"Just Say No" is the good Skanky Chick Advice

shortstack

chadwick said:

shortstack said:

AND why do people say blow job? it's so fucking insulting and offensive!

what would you recommend the naming be?

unless you are literally being payed to do it... there are much better terms used to describe the act ;;)

i don't want to get in trouble, so i will leave it there.

mikalina

shortstack said:

mikalinarose said:

Let me get this straight. - You have this wonderful girlfriend that you may want to marry and you just had a blow job by some skanky woman in the bathroom at Work !! Wow, this sounds like high school behavior to me...

so her behavior is skanky and his is just "high school"?

To be honest - I was holding back how and what I really wanted to say -because I didn't want to get a "lifetime" ban. Just using the words that the OP used. I think both behaviors on the op and the woman at work was horrible. And I'm being kind here....

shortstack

mikalinarose said:

shortstack said:

mikalinarose said:

Let me get this straight. - You have this wonderful girlfriend that you may want to marry and you just had a blow job by some skanky woman in the bathroom at Work !! Wow, this sounds like high school behavior to me...

so her behavior is skanky and his is just "high school"?

To be honest - I was holding back how and what I really wanted to say -because I didn't want to get a "lifetime" ban. Just using the words that the OP used. I think both behaviors on the op and the woman at work was horrible. And I'm being kind here....

right on.

JWPearl

Losiento said:

chadwick said:

so a cracked out gal begs you to allow her to give you oral? parking lot or the men's room on the job?


rules & regulations... do not fuck around with your co-workers. do not sell drugs to co-workers (the folks you never knew before until working together)

i have never seen crack. i know about opiate & alcohol addiction. i know about heavy duty marijuana bullshit. i know about amphetamines addiction. all the time i want opiates, alcohol & 70 lbs of grass. aint happenin. very easily i could fill my trunk.

retired, done, good to go, the 400,000 ton boulder was lifted & is forever gone from my shoulders. i am concerned about my future. i was drunk & high as shit in high school (started getting loaded in 7th & 8th grade) & into adulthood with a 'zero give a shit life style'. i'm 41 years old & 20+ yrs have been a blur.

are you saying your g/f basically is the doorway to your zen?

Which one is the doorway to my zen the crack whore or the gf. I am such an asshole right now its unbelievable. I don't think I deserve anything.

Too late now, you should have thought like that before your actions, you need serious help, start readinig the bible or something.

shortstack

JWPearl said:

start readinig the bible or something.

yeah, the bible will teach him how to treat women 8-|

SD48277

Losiento said:

I started a new life and turned myself around. Stopped drinking, drugs and women. I found great woman who accepts me as I am and think I am able to start finding my place of Zen. Except, old habits like this nasty skanky crack "person' at work keeps flirting with me and I know its just Ms. Right Now. She really is irritating the girlfriend. I haven't said anything being the nice guy I am. However, now the old lady is pissed at me for not saying anything. Since we all work together after months the girlfriend has been very accommodating and finally had some words with her. She thinks I don't want to break ties like that and I am still attracting the things to my old lifestyle. Im kinda torn. Or should I just have her give me a blowjob in the parking lot?

Let me get this straight...you, your girlfriend, and the other woman all work together?
So you went from a tense situation for your girlfriend to an unbearable one (assuming she knows of your indiscretion)? This is how you treat someone who you say is "awesome"?

Longueuil

Losiento

SD48277 said:

Losiento said:

I started a new life and turned myself around. Stopped drinking, drugs and women. I found great woman who accepts me as I am and think I am able to start finding my place of Zen. Except, old habits like this nasty skanky crack "person' at work keeps flirting with me and I know its just Ms. Right Now. She really is irritating the girlfriend. I haven't said anything being the nice guy I am. However, now the old lady is pissed at me for not saying anything. Since we all work together after months the girlfriend has been very accommodating and finally had some words with her. She thinks I don't want to break ties like that and I am still attracting the things to my old lifestyle. Im kinda torn. Or should I just have her give me a blowjob in the parking lot?

Let me get this straight...you, your girlfriend, and the other woman all work together?
So you went from a tense situation for your girlfriend to an unbearable one (assuming she knows of your indiscretion)? This is how you treat someone who you say is "awesome"?

I assume so. I am not deserving of an adult relationship.

Losiento

The OP is more than just an OP. Sent to save me from my own ruin and this is how I repayed her. I am the sorry son of a bitch.

SD48277

Losiento said:

The OP is more than just an OP. Sent to save me from my own ruin and this is how I repayed her. I am the sorry son of a bitch.

No argument here. So how do you plan on rectifying the situation?

chadwick

let's just calm down a bit. none of you are really helping matters much by jumping on this guy hoping he feels like dog shit. bashing bashing bashing.

what if i was to say he is trying to improve his life? people slip up. men slip up. women slip up. life is a kick to the groin more than half the time.

also, guys aren't gals & gals aren't guys. as guys, we can't give birth & women have no idea what it is like owning a penis.
how bout them apples

pick your chin up & stop feeling sorry for yourself. mistakes happen. do not keep allowing mistakes to follow you around like this.

JonnyPistachio

Losiento said:

I am thinking I would like to marry this "girlfriend." I am getting older would maybe like someone to spend my golden years with. Beautiful, smart, down to earth and has a lot of class. (sometimes gets loopy with the cosmos stuff but I might be able to adjust)

Well, Just curious, would you still want to marry her if you found out she was getting fellatio from other guys?

(Shortstack, I resisted the urge to use the other word.)

I remember once, my girlfriend caught me looking at a girl. I could see the look in her face. I'll never cheat on her. Not just because I respect her, but because I like my jewels where they're at.

hedonist

chadwick said:

let's just calm down a bit. none of you are really helping matters much by jumping on this guy hoping he feels like dog shit. bashing bashing bashing.

what if i was to say he is trying to improve his life? people slip up. men slip up. women slip up. life is a kick to the groin more than half the time.

also, guys aren't gals & gals aren't guys. as guys, we can't give birth & women have no idea what it is like owning a penis.
how bout them apples

pick your chin up & stop feeling sorry for yourself. mistakes happen. do not keep allowing mistakes to follow you around like this.

For what it's worth, I'm not bashing. I'm responding to multiple posts of this fellow claiming to love his woman but acting like a dog by getting blown by "a skank".

Penises and vaginas don't make the man or woman...it's how they choose to live their lives, and how they choose to treat themselves and others.

Anyway, to me...threads here such as this, that bare all for better or worse, stoke fires while asking for feedback, well...yeah. I will feed back, hopefully coddle-free.

shortstack

Losiento said:

The OP is more than just an OP. Sent to save me from my own ruin and this is how I repayed her. I am the sorry son of a bitch.

well it seems something went wrong when you were growing up. at least you are showing remorse. go talk to someone.

shortstack

JonnyPistachio said:

Well, Just curious, would you still want to marry her if you found out she was getting fellatio from other guys?

(Shortstack, I resisted the urge to use the other word.)

i appreciate the jesture, good sir.

JonnyPistachio said:

I remember once, my girlfriend caught me looking at a girl. I could see the look in her face. I'll never cheat on her. Not just because I respect her, but because I like my jewels where they're at.

it was probably the "way" you were looking at the other girl.

PJ_Soul

Losiento said:

I started a new life and turned myself around. Stopped drinking, drugs and women. I found great woman who accepts me as I am and think I am able to start finding my place of Zen. Except, old habits like this nasty skanky crack "person' at work keeps flirting with me and I know its just Ms. Right Now. She really is irritating the girlfriend. I haven't said anything being the nice guy I am. However, now the old lady is pissed at me for not saying anything. Since we all work together after months the girlfriend has been very accommodating and finally had some words with her. She thinks I don't want to break ties like that and I am still attracting the things to my old lifestyle. Im kinda torn. Or should I just have her give me a blowjob in the parking lot?

Is this "crack person" an ex? Or did you sleep with her at any point? Or date? If not, I'm not sure why your GF would care so much. Why would it bug her if someone you clearly can't stand is flirting with you?? Sounds more like something to laugh at during dinner conversation. If you were involved with her in some way in the past, then you should tell the skank to only talk to you about work stuff and to stop being so inappropriate because you don't like it and you've moved on (I just assumed that you were joking about the blowjob in the parking lot..... was I wrong to assume that???).

JonnyPistachio

shortstack said:

JonnyPistachio said:

Well, Just curious, would you still want to marry her if you found out she was getting fellatio from other guys?

(Shortstack, I resisted the urge to use the other word.)

i appreciate the jesture, good sir.

JonnyPistachio said:

I remember once, my girlfriend caught me looking at a girl. I could see the look in her face. I'll never cheat on her. Not just because I respect her, but because I like my jewels where they're at.

it was probably the "way" you were looking at the other girl.

Nope, not at all. I'm not an open drooler. The girl just had some cool tattoos down her shoulder and arm.<blockquote

polaris_x

JonnyPistachio said:

Nope, not at all. I'm not an open drooler. The girl just had some cool tattoos down her shoulder and arm

don't you know that you're presumed guilty until proven guilty!? ... hahaha

this is a whacked out thread i gotta say ... this is what a jerry springer show must be like ...

gimmesometruth27

this situation is a trainwreck. i cheated on g/fs in high school and college, and karma paid me back by having me being cheated on in most of my adult relationships. i think how you treat others is a big reflection of your true self. how faithful you are, how loyal you are, how honest you are, etc.

i have cheated, i have been cheated on, i have been "the other man" one time.

i am not proud of any of it.

if i care about someone, i am a rock. i do not give into temptation because i know how it feels to be on the other side of these indiscretions.

i have hurt ofhers and been hurt enough that i choose not to play the game anymore.

polaris_x

or maybe our notions of monogamy and sexuality are based on social constructs that are outdated and not practical