of a business partner or customer seeing them out in Public with “gasp” a Nine Inch Nails shirt.

yeah, this is exactly where I'm at. my kids have enough (they honestly have too much). the only thing we might want is a bigger house, but not too much bigger, but that will come soon enough anyway. if I wanted to bust my ass for 8 years of schooling just so my kids could go to mexico every winter, I'd see that as a total waste. my dad busted his ass his whole working life and we never went anywhere. And I couldn't give a shit. I have gone places as an adult. My kids are fortunate as hell that they got to go to Mexico once and swim with fucking turtles in an underground reservoir. And spend 4 nights on a houseboat in the Canadian rockies. so we're obviously not doing too bad. 

I'm low enough on the ladder that there is literally no expectation of any kind of professionalism outside of work. Everyone knows me as the "rock star" who frequents heavy rock concerts and enjoys whiskey and weed. And I honestly don't give AF who knows, from the mail room to the president, as I have zero interest in "moving up" in the corporation. 

some of my best friends are very professionally driven, and that's great for them. whatever works for you, do it. 

I’m pretty skeptical about anyone who thinks their kids “shouldn’t want for anything”. That’s a straight path to disaster. They shouldn’t want for the basics, of course, like safe and warm housing, enough food, and people who love and care for them, as well as a reasonable amount of clothing and books and toys and such. Other than that, best to leave them wanting more, or where else would their drive to make their own life come from? 

HughFreakingDillon

oftenreading said:

HughFreakingDillon said:

bootlegger10 said:

I was thinking about the cycle of parents sacrificing for their kids.  If that was the goal then only kids have fun and adults keep on sacrificing.  

Hugh - people are obsessed with work defining their lives.  You let your personal life define you and that is about as much as you can ask for or want.   

Any time I see an adult with a Mohawk or dressing differently than the societal norm I tell other adults who laugh at them that I am jealous of those people who as adults can just wear what they want without fear of a business partner or customer seeing them out in Public with “gasp” a Nine Inch Nails shirt.

yeah, this is exactly where I'm at. my kids have enough (they honestly have too much). the only thing we might want is a bigger house, but not too much bigger, but that will come soon enough anyway. if I wanted to bust my ass for 8 years of schooling just so my kids could go to mexico every winter, I'd see that as a total waste. my dad busted his ass his whole working life and we never went anywhere. And I couldn't give a shit. I have gone places as an adult. My kids are fortunate as hell that they got to go to Mexico once and swim with fucking turtles in an underground reservoir. And spend 4 nights on a houseboat in the Canadian rockies. so we're obviously not doing too bad. 

I'm low enough on the ladder that there is literally no expectation of any kind of professionalism outside of work. Everyone knows me as the "rock star" who frequents heavy rock concerts and enjoys whiskey and weed. And I honestly don't give AF who knows, from the mail room to the president, as I have zero interest in "moving up" in the corporation. 

some of my best friends are very professionally driven, and that's great for them. whatever works for you, do it. 

I’m pretty skeptical about anyone who thinks their kids “shouldn’t want for anything”. That’s a straight path to disaster. They shouldn’t want for the basics, of course, like safe and warm housing, enough food, and people who love and care for them, as well as a reasonable amount of clothing and books and toys and such. Other than that, best to leave them wanting more, or where else would their drive to make their own life come from? 

exactly. my kids have too much as it is. and here we are, 19 days away from More Junk We'll Play With Once A Pallooza. 

Meltdown99

Yes

HughFreakingDillon said:

Meltdown99 said:

HughFreakingDillon said:

bootlegger10 said:

I was thinking about the cycle of parents sacrificing for their kids.  If that was the goal then only kids have fun and adults keep on sacrificing.  

Hugh - people are obsessed with work defining their lives.  You let your personal life define you and that is about as much as you can ask for or want.   

Any time I see an adult with a Mohawk or dressing differently than the societal norm I tell other adults who laugh at them that I am jealous of those people who as adults can just wear what they want without fear of a business partner or customer seeing them out in Public with “gasp” a Nine Inch Nails shirt.

yeah, this is exactly where I'm at. my kids have enough (they honestly have too much). the only thing we might want is a bigger house, but not too much bigger, but that will come soon enough anyway. if I wanted to bust my ass for 8 years of schooling just so my kids could go to mexico every winter, I'd see that as a total waste. my dad busted his ass his whole working life and we never went anywhere. And I couldn't give a shit. I have gone places as an adult. My kids are fortunate as hell that they got to go to Mexico once and swim with fucking turtles in an underground reservoir. And spend 4 nights on a houseboat in the Canadian rockies. so we're obviously not doing too bad. 

I'm low enough on the ladder that there is literally no expectation of any kind of professionalism outside of work. Everyone knows me as the "rock star" who frequents heavy rock concerts and enjoys whiskey and weed. And I honestly don't give AF who knows, from the mail room to the president, as I have zero interest in "moving up" in the corporation. 

some of my best friends are very professionally driven, and that's great for them. whatever works for you, do it. 

The houseboat in the Rockies is that like a rental company.  That would be sweet.  Love the Rockies.  Growing all our family could afford vacation wise was a couple weeks camping up in Northern Ontario...loved it.

yes, Twin Anchors houseboating on Shuswap Lake. it was incredible. troll the lake all day, have some drinks, go for a swim, then find a beach and park the boat, have a fire and some more drinks, and then do it al over again the next day. 

Thanks for the tip.  I am going to look into this, it sounds fantastic.  It sounds like a perfect vacation.  I bet your kids had a blast.  

HughFreakingDillon

Meltdown99 said:

HughFreakingDillon said:

Meltdown99 said:

HughFreakingDillon said:

bootlegger10 said:

I was thinking about the cycle of parents sacrificing for their kids.  If that was the goal then only kids have fun and adults keep on sacrificing.  

Hugh - people are obsessed with work defining their lives.  You let your personal life define you and that is about as much as you can ask for or want.   

Any time I see an adult with a Mohawk or dressing differently than the societal norm I tell other adults who laugh at them that I am jealous of those people who as adults can just wear what they want without fear of a business partner or customer seeing them out in Public with “gasp” a Nine Inch Nails shirt.

yeah, this is exactly where I'm at. my kids have enough (they honestly have too much). the only thing we might want is a bigger house, but not too much bigger, but that will come soon enough anyway. if I wanted to bust my ass for 8 years of schooling just so my kids could go to mexico every winter, I'd see that as a total waste. my dad busted his ass his whole working life and we never went anywhere. And I couldn't give a shit. I have gone places as an adult. My kids are fortunate as hell that they got to go to Mexico once and swim with fucking turtles in an underground reservoir. And spend 4 nights on a houseboat in the Canadian rockies. so we're obviously not doing too bad. 

I'm low enough on the ladder that there is literally no expectation of any kind of professionalism outside of work. Everyone knows me as the "rock star" who frequents heavy rock concerts and enjoys whiskey and weed. And I honestly don't give AF who knows, from the mail room to the president, as I have zero interest in "moving up" in the corporation. 

some of my best friends are very professionally driven, and that's great for them. whatever works for you, do it. 

The houseboat in the Rockies is that like a rental company.  That would be sweet.  Love the Rockies.  Growing all our family could afford vacation wise was a couple weeks camping up in Northern Ontario...loved it.

yes, Twin Anchors houseboating on Shuswap Lake. it was incredible. troll the lake all day, have some drinks, go for a swim, then find a beach and park the boat, have a fire and some more drinks, and then do it al over again the next day. 

Thanks for the tip.  I am going to look into this, it sounds fantastic.  It sounds like a perfect vacation.  I bet your kids had a blast.  

they did. it's freaking expensive though. $4500 for 4 nights. And we obviously flew there and back (thank god for points!). It was us and 2 other families. so $1500 per family. Problem was, as an introvert, it was a bit difficult. Zero alone time. 13 people. two small bedrooms each with a double bed. Everyone else slept in the living room or in the loft (for the smaller kids). I went a bit batty by the third day that not even 30 beers could cure. Good thing I didn't buy any whiskey. There would have been murder on the low seas. LOL

Meltdown99

Yes

HughFreakingDillon said:

Meltdown99 said:

HughFreakingDillon said:

Meltdown99 said:

HughFreakingDillon said:

bootlegger10 said:

I was thinking about the cycle of parents sacrificing for their kids.  If that was the goal then only kids have fun and adults keep on sacrificing.  

Hugh - people are obsessed with work defining their lives.  You let your personal life define you and that is about as much as you can ask for or want.   

Any time I see an adult with a Mohawk or dressing differently than the societal norm I tell other adults who laugh at them that I am jealous of those people who as adults can just wear what they want without fear of a business partner or customer seeing them out in Public with “gasp” a Nine Inch Nails shirt.

yeah, this is exactly where I'm at. my kids have enough (they honestly have too much). the only thing we might want is a bigger house, but not too much bigger, but that will come soon enough anyway. if I wanted to bust my ass for 8 years of schooling just so my kids could go to mexico every winter, I'd see that as a total waste. my dad busted his ass his whole working life and we never went anywhere. And I couldn't give a shit. I have gone places as an adult. My kids are fortunate as hell that they got to go to Mexico once and swim with fucking turtles in an underground reservoir. And spend 4 nights on a houseboat in the Canadian rockies. so we're obviously not doing too bad. 

I'm low enough on the ladder that there is literally no expectation of any kind of professionalism outside of work. Everyone knows me as the "rock star" who frequents heavy rock concerts and enjoys whiskey and weed. And I honestly don't give AF who knows, from the mail room to the president, as I have zero interest in "moving up" in the corporation. 

some of my best friends are very professionally driven, and that's great for them. whatever works for you, do it. 

The houseboat in the Rockies is that like a rental company.  That would be sweet.  Love the Rockies.  Growing all our family could afford vacation wise was a couple weeks camping up in Northern Ontario...loved it.

yes, Twin Anchors houseboating on Shuswap Lake. it was incredible. troll the lake all day, have some drinks, go for a swim, then find a beach and park the boat, have a fire and some more drinks, and then do it al over again the next day. 

Thanks for the tip.  I am going to look into this, it sounds fantastic.  It sounds like a perfect vacation.  I bet your kids had a blast.  

they did. it's freaking expensive though. $4500 for 4 nights. And we obviously flew there and back (thank god for points!). It was us and 2 other families. so $1500 per family. Problem was, as an introvert, it was a bit difficult. Zero alone time. 13 people. two small bedrooms each with a double bed. Everyone else slept in the living room or in the loft (for the smaller kids). I went a bit batty by the third day that not even 30 beers could cure. Good thing I didn't buy any whiskey. There would have been murder on the low seas. LOL

Yes, I understand needing alone time. I'm an introvert as well.  That must have been tough.  The sacrifices are worth it for the kids.  My mom was never a big camper, but she knew we loved camping ... so she went and never complained.

oftenreading

Yes

HughFreakingDillon said:

Meltdown99 said:

HughFreakingDillon said:

bootlegger10 said:

I was thinking about the cycle of parents sacrificing for their kids.  If that was the goal then only kids have fun and adults keep on sacrificing.  

Hugh - people are obsessed with work defining their lives.  You let your personal life define you and that is about as much as you can ask for or want.   

Any time I see an adult with a Mohawk or dressing differently than the societal norm I tell other adults who laugh at them that I am jealous of those people who as adults can just wear what they want without fear of a business partner or customer seeing them out in Public with “gasp” a Nine Inch Nails shirt.

yeah, this is exactly where I'm at. my kids have enough (they honestly have too much). the only thing we might want is a bigger house, but not too much bigger, but that will come soon enough anyway. if I wanted to bust my ass for 8 years of schooling just so my kids could go to mexico every winter, I'd see that as a total waste. my dad busted his ass his whole working life and we never went anywhere. And I couldn't give a shit. I have gone places as an adult. My kids are fortunate as hell that they got to go to Mexico once and swim with fucking turtles in an underground reservoir. And spend 4 nights on a houseboat in the Canadian rockies. so we're obviously not doing too bad. 

I'm low enough on the ladder that there is literally no expectation of any kind of professionalism outside of work. Everyone knows me as the "rock star" who frequents heavy rock concerts and enjoys whiskey and weed. And I honestly don't give AF who knows, from the mail room to the president, as I have zero interest in "moving up" in the corporation. 

some of my best friends are very professionally driven, and that's great for them. whatever works for you, do it. 

The houseboat in the Rockies is that like a rental company.  That would be sweet.  Love the Rockies.  Growing all our family could afford vacation wise was a couple weeks camping up in Northern Ontario...loved it.

yes, Twin Anchors houseboating on Shuswap Lake. it was incredible. troll the lake all day, have some drinks, go for a swim, then find a beach and park the boat, have a fire and some more drinks, and then do it al over again the next day. 

You’re trolling even on vacation?



JK

HughFreakingDillon

oftenreading said:

HughFreakingDillon said:

Meltdown99 said:

HughFreakingDillon said:

bootlegger10 said:

I was thinking about the cycle of parents sacrificing for their kids.  If that was the goal then only kids have fun and adults keep on sacrificing.  

Hugh - people are obsessed with work defining their lives.  You let your personal life define you and that is about as much as you can ask for or want.   

Any time I see an adult with a Mohawk or dressing differently than the societal norm I tell other adults who laugh at them that I am jealous of those people who as adults can just wear what they want without fear of a business partner or customer seeing them out in Public with “gasp” a Nine Inch Nails shirt.

yeah, this is exactly where I'm at. my kids have enough (they honestly have too much). the only thing we might want is a bigger house, but not too much bigger, but that will come soon enough anyway. if I wanted to bust my ass for 8 years of schooling just so my kids could go to mexico every winter, I'd see that as a total waste. my dad busted his ass his whole working life and we never went anywhere. And I couldn't give a shit. I have gone places as an adult. My kids are fortunate as hell that they got to go to Mexico once and swim with fucking turtles in an underground reservoir. And spend 4 nights on a houseboat in the Canadian rockies. so we're obviously not doing too bad. 

I'm low enough on the ladder that there is literally no expectation of any kind of professionalism outside of work. Everyone knows me as the "rock star" who frequents heavy rock concerts and enjoys whiskey and weed. And I honestly don't give AF who knows, from the mail room to the president, as I have zero interest in "moving up" in the corporation. 

some of my best friends are very professionally driven, and that's great for them. whatever works for you, do it. 

The houseboat in the Rockies is that like a rental company.  That would be sweet.  Love the Rockies.  Growing all our family could afford vacation wise was a couple weeks camping up in Northern Ontario...loved it.

yes, Twin Anchors houseboating on Shuswap Lake. it was incredible. troll the lake all day, have some drinks, go for a swim, then find a beach and park the boat, have a fire and some more drinks, and then do it al over again the next day. 

You’re trolling even on vacation?



JK

haha, JERK! 

oftenreading

Yes

HughFreakingDillon said:

oftenreading said:

HughFreakingDillon said:

Meltdown99 said:

HughFreakingDillon said:

bootlegger10 said:

I was thinking about the cycle of parents sacrificing for their kids.  If that was the goal then only kids have fun and adults keep on sacrificing.  

Hugh - people are obsessed with work defining their lives.  You let your personal life define you and that is about as much as you can ask for or want.   

Any time I see an adult with a Mohawk or dressing differently than the societal norm I tell other adults who laugh at them that I am jealous of those people who as adults can just wear what they want without fear of a business partner or customer seeing them out in Public with “gasp” a Nine Inch Nails shirt.

yeah, this is exactly where I'm at. my kids have enough (they honestly have too much). the only thing we might want is a bigger house, but not too much bigger, but that will come soon enough anyway. if I wanted to bust my ass for 8 years of schooling just so my kids could go to mexico every winter, I'd see that as a total waste. my dad busted his ass his whole working life and we never went anywhere. And I couldn't give a shit. I have gone places as an adult. My kids are fortunate as hell that they got to go to Mexico once and swim with fucking turtles in an underground reservoir. And spend 4 nights on a houseboat in the Canadian rockies. so we're obviously not doing too bad. 

I'm low enough on the ladder that there is literally no expectation of any kind of professionalism outside of work. Everyone knows me as the "rock star" who frequents heavy rock concerts and enjoys whiskey and weed. And I honestly don't give AF who knows, from the mail room to the president, as I have zero interest in "moving up" in the corporation. 

some of my best friends are very professionally driven, and that's great for them. whatever works for you, do it. 

The houseboat in the Rockies is that like a rental company.  That would be sweet.  Love the Rockies.  Growing all our family could afford vacation wise was a couple weeks camping up in Northern Ontario...loved it.

yes, Twin Anchors houseboating on Shuswap Lake. it was incredible. troll the lake all day, have some drinks, go for a swim, then find a beach and park the boat, have a fire and some more drinks, and then do it al over again the next day. 

You’re trolling even on vacation?



JK

haha, JERK! 

Oooooh, you're upping the ante.....  

23scidoo

OffSheGoes35 said:

23scidoo said:

Meltdown99 said:

Spiritual_Chaos said:

My mom thinks it's weird that no one out of her 4 chilren is gay. I even noticed during our teens that she very deliberately talked about homosexuality in a way to make us feel "it was a-okey".

Sounds like you have a really cool mother with a very open mind.  Unfortunately, not all people have Mother's like that.  

Swedish..

What are Greek mothers like?

Have you listen to ''Mother'' from Pink Floyd??

OffSheGoes35

No

I have.  

PJ_Soul

Yes

Meltdown99 said:

PJ_Soul said:

Thoughts_Arrive said:

PJ_Soul said:

Thoughts_Arrive said:

PJ_Soul said:

oftenreading said:

Thoughts_Arrive said:

Forgot to add,
When my mum mentions my future children I tell her that it won't happen and she gets all sad and scared. 

Having children just because your mother wants grandchildren is one of the worst reasons to have children. They aren't accessories. 

Words of wisdom.

Never let bullshit societal norms or the desires of others force you into something you don't truly want for yourself.

Won't happen.
What is starting to get to me is people questioning my unemployed status. Is it a societal norm to work? 

Uh, well no, I wouldn't say that. I mean, yeah, people normally work which makes it normal in society. But people have to work to support themselves, feed themselves, clothe themselves, etc. But FYI, being a full time student is considered a job. It is very very normal for a full time student not to work. That's why student loans are so high, lol. So just tell people that when they ask about your unemployment status. If you stop being a full time student and still don't have a job, then you'll just be someone who doesn't support himself.

People are like 'well I went through university and held a part time job bla bla"
Psychology is so competitive that you need a very high GPA to get accepted into postgraduate degrees.
If that wasn't the case I'd work part time and study full time. I need to dedicate 100% of my time to my current degree to have a chance at postgraduate.

Ya, well some people are jerks, lol. I actually worked part time all through full time university myself, but man, it sure would have been nice to not have, lol. I chose to move out from my parents' house early so had to work to support myself without screwing myself with too many loans... but that is just one of the legit options. Dude, stop caring so much about what other people think about your choices. I feel like you haven't had the greatest epiphany of adulthood: who cares what other people think???? Fuck 'em!!

Had to work to support your partying ways...lol

Yeah, and also to pay my rent , tuition and books, bills, for food and transportation, and clothing.

Meltdown99

Yes

PJ_Soul said:

Meltdown99 said:

PJ_Soul said:

Thoughts_Arrive said:

PJ_Soul said:

Thoughts_Arrive said:

PJ_Soul said:

oftenreading said:

Thoughts_Arrive said:

Forgot to add,
When my mum mentions my future children I tell her that it won't happen and she gets all sad and scared. 

Having children just because your mother wants grandchildren is one of the worst reasons to have children. They aren't accessories. 

Words of wisdom.

Never let bullshit societal norms or the desires of others force you into something you don't truly want for yourself.

Won't happen.
What is starting to get to me is people questioning my unemployed status. Is it a societal norm to work? 

Uh, well no, I wouldn't say that. I mean, yeah, people normally work which makes it normal in society. But people have to work to support themselves, feed themselves, clothe themselves, etc. But FYI, being a full time student is considered a job. It is very very normal for a full time student not to work. That's why student loans are so high, lol. So just tell people that when they ask about your unemployment status. If you stop being a full time student and still don't have a job, then you'll just be someone who doesn't support himself.

People are like 'well I went through university and held a part time job bla bla"
Psychology is so competitive that you need a very high GPA to get accepted into postgraduate degrees.
If that wasn't the case I'd work part time and study full time. I need to dedicate 100% of my time to my current degree to have a chance at postgraduate.

Ya, well some people are jerks, lol. I actually worked part time all through full time university myself, but man, it sure would have been nice to not have, lol. I chose to move out from my parents' house early so had to work to support myself without screwing myself with too many loans... but that is just one of the legit options. Dude, stop caring so much about what other people think about your choices. I feel like you haven't had the greatest epiphany of adulthood: who cares what other people think???? Fuck 'em!!

Had to work to support your partying ways...lol

Yeah, and also to pay my rent , tuition and books, bills, for food and transportation, and clothing.

Minor inconveniences....lol

OffSheGoes35

No

Spiritual_Chaos said:

1. Being able to forgive
2. Having a similiar interest in music/movies
3. Similiar vibes concerning sex
4. Not eating meat or vote for the unsympathetic and unempathetic right
5. A pure and magnetic sense of humour

All you need for a succesful relationship

Maybe you should be the one giving us advice.   

Meltdown99

Yes

OffSheGoes35 said:

Spiritual_Chaos said:

1. Being able to forgive
2. Having a similiar interest in music/movies
3. Similiar vibes concerning sex
4. Not eating meat or vote for the unsympathetic and unempathetic right
5. A pure and magnetic sense of humour

All you need for a succesful relationship

Maybe you should be the one giving us advice.   

What SC is mostly incorrect.  The most successful relationship last because you are opposites.  I remember the phrase "opposites attract", I have had therapist say that is correct.  If you are excluding someone because they choose to have a steak once awhile seems shallow...

njnancy

Yes

Meltdown99 said:

OffSheGoes35 said:

Spiritual_Chaos said:

1. Being able to forgive
2. Having a similiar interest in music/movies
3. Similiar vibes concerning sex
4. Not eating meat or vote for the unsympathetic and unempathetic right
5. A pure and magnetic sense of humour

All you need for a succesful relationship

Maybe you should be the one giving us advice.   

What SC is mostly incorrect.  The most successful relationship last because you are opposites.  I remember the phrase "opposites attract", I have had therapist say that is correct.  If you are excluding someone because they choose to have a steak once awhile seems shallow...

The full quote is 'Opposites attract, in order to destroy'   

But I do agree that you need balance in a relationship. One person can be gregarious and the other shy and they even each other out. The problems arise when the gregarious individual is more interested in mingling with others than their partner and when the shy partner refuses to go out at all. A happy medium needs to be struck with all personality traits. 

Forgiveness is essential, but also one must not continually do the same thing over and over with a simple 'I'm sorry' afterwards. 

Similar interests in cultural things is a plus and then the other person also brings to the relationship interests that open the others eyes to new things, or not. As long as there is a willingness to TRY. (as long as the ask is not ridiculous). 

A pure and magnetic sense of humor   I can understand wanting someone to have a sense of humor, esp about themselves. But 'pure and magnetic' ?  What does that even mean? And are you bringing the same level of humor to the relationship? Seems like quite the high bar. 

If you are going to only date people who eat what you eat, you are getting into judgement territory and that is going to make your pool of possible dates and partners small. 

Yes, being sexually attracted to someone is important. But there has to be more than that. Believe me. 

I can understand politics being a problem in a relationship. It depends on how much the person cares about politics and how much it effects their actions. I could never date a tea party or Trump supporter.  I'm open to any religion, race, background, etc - but that is a line in the sand. 

Didn't mean to pull apart your list SC - but you posted it so in this thread that means it's a free for all. Only trying to help.

Meltdown99

Yes

Whatever, discussing anything with some elistist 

here is a waste of fucking time...

OffSheGoes35

No

I personally don't have anything against opposites attracting. I quoted him to spark conversation.
 I eat meat, for the record. 

njnancy

Yes

Meltdown99 said:

Whatever, discussing anything with some elistist 

here is a waste of fucking time...

Are you referring to me? 

njnancy

Yes

OffSheGoes35 said:

I personally don't have anything against opposites attracting. I quoted him to spark conversation.
 I eat meat, for the record. 

I thought I was posting an opinion. Sheesh. As in conversing.....

OffSheGoes35

No

njnancy said:

OffSheGoes35 said:

I personally don't have anything against opposites attracting. I quoted him to spark conversation.
 I eat meat, for the record. 

I thought I was posting an opinion. Sheesh. As in conversing.....

We're all allowed to have our own opinions. Maybe meltdown felt like his opinion was misunderstood? I don't know. I have no idea what just happened, but you didn't do anything wrong njnancy.