psst,now guys tell me..you find the one already..?
you find your"belong together partner"?
had him/her? expecting to happen..?
Is there only one everyone? I've had a few that were seemingly at the time the one, but then someone comes along that is better; either better than me or better than her. It is refreshing to see all these posts about people actually staying with the same person for a long time in this oft romantically deprived world.
psst,now guys tell me..you find the one already..?
you find your"belong together partner"?
had him/her? expecting to happen..?
heres my question dimi....
what do you mean by belong together??? i assume(no matter how much of an arse that makes me out to be) you mean romantically. but then i have a problem with that term. what is romantic?? i have 3 major relationships in my life atm(not including my children of course) and i love them all.. one of them is with my lover, one is with my BFF and the third is with someone who over this past year has become a close friend whom i would trust with my life. all 3 are 'the one' for the role they play in my life. put them all together and i am a better person for having them in my life.. so again i ask you, what do you mean by 'belong together'? cause i can tell you those 3 people are a massive part of who i am today.
hear my name
take a good look
this could be the day
hold my hand
lie beside me
i just need to say
psst,now guys tell me..you find the one already..?
you find your"belong together partner"?
had him/her? expecting to happen..?
heres my question dimi....
what do you mean by belong together??? i assume(no matter how much of an arse that makes me out to be) you mean romantically. but then i have a problem with that term. what is romantic?? i have 3 major relationships in my life atm(not including my children of course) and i love them all.. one of them is with my lover, one is with my BFF and the third is with someone who over this past year has become a close friend whom i would trust with my life. all 3 are 'the one' for the role they play in my life. put them all together and i am a better person for having them in my life.. so again i ask you, what do you mean by 'belong together'? cause i can tell you those 3 people are a massive part of who i am today.
i mean the one that if you arent still with him/her you wish to be happy and be a star to someone elses sky,but the same time you beg to be the star on your sky..
"...Dimitri...He talks to me...'.."The Ghost of Greece..".
"..That's One Happy Fuckin Ghost.."
“..That came up on the Pillow Case...This is for the Greek, With Our Apologies.....”
psst,now guys tell me..you find the one already..?
you find your"belong together partner"?
had him/her? expecting to happen..?
Yeah, had a few of these actually...I blame PJ.
its all Stone's fault..
"...Dimitri...He talks to me...'.."The Ghost of Greece..".
"..That's One Happy Fuckin Ghost.."
“..That came up on the Pillow Case...This is for the Greek, With Our Apologies.....”
is it weird that i don't ever want to get married or find a 'soul mate'? :?
I was like that too - it really does slap you in the face when you least expect it.
But, it's also very important to be happy if you haven't had it happen yet either
Awwwwwwwwww............
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is it weird that i don't ever want to get married or find a 'soul mate'? :?
Nah I don't think so at all. Society deems that everyone must get married and have children and I call total BS on that. You live your life that it was meant to be and don't worry about what other people tell you to do
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Here's a msg to the really, really huge pain in my ass, also known as the ex BF(3 1/2 years wasted on that one) who keeps on calling from payphones....
is it weird that i don't ever want to get married or find a 'soul mate'? :?
Nah I don't think so at all. Society deems that everyone must get married and have children and I call total BS on that. You live your life that it was meant to be and don't worry about what other people tell you to do
Dating a new girl, only been two months, but so far, she's absolutely amazing
Believe me, when I was growin up, I thought the worst thing you could turn out to be was normal, So I say freaks in the most complementary way. Here's a song by a fellow freak - E.V
is it weird that i don't ever want to get married or find a 'soul mate'? :?
Nah I don't think so at all. Society deems that everyone must get married and have children and I call total BS on that. You live your life that it was meant to be and don't worry about what other people tell you to do
smart woman is the best thing happen to the planet..
"...Dimitri...He talks to me...'.."The Ghost of Greece..".
"..That's One Happy Fuckin Ghost.."
“..That came up on the Pillow Case...This is for the Greek, With Our Apologies.....”
Together since 1975, married since 1978. So I guess we belong together.
wow!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
"...Dimitri...He talks to me...'.."The Ghost of Greece..".
"..That's One Happy Fuckin Ghost.."
“..That came up on the Pillow Case...This is for the Greek, With Our Apologies.....”
is it weird that i don't ever want to get married or find a 'soul mate'? :?
Nah I don't think so at all. Society deems that everyone must get married and have children and I call total BS on that. You live your life that it was meant to be and don't worry about what other people tell you to do
Especially in the Northeastern States, didn't know it was that bad in the Midwest as well. I hate the whole you need to be married or something is wrong with you. And then if you're successful in one of the more societal approved professions like a doctor or lawyer and not married, there is really something wrong with you. Such bull.
But that's why I'm going to California, some day, with an aching in my heart. Someone told me there's a girl out there with love in her eyes and a flower in her hair?
i really dont believe how much finally i like this thread..love the way people express some feelings and thoughts..awesome..
"...Dimitri...He talks to me...'.."The Ghost of Greece..".
"..That's One Happy Fuckin Ghost.."
“..That came up on the Pillow Case...This is for the Greek, With Our Apologies.....”
is it weird that i don't ever want to get married or find a 'soul mate'? :?
Nah I don't think so at all. Society deems that everyone must get married and have children and I call total BS on that. You live your life that it was meant to be and don't worry about what other people tell you to do
Especially in the Northeastern States, didn't know it was that bad in the Midwest as well. I hate the whole you need to be married or something is wrong with you. And then if you're successful in one of the more societal approved professions like a doctor or lawyer and not married, there is really something wrong with you. Such bull.
But that's why I'm going to California, some day, with an aching in my heart. Someone told me there's a girl out there with love in her eyes and a flower in her hair?
5 years for us. In Utah, it's a whole different degree of living in sin when you're unmarried, living together, and engaging in sexual activities with one another.
I'm a devil in the flesh, I tell you.
I'm very happy though, and love our story of meeting. She's one of the most incredible people I've met.
7/2/06 - Denver, CO
6/12/08 - Tampa, FL
8/23/09 - Chicago, IL
9/28/09 - Salt Lake City, UT (11 years too long!!!)
9/03/11 - East Troy, WI - PJ20 - Night 1
9/04/11 - East Troy, WI - PJ20 - Night 2
how many of you are sick of your families and friends asking..."when are you guys gonna get married" or, "when are you guys gonna have a kid already"
Who said we HAVE to do any of this?!?!?!?
We can't just have a huge party and get gifts for being together longer than many people have been married for?!?! Sheesh.
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how many of you are sick of your families and friends asking..."when are you guys gonna get married" or, "when are you guys gonna have a kid already"
Holy shit, you have no idea.
Well maybe you do... hence you writing it. I feel your pain.
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7/2/06 - Denver, CO
6/12/08 - Tampa, FL
8/23/09 - Chicago, IL
9/28/09 - Salt Lake City, UT (11 years too long!!!)
9/03/11 - East Troy, WI - PJ20 - Night 1
9/04/11 - East Troy, WI - PJ20 - Night 2
how many of you are sick of your families and friends asking..."when are you guys gonna get married" or, "when are you guys gonna have a kid already"
only from my dumbass brother. :roll:
When are you guys gonna get married?
7/2/06 - Denver, CO
6/12/08 - Tampa, FL
8/23/09 - Chicago, IL
9/28/09 - Salt Lake City, UT (11 years too long!!!)
9/03/11 - East Troy, WI - PJ20 - Night 1
9/04/11 - East Troy, WI - PJ20 - Night 2
how many of you are sick of your families and friends asking..."when are you guys gonna get married" or, "when are you guys gonna have a kid already"
Who said we HAVE to do any of this?!?!?!?
We can't just have a huge party and get gifts for being together longer than many people have been married for?!?! Sheesh.
We get that ALL the time. We've been married 6 years and people think we're freaks since we don't have kids yet. All my other married friends have kids already and they're putting the pressure on us. Honestly, I'd be just as happy if we weren't married (maybe even happier :shock: ) and I have not one iota of a desire to have kids. I don't judge people who do choose to have kids, why do they feel the right to judge me for my decision???!
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ps...this is a great thread
Is there only one everyone? I've had a few that were seemingly at the time the one, but then someone comes along that is better; either better than me or better than her. It is refreshing to see all these posts about people actually staying with the same person for a long time in this oft romantically deprived world.
I just saw this...to stargirl69, keep busy...it's hard but that can be the only cure. Gets your mind off of it.
And yes, this is an amazing thread.
Nice to see the love...so many long relationships!
That's what I thought...then I met my wife. Life is funny like that.
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heres my question dimi....
what do you mean by belong together??? i assume(no matter how much of an arse that makes me out to be) you mean romantically. but then i have a problem with that term. what is romantic?? i have 3 major relationships in my life atm(not including my children of course) and i love them all.. one of them is with my lover, one is with my BFF and the third is with someone who over this past year has become a close friend whom i would trust with my life. all 3 are 'the one' for the role they play in my life. put them all together and i am a better person for having them in my life.. so again i ask you, what do you mean by 'belong together'? cause i can tell you those 3 people are a massive part of who i am today.
take a good look
this could be the day
hold my hand
lie beside me
i just need to say
I was like that too - it really does slap you in the face when you least expect it.
But, it's also very important to be happy if you haven't had it happen yet either
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SMELL YER MA!
"..That's One Happy Fuckin Ghost.."
“..That came up on the Pillow Case...This is for the Greek, With Our Apologies.....”
Yeah, had a few of these actually...I blame PJ.
"..That's One Happy Fuckin Ghost.."
“..That came up on the Pillow Case...This is for the Greek, With Our Apologies.....”
Awwwwwwwwww............
2012 - Manchester i & ii, Berlin i & ii, Stockholm. 2014 - Amsterdam i & ii, Trieste, Vienna, Berlin, Leeds, Milton Keynes.
2016 - Boston Fenway i & ii, 2018 - Amsterdam i & ii, Pinkpop, London i & ii, Padova, Krakow, Barcelona, Seattle i & ii.
Nah I don't think so at all. Society deems that everyone must get married and have children and I call total BS on that. You live your life that it was meant to be and don't worry about what other people tell you to do
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AOT7OwcbK-k
"..That's One Happy Fuckin Ghost.."
“..That came up on the Pillow Case...This is for the Greek, With Our Apologies.....”
"..That's One Happy Fuckin Ghost.."
“..That came up on the Pillow Case...This is for the Greek, With Our Apologies.....”
Especially in the Northeastern States, didn't know it was that bad in the Midwest as well. I hate the whole you need to be married or something is wrong with you. And then if you're successful in one of the more societal approved professions like a doctor or lawyer and not married, there is really something wrong with you. Such bull.
But that's why I'm going to California, some day, with an aching in my heart. Someone told me there's a girl out there with love in her eyes and a flower in her hair?
"..That's One Happy Fuckin Ghost.."
“..That came up on the Pillow Case...This is for the Greek, With Our Apologies.....”
Well said robert.
5 years for us. In Utah, it's a whole different degree of living in sin when you're unmarried, living together, and engaging in sexual activities with one another.
I'm a devil in the flesh, I tell you.
I'm very happy though, and love our story of meeting. She's one of the most incredible people I've met.
6/12/08 - Tampa, FL
8/23/09 - Chicago, IL
9/28/09 - Salt Lake City, UT (11 years too long!!!)
9/03/11 - East Troy, WI - PJ20 - Night 1
9/04/11 - East Troy, WI - PJ20 - Night 2
how many of you are sick of your families and friends asking..."when are you guys gonna get married" or, "when are you guys gonna have a kid already"
Who said we HAVE to do any of this?!?!?!?
We can't just have a huge party and get gifts for being together longer than many people have been married for?!?! Sheesh.
Holy shit, you have no idea.
Well maybe you do...
6/12/08 - Tampa, FL
8/23/09 - Chicago, IL
9/28/09 - Salt Lake City, UT (11 years too long!!!)
9/03/11 - East Troy, WI - PJ20 - Night 1
9/04/11 - East Troy, WI - PJ20 - Night 2
only from my dumbass brother. :roll:
and dc :x
When are you guys gonna get married?
6/12/08 - Tampa, FL
8/23/09 - Chicago, IL
9/28/09 - Salt Lake City, UT (11 years too long!!!)
9/03/11 - East Troy, WI - PJ20 - Night 1
9/04/11 - East Troy, WI - PJ20 - Night 2
We get that ALL the time. We've been married 6 years and people think we're freaks since we don't have kids yet. All my other married friends have kids already and they're putting the pressure on us. Honestly, I'd be just as happy if we weren't married (maybe even happier :shock: ) and I have not one iota of a desire to have kids. I don't judge people who do choose to have kids, why do they feel the right to judge me for my decision???!