question about marriage/divorce

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  • RKCNDY
    RKCNDY Posts: 31,013
    edited July 2011
    whatevernevermind
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    The joy of life comes from our encounters with new experiences, and hence there is no greater joy than to have an endlessly changing horizon, for each day to have a new and different sun.

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  • pinkbutterfly
    pinkbutterfly Posts: 1,391
    edited July 2011
    not4uuu wrote:
    You know, my husband does initiate all that, but that really doesn't mean anything. He brings me flowers, leaves me notes in the morning, when he tells me he loves me he waits till I say I love you back.... seriously though, that is all the easy part, the hard part is to actually mean it. I always tell him actions speak louder than words, and lately I am finding out some of his hidden actions...... :|

    As far as your husband's "hidden actions", it definitely sounds like marriage counseling is the place to start.
    Post edited by pinkbutterfly on
    My last message to you ~

    You're right. You are a monster! You are sick! Get help!

    At least, I am not a fuck-up! A lying fuck-up!
  • not4uuu
    not4uuu Posts: 94
    that is pretty much where we are headed. His coming clean is quite a lot. You guys have 19 years huh, we are at 18. I always thought couples that have been together this long must have a perfect relationship...... :lol:
    pearljammin66
  • PJaddicted
    PJaddicted Posts: 1,432
    As a parent of 4, and married for a LONG time....IMHO....try everything you possibly can to work things out. Love does go up and down over a lifetime, it so worth the work to stay together during the down times. Your daughter deserves you in her life.
    ~*LIVE~LOVE~LAUGH*~

    *May the Peace of the Wilderness be with YOU*

    He is your friend, your partner, your defender, your dog. You are his life, his love, his leader. He will be yours, faithful and true, to the last beat of his heart. You owe it to him to be worthy of such devotion.
    — Unknown
  • pinkbutterfly
    pinkbutterfly Posts: 1,391
    edited July 2011
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    Post edited by pinkbutterfly on
    My last message to you ~

    You're right. You are a monster! You are sick! Get help!

    At least, I am not a fuck-up! A lying fuck-up!
  • rick1zoo2
    rick1zoo2 between a rock and a dumb place Posts: 12,632
    RKCNDY wrote:
    whatevernevermind

    that's about all I can add too.
  • not4uuu
    not4uuu Posts: 94
    yap, I am a little jaded on marriage right now, whenever i hear that someone is getting married, I think.... SUCKER!!!!! Anyway, thanx to all, gonna go have a tasty beverage and get some dinner going... Have a great night everyone!!!!!! :D
    pearljammin66
  • peacocoa
    peacocoa Posts: 46
    The coast guard, so technically, yes but I don't like to say the military.

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