facebook and ex's

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STAYSEA

Haaa haa, so sorry where was Harry? Potter in the cabinet in his Aunties kitchen...
I'm so mean..

rick1zoo2

STAYSEA wrote:

Haaa haa, so sorry where was Harry? Potter in the cabinet in his Aunties kitchen...
I'm so mean..

where have you been? I've missed you

i_lov_it

PJPixie wrote:

My ex husband (been divorced since 2002) passed away 11 months ago, an ex boyfriend of mine (from after the divorce) sent me an email saying "I was stalking your facebook and saw that your ex husband passed away......I'm so sorry.........." etc. My Ex-Boyfriend and I are not facebook friends but we have stayed in contact via email (he's in another state) every now and then. I always felt like if I tried to friend him on Facebook he would deny my request as I am from an earlier part of his life, which is very different now.....and I think he probably felt/feels the same way about friending me on Facebook.............anyway, I found it "endearing" (is that the right word?) when he emailed me and said he was "stalking my facebook"............lol. I have issues........., I know.

I've Never gone on Facebook but there Should be a 'Little Red Box' in the UPPER RIGHT Corner...That should solve your Problem!...:)

mfc2006

my ex GF tracked me down. first on myspace, then on facebook & twitter. we're both married---i am happily married for almost 4 years & she has 2 kids now. she always says stuff like "i wish i was with you"...or "you were the true love of my life." at first, i felt bad b/c i certainly don't look back at our relationship that way. after all, i ended it. so, my responses were polite at first....

then she started sending more & more. we live in different states, but she somehow got my cell # & would call & hang up. maybe she doesn't know that iPhones tell you the location of the call? :? after i repeatedly denied her friend requests & asked her to stop contacting me, she persisted.

so, late last year she sent me a message on FB saying that she was coming to Texas to see me & that her husband didn't know about it. again, i did NOTHING to lead her on or to encourage this behavior. it was crazy!!! i responded by saying "i have a facebook message drafted. if you send me one more message, i'm sending this message to your husband. in this message, he will see all of your previous messages and my responses. leave me alone. we broke up over 10 years ago."

her response..."oh. sorry to have bothered you then. best of luck with life."

:shock:

ummm...... :?

haven't heard from her since. :thumbup:

Pamela0222

That's great that you haven't heard from her since.... That's a little creepy.

My Opinion.... Ex's are Ex's for a reason. Doesn't matter if it was a year, 2, 5, or 10 ago when it ended, it ended for a reason. So two words Delete and Block!

rick1zoo2

I ignored the ex's friend request, but we are both connected on FB to our sons. it actually provides an easy method of sharing pictures of the boys. and because of the kids, we have more actual contact (phone and in person just about everyday). but yeah, I would not want to connect directly. actually freaked me out when my mom found me on FB

blackredyellow

I ignored my ex's request... It was many years ago, but we had a good relationship and didn't have a messy break up. We were friends for a while afterwards and then drifted apart when I changed jobs.

We had a lot in common and were better friends than boyfriend/girlfriend, but I am happily married now and just didn't feel the need to rekindle that friendship. I guess I did it more so to avoid any drama with my wife, but there was really no good reason to accept the friend request.

uninnocent-

I've got my most recent ex as a friend on facebook. We share all the same friends, so I see her all the time (along with her new guy). I've blocked her from my newsfeed. I don't need to know what's going on with her at all. But when it comes to planning parties and events I may need to communicate with her, and I like using the less personal route with her.

Another ex tried to add me a few months ago. We literally haven't spoken since the day Riot Act was released. There's no reason for me to accept at all. I think she just wants to boost her friend count.

STAYSEA

uninnocent- wrote:

I've got my most recent ex as a friend on facebook. We share all the same friends, so I see her all the time (along with her new guy). I've blocked her from my newsfeed. I don't need to know what's going on with her at all. But when it comes to planning parties and events I may need to communicate with her, and I like using the less personal route with her.

Another ex tried to add me a few months ago. We literally haven't spoken since the day Riot Act was released. There's no reason for me to accept at all. I think she just wants to boost her friend count.

Is there a reason to share friends? He got those in the mediation...
I am making my own friends.
My ex friends only want to talk about his new girl.
I just want to know how my cat is..
My ex mother in law tries to talk to me about how much she wants me back and she hates this new girlfriend.
Now I can't talk to any one..
Don't go back in time. I have a list.. One side are things I miss.. the other side is stuff I couldn't live with.
One side is way longer. Maybe you still love her?

STAYSEA

rick1zoo2 wrote:

I ignored the ex's friend request, but we are both connected on FB to our sons. it actually provides an easy method of sharing pictures of the boys. and because of the kids, we have more actual contact (phone and in person just about everyday). but yeah, I would not want to connect directly. actually freaked me out when my mom found me on FB

I get the photo thingy!

uninnocent-

To be fair, they were my friends first. I'm just a nice guy.

conman

mfc2006 wrote:

my ex GF tracked me down. first on myspace, then on facebook & twitter. we're both married---i am happily married for almost 4 years & she has 2 kids now. she always says stuff like "i wish i was with you"...or "you were the true love of my life." at first, i felt bad b/c i certainly don't look back at our relationship that way. after all, i ended it. so, my responses were polite at first....

then she started sending more & more. we live in different states, but she somehow got my cell # & would call & hang up. maybe she doesn't know that iPhones tell you the location of the call? :? after i repeatedly denied her friend requests & asked her to stop contacting me, she persisted.

so, late last year she sent me a message on FB saying that she was coming to Texas to see me & that her husband didn't know about it. again, i did NOTHING to lead her on or to encourage this behavior. it was crazy!!! i responded by saying "i have a facebook message drafted. if you send me one more message, i'm sending this message to your husband. in this message, he will see all of your previous messages and my responses. leave me alone. we broke up over 10 years ago."

her response..."oh. sorry to have bothered you then. best of luck with life."

:shock:

ummm...... :?

haven't heard from her since. :thumbup:

i'm not trying to be a dick but this made me laugh...

conman

uninnocent- wrote:

I think she just wants to boost her friend count.

that's all it is and i don't get it... we're not in high school anymore... no one cares how many friends you have

STAYSEA

This makes me insanse!!! he was dating for 5 months on the damn face book?

unfaithfull? No he locked me out for that time? awesome?

His freaking mom is Not talking to him? He's the stuopid baby? He lost his mind they say? I dont give a RATFUCK!!!

He sold his stupid MAZDA soo he has no club..

I feel like CHARLIE SHEEN!!!! no tigers blood yet.. I'm insane? but soo right?

I face book everyone I meet? Freaks them out!!! anonymously!!!!!

I have like 6 ghost accounts? So stupid, but Handy.. I'm like a ninja

PJ_Soul

Exes are the past, and one should always try and live in the present. People should stay away from exes; trouble always comes otherwise, one way or another, usually with current relationships of at least one party.

STAYSEA

Yes! this is what I mean? I don't exisit? I have to reason to go? Peer Pressure? My mom? His relationship status was DIVORCED? after a week of nothing? I tried to talk to him.. His Mom waited all day on her birthday last week! I called her three times (shes not in good health). She was so hurt? I was thinking he would log on to facebook and remember.. So Sad!

Stoopid facebook.
Painfulbook?
Hurtmebook :shock:
backfacebook

mfc2006

conman wrote:

i'm not trying to be a dick but this made me laugh...

she's a little out there...that's for sure. :?

STAYSEA

A little out there? Man? I'm gone... Humans are too strange.. I say I like Music, Box turtles, and books.
No drugs? !!! maybe I should.. NO! I was with this dude 15 years! he was talking to another girl the past 5 months.. He locked me out of the bedroom for six.. " I don't want u to get the wrong idea, he said"
My ex mum in law told me! If the romantic partner is hiding texty messages and changes the passwords .. I say HEADS UP.. The ex in laws are not even talking to him.. His Mom h8s him.. hes the baby?. I think hes a RATFUCK!! who is with me I'll give you his name and email, He told me to stay out of the entertainment biz.. I had two emails from them today. GAME ON.. If PJ ever buys Chauve# ;ights .. I'm staying home.. Comaer is worse.. Martin? No way.. Lighting jaded.. sorry kat.. another warning? I am hoping not

CTD10

I got no ex's on facebook. I never understood staying friends with ex girlfriends...I mean they are my ex's for a reason. God I cringe when I look back at the time spent with a couple of them...lol