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  • hauntingfamiliar
    hauntingfamiliar Wilmington, NC Posts: 10,361
    Just got the official text from my boss. Snow Day tomorrow!!!
  • hedonist
    hedonist Posts: 24,524
    Very nice, HF!

    Catching the new season of The Amazing Race; always a fun watch.
  • PJ_Soul
    PJ_Soul Vancouver, BC Posts: 50,705
    hauntingfamiliar said:
    Just got the official text from my boss. Snow Day tomorrow!!!
    Whoohoo!!!!! Snow days for work are every bit as exciting as they were for school as a kid, lol.
    With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be careful. Strive to be happy. ~ Desiderata
  • hauntingfamiliar
    hauntingfamiliar Wilmington, NC Posts: 10,361
    ^ Absolutely. And the fact that it rarely ever snows here made it even better. Very cool day :peace:
  • i_lov_it
    i_lov_it Perth, Western Australia Posts: 4,007
    edited January 2018
    hauntingfamiliar said:
    ^ Absolutely. And the fact that it rarely ever snows here made it even better. Very cool day :peace:

    Send some Snow to Perth it was 38 degrees Celsius here yesterday lol
  • 23scidoo
    23scidoo Thessaloniki,Greece Posts: 19,998
    Eating pastourma peinirli and watching Blade Runner 2049
    Athens 2006. Dusseldorf 2007. Berlin 2009. Venice 2010. Amsterdam 1 2012. Amsterdam 1+2 2014. Buenos Aires 2015.
    Prague Krakow Berlin 2018. Berlin 2022
    EV, Taormina 1+2 2017.

    I wish i was the souvenir you kept your house key on..
  • i_lov_it
    i_lov_it Perth, Western Australia Posts: 4,007
    edited January 2018

    Listening to Pearl Jam

    Post edited by i_lov_it on
  • Thoughts_Arrive
    Thoughts_Arrive Melbourne, Australia Posts: 15,165
    Burning in anger and hatred towards my mother and father for putting some blame on me.
    Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/2014
  • dankind
    dankind Posts: 20,841
    Thoughts_Arrive said:
    Burning in anger and hatred towards my mother and father for putting some blame on me.

    https://youtu.be/GtkST5-ZFHw
    I SAW PEARL JAM
  • RogueStoner
    RogueStoner Sunny AZ Posts: 1,716
    Thoughts_Arrive said:
    Burning in anger and hatred towards my mother and father for putting some blame on me.
    Don't hate. Just separate. 
  • i_lov_it
    i_lov_it Perth, Western Australia Posts: 4,007

    Searching for Bass Guitars to buy...

  • bluegrace
    bluegrace Posts: 2,357
    Planning an eventual trip, not sure it will happen yet
    Kool Kat Club 1992, Moderna museet 1992, Globen 2012, Friends arena 2014
  • i_lov_it
    i_lov_it Perth, Western Australia Posts: 4,007
    edited January 2018

    Still searching for Basses...

  • Thoughts_Arrive
    Thoughts_Arrive Melbourne, Australia Posts: 15,165
    dankind said:
    Thoughts_Arrive said:
    Burning in anger and hatred towards my mother and father for putting some blame on me.

    https://youtu.be/GtkST5-ZFHw
    I cried the first time I saw this. Resonated with me. My brother in law said this to me before I saw this movie.
    Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/2014
  • Thoughts_Arrive
    Thoughts_Arrive Melbourne, Australia Posts: 15,165
    RogueStoner said:
    Thoughts_Arrive said:
    Burning in anger and hatred towards my mother and father for putting some blame on me.
    Don't hate. Just separate. 
    I want revenge. I want her to hurt. She's never apologised. Never shown remorse. Maybe she will if I am gone.
    Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/2014
  • RogueStoner
    RogueStoner Sunny AZ Posts: 1,716
    Thoughts_Arrive said:
    RogueStoner said:
    Thoughts_Arrive said:
    Burning in anger and hatred towards my mother and father for putting some blame on me.
    Don't hate. Just separate. 
    I want revenge. I want her to hurt. She's never apologised. Never shown remorse. Maybe she will if I am gone.
    She won't. That would require empathy and self-reflection and many people are just incapable of that. They just don't care how their callous words and actions affect others. Sad but true. 
  • Annafalk
    Annafalk Sweden Posts: 4,004
    edited January 2018
    Thoughts_Arrive said:
    RogueStoner said:
    Thoughts_Arrive said:
    Burning in anger and hatred towards my mother and father for putting some blame on me.
    Don't hate. Just separate. 
    I want revenge. I want her to hurt. She's never apologised. Never shown remorse. Maybe she will if I am gone.
    It seems like she is not mentally sane since what you have told about her being physically and mentally abusive towards you all your life. I would try to just feel sorry for her because of how she is. If she wants to hurt you it's best that you don't give her that. No response is the best response I think,
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  • lastexitlondon
    lastexitlondon Posts: 14,915
    Wishing for a chance to live again


    this song is meant to be called i got shit,itshould be called i got shit tickets-hartford 06 -
  • Thoughts_Arrive
    Thoughts_Arrive Melbourne, Australia Posts: 15,165
    Annafalk said:
    Thoughts_Arrive said:
    RogueStoner said:
    Thoughts_Arrive said:
    Burning in anger and hatred towards my mother and father for putting some blame on me.
    Don't hate. Just separate. 
    I want revenge. I want her to hurt. She's never apologised. Never shown remorse. Maybe she will if I am gone.
    It seems like she is not mentally sane since what you have told about her being physically and mentally abusive towards you all your life. I would try to just feel sorry for her because of how she is. If she wants to hurt you it's best that you don't give her that. No response is the best response I think,
    She sure is unwell mentally.
    My psychologist even said it.
    Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/2014
  • PJ_Soul
    PJ_Soul Vancouver, BC Posts: 50,705
    edited January 2018
    RogueStoner said:
    Thoughts_Arrive said:
    RogueStoner said:
    Thoughts_Arrive said:
    Burning in anger and hatred towards my mother and father for putting some blame on me.
    Don't hate. Just separate. 
    I want revenge. I want her to hurt. She's never apologised. Never shown remorse. Maybe she will if I am gone.
    She won't. That would require empathy and self-reflection and many people are just incapable of that. They just don't care how their callous words and actions affect others. Sad but true. 
    Agreed. She won't. Narcissists are incapable of such things. I have a friend who took the step you need to take - he cut off all contact with his mother because she was a horrible, destructive person in his life. Be warned, it took him a long time to finally get to that point, but what finally took him there was his attempts to do it. He would separate, and she would come forward with even harsher hate and a whole lot of crazy. There was no way in hell she was ever going to take any responsibility for the disastrous relationship. Finally he was brave enough to not continuously let her quilt tactics work on him at some level. The process of separation probably took 5 years because her tactics worked on him for way too long; she kept drawing him back in by playing the sad old victim and it took him that long to realize she was never ever going to change. People like that don't change. Ever.
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    With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be careful. Strive to be happy. ~ Desiderata

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