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My daughter gave Eddie flowers on stage in Boston

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    cropdustresscropdustress Posts: 4,339
    Smile_dad wrote:
    "Don't it make you Smile"...

    I brought my daughter to Thursday's Boston 2 show, and never expected the incredible night that we wound up having.

    She's a big fan of the band, because her dad (ME) always has them playing. Well, so is her six year old sister, and their two year old brother! You should hear the three of them belt out "World Wide Suicide"! LOL

    I've been a fan of the band since seeing them at Lollapalooza '92. Then I joined the TEN CLUB in late '94, so my number is low, therefore we had some insane seats for the shows. I brought my wife to night one, and she rocked out... then it was decision time on night 2. Since I bought the tickets, I wanted to take Shae, but because of her nine year old age, my wife and I were torn. I really wanted her to experience the BEST live band in the world! You see, she wants to be a singer when she grows up, so who better to have her witness than the man himself?

    Shae LOVES "Smile", and we sing it as a family often. Well, I suggested that if she really wanted to hear it that night (because it's not really a staple in the set), that she should write a sign to request it. So she took my advise and came up with a 'way cool' smiley mouth, that she wrote the word "SMILE" in the center of it... in crayon. Underneath it she wrote "Eddie", then added 'three crooked hearts and swirls all around'... pretty cool sign.

    Well, she was having a great time when towards the end of the first encore she held it up, and Mike saw it right away! He nodded and stared down like "maybe... it's on there...we'll see", then loooked back at me and I shrugged as if to say "C'mon, it's for her" (it's hard to really get that across in a couple seconds, but I tried) and when they left the stage my daughter got a little upset because the flowers she brought for the band were still on the ground. She didn't think they were coming back out. I reassured her that they'd be back and now was a good time to hold then up if they came back with a slow song.

    Well they returned for Encore 2 and kicked it up a notch with "Why Go". I was lovin' it, but told her to just be patient. After "Life Wasted", I suggested she put 'em back in the air. This is when I was floored. Everyone around her was trying to get Eddie'd attention, and pointing to the flowers! He saw them and her... he came right over and Eddie told her to come up on the stage to give them to her! She was all smiles now, and went up and over the fence, and on to the stage! Eddie said "We'd like to fulfill a request from a young lady in the third row... It isn't a request really, as she's got something for us... so we'll do this for her."

    Then she made it up there! Ed said "Thanks" twice for the flowers (according to Shae) then he introduced her to to the Garden crowd... and they gave her a GREAT big cheer! Shae smiled and waved (it felt like an eternity to me!) and the two of them gave the peace sign to everyone. He then gave her a little hug, and she was escorted off the stage and back into my arms. Eddie then said (I'll NEVER forget this!!!!) "This one's for SHAE" ... then they did a stellar version of SMILE! When Ed was done with theh harmonica he came over towards me and tossed it in my hands. Everyone around me parted like they red sea to let it get to me... it was unreal! He pointed to my daughter and I put it in her hands. Then he gave me a big thumbs up! During Ledbetter he waved good-bye to her!

    It was truly amazing to have experienced this with my oldest, who was in my wife's belly (she was four months pregnant in '96 when we drove from Boston to Toronto to see them) as my wife and I danced in the back of the concert hall to "Yellow Ledbetter".

    Now, ten years later I was dancing with that little girl again. Only this time she was on the outside watching, as well as listening.

    Thank you, everyone around, us for being so kind to her. Thank you Ten Club for caring about the fans. And THANK YOU Eddie and the band for having a heart as big as your music is!

    Sorry this was so long!!!

    WHat a beautiful story!
    Made me smile and cry at the same time! :o

    No words to describe love for this band right now, and for the best fans on the world... :o
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    PineappleAnaPineappleAna Posts: 255
    Smile_dad wrote:
    Right!!! That was funny as hell...

    I forgot to mention that after the show she felt like a star, with everyone being so awesome saying "You're the little girl that was on-stage with Eddie!"

    I had to explain to her that this is NOT how all concerts end up! I told her that chances are she probably wouldn't be on the stage at the next show she attends!

    Also... when she woke up Friday morning (we kept her home from school) the first thing she said was... "Daddy, I miss Eddie."

    That pretty much broke my heart.

    I told her that I missed him too!

    awwwwww

    I miss him too!
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    Ms. HaikuMs. Haiku Washington DC Posts: 7,258
    Excellent! I was near you, and I saw that big smile of hers when she was handed back to you. Wow, that was great!
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    nevmilesnevmiles Ottawa, ON Posts: 1,363
    http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=-3671953073820246479

    you can download it and have it forever, I know I did



    I was there in boston, I want to thank you and your daughter and your family, I've been waiting 10 years, 17 shows to hear that song live...you guys made me so happy I was in section F on the floor jumping for joy, and I cried...it was so amazing to FINALLY hear that song.

    Please tell Shae thank you for me and that she is awesome!

    Well, I was going to post to see if anyone had any other pics of this . . . but a VIDEO is much better!

    Awesome!

    Thanks.
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    Quiet RhythmQuiet Rhythm Posts: 104
    Wow, what an awesome post, your daughter will be remember that moment forever, what a lucky girl :)
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    edvedder913edvedder913 Posts: 1,810
    Thanks to one of the greatest guys in the world I was 2 rows behind you! That was an incredible moment. My son is 6 and loves the band, so I could completely empathize with your excitement. What a wonderful memory from a perfect evening w/the greatest band on earth!
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    VOLITIONVOLITION Posts: 328
    Thank you so much for sharing that incredible story. You have a very special brave little girl to beable to get up there in front of all those people. Seeing her standing there giving the peace sign sent chills down my spine.
    I can see hope in a little girls eyes, "Seeing visions of fallin up somehow".
    I hope she gets to read all these posts.
    Thanks for the video and pictures to whomever posted them.
    "it feels like it's the end of the world and we all got a good seat. you know -- step right up, get your tickets...here we go."

    - EV
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    ohbigboyohbigboy Posts: 34
    Thank you Smile_Dad for making my day.
    Just waiting for my next show...
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    jodijodi Posts: 183
    very, very nice!!
    makes me proud to be a pearl jam-fan!!
    There's a light,... when my baby's in my arms...
    And I know she's reached my heart,... in thin air
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    wow. thats one of the best PJ stories i've heard in a long time. thanks for sharing. :)
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    LizardkingLizardking Posts: 936
    Nice picture of her and Ed in photo's section. May already been mentioned?
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    Born2JamBorn2Jam Posts: 255
    I've been telling every one I know this whole story ever since I got back from Boston!!!

    My 15 yr old son and I were right behind you two, a couple of seats down and what a privilege it was to witness the whole thing first hand!!

    Even before the show started I leaned over to my son and said "Mark my words......that little girl will end up on stage tonight"
    I've always said kids are PJ magnets!

    My son got to have a special experience with Eddie in 2003 when he was 12 and at his first concert. (Listen to the 7/2/03 boot......he got to do the '1-2-3-4' count before Porch. :))
    And here's a pic (brag, brag......us PJ parents can't resist the opportunity!:p)
    http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v307/Born2Jam/Ed-and-Kris.jpg

    Kris was born the same year as Pearl Jam, and he grew up listening to their music. He's now as big a fan as me, and was inspired by Mike to play guitar when he was quite young. I know what you mean when you talk about what a great experience it is to share this all with your kids.......I got the unique privilege of Eddie passing a guitar pick to me to hand to Kris on our special night. It felt like a right of passage or something. It's hard to put into words.
    Seeing you and Shae that night just brought back all those feelings and memories for me again. So glad you got this sweet experience!

    After the show I was razzing my son and giving him crap for not being little and cutsie anymore! He's almost a man now and just another guy in the crowd!
    I teased him that next tour, he's staying home and my cute little 8 yr old son is coming with me instead!

    Congrats Smile-Dad and Shae!
    That little girl of your ROCKS!!
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    bostonloubostonlou Posts: 2,849
    hahaha are you referring to fever pitch when drew runs through fenway........?

    sadly yes ;)
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    that is just awesome!!!!!!
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    antperlsjamantperlsjam Posts: 56
    i was there and it since chills down my spine!!!!
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    heartdesireheartdesire Posts: 430
    What a beautiful story ... brought a smile to my face & heart and tears to my eyes.

    It is so awesome to know that parents can share music with their kids ... especially the love of my life, pearl jam ... this brings me hope on so many levels!

    As your daughter said "Daddy, I miss Eddie" ... ater two incredible nights in Chicago I miss him too (as welll as the whole band), as I'm sure you all do too!

    So glad your daughter experiened these amazing moments. Here's to Shae realizing her dream of being a singer!!! Who knows maybe even singing with Eddie one day!
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    miskinmiskin Posts: 278
    awww such a cool story
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    vickdawgvickdawg Posts: 29
    Smile_dad wrote:
    Right!!! That was funny as hell...

    I forgot to mention that after the show she felt like a star, with everyone being so awesome saying "You're the little girl that was on-stage with Eddie!"

    I had to explain to her that this is NOT how all concerts end up! I told her that chances are she probably wouldn't be on the stage at the next show she attends!

    Also... when she woke up Friday morning (we kept her home from school) the first thing she said was... "Daddy, I miss Eddie."

    That pretty much broke my heart.

    I told her that I missed him too!


    Awwwww, me too!
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    desertmandesertman Posts: 132
    once again...
    thanks for sharing...
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    stonesgstringstonesgstring Posts: 4,613
    Wow!! That's some memory your daughter will have to treasure for ever now. Another reason to love this band I say ! :D
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    Awesome memorable moment. Thx for sharing.
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    groovNgroovN Posts: 92
    great story :) your daughter is so brave to get up there and be so at ease on the stage! yeah shae!
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    MelissaphishMelissaphish Posts: 150
    Smile_dad wrote:
    "Don't it make you Smile"...

    I brought my daughter to Thursday's Boston 2 show, and never expected the incredible night that we wound up having.

    We were behind the stage and saw all of that - that is awesome! I had a similar (though not nearly as cool) experience at my first big concert, and I am a music junky to this day!

    PS - Your daughter is adorable!!
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    AllieAllie Posts: 2,908
    Smile_dad wrote:
    Right!!! That was funny as hell...

    I forgot to mention that after the show she felt like a star, with everyone being so awesome saying "You're the little girl that was on-stage with Eddie!"

    I had to explain to her that this is NOT how all concerts end up! I told her that chances are she probably wouldn't be on the stage at the next show she attends!

    Also... when she woke up Friday morning (we kept her home from school) the first thing she said was... "Daddy, I miss Eddie."

    That pretty much broke my heart.

    I told her that I missed him too!

    AW!!! Wow. She is beautiful and what a wonderful father you are. God bless you.
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    AllieAllie Posts: 2,908
    We were behind the stage and saw all of that - that is awesome! I had a similar (though not nearly as cool) experience at my first big concert, and I am a music junky to this day!

    PS - Your daughter is adorable!!


    I had to comment on your signature Melissa-I feel like a goober--

    THOSE are the words in Porch? "Initiatives!!" OMG. 16 years, now I finally know what was being said there!

    THANKS SO MUCH!!!!!
    "...like a word misplaced, nothing said, what a waste.."
    "Sometimes life should be consumed in measured doses"
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    6/25/08
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    and Metsy!
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    LizardLizard So Cal Posts: 12,085
    Wow!
    Loved your story!!!

    Congratulations
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    VortexVortex Posts: 8,772
    Thanks for sharing your story :)
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    FedericoFederico Posts: 7,916
    This is the definitely-ultimate-best audience-band relationship story ever!!!!....congratulations man!!
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    BuruBuru Posts: 8,473
    Great and lovely story!
    The smile on Shae is priceless

    It makes me smile
    :)
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    uruguayan_jammeruruguayan_jammer Posts: 5,245
    You made me cry man!....congratulations!!!....pearl jam is the best band ever!!!
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