solo at the bar?

dimitrispearljam

its cool to go solo to a bar.....

the whole is not to leave solo the bar.....

dougfloyd

dimitrispearljam wrote:

its cool to go solo to a bar.....

the whole is not to leave solo the bar.....

Leyna Minai

uninnocent- wrote:

Leyna Minai wrote:

There's a bar I go to after work a couple times during the week by myself.
After a while, you start to get to know the other 'regulars' and join in on conversations with them!
Sometimes the bartenders will start chatting it up too.
It might be awkward at first but you get used to it!

AND they learn your order quick so you get a beer brought to you as soon as you come in!

This is incredibly true! I don't even have to say anything, as soon as I come in, I have a drink ready for me

The Juggler

i don't go to the bar.

bar comes to me.

Claireack

Walked into a bar alone, but only if I'm meeting someone in there.

It prob sounds silly, but going for a coffee on my own is a bit of a treat, sitiing readin and maybe having a piece of cake.

mysticweed

DS1119 wrote:

the wolf wrote:

I won't go to the movies alone. No way.

Pee Wee Herman used to say that too.

i have gone to movies alone
dinner alone (just have something to read)
bars alone

if you want to do something, not having someone to do it with should not matter

just ask that priest with the potato up his ass
or the dude with the shampoo bottle

Get_Right

all the time
2 little ones and a wife at home, sometimes I just like a quick pop or two before I enter the madness that is my house @ 6-8pm

javis el errante

not recently, but done that for a long while, and it doesn't mean I found someone... sometimes I go to spend time before doing something else, sometimes I go because I have no choice, sometimes I feel like going... I enjoy my being alone, but not always... and of course the mind always rambles... I see your point, I completely understand...

mikalina

the wolf wrote:

Ever go to the bar alone, and sit at at the bar with all the old men that have no one to go home to?

I'm Sitting here, and yes, feel very pathetic.

Anyone else ever go it alone at the bar?

Being female... I'm too scared.

But somehow I can picture you sitting there with pen in hand.

the wolf

mikalina wrote:

the wolf wrote:

Ever go to the bar alone, and sit at at the bar with all the old men that have no one to go home to?

I'm Sitting here, and yes, feel very pathetic.

Anyone else ever go it alone at the bar?

Being female... I'm too scared.

But somehow I can picture you sitting there with pen in hand.

I have written lyrics to 3 songs sitting at a bar. I wasn't there alone when this happend though.

EmBleve

One can meet some very interesting people when going solo at the bar. Like someone else said, I think it depends on the location, and the day and time. Some of the best times I have had have been going solo somewhere.

conman

i've met some cute bartenders while alone at the bar

Pamela0222

I love doing this from time to time.... Its interesting who you meet sometimes!

eeriepadave

i don't like going to the bar alone, but i have a few times.

the wolf

And tonight she had a beer in front of me as soon as i sat down. Nice.

Gary Carter

conman wrote:

i've met some cute bartenders while alone at the bar

lol

Those are dime a dozen on long island

Before my buddy and I saw Aaron Lewis, we pregamed at a bar called Rembrandt's and the bartender was cute. She was a dyke but a cute one and had 18 tats.

of.the.girl

I've gone to a bar by myself. Its actually quite relaxing. Have my beer or glass of wine and play Words With Friends. I love going to movies alone too. Why go with someone if you can't talk with them? Unless you go to dinner/drinks before or after.

the wolf

I figured out why I have/had a problem with flying solo at the bar.

My dad owned a bar most of my life, and i just remember the same people Sitting at his bar every night. They had no place else to go. I remember feeling sorry for them even when I was young. Thy Sat there and drank their lives away. I guess I just associate it with that, and i guess it just makes me sad because, everyone should have some place to go, and someone to go to.

Pamela0222

the wolf wrote:

I figured out why I have/had a problem with flying solo at the bar.

My dad owned a bar most of my life, and i just remember the same people Sitting at his bar every night. They had no place else to go. I remember feeling sorry for them even when I was young. Thy Sat there and drank their lives away. I guess I just associate it with that, and i guess it just makes me sad because, everyone should have some place to go, and someone to go to.

I was a bartender back in the day, so I can't totally relate to this... I felt sad for some of them too.

Hmmm I wonder if they feel bad for me when I do it :?

the wolf

I doubt they are feeling bad for you Pam.