I don't understand chicks...

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  • If you are interested in her don't stop contacting her, she may be interested in you too and has just come to expect you to contact her (not that its right, but she could be shy). If you all of a sudden stop she may not think that you are into her and move on!

    If she isn't ignoring you when you do message her, or trying to end the conversation quickly then I think you should just ask her, she may be waiting for it! Good luck :D
  • peacegirl
    peacegirl Posts: 841
    I'd say there's a good chance she's just shy & is waiting for you to ask - so just ask
  • guitar59
    guitar59 Posts: 1,221
    Heard about a Rent a Chick program today...maybe you just need more hands on experience

    http://www.vancouversun.com/life/Family ... story.html

    ;)
  • Gary Carter
    Gary Carter Posts: 14,077
    If you are interested in her don't stop contacting her, she may be interested in you too and has just come to expect you to contact her (not that its right, but she could be shy). If you all of a sudden stop she may not think that you are into her and move on!

    If she isn't ignoring you when you do message her, or trying to end the conversation quickly then I think you should just ask her, she may be waiting for it! Good luck :D
    or she could just see him as a facebook friend and just want's to be single and play the field
    Ron: I just don't feel like going out tonight
    Sammi: Wanna just break up?

  • metsfan wrote:
    If you are interested in her don't stop contacting her, she may be interested in you too and has just come to expect you to contact her (not that its right, but she could be shy). If you all of a sudden stop she may not think that you are into her and move on!

    If she isn't ignoring you when you do message her, or trying to end the conversation quickly then I think you should just ask her, she may be waiting for it! Good luck :D
    or she could just see him as a facebook friend and just want's to be single and play the field

    Quite possible. Either way, he won't know until he asks... ;)
  • Gary Carter
    Gary Carter Posts: 14,077

    Quite possible. Either way, he won't know until he asks... ;)
    yes agreed 100% but he should bring it up in mind convo and not flat out say it. might lose her as a facebook "friend" in the process. always good to have a woman as "friends" incase you run into problems with a girlfriend.
    Ron: I just don't feel like going out tonight
    Sammi: Wanna just break up?

  • Thoughts_Arrive
    Thoughts_Arrive Melbourne, Australia Posts: 15,165
    Thank you to all for your thoughts.
    I am thinking of not initiating for a week to see what happens and see if she initiates.
    I cannot see how many friends she had on FB, she has it set to private.
    As for asking her out, not sure I like doing that over the internet, I'd maybe ask for her number then call her and ask if she wants to go to the city or something casual.
    Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/2014
  • ShimmyMommy
    ShimmyMommy Posts: 7,505
    As for asking her out, not sure I like doing that over the internet, I'd maybe ask for her number then call her and ask if she wants to go to the city or something casual

    ^^THIS :thumbup:
    Lots of love, light and hugs to you all!
  • 81
    81 Needing a ride to Forest Hills and a ounce of weed. Please inquire within. Thanks. Or not. Posts: 58,276
    Thank you to all for your thoughts.
    I am thinking of not initiating for a week to see what happens and see if she initiates.
    I cannot see how many friends she had on FB, she has it set to private.
    As for asking her out, not sure I like doing that over the internet, I'd maybe ask for her number then call her and ask if she wants to go to the city or something casual.


    you did take my advice? right?
    81 is now off the air

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  • ShimmyMommy
    ShimmyMommy Posts: 7,505
    81 wrote:
    Thank you to all for your thoughts.
    I am thinking of not initiating for a week to see what happens and see if she initiates.
    I cannot see how many friends she had on FB, she has it set to private.
    As for asking her out, not sure I like doing that over the internet, I'd maybe ask for her number then call her and ask if she wants to go to the city or something casual.


    you did take my advice? right?

    :lol::lol: he watched the link I sent...so maybe :lol::lol:
    Lots of love, light and hugs to you all!
  • 81
    81 Needing a ride to Forest Hills and a ounce of weed. Please inquire within. Thanks. Or not. Posts: 58,276
    :lol::lol: he watched the link I sent...so maybe :lol::lol:


    :lol: very topical vid.
    81 is now off the air

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  • ShimmyMommy
    ShimmyMommy Posts: 7,505
    81 wrote:
    :lol::lol: he watched the link I sent...so maybe :lol::lol:


    :lol: very topical vid.

    if you started a thread on that...it would maintain thread integrity if I posted that there, correct? :lol:
    Lots of love, light and hugs to you all!
  • 12345AGNST1
    12345AGNST1 Posts: 4,906
    Thank you to all for your thoughts.
    I am thinking of not initiating for a week to see what happens and see if she initiates.
    I cannot see how many friends she had on FB, she has it set to private.
    As for asking her out, not sure I like doing that over the internet, I'd maybe ask for her number then call her and ask if she wants to go to the city or something casual.

    arent you friends with her? how could her friend count on FB be private? and even then, why does it matter how many freinds she has?
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  • LikeAnOcean
    LikeAnOcean Posts: 7,718
    Where's the "pee in her butt, chicks love it!" guy for advice when you need him? :lol:
  • Thoughts_Arrive
    Thoughts_Arrive Melbourne, Australia Posts: 15,165
    Thank you to all for your thoughts.
    I am thinking of not initiating for a week to see what happens and see if she initiates.
    I cannot see how many friends she had on FB, she has it set to private.
    As for asking her out, not sure I like doing that over the internet, I'd maybe ask for her number then call her and ask if she wants to go to the city or something casual.

    arent you friends with her? how could her friend count on FB be private? and even then, why does it matter how many freinds she has?

    Yes I have her a a FB friend, it is private because I cannot see it.
    The reason I mentioned it is because someone earlier asked if she is one of those people that just collects FB friends.
    Adelaide 17/11/2009, Melbourne 20/11/2009, Sydney 22/11/2009, Melbourne (Big Day Out Festival) 24/01/2014
  • pjfan31
    pjfan31 Posts: 7,335
    81 wrote:
    they key is to send her a penis picture. you have done this right???


    Yeh, but what if his camera doesn't have zoom?


    Sorry, I had too.... :)
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  • m0jorisen
    m0jorisen Posts: 516
    81 wrote:
    they key is to send her a penis picture. you have done this right???


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