"Just Say No" is the good Skanky Chick Advice

Losiento
Losiento Posts: 282
edited January 2014 in All Encompassing Trip
I started a new life and turned myself around. Stopped drinking, drugs and women. I found great woman who accepts me as I am and think I am able to start finding my place of Zen. Except, old habits like this nasty skanky crack "person' at work keeps flirting with me and I know its just Ms. Right Now. She really is irritating the girlfriend. I haven't said anything being the nice guy I am. However, now the old lady is pissed at me for not saying anything. Since we all work together after months the girlfriend has been very accommodating and finally had some words with her. She thinks I don't want to break ties like that and I am still attracting the things to my old lifestyle. Im kinda torn. Or should I just have her give me a blowjob in the parking lot?
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  • RKCNDY
    RKCNDY Posts: 31,013

    Is the girlfriend "Mrs. Right now" or is it the "crack whack" person?
    Why would you still keep whack job around if you have a girlfriend, or does she do things the GF won't?
    Losiento said:

    I started a new life and turned myself around. Stopped drinking, drugs and women. I found great woman who accepts me as I am and think I am able to start finding my place of Zen. Except, old habits like this nasty skanky crack "person' at work keeps flirting with me and I know its just Ms. Right Now. She really is irritating the girlfriend. I haven't said anything being the nice guy I am. However, now the old lady is pissed at me for not saying anything. Since we all work together after months the girlfriend has been very accommodating and finally had some words with her. She thinks I don't want to break ties like that and I am still attracting the things to my old lifestyle. Im kinda torn. Or should I just have her give me a blowjob in the parking lot?

    The joy of life comes from our encounters with new experiences, and hence there is no greater joy than to have an endlessly changing horizon, for each day to have a new and different sun.

    - Christopher McCandless
  • JWPearl
    JWPearl Posts: 19,893
    If someone is flirting with you at work and your with someone you Love'' then tell the girl your not interested and that you found someone special in your life, and she should get the message. If she doesn't and she still bugs you, start talking about your lovely woman in your life and how hot she looks in a corsette. She will soon bugger off.
    Sure blow her off in the car park if your not happy with the one your with but it would be ostracism on yourself if you keep living that way.
  • Losiento
    Losiento Posts: 282
    the crack whack person ... about really this crack whack person going to wreck shit
  • Losiento
    Losiento Posts: 282
    either I am going to get sick of the old lady complaining and I am going to lose the old lady
  • Losiento
    Losiento Posts: 282
    most likely go back to the old ways
  • JWPearl
    JWPearl Posts: 19,893
    No one can wreck anything unless you allow it Mr , the balls in your court hehe
  • Losiento
    Losiento Posts: 282
    "the girlfriend" is awesome
  • JWPearl
    JWPearl Posts: 19,893
    Then fight the world for her my friend, because goodbye can be bitter tasting.
  • RKCNDY
    RKCNDY Posts: 31,013
    If you wanna keep the whack job around, then please tell the GF, it would be the mature thing.

    If you truly want to find your zen, then get rid of the whack job, people like that thrive off of manipulating people.
    The joy of life comes from our encounters with new experiences, and hence there is no greater joy than to have an endlessly changing horizon, for each day to have a new and different sun.

    - Christopher McCandless
  • JWPearl
    JWPearl Posts: 19,893
    Getting back to your old ways is a tickets to your coffin really
  • Losiento
    Losiento Posts: 282
    exactly
  • Losiento
    Losiento Posts: 282
    RKCNDY said:

    If you wanna keep the whack job around, then please tell the GF, it would be the mature thing.

    If you truly want to find your zen, then get rid of the whack job, people like that thrive off of manipulating people.

    That is what I am thinking.
  • shortstack
    shortstack Posts: 2,339
    i think deep down inside you hate women... or you're afraid of them.
    did you see me? i saw you.
  • Losiento
    Losiento Posts: 282
    Or I am afraid of commitment. I have spent 46 years of my life as a bachelor basically. I was married once long ago.
  • Losiento
    Losiento Posts: 282
    edited January 2014
    I am thinking I would like to marry this "girlfriend." I am getting older would maybe like someone to spend my golden years with. Beautiful, smart, down to earth and has a lot of class. (sometimes gets loopy with the cosmos stuff but I might be able to adjust)
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  • shortstack
    shortstack Posts: 2,339
    how did your father treat women? did you pick up the name calling from him?

    i ask this because you referred to the woman that is attracted to you as skanky chick /ms. right now /crack whack and to the woman that you want to spend your golden years with as the "old, loopy lady".
    did you see me? i saw you.
  • Losiento
    Losiento Posts: 282
    Mom was the boss.
  • shortstack
    shortstack Posts: 2,339
    Losiento said:

    Mom was the boss.

    by "boss" do you mean she was a strong willed woman who expected to be treated as equal?

    did you see me? i saw you.
  • Losiento
    Losiento Posts: 282
    No mom wore the pants. Period.
  • Longueuil
    Longueuil Posts: 2,224
    Are you happy in drama or are you afraid of happiness?

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