Australia and NZ tour rumours going around Part 2 (No Bullshit)

ozsmalltowngirl

ZiggyStar wrote:

So many people say that "You've been together 10 years....why bother?" Then I tell them I'm not changing my last name and they say it again! ha

We looove Paronella Park. It's been done up...not creepy at all. Well, we don't find it very creepy anyway.

http://www.paronellapark.com.au

I'm not knocking the fact that you want to get married.....so PLEASE don't take this the wrong way (I'm scared).....but just curious as to why you want to get married?? What will change??

ZiggyStar

ozsmalltowngirl wrote:

They KNOW what a wet dream is.....they just didn't believe he'd had one and wanted to know if I believed him.
AND....I'd say they were trying to embarrass their mate. I've known all these kids since they were 3/4 years old and now I have to listen to them talk about this stuff :eek:

and NO....parenting DOES NOT get easier......I'd go back to having 3 x babies/toddlers/Pre-schoolers, any day of the week!!!

Well at least Leigh and I won't have to give our kids the "wet dream" talk because we'll probably pass those fucked up genes down to our kids!!!!!!!!! :mad:

ZiggyStar

ozsmalltowngirl wrote:

I'm not knocking the fact that you want to get married.....but just curious as to why you want to get married?? What will change??

I've always wanted to be married and so has Leigh since we were kids (but we both hate weddings and never pictured ourselves doing the big wedding thing). We would prefer to not have kids until we're married too. Nothing will change because we already think and behave as if we're already married....but it just feels right to us to get married and we both want to. I can't wait until we do -- it will be a great day -- but only shared with my mum and dad, little brother, Jason (bestman) and Leigh's mum.

Did you ask that because I'm not changing my surname?

EDIT: And I'm really glad we've waited this long too...because 5 years ago we would have done the whole invite 50 friends to the big wedding crap and now we don't even see a lot of those friends anymore. The way we're going to do it now suits our personalities perfectly.

zenith

DonJon wrote:

I cant crank it too much. The old Doris is in here filing and see isnt the biggest Pearl Jam fan.

Manly v Parra for me tonight so Ill have a tinnie for you whilst sitting in my corporate box:D Sitting in a box for the Randwick game at Coogee tomorrow too.

Its tough being famous

woot - double good then - GO PARRA!!!!!

DonJon

ozsmalltowngirl wrote:

I'm not knocking the fact that you want to get married.....so PLEASE don't take this the wrong way (I'm scared).....but just curious as to why you want to get married?? What will change??

She doesnt have to put out anymore.

Good on ya Zig. Set a date yet?

ZiggyStar

ozsmalltowngirl wrote:

I'm not knocking the fact that you want to get married.....so PLEASE don't take this the wrong way (I'm scared).....but just curious as to why you want to get married?? What will change??

Why are you scared? ha ha

ozsmalltowngirl

ZiggyStar wrote:

I've always wanted to be married and so has Leigh since we were kids (but we both hate weddings and never pictured ourselves doing the big wedding thing). We would prefer to not have kids until we're married too. Nothing will change because we already think and behave as if we're already married....but it just feels right to us to get married and we both want to. I can't wait until we do -- it will be a great day -- but only shared with my mum and dad, little brother, Jason (bestman) and Leigh's mum.

Did you ask that because I'm not changing my surname?

Yeah.....most people get married for when they have children....but you'll have different surnames anyway.....so It won't be any different than if you weren't married??? You'll still be the odd one out (the only Butler)

I mean....it doesn't matter....you don't need a reason...I was just curious

I don't know if I'd bother getting married if I wanted to keep my maiden name?? In fact...if I was to go back in time, I don't know if I would have bothered getting married??? I'd still be with Glenn....just minus a bit of paper??

zenith

ozsmalltowngirl wrote:

Some of the convos those boys have on our Mandurah trips :EEK: !! I'm sure they do it half the time, to see if they can embarrass me! Grrrrrr!

ahhh ok - riley has explained to me in detail why jay takes so long in the shower these days, and i mean DETAIL!!!!!

i think jay was kind of sorry he told riley

and i just told them both i didnt really want to know at all thanks, but stop wasting water :rolleyes:

ozsmalltowngirl

ZiggyStar wrote:

Why are you scared? ha ha

I didn't know how to put a question forward about this, without you taking it wrong and getting defensive
Didn't want to upset you, unintentionally, by wording it wrong or whatever

yellowled24

People get married for the wrong reasons sometimes....(well, probably alot of the time!)

Some friends of ours had a HUGE wedding, invited everyone they knew, had the whole she-bang.....and ended up cheating on each other 8 months into the marriage.
Needless to say, they are seperated now :rolleyes:

Kaine and I got married when I was preggo with Echo, already had a two year old, and we had the ceremony at an Animal Park....so, as long as you are where you want to be, with who you love entirely, and have atleast twenty PJ songs at your reception...I say, youll have a GREAT wedding

zenith

ZiggyStar wrote:

EDIT: And I'm really glad we've waited this long too...because 5 years ago we would have done the whole invite 50 friends to the big wedding crap and now we don't even see a lot of those friends anymore. The way we're going to do it now suits our personalities perfectly.

im not a big believer in the whole need for marriage thing, but have always said if i ever did do it it would be a very very laid back affair, probably somewhere warm, barefoot on the beach, with prawns on the bbq

and certainly no inviting every friend/relative/aunt agnes to be fed and watered ... it would be small and intimate

so...

all i have to do now is find someone stupid enough to marry me and my two kids and my wonderful pj collection

ozsmalltowngirl

zenith wrote:

ahhh ok - :-D riley has explained to me in detail why jay takes so long in the shower these days, and i mean DETAIL!!!!!

i think jay was kind of sorry he told riley

and i just told them both i didnt really want to know at all thanks, but stop wasting water :rolleyes:

Oh yeah.....the convos at home are waaaaay worse ..... but that doesn't bother me at all :-)

It's only when the friends are involved .

Me on the outside: :cool: :rolleyes:

Me on the inside: :eek: :crawl under rock n die:

ZiggyStar

DonJon wrote:

She doesnt have to put out anymore.

Good on ya Zig. Set a date yet?

Nah....we'll set a date early next year probably. Leigh and I don't go overboard about these sorts of things....it will be so low key that we could probably plan the whole thing the month before! ha ha And since it's just the 6 of us, it doesn't matter if it's a weekend or weekday wedding....we'll just close down work for half a week. So, not getting too excited about it now. Just planning the basics like location etc.

yellowled24

ZiggyStar wrote:

So, not getting too excited about it now. Just planning the basics like location etc.

AND the dress (or jeans, whatever)

ZiggyStar

yellowled24 wrote:

AND the dress (or jeans, whatever)

ha ha And the dress.....which is going to be RED!! :eek: I need to lose weight so won't be planning the dress until next year either!

zenith

ozsmalltowngirl wrote:

Oh yeah.....the convos at home are waaaaay worse ..... but that doesn't bother me at all :-)

It's only when the friends are involved .

Me on the outside: :cool: :rolleyes:

Me on the inside: :eek: :crawl under rock n die:

yea, i think ive learnt more about boys from my boys than from any guy ive known ...

what their balls do ... where they go ... where they can put them ... what it feels like to get hit there ... what if feels like to pee ... what a pain it must be to have to sit and pee ... how is it possible for a girl to pee in the shower is she has to sit on the loo to pee ...

mmmm ... im very very glad im a girl ...

ZiggyStar

yellowled24 wrote:

People get married for the wrong reasons sometimes....(well, probably alot of the time!)

Some friends of ours had a HUGE wedding, invited everyone they knew, had the whole she-bang.....and ended up cheating on each other 8 months into the marriage.
Needless to say, they are seperated now :rolleyes:

Kaine and I got married when I was preggo with Echo, already had a two year old, and we had the ceremony at an Animal Park....so, as long as you are where you want to be, with who you love entirely, and have atleast twenty PJ songs at your reception...I say, youll have a GREAT wedding

That sounds lovely! Animal Park would be cooool! This is the place where we'll have the reception -- which overlooks Paronella Park (http://www.menafalls.com.au/index.html). There are only 3 rooms which fits the 6 of us perfectly. And the owner is a chef and will cook and serve all night whatever we want him to...which will be SEAFOOD and CHEESECAKE!!! And everything I've mentioend so far are as far into the planning as I've thought about and will think about for a while....I don't want to think about it anymore and become obsessive like people I've known!

yellowled24

zenith wrote:

mmmm ... im very very glad im a girl ...

I HATE being a woman sometimes :mad:

But I would probably hate being a guy too :rolleyes:

yellowled24

Just going to head out and have my first smoke of the day.....

ozsmalltowngirl

ZiggyStar wrote:

ha ha And the dress.....which is going to be RED!! :eek: I need to lose weight so won't be planning the dress until next year either!

and I think seeing as though it's your wedding, it's a good excuse to buy a new pair of DMs to go with the dress