Strip Clubs...what's the point?
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I used to love to try and get into strip clubs when I was 16 or 17, probably because of the rush of getting past the doorman and being a teenager. I've even gone with women friends as well. But now I just think it is a big waste of money to pay a cover charge, tip girls and in some cases, pay even more money for a private show.
Even in my early twenties while in college, I would rather go to a decent bar and try to meet a girl there. Now, I didn't get to see boobs right away every time, but the chase is more fun to me then just surrendering and paying for the opportunity to see naked women. Besides, how can you even fantasize about a stripper being in your bed when you know damn well they have diseases, addictions, issues or all of these.
I just don't get it. Are guys that would rather frequent strip clubs than meet real women insecure, lacking confidence, or dare I say it, ugly? Do they think that they couldn't get a girl with striking features at a bar or other establishment? Or is it just entertainment for the night to blow dome extra money?
I don't know. I would rather spend my money on other things... And I am a heterosexual man.
Thoughts?
Even in my early twenties while in college, I would rather go to a decent bar and try to meet a girl there. Now, I didn't get to see boobs right away every time, but the chase is more fun to me then just surrendering and paying for the opportunity to see naked women. Besides, how can you even fantasize about a stripper being in your bed when you know damn well they have diseases, addictions, issues or all of these.
I just don't get it. Are guys that would rather frequent strip clubs than meet real women insecure, lacking confidence, or dare I say it, ugly? Do they think that they couldn't get a girl with striking features at a bar or other establishment? Or is it just entertainment for the night to blow dome extra money?
I don't know. I would rather spend my money on other things... And I am a heterosexual man.
Thoughts?
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In fact I don't know if there are any near where I live. Which probably explains why hubby hasn't either.
I guess I don't really qualify to say what the point is.
I'll leave now.
it was cool once or twice when you turn 18, or maybe you are drunk and 21 and need a not so cheap thrill...
but once in a blue moon, its fun to have a woman in a g-string shake her boobs in your face
some are
some are just girls trying to make ends meet.
He was pissed
Strip clubs are pretty pointless if you get tang on a regular basis.
"She was working in a topless place and I stopped in for a beer."
Suuuure, Bob....you just stopped in for a $10 beer! :roll:
Also, I don't get the comment about the girls being dirty and diseased. That seems to just play into stereotypes a little too much.
translation: VIP member at Ms Kittys Exotic Dance Bar and Muffin Shop
the massage was the best part, she would stradle you, put your face on her boobs and massage your neck and shoulders.
I havent been to one in over 10 years, probably never will again.
But what I dont understand is a few friends who are in their 30's (more like aquaintences) who frequent these places. I think its a weird addiciton that I cant understand. I have a friend who is married and his wife says she doesnt care, but he goes to strip clubs almost every weekend. So weird, but I think some people have more of a voyeur fetish or something. Or maybe they want to be disconnected from sex, ie not have to talk to women, or maybe they're afraid of opening up to women and making a connection in a more traditional setting.
Although there is this strip club around where I grew up that used to have a $10 cover charge and once you got in it was all you can drink bottles of beer. You'd just have to tip the waitress every time she brought another round. It was a pretty nice deal if you could control yourself and not buy any lap dances. I think the place still has the same deal, but its a $10 cover and now $1.50 bottles which is still a nice deal.
I retired from strip clubs a long time ago and dont enjoy them really. I get tired of constantly turning down a stripper's invite to shakedown street.
The fact that this is written so nonchalantly made me laugh really hard
- Christopher McCandless
Especially with Def Leppard coming in Sept. You may find a nice girl there wearing some 80's getup..
and at times pretty trashy.
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Sammi: Wanna just break up?
Those thongs are uncomfortable...
Sammi: Wanna just break up?
sounds like a real classy joint
where is this?
although i do love places that charge by the hour
you just flushed your slim dating thread chances down the drain
:wave:
Sammi: Wanna just break up?
like this girl?
- Christopher McCandless
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