2011 ... good year, bad year ...eh?

decides2dream
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i always seem to take stock and reassess around my birthday - and being we're presently in* november, seems a good time to ask...as we're winding down 2011, how's it treated ya?
i will say, 2010 felt a whole lot worse, but honestly, 2011, really not better. had truly hoped to turn things around, but alas, here i still am. that said, 2011 didn't have major calamities, nothing that made me freak the fuck out - and i actually had some really fun, amazing times (thank you pj & canada!) and the husband and i have managed some good projects, good times and his life is going really well, so that's a plus - even if i am still a mess, haha. so yes, while i am still pretty much where i was a year ago and need to change that soon ... it sure felt a lot better than 2010, which was a disaster.
so i guess for me, 2011 = a wash.
given the year prior tho, that's a good thing and i'll take it.
looking forward to 2012!!!
*edited for accuracy, but mostly, for norm.
i will say, 2010 felt a whole lot worse, but honestly, 2011, really not better. had truly hoped to turn things around, but alas, here i still am. that said, 2011 didn't have major calamities, nothing that made me freak the fuck out - and i actually had some really fun, amazing times (thank you pj & canada!) and the husband and i have managed some good projects, good times and his life is going really well, so that's a plus - even if i am still a mess, haha. so yes, while i am still pretty much where i was a year ago and need to change that soon ... it sure felt a lot better than 2010, which was a disaster.
so i guess for me, 2011 = a wash.

given the year prior tho, that's a good thing and i'll take it.

looking forward to 2012!!!
*edited for accuracy, but mostly, for norm.

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decides2dream wrote:and being it's the end of november,
the hell woman?!?! you really want this year to end!:P
2011 sucked monkey scrotum :thumbdown:0 -
I have a weird thing about my life where even years have been great and odd years not so great. 2011 has been not so great for me, so I'm looking forward to 2012 as well."FF, I've heard the droning about the Sawx being the baby dolls. Yeah, I get it, you guys invented baseball and suffered forever. I get it." -JearlPam09250
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norm wrote:decides2dream wrote:and being it's the end of november,
the hell woman?!?! you really want this year to end!:P
2011 sucked monkey scrotum :thumbdown:
i meant my birthday is the end of november, thus why i get the thoughts to reassess. :P
i'm not a new year's resolution, i don't really do resolutions - but to some degree, i do birthday reassessments....that just happen to coincide with ALMOST the end of the year, ok?Stay with me...
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decides2dream wrote:
so i guess for me, 2011 = a wash.
Of course they could be good months too, but...you know...avoid disappointment - plan for the worst
Glad things are lookin up for you.
My year has been...same as always, pretty much. For the most part, a really good one.
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FenwayFaithful wrote:I have a weird thing about my life where even years have been great and odd years not so great. 2011 has been not so great for me, so I'm looking forward to 2012 as well.
funny you mentioned that - used to find similar patterns, though it would be a few odd years run of great even years, then switch to the odd years ... now that i've had 2 years in a row suck big-time, who knows now - it's a toss-up.
just gotta hope after 2 years of shit, that i'll catch a break and turn back to the even years of luck in january, haha.
(and maybe it's my own state of mind, but i have found 2011 has been rather shitty for a LOT of people. my worst moments were in 2010, just carried forward into 2011, but more seem to have had bad things go down in 2011)
drowned out - leave it to you to say that.
(and believe me, i DID consider that. hahaha. as i said, damnnit, i start thinking about these things around my birthday and yes, it's not for 2 more weeks but shit, i already started thinking about it, ok?! :twisted: )
btw - since is "a wash" = to "things looking up for me?" hahahahahaha. ahhh how the bar has been lowered ...;)Stay with me...
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decides2dream wrote:norm wrote:decides2dream wrote:and being it's the end of november,
the hell woman?!?! you really want this year to end!:P
2011 sucked monkey scrotum :thumbdown:
i meant my birthday is the end of november, thus why i get the thoughts to reassess. :P
i'm not a new year's resolution, i don't really do resolutions - but to some degree, i do birthday reassessments....that just happen to coincide with ALMOST the end of the year, ok?
i used to be really awesome at reading :x :(
the last time i was really happy was back in 2010 when i was visiting friends and seeing some folk band in an old building0 -
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Like you, I feel that 2011 has been a better year than 2010. 2010 was kinda rocky for me in a few ways. :?
Now, I feel like I'm moving in the right direction. I'm starting to feel more and more at home in Tampa (and that's making my life more fun.) And, I have been reading a lot of books that have given me good ideas this year.
So, it almost feels like some kind of good energy wave is swelling up underneath me. *crosses fingers*<3<3
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2011 has been a sucky year for me. Hoping 2012 is better!0
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Damn, everyone's had a bad 2011. Makes me feel even shittier by proxy. Did anyone have a good year this year? 2012 is gonna kick so much ass though."FF, I've heard the droning about the Sawx being the baby dolls. Yeah, I get it, you guys invented baseball and suffered forever. I get it." -JearlPam09250
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Worst of my life.0
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I've *never* been one for celebrating New Year's, always been my least liked holiday.
But this year? I may need to pay homage. Because this year fucking SUCKED.
Not just like meh there were good times and bad times. Like on a galactic level SUCKED.
I suppose in the grand scheme of things though, the fact I'm still alive right now means something went right I guess. While I feel like a jalopy barely keeping my parts together, I'm still moving. I keep trying to see silver linings. And there were some good things. But the things that were bad...sweet lord. It's like WTF man.
It's damn near broken me.
So yep, this sums my feelings up pretty much!0 -
hmmm...
couldn't find a job :thumbdown:
Mr. RK smashed the car: :thumbdown:
STILL can't sell the house-so we're stuck in this s#itty town: :thumbdown:
Truck broke down on the way to Montana and ate up $700 of PJ20 money: :thumbdown:
Went to Alpine and met many AWESOME PJ peeps :thumbup:
Went to 3 shows on the Canadian tour-including getting front row lottery in Edmonton: :thumbup:
Heard 'Crown of Thorns/Chloe Dancer' LIVE in Vancouver: :thumbup:
'Got Some' Faithful Ale to help out PJ friends: :thumbup:
This year was better than last year...
(hmmm...everything good this year has to do with PJ....is that a sign? :eh:)The joy of life comes from our encounters with new experiences, and hence there is no greater joy than to have an endlessly changing horizon, for each day to have a new and different sun.
- Christopher McCandless0 -
Neutral Face"FF, I've heard the droning about the Sawx being the baby dolls. Yeah, I get it, you guys invented baseball and suffered forever. I get it." -JearlPam09250
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this year mostly sucked. It's easier to mention the good things that happened. the bad stuff would take too long. basically the only really positive was the show i was able to go to in september and the visit of my family. otherwise life's going down the drainYou can spend your time alone, re-digesting past regrets,
Or you can come to terms and realize
You're the only one who can't forgive yourself0 -
still 52 or so days to go for something decent to happen this year
that's the way i'll look at it
have to, otherwise...well.... :roll:peace,
jo
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overall it was a good year.hear my name
take a good look
this could be the day
hold my hand
lie beside me
i just need to say0 -
Last year was an unmitigated disaster, worst year for me in a very long time ... so this year had to be better, and it has been.
2011 - :thumbup:
Plus, the Canadian tour was all sorts of fantastic.
(man, I almost feel guilty stating this year was a great one after reading all the posts)"You're one of the few Red Sox fans I don't mind." - Newch91
"I don't believe in damn curses. Wake up the damn Bambino and have me face him. Maybe I'll drill him in the ass." --- Pedro Martinez0 -
For me, this year has been okay up until September, but since then it's been amazingly good. Can't wait for 2012 to begin
Sorry to hear that so many of you had a bad year. But as Jo pointed out - hang in there, there's still some days left to make 2011 a good onePlease, Pearl Jam, consider a Benaroya Hall vinyl reissue! http://community.pearljam.com/discussion/148993/please-pearl-jam-consider-a-vinyl-benaroya-hall-re-issue0
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