Strippers

CAVSTARR313

Mamasan23 wrote:

Caveeze wrote:

On a side note.. I have heard that you can get a really great steak at the joint near our house.. for a great price, too!

This is why the place has secretly become known as "Steak n' Shake"

get some steak, get some shake.. A few guys I know go to "Steak n' Shake" often for lunch..

I personally could NEVER eat at a strip club.. just seems horrible!

"Sir, what'll you have?"

"The pink tacos"

:fp:

"What are the chances they are still pink?"

marcos

Mamasan23 wrote:

Caveeze wrote:

On a side note.. I have heard that you can get a really great steak at the joint near our house.. for a great price, too!

This is why the place has secretly become known as "Steak n' Shake"

get some steak, get some shake.. A few guys I know go to "Steak n' Shake" often for lunch..

I personally could NEVER eat at a strip club.. just seems horrible!

"Sir, what'll you have?"

"The pink tacos"

:fp:

I use to know some guys (trying to be like Tony Soprano probably) use to eat at strip clubs, that is really disgusting and far more offensive (&dirty) than any touching that could happen during a lap dance

gimmesometruth27

if i ever get married i don't want my friends to take me to a strip joint. if it came down to that i would not even really want a bachelor party. i am SO over that stuff. for me, strip clubs were cool the first few times i went when i was 21, but nowadays i don't enjoy them. it is pretty pricey, and to me, paying strippers a lot of money for me to get scraped to death by my own zipper does not appeal to me.

i think this is something that the couple involved needs to discuss beforehand. me personally, i am a pretty faithful guy and when i am in a relationship i always try to keep myself out of situations that can get me into trouble with my significant other. i have seen too many partnerships fail when the guy does something stupid like drop $500 at a strip club behind his wife's back.

i have been to too many parties where a stripper had been procured and like someone said earlier, sometimes things other than just looking happens, and when the guy is married or about to be married it is never a good thing.

comebackgirl

dr0ptheleash wrote:

comebackgirl wrote:

DeLukin wrote:

I personally feel that respect and love are inseparable. If the person I love is uncomfortable with me doing something to the point of it negatively affecting our relationship, it's my obligations to change my behavior out of respect for her. So it's not so much about trust, but if I willingly know that she feels that something I'm doing is harmful to our relationship and I keep doing it she should have every reason in the world to think I don't respect her.

Very well said.



It's up for the couple to decide what's ok/not ok within their relationship. If one partner isn't comfortable with certain behavior, then it's not ok for the relationship. The other partner may not agree and so they are then in the position of deciding whether they want to honor their partner's feelings or not. That is what sets the tone for the whole rest of the relationship and will get played out in a variety of ways around a variety of issues. There's no one formula that is going to work for every relationship, so I don't think we can tear it down and decide that looking is ok, touching is not, etc.


It's absolutely ok for you to not be comfortable with this. You don't have to justify it to anyone. It doesn't feel comfortable to you, so honor that feeling even if your partner doesn't.

I agree completely with both of these responses. The whole mindset that "they're not even like humans so it's ok to do whatever you want with them" is what makes me mad about this. Or the attitude that it's just a joke to do whatever you want. I think viewing is one thing; it's the actual physical contact that makes it another.

Yeah the idea of anyone being dehumanized is deeply troubling to me. I can understand why you would be mad about that.



And as for eating at a strip club :sick: :fp: Don't ask what they put in the secret sauce.






Just don't :nono:

CAVSTARR313

gimmesometruth27 wrote:

paying strippers a lot of money for me to get scraped to death by my own zipper does not appeal to me.

And on the sixth day, he created sweat pants..

gimmesometruth27

Caveeze wrote:

gimmesometruth27 wrote:

paying strippers a lot of money for me to get scraped to death by my own zipper does not appeal to me.

And on the sixth day, he created sweat pants..

what guy in their right mind is gonna rock a pair of sweats to the strip bar?? i wouldn't because i would not want everyone staring at my tent. i think it is courtesy to everyone else there to wear something with a zipper. you know, to hold that thing down...nobody wants to see somebody's junk

Mamasan23

gimmesometruth27 wrote:

Caveeze wrote:

gimmesometruth27 wrote:

paying strippers a lot of money for me to get scraped to death by my own zipper does not appeal to me.

And on the sixth day, he created sweat pants..

what guy in their right mind is gonna rock a pair of sweats to the strip bar?? i wouldn't because i would not want everyone staring at my tent. i think it is courtesy to everyone else there to wear something with a zipper. you know, to hold that thing down...nobody wants to see somebody's junk

Oh boy sometimes I'm so happy I'm not a man!

rick1zoo2

Mamasan23 wrote:

gimmesometruth27 wrote:

Caveeze wrote:

And on the sixth day, he created sweat pants..

what guy in their right mind is gonna rock a pair of sweats to the strip bar?? i wouldn't because i would not want everyone staring at my tent. i think it is courtesy to everyone else there to wear something with a zipper. you know, to hold that thing down...nobody wants to see somebody's junk

Oh boy sometimes I'm so happy I'm not a man!

like in school - just carry your books in front of it!

gimmesometruth27

rick1zoo2 wrote:

like in school - just carry your books in front of it!

nah, i think i would just walk it off like ron burgundy.

i would be saying "don't act like you're not impressed..."

hedonist

Mamasan23 wrote:

Oh boy sometimes I'm so happy I'm not a man!

"I don't know how you guys walk around with those things."

gimmesometruth27

or even better....

Mamasan23

http://youtu.be/BEnKLhi83J8

gimmesometruth27

Mamasan23 wrote:

http://youtu.be/BEnKLhi83J8

well...






it happens...

:fp: :fp:

LloydXmas

hedonist wrote:

Mamasan23 wrote:

Oh boy sometimes I'm so happy I'm not a man!

"I don't know how you guys walk around with those things."

If I had boobs, I don't think I would ever leave the house.

gimmesometruth27

LloydXmas wrote:

If I had boobs, I don't think I would ever leave the house.

except to go find a mirror...

you know...

so you could look at your boobs...

norm

gimmesometruth27 wrote:

or even better....

yeah, the last time i was at a strip club (20+ years ago), well let's just say i was thankful for the big pillows on the couches :oops:

rick1zoo2

the first, last, and only time I ever went to one was my bachelor "party", 1993. It was my best man and my ..... :shock: Dad :shock: It had to be one of the most awkward experiences I've ever had ever.

Mamasan23

rick1zoo2 wrote:

the first, last, and only time I ever went to one was my bachelor "party", 1993. It was my best man and my ..... :shock: Dad :shock: It had to be one of the most awkward experiences I've ever had ever.

OMG that sounds AWFUL!!!!

I went to the Crazy Horse in Vegas last October. Lemme tell ya...money will buy you ANYTHING there :shock:

gimmesometruth27

norm wrote:

well let's just say i was thankful for the big pillows on the couches :oops:

i wonder exactly how much dna is on those things...


:sick: :sick: :sick:

catefrances

Mamasan23 wrote:

...
I went to the Crazy Horse in Vegas last October. Lemme tell ya...money will buy you ANYTHING there :shock:

I saw crazy horse earlier this year and let me tell you.. there was no stripping.