Single parents - dating advice?

dimitrispearljam

Suzi78 wrote:

So she's SUPER cool, you have great conversations, she's ok with you having a kid, same interests, she's pretty...but she's not HOT ENOUGH?! Dude, are you serious...? :roll: :roll: :roll:

Sounds to me that you're either desparate, and that's why you've already had sex with her even though you weren't that attracted to her...or you're just being very shallow

Regardless, I really do hope you find someone...and give her a chance even though she doesn't have perfect boobs and ass... :roll:

Ok, think I'm done rolling my eyes for today.

Good luck to you.

+1

Gary Carter

Suzi78 wrote:

So she's SUPER cool, you have great conversations, she's ok with you having a kid, same interests, she's pretty...but she's not HOT ENOUGH?! Dude, are you serious...? :roll: :roll: :roll:

Sounds to me that you're either desparate, and that's why you've already had sex with her even though you weren't that attracted to her...or you're just being very shallow

Regardless, I really do hope you find someone...and give her a chance even though she doesn't have perfect boobs and ass... :roll:

Ok, think I'm done rolling my eyes for today.

Good luck to you.

do some more eye rolling :P

Suzi78

Ok, only for you Metsie

:roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll:

Gary Carter

Suzi78 wrote:

Ok, only for you Metsie

:roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll:

touche

thanks suzi

dimitrispearljam

Suzi78 wrote:

Ok, only for you Metsie

:roll: :roll: :roll: :roll: :roll:

i saw that... :twisted:

he still stands

hey, I never claimed to not be shallow. I'm super shallow. If I were water you wouldn't even get your ankles wet.

But come on (fella's back me up)... she is like a 7 out of 10. One of those girls that you're attracted to but not the hottest girl at the bar and probably not even in the top 3. The first thing that attracted me to her was her personality... not her looks.

That being said... I'm probably a 6 out of 10 so I should shut up.

But, I like a certain "type" that she isn't. (athletic) Because I'm athletic...

I guess what I'm saying is she could stand to lose 15 pounds.





I just figured out why I'm single....


I'M AN ASSHOLE!!!

sheesh... what's wrong with me? :?

he still stands

and this is the first girl I've dated for 1.5 years... :shock:

Gary Carter

he still stands wrote:

hey, I never claimed to not be shallow. I'm super shallow. If I were water you wouldn't even get your ankles wet.

But come on (fella's back me up)... she is like a 7 out of 10. One of those girls that you're attracted to but not the hottest girl at the bar and probably not even in the top 3. The first thing that attracted me to her was her personality... not her looks.

That being said... I'm probably a 6 out of 10 so I should shut up.

But, I like a certain "type" that she isn't. (athletic) Because I'm athletic...

I guess what I'm saying is she could stand to lose 15 pounds.





I just figured out why I'm single....


I'M AN ASSHOLE!!!

sheesh... what's wrong with me? :?

dude 15 pounds is nothing to get bent outta shape bout. so shes got some "baby fat". probably means shes got big boobs and bit of a ass. not like shes a real fat girl. if your that bent outta shape bout 15 pounds, you got problems.

dimitrispearljam

he still stands,nice sense of humor btw..

small town beck

he still stands wrote:

hey, I never claimed to not be shallow. I'm super shallow. If I were water you wouldn't even get your ankles wet.

But come on (fella's back me up)... she is like a 7 out of 10. One of those girls that you're attracted to but not the hottest girl at the bar and probably not even in the top 3. The first thing that attracted me to her was her personality... not her looks.

That being said... I'm probably a 6 out of 10 so I should shut up.

But, I like a certain "type" that she isn't. (athletic) Because I'm athletic...

I guess what I'm saying is she could stand to lose 15 pounds.





I just figured out why I'm single....


I'M AN ASSHOLE!!!

sheesh... what's wrong with me? :?

That could be it

Also I find if someone is awesome, their hotness factor goes up. If someone is a douchebag, their hotness factor goes down. If she were to read this...I am guessing your hotness factor would drop.

Remember she could be telling her friends about you now too

Suzi78

So if you're a 6 and she's a 7...she's the one dating down and you should be grateful

norm

he still stands wrote:

I'M AN ASSHOLE!!!

pretty much

Gary Carter

Suzi78 wrote:

So if you're a 6 and she's a 7...she's the one dating down and you should be grateful

he still stands

Suzi78 wrote:

So if you're a 6 and she's a 7...she's the one dating down and you should be grateful

yeah that's what I meant... I should just shut up because I'm not exactly an Abercrombie model. But I am a gym rat and a flat tummy is kinda important. I don't care about boobs or butt. Just healthy and trim

I know I know... I need to stop being an asshole.

I know what I need to do. One day at a time, maybe I'll stop being such a judgemental prick.

small town beck

Suzi78 wrote:

So if you're a 6 and she's a 7...she's the one dating down and you should be grateful

Indeed. I think she could do better.

Gary Carter

he still stands wrote:

Suzi78 wrote:

So if you're a 6 and she's a 7...she's the one dating down and you should be grateful

yeah that's what I meant... I should just shut up because I'm not exactly an Abercrombie model. But I am a gym rat and a flat tummy is kinda important. I don't care about boobs or butt. Just healthy and trim

I know I know... I need to stop being an asshole.

I know what I need to do. One day at a time, maybe I'll stop being such a judgemental prick.

you aren't a prick at all, you just need to stop looking for the "type" you like. if shes got a great personality and already put out after a few dates and doesn't mind you having a kid, i say see where it goes and all. maybe she'll lose that weight being that it's almost bikini season.

dimitrispearljam

Suzi78 wrote:

So if you're a 6 and she's a 7...she's the one dating down and you should be grateful

Suzi78

small town beck wrote:

Suzi78 wrote:

So if you're a 6 and she's a 7...she's the one dating down and you should be grateful

Indeed. I think she could do better.

:thumbup:

he still stands

You guys are kinda being assholes too, ya know. I'm just being honest about my emotions.

You CANNOT control your emotions, you can only manage them. That's what I'm trying to do here. Get advice about the situation so I can best manage my emotions... maybe I'll discover that my emotions are illegitimate.

This feeling is tantamount to feeling jealous about something but working on it as a self-actualized individual instead of letting it consume you.

That's all I'm doing... at least I'm honest and trying to work on something that I recognize as being an undesirable trait. :roll:

Suzi78

he still stands wrote:

Suzi78 wrote:

So if you're a 6 and she's a 7...she's the one dating down and you should be grateful

yeah that's what I meant... I should just shut up because I'm not exactly an Abercrombie model. But I am a gym rat and a flat tummy is kinda important. I don't care about boobs or butt. Just healthy and trim

I know I know... I need to stop being an asshole.

I know what I need to do. One day at a time, maybe I'll stop being such a judgemental prick.

Just give her a chance, and if you find yourself really liking her company and personality I'm sure you'll soon realize how ridiculous your thinking is/was. Seriously, I don't mean to be hard on you, but I used to think like that when I was much younger too. But then you kind of grow up...although it takes much longer for some people