People Who Say Pets "are like my children"

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  • brianluxbrianlux Posts: 42,040

    Know.. This is my personal position on this.. And like I said.. Never met a human I preferred over a dog.. Dogs are great.. Human's not so much.. So I totally get where that guy was coming from..

    Wow.
    Pretty sad... But humans caused my feeling
    This way.. Which is even more sad...
    Basically your posts here have insulted the entire lot of us, so with that in mind.....

    No, you are responsible for your own reactions and feelings, not the rest of the world. Take some ownership and stop blaming the entire race for your failure at relationships.

    You would save a dog over a human? That says enough for me folks. Jesus fucking christ.

    I was not going to post here but unless I'm not counted as part of "the lot of us", I was not offended in the least by her post.

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  • whispering handswhispering hands Posts: 13,527
    I did own it. And yes humans are the only reason I dislike humans.. Period. If humans could be a better species?? Maybe I'd feel differently.. But we aren't, we are the most brutal, destructive, evil, and screwed up species on the planet. You CANNOT deny that. And yes ANY animal deserves to live more than any of us..
  • whispering handswhispering hands Posts: 13,527
    It's not like a dog caused me to
    Hate humans. HUMANS caused me to hate humans. Humans cannot be trusted, they will fuck you over in a heartbeat to benefit themselves, often times without remorse, and they are the only species that kills its own kind for any other reason than territory, survival, or necessity. You don't see Serial Killer cats, or dogs, or snakes.. Shit... on that note, not even Apex predators kill serially.. Only humans.. Now.. Why should I save one???
  • whispering handswhispering hands Posts: 13,527
    brianlux said:

    Know.. This is my personal position on this.. And like I said.. Never met a human I preferred over a dog.. Dogs are great.. Human's not so much.. So I totally get where that guy was coming from..

    Wow.
    Pretty sad... But humans caused my feeling
    This way.. Which is even more sad...
    Basically your posts here have insulted the entire lot of us, so with that in mind.....

    No, you are responsible for your own reactions and feelings, not the rest of the world. Take some ownership and stop blaming the entire race for your failure at relationships.

    You would save a dog over a human? That says enough for me folks. Jesus fucking christ.

    I was not going to post here but unless I'm not counted as part of "the lot of us", I was not offended in the least by her post.

    Nope. Not ALL humans. But in the general count, animals are far greater creatures than humans.
  • brianluxbrianlux Posts: 42,040
    I worked with a Doctorate professor for a number of years in a counseling training program. She was amazing. She helped more people than anyone I've ever know. She was dedicated to helping people beyond measure. She confided to a group in one of our classes once that in some ways she considered herself a misanthrope (noun: misanthrope; a person who dislikes humankind). That statement neither surprised nor offended me in the least. I totally understood it.
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  • hedonisthedonist Posts: 24,524
    Note to self - never stay with WH and an animal with even the slightest possibility of a housefire. Just sayin' :peace:
  • whispering handswhispering hands Posts: 13,527
    I guess I am what could be considered a misanthrope, then. But all the cruelty, insanity, and uncalled for devastation I have experienced first hand, has made it very very difficult to choose a person over an animal. No animal has ever tried to kill me, tortured me, abused me, lied to me, beaten me nearly to death, raped me, ran me over with a car on purpose, or lit my clothes on fire while still IN them!! Nope...that and many, many, MANY other instances were all performed by humans. HUMANS. People. Homo Sapiens.. As for failed relationships, those stemmed from the inability to establish trust due to experience. Without trust there IS no relationship. And while I know that now, it doesn't make changing it any easier. No more easier than the fact that humans are the reason I can't trust humans. Again... At least I'm working on trying to change this, but humans don't make it very easy.. AT all. Just being honest.
  • whispering handswhispering hands Posts: 13,527
    hedonist said:

    Note to self - never stay with WH and an animal with even the slightest possibility of a housefire. Just sayin' :peace:

    Lmao! Honest the dog being a dog would save you! Which would probably be why I'd have to save the dog, cause dogs are just selfless like that. :-)
  • callencallen Posts: 6,388
    r

    It's not like a dog caused me to
    Hate humans. HUMANS caused me to hate humans. Humans cannot be trusted, they will fuck you over in a heartbeat to benefit themselves, often times without remorse, and they are the only species that kills its own kind for any other reason than territory, survival, or necessity. You don't see Serial Killer cats, or dogs, or snakes.. Shit... on that note, not even Apex predators kill serially.. Only humans.. Now.. Why should I save one???

    Love it. Honesty.

    Humans do suck in general. Mean selfish vindictive insecure and destructive.

    Also all babies aren't cute and likely yours is ugly. "breathtaking".

    Find it utterly hilarious that we all think we are special. You're not special and your children aren't special. Just another one in a billion. I do think parents justify how wonderful their kids are just to keep sane.

    I always have more pity for homeless dogs than homeless humans.

    Not directed at OP but humans in general.

    Love this topic and belongs on train.
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  • PJfanwillneverleave1PJfanwillneverleave1 Posts: 12,885
    edited May 2015
    callen said:

    r

    It's not like a dog caused me to
    Hate humans. HUMANS caused me to hate humans. Humans cannot be trusted, they will fuck you over in a heartbeat to benefit themselves, often times without remorse, and they are the only species that kills its own kind for any other reason than territory, survival, or necessity. You don't see Serial Killer cats, or dogs, or snakes.. Shit... on that note, not even Apex predators kill serially.. Only humans.. Now.. Why should I save one???


    I always have more pity for homeless dogs than homeless humans.



    Love this topic and belongs on train.
    Nothing worse than a homeless person with a dog.
    Save the dog.
    Anyone in Victoria/Vancouver can relate to this.
    Get off your ass and stop pretending to garner sympathy because you have a dog beside you.
    Homelessness is a real issue.
    Don't use a dog to amplify your plight.
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  • whispering handswhispering hands Posts: 13,527

    callen said:

    r

    It's not like a dog caused me to
    Hate humans. HUMANS caused me to hate humans. Humans cannot be trusted, they will fuck you over in a heartbeat to benefit themselves, often times without remorse, and they are the only species that kills its own kind for any other reason than territory, survival, or necessity. You don't see Serial Killer cats, or dogs, or snakes.. Shit... on that note, not even Apex predators kill serially.. Only humans.. Now.. Why should I save one???


    I always have more pity for homeless dogs than homeless humans.



    Love this topic and belongs on train.
    Nothing worse than a homeless person with a dog.
    Save the dog.
    Anyone in Victoria/Vancouver can relate to this.
    Get off your ass and stop pretending to garner sympathy because you have a dog beside you.
    Homelessness is a real issue.
    Don't use a dog to amplify your plight.
    Or Colorado Springs! They are all over out here. I have started handing out dog and cat food to the people with pets. I have had a few ask me for money for food for them... I tell them go get a job! I am feeding your dog/cat, because it relies on you to feed it, and since you don't ( can't won't whatever..) go get one and hold it, your dog should not have to suffer.
  • brianluxbrianlux Posts: 42,040
    Here's an interesting thought:
    brianlux said:

    I worked with a Doctorate professor for a number of years in a counseling training program. She was amazing. She helped more people than anyone I've ever know. She was dedicated to helping people beyond measure. She confided to a group in one of our classes once that in some ways she considered herself a misanthrope (noun: misanthrope; a person who dislikes humankind). That statement neither surprised nor offended me in the least. I totally understood it.

    What I said here could seriously be misconstrued so I continue...

    It is very possible to have disdain for the human race (a feeling based, for example, on what others here have pointed out- that fact that our species has a terrible history of violence and cruelty), i.e. be misanthropic and yet at the same time care very much for individuals.

    There are probably far more people who scorn the human race yet care very much and would make great personal sacrifices for many individuals than there are people who hate all animals but would care for certain species or individual members of animal communities. No doubt, there are more people who are misanthropic than there are people who are "misotheric" (a man named Jim Mason coined the term "misothery" to refer to hatred or contempt for animals) but that doesn't mean misanthropes or misotherics cannot care for any number of people or animals or for that matter people and animals or any other convoluted combination of the above.

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  • whispering handswhispering hands Posts: 13,527
    edited May 2015
    callen said:

    r

    It's not like a dog caused me to
    Hate humans. HUMANS caused me to hate humans. Humans cannot be trusted, they will fuck you over in a heartbeat to benefit themselves, often times without remorse, and they are the only species that kills its own kind for any other reason than territory, survival, or necessity. You don't see Serial Killer cats, or dogs, or snakes.. Shit... on that note, not even Apex predators kill serially.. Only humans.. Now.. Why should I save one???

    Love it. Honesty.

    Humans do suck in general. Mean selfish vindictive insecure and destructive.

    Also all babies aren't cute and likely yours is ugly. "breathtaking".

    Find it utterly hilarious that we all think we are special. You're not special and your children aren't special. Just another one in a billion. I do think parents justify how wonderful their kids are just to keep sane.

    I always have more pity for homeless dogs than homeless humans.

    Not directed at OP but humans in general.

    Love this topic and belongs on train.
    We don't always see eye to eye on things.. ( unless this is whom I'm thinking of.. In which case.. :hello: )... But I totally agree that humans are stupid for thinking we are do fucking special! We are the most obtrusive and devastating creature on the planet! The absolute WORST thing God created, in my opinion!! So when folks start saying how great and novel the human species is, I find it laughable. Kids, they're GREAT! And until they grow up, I'd pick a kid over an adult. But as for any more special than any other thing?? Fuck no! Don't get me wrong.. I adore kids, because they are purely honest and true to their personal nature from the get go.. They have no fear, no shame, no hatred.. We as adults instill those thing in them. ( I'm not saying the parents per se.. But adults in general.. Kids are SPONGES!! They pick up EVERYTHING!) so when folks like the OP get upset that I'd rather their dog live than them, I have to laugh.. Look at us!!!! ( humans) we are farrrrrrrr less special than the animals! We may build empires and countries, but we also create destruction, wars, we decimate our planet in greed and lust, we war over a differing of beliefs!! The animals??? They're just kicking in their little woodland homes, living moment to moment, enjoying each and every one.... Until we humans come along and fuck that up too!
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  • "If you're not a cat(or dog) person, I'm not a you person.'

    And I too would save an animal over someone I didn't know. Because unless I know you, I have to assume that you're either a) an asshole, or b) a stupid asshole.

    There are, what, 7 or 8 billion people on the planet. We don't need all of them.
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  • whispering handswhispering hands Posts: 13,527

    "If you're not a cat(or dog) person, I'm not a you person.'

    And I too would save an animal over someone I didn't know. Because unless I know you, I have to assume that you're either a) an asshole, or b) a stupid asshole.

    There are, what, 7 or 8 billion people on the planet. We don't need all of them.

    Lmfao you just said what I was trying to say in like 1/3 of what I said!! Thank you!
  • josevolutionjosevolution Posts: 29,567
    Some people feel it different than you why does it have to be your way couldn't you just have said hey sorry for your loss and kept it moving ...I do have two kids a dog a cat a rabbit so yeah I know a bit about both ...
    jesus greets me looks just like me ....
  • oftenreadingoftenreading Posts: 12,845

    callen said:

    r

    It's not like a dog caused me to
    Hate humans. HUMANS caused me to hate humans. Humans cannot be trusted, they will fuck you over in a heartbeat to benefit themselves, often times without remorse, and they are the only species that kills its own kind for any other reason than territory, survival, or necessity. You don't see Serial Killer cats, or dogs, or snakes.. Shit... on that note, not even Apex predators kill serially.. Only humans.. Now.. Why should I save one???


    I always have more pity for homeless dogs than homeless humans.



    Love this topic and belongs on train.
    Nothing worse than a homeless person with a dog.
    Save the dog.
    Anyone in Victoria/Vancouver can relate to this.
    Get off your ass and stop pretending to garner sympathy because you have a dog beside you.
    Homelessness is a real issue.
    Don't use a dog to amplify your plight.
    The homeless people with pets that I know care very deeply for their pets, which is often why they are homeless - very few rental units take pets, particularly dogs, so many people choose to live homeless with their pets than give them up and get housed. If you have a pet and lose your housing, you're in trouble. By and large I don't think the dogs care much about living outside, as long as they are with their owners. It isn't all about trying to get your sympathy.
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  • rr165892rr165892 Posts: 5,697
    Well this took a fun turn.

    Whispering,I'm going to need you to head over to the lounge.There is a big fluffy couch in the back,Please feel free to lay down,get comfy and don't hold back.tell us how this subject makes you feel.Its time we start peeling another layer of the complex WH onion skin and breaking it down.lol

    Hey,good for you being strong in your convictions.I also love your bluntness and straight forward approach.But I'm with Hedo here.Im staying the fuck away from you if a fire breaks out.
  • callencallen Posts: 6,388
    rr165892 said:

    Well this took a fun turn.

    Whispering,I'm going to need you to head over to the lounge.There is a big fluffy couch in the back,Please feel free to lay down,get comfy and don't hold back.tell us how this subject makes you feel.Its time we start peeling another layer of the complex WH onion skin and breaking it down.lol

    Hey,good for you being strong in your convictions.I also love your bluntness and straight forward approach.But I'm with Hedo here.Im staying the fuck away from you if a fire breaks out.

    See thing is the other human in burning house may sacrifice you to ensure safety. Dog wouldn't. With WH I know where I stand so much prefer to be in burning house with her.

    Refreshing to see this honesty. Not sure if the lounge car is good place to discuss as alcohol brings out the emotions rather than reality.
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  • Know.. This is my personal position on this.. And like I said.. Never met a human I preferred over a dog.. Dogs are great.. Human's not so much.. So I totally get where that guy was coming from..

    Wow.
    Pretty sad... But humans caused my feeling
    This way.. Which is even more sad...
    Basically your posts here have insulted the entire lot of us, so with that in mind.....

    No, you are responsible for your own reactions and feelings, not the rest of the world. Take some ownership and stop blaming the entire race for your failure at relationships.

    You would save a dog over a human? That says enough for me folks. Jesus fucking christ.

    I guess you got your debate stirred with this thread as you intended.
    Nice.
    haha, didn't think it would go this way. believe me.

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  • SmellymanSmellyman Posts: 4,524

    I was a pet owner. Loved my dog for the entire 13 years of his life like he was my best friend (I was a teenager). I get how attached people get to their animals. I am an animal lover myself. Had various cats over the years as well.

    But when someone tells me a story, like one just told to me a few minutes ago, that a friend's dog just got run over in front of him, and adding "that's like watching your kid get killed". I bit my tongue for about 10 seconds. Then he said it again. I said "actually, it's not at all like that". He said "well, people who have animals would disagree". I said "well, until I married an allergic woman, I had pets all my life, and loved them dearly, but for someone to say that watching my dog get run over would be the same as watching my daughter getting run over, is incredibly ridiculous". He got all annoyed and walked away.

    Seriously, not only is it ridiculous, I find that offensive. You are telling me that my daughter(s) is the same as your fucking PET. I didn't buy my kids. I helped CREATE them. Watched their births. Stayed with them in the hospital when they were sick. Cried as the doctor held her hand as they walked to the OR.

    I would think adoptive parents have the same feelings. Human to human bonds cannot be duplicated with an animal.

    And I have only heard this nonsense uttered by, you guessed it, people who have never had kids.

    Tell me this......if you saw your child in mortal danger, and your dog in mortal danger at the exact same time, would you hesitate on which one to save? If you did, I'd argue you should not be a parent. I loved my dog with all my heart. But jesus, it wouldn't be a fucking contest.

    Rant over.

    Yes, this is something to get bent over shape about.
  • Some people feel it different than you why does it have to be your way couldn't you just have said hey sorry for your loss and kept it moving ...I do have two kids a dog a cat a rabbit so yeah I know a bit about both ...

    it wasn't HIS LOSS. read the thread. I could say the same.....why does it have to be his way? he was as adamant in his opinion as I am in mine. sorry, but when someone says something I disagree with, I usually tell them that. I'm not a dick. I can be honest without being a fucking asshole.

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  • I'm simply stunned.

    This forum lights its hair on fire when a cop kills a man that has tried to flee, fought with him, and tasered him with the taser he stole from him.

    * By the way... two more cops shot to death in Mississippi, bringing the death toll for officers to 51 this year. No outrage there though. Geezuz Christ.

    Now this forum says kids and people aren't special and there's too many of us anyways.

    Sorry people... my son and daughter are special. They are the most important people on this planet from my perspective. If you consider a dog or cat's life more valuable than theirs... then you are not okay in my books. At all.

    And people talk of how awful we are and how we are destroying the planet: did you drive today? Did you buy any food that wasn't grown locally? Do you have leather shoes that weren't made from the deer you shot with an arrow in the fall? Did you turn on a light? Thought not. It's not everybody else, so if you want to talk the talk... you should walk the walk. Otherwise, you come across as a fashionable environmentalist.

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  • I am absolutely flabbergasted at the vitriol being spewed here. people are applauding someone who unapologetically states that every human on the face of the planet is a piece of shit???

    and dogs are loyal you say? really? NO SHIT. they are trained slaves owned by you. they are obedient to you. if you want to surround yourself with only beings that are subservient to you, that says more about you than it does about the rest of the humans that surround you.
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  • I'm simply stunned.

    This forum lights its hair on fire when a cop kills a man that has tried to flee, fought with him, and tasered him with the taser he stole from him.

    * By the way... two more cops shot to death in Mississippi, bringing the death toll for officers to 51 this year. No outrage there though. Geezuz Christ.

    Now this forum says kids and people aren't special and there's too many of us anyways.

    Sorry people... my son and daughter are special. They are the most important people on this planet from my perspective. If you consider a dog or cat's life more valuable than theirs... then you are not okay in my books. At all.

    And people talk of how awful we are and how we are destroying the planet: did you drive today? Did you buy any food that wasn't grown locally? Do you have leather shoes that weren't made from the deer you shot with an arrow in the fall? Did you turn on a light? Thought not. It's not everybody else, so if you want to talk the talk... you should walk the walk. Otherwise, you come across as a fashionable environmentalist.

    THIS THIS THIS

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  • and if anyone thinks an animal would save its human owner before one of its own.....well......
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  • SmellymanSmellyman Posts: 4,524
    One of my dogs is my avatar. She died 5 years ago and I still mourn and it still hurts.

    Have a little empathy, something humans are supposed to have, for people who mourn for their dogs, "like they were their own kids".

    don't be a dick.

  • HughFreakingDillonHughFreakingDillon Posts: 36,985
    edited May 2015
    Smellyman said:

    One of my dogs is my avatar. She died 5 years ago and I still mourn and it still hurts.

    Have a little empathy, something humans are supposed to have, for people who mourn for their dogs, "like they were their own kids".

    don't be a dick.

    IT WASN'T HIS FUCKING DOG. my dog died 20 years ago and I still think about him often. people need to read the entire thread before spouting off.

    It's a discussion. I'm not being a dick. something I can't say for those that agree with you.

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  • hedonisthedonist Posts: 24,524
    Smellyman said:

    One of my dogs is my avatar. She died 5 years ago and I still mourn and it still hurts.

    Have a little empathy, something humans are supposed to have, for people who mourn for their dogs, "like they were their own kids".

    don't be a dick.

    He wasn't being dickish at all to me, more like floored at that perspective. Like I mentioned earlier, it's very personal and so subjective. I'll never forget the pain and grief when we euthanized our cat over eight years ago. The loss stays with you.

    I just can't imagine the pain of losing a child being less or the same as losing a beloved animal.
  • SmellymanSmellyman Posts: 4,524
    edited May 2015

    Smellyman said:

    One of my dogs is my avatar. She died 5 years ago and I still mourn and it still hurts.

    Have a little empathy, something humans are supposed to have, for people who mourn for their dogs, "like they were their own kids".

    don't be a dick.

    IT WASN'T HIS FUCKING DOG. my dog died 20 years ago and I still think about him often. people need to read the entire thread before spouting off.

    It's a discussion. I'm not being a dick. something I can't say for those that agree with you.

    Oh it wasn't his dog? Well that is a different story. How dare he!!!

    Edit: You know what also bothers me? When somebody just says "it's just a dog"

    To a lot of people they are not. Again don't be dick.
    Post edited by Smellyman on
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