solo at the bar?

the wolf
the wolf Posts: 7,027
edited March 2012 in All Encompassing Trip
Ever go to the bar alone, and sit at at the bar with all the old men that have no one to go home to?

I'm Sitting here, and yes, feel very pathetic.

Anyone else ever go it alone at the bar?
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  • DS1119
    DS1119 Posts: 33,497
    No but at least we finally got to see that "Awesome!!!" video today.

    :lol:
  • Tom K
    Tom K Posts: 842
    I like checkin' into a bar all by myself sometimes; get involved with some of the conversation, you'll probably learn something, or at least have something to laugh about. They're usually an interesting crowd, remember "There's a lot more old drunks around than old doctors."....
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  • the wolf
    the wolf Posts: 7,027
    DS1119 wrote:
    No but at least we finally got to see that "Awesome!!!" video today.

    :lol:

    :lol: yes, yes we did!
    Peace, Love.


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    to not question your government is unpatriotic."
    -- Sen. Chuck Hagel
  • Indifference71
    Indifference71 Chicago Posts: 14,915
    Plenty of times. Usually just to go grab something to eat and have a few beers if the lady isn't around and I'm on my own for dinner. Some people are afraid to do it, but I actually enjoy it.
  • uninnocent-
    uninnocent- Posts: 5,959
    I've gotten over that feeling and go to the bar whenever I want. I'll go when there's a game on and I don't have any beer at home, or if I just want a change of scenery. I've definitely done a bunch of posting here when it happens.

    It all started after my last big breakup and I wasn't used to having nothing to do. Now I just go when I feel. There's no reason to feel like your pathetic.

    The only time I've ever felt embarrassed is that time someone I knew came and sat beside me.

    There have also been times where I've technically been at bars alone, but a friend of mine has either been the bar manager or bartender. I guess that's a different story though.
  • 81
    81 Needing a ride to Forest Hills and a ounce of weed. Please inquire within. Thanks. Or not. Posts: 58,276
    Depends on the bar, day and time.

    Are you scared of going to the movies alone too?
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  • the wolf
    the wolf Posts: 7,027
    Tom K wrote:
    I like checkin' into a bar all by myself sometimes; get involved with some of the conversation, you'll probably learn something, or at least have something to laugh about. They're usually an interesting crowd, remember "There's a lot more old drunks around than old doctors."....

    I don't think it would normally bother me. Circumstances I guess.

    I have been listening into some conversations. Entertaining indeed. I think they think I'm a cop or osomething.
    Either that or I'm just not good enough for them. I guess my liver is in too good shape. Hehe.
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    "To question your government is not unpatriotic --
    to not question your government is unpatriotic."
    -- Sen. Chuck Hagel
  • the wolf
    the wolf Posts: 7,027
    81 wrote:
    Depends on the bar, day and time.

    Are you scared of going to the movies alone too?

    I won't go to the movies alone. No way.
    Peace, Love.


    "To question your government is not unpatriotic --
    to not question your government is unpatriotic."
    -- Sen. Chuck Hagel
  • DS1119
    DS1119 Posts: 33,497
    the wolf wrote:
    I won't go to the movies alone. No way.


    Pee Wee Herman used to say that too.
  • uninnocent-
    uninnocent- Posts: 5,959
    the wolf wrote:
    81 wrote:
    Depends on the bar, day and time.

    Are you scared of going to the movies alone too?

    I won't go to the movies alone. No way.

    Won't lie, I kind of enjoy seeing movies alone sometimes.
  • 81
    81 Needing a ride to Forest Hills and a ounce of weed. Please inquire within. Thanks. Or not. Posts: 58,276
    the wolf wrote:
    81 wrote:
    Depends on the bar, day and time.

    Are you scared of going to the movies alone too?

    I won't go to the movies alone. No way.
    Mantinee...i'll go alone if there is something i really want to see and the woman has zero interest
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  • the wolf
    the wolf Posts: 7,027
    I've gotten over that feeling and go to the bar whenever I want. I'll go when there's a game on and I don't have any beer at home, or if I just want a change of scenery. I've definitely done a bunch of posting here when it happens.

    It all started after my last big breakup and I wasn't used to having nothing to do. Now I just go when I feel. There's no reason to feel like your pathetic.

    The only time I've ever felt embarrassed is that time someone I knew came and sat beside me.

    There have also been times where I've technically been at bars alone, but a friend of mine has either been the bar manager or bartender. I guess that's a different story though.

    Yeah. Kinda why I'm here now. Not really broken up, but in a weird place with my girl.

    I did come in to eat too. Now I'm just Sitting here because I have absolutely no place to go.
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    I couldn't handle another 13 hours of just Sitting in the car reading until its time to go to work tomorrow. :)
    Peace, Love.


    "To question your government is not unpatriotic --
    to not question your government is unpatriotic."
    -- Sen. Chuck Hagel
  • uninnocent-
    uninnocent- Posts: 5,959
    Just have a few drinks, enjoy your food, watch whatever's on the TV (if they're present), and strike up a conversation with an interesting person if you want. If you're posting on your phone, remember that surfing the web an posting on online forums uses up a lot of battery. Just enjoy yourself and don't overthink things.
  • eddiec
    eddiec Posts: 3,963
    In NYC bars are your home, anyday, anytime. ;)
  • the wolf
    the wolf Posts: 7,027
    DS1119 wrote:
    the wolf wrote:
    I won't go to the movies alone. No way.


    Pee Wee Herman used to say that too.

    He had to go to the movies alone. Would you want to go WITH him? :shock:
    Peace, Love.


    "To question your government is not unpatriotic --
    to not question your government is unpatriotic."
    -- Sen. Chuck Hagel
  • dougfloyd
    dougfloyd Fishers, IN Posts: 2,585
    No problem going to either the bar or the movies solo, I think I skipped out on work last year for March Madness and went to the bar all afternoon.
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  • marcos
    marcos Posts: 2,112
    81 wrote:
    Depends on the bar, day and time.

    Are you scared of going to the movies alone too?

    I think it also depends on the city as well. Though I think you can't go to the bar by yourself on a Friday or Saturday no matter where you are, maybe even Thursday too. Wednesday is fine.

    But why aren't you at a strip bar, never alone there :D
  • pjradio
    pjradio Posts: 6,704
    Rehab - Sittin' at a Bar

    http://youtu.be/v_0pw-LeloU
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  • 81
    81 Needing a ride to Forest Hills and a ounce of weed. Please inquire within. Thanks. Or not. Posts: 58,276
    Post up your number and we will all call you to make you look important
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  • conman
    conman Posts: 7,493
    i've done it, don't have a problem with it. usually just for food and a couple of beers