This only seems foolish to people because they think an interest in talking about sports is kinda trivial and not a really deep connection to have with someone.
If it was your main interest in life, maybe it wouldn't seem so strange though, right?
However, if it's bigger than that, sometimes having a common obsession IS a way that people connect.
I don't think that is bad either.... its stringing along the SO, looking/waiting for something better to come along. That shit just ain't cool yo.
This only seems foolish to people because they think an interest in talking about sports is kinda trivial and not a really deep connection to have with someone.
If it was your main interest in life, maybe it wouldn't seem so strange though, right?
However, if it's bigger than that, sometimes having a common obsession IS a way that people connect.
I don't think that is bad either.... its stringing along the SO, looking/waiting for something better to come along. That shit just ain't cool yo.
Notice the face I just used.
Yeah, see, I pay attention, because your interests are important to me.
This only seems foolish to people because they think an interest in talking about sports is kinda trivial and not a really deep connection to have with someone.
If it was your main interest in life, maybe it wouldn't seem so strange though, right?
However, if it's bigger than that, sometimes having a common obsession IS a way that people connect.
I don't think that is bad either.... its stringing along the SO, looking/waiting for something better to come along. That shit just ain't cool yo.
Notice the face I just used.
Yeah, see, I pay attention, because your interests are important to me.
Do you think maybe we should take this to the next step?
This only seems foolish to people because they think an interest in talking about sports is kinda trivial and not a really deep connection to have with someone.
If it was your main interest in life, maybe it wouldn't seem so strange though, right?
However, if it's bigger than that, sometimes having a common obsession IS a way that people connect.
I don't think that is bad either.... its stringing along the SO, looking/waiting for something better to come along. That shit just ain't cool yo.
I agree.
I just think no one can know how important this is to him except him. It's not like they're married with kids...
Dude.. I don't know how old you are, but wether you get with this new girl or not, you should probably break it off with your current girlfriend and stop wasting her time. You obviously aren't that into her. I love sports too, but sports isn't everything.
And then good luck with the new girl. Hope it works out!
^^^ This
Strange...I would never drop my husband if I met a guy who was just as passionate about shoes as I :think: :problem:
Well then, I guess I have zero chance.
Nope...but hit me up the next time you have the urge for some shoe shopping. We can grab some appletinis afterwards :thumbup:
"I need your strength for me to be strong...I need your love to feel loved"
you probably aren't in love with her,
you'll just be infatuated with her because she likes sports and you got on so well
you're right. in not in love with her. it is just an infatuation. its more of a nice idea i guess.
and the people who say its dumb to like a sport that much. well......... how would you feel if pearl jam was playing 10mins from your house and you couldn't go because your girlfriend or boyfriend wanted to go do something instead? I bet that would go over great with you. :roll:
its the same thing. its what you like. i happen to like football.
and i think this goes back to just not understanding. i think that is the problem that i have with these women. they don't get why i care so much about this game. i couldn't even give you an answer either. people have asked me before why i care so much and i could never really give a straight answer. maybe its because it has always been a part of my life. i don't know.
i don't feel like i have a problem. you just don't get it.
my girlfriend is pretty good about it. but she's only been with me through one football season.
I love the color green- everything about the color green and any color involving the color green. I love talking about the color green, love the green grass and the green leaves. I love green money and green eyes. I love green socks and green cars...
But my boyfriend loved the color red.
I once met a guy that loved the color green as much as me.....
Its pretty much just as absurd, right?
I'm just like this about the color green but do I need for my fiance to love or like the color green? Hell No.
Peace
*We CAN bomb the World to pieces, but we CAN'T bomb it into PEACE*...Michael Franti
*MUSIC IS the expression of EMOTION.....and that POLITICS IS merely the DECOY of PERCEPTION*
.....song_Music & Politics....Michael Franti
*The scientists of today think deeply instead of clearly. One must be sane to think clearly, but one can think deeply and be quite INSANE*....Nikola Tesla(a man who shaped our world of electricity with his futuristic inventions)
why are you people jumping down the OP's throat about his passion? priorities are priorities for a relationship, who the hell are you people to judge?
thing is, OP, is that one person is right. if you thinking about "testing the waters" to see if this girl is interested, and just going back to the current girlfriend if football girl doesn't bite, it's not really that fair to current girl.
it's kind of like emotional cheating. I guess it all depends how old you are, as I did this exact same thing in my teens. I had a girlfriend for 6 months. I went to my buddy's cottage, met this girl and cheated on my g/f with her. Got back to the city and dumped my g/f for new girl. New girl, I found out later, had a boyfriend. I ended up with nobody.
However, 8 years later, new girl and that guy (the singer of my band!) broke up, a year after that new girl and I started dating, and now we're married with two kids. And ocassionally we actually hang out with cheated-on girl and her husband, who she started dating a week after I dumped her!
So go for it if you're willing to wait a decade for football girl.
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Fargo 2003
Winnipeg 2005
Winnipeg 2011
St. Paul 2014
I think you should break up with your girlfriend regardless. If you guys are not friends, then your relationship has no chance. My husband and I are best friends and that is what makes our relationship so great. If you like her friend, feel free to pursue her after you have ended things with your girlfriend. However, the thing with her friend is not a sure thing, but if y'all do have stuff in common, it may work out. Although, contrary to popular belief by some, being single for a while never killed anyone. You owe it to yourself and your girlfriend to end your relationship.
i'm a huge football fan. i live and die for the dallas cowboys. my whole life is structured around football. this has always caused problems in my reltionships with women because they feel like they are always second (which they are ).
everyone always told me that i would never be able to find a girl who likes sports as much as me. i gave up on that awhile ago..until a week ago.
the girlfriend and i went to one of her friends birthday dinner. i've been told about this girl a little bit before. i briefly met her a couple times. but i was too wasted to remember. i really didn't want to go that night because my girlfriends friends are a little lame. the guys in the group are a little to fruity for my taste. so there isn't much to talk about. but she said "oh don't worry, the birthday girl loves sports. you will like talking to her".
oh did i.
i'll tell you that i can be an asshole towards alot of people and talking about sports. i can't stand people who claim they like football, hockey, baseball, basketball... any sport really, and then you get into a convo with them and they have no idea at all about that sport. you can usually tell within the first couple mins if they know what they are talking about. after that i don't want to talk to you about sports because you will probably say some ignorant comment about my team and i can only hold my tounge for so long.
i figured this would be the case with this girl.
not at all.
my mind was blown.
i sat across from her that night and we talked for a long time. i felt like i was on a first date with this girl. our eyes locked and we were having these crazy sports discussions. all of this going on with my girlfriend beside me. i could tell that my girlfriend was feeling a little jealous that i was having this crazy connection with this girl. she even made a comment afterwards that she has been avoiding us to me like that because she knew i would like this girl to much.
i've been wanting to message this girl on facebook so bad. i know its not a good idea. i'm not one to cheat or do anything behind anyones back. but its so weird this feeling that i've had for the past week.
the girlfriend and her aren't great friends. in fact they didn't talk for years and only started talking again recently because of common friends. i don't even know if this could be pulled off if i wanted to talk to her. i would feel pretty stupid if i fucked things up with the girlfriend and things went no where with the sports girl.
i feel like i'm living in a seinfeld episode.
should this be something i should even be considering?
bad idea or what? :?
Throughout your whole life people will enter and you will connect.
Often of the opposite sex when you are already spoken for.
A lot of 'what ifs' happen in a lifetime.
If you really love your current girlfriend, feel there is a future together,
then chalk it up to an enjoyable random meeting with the sports fan you were attracted to momentarily.
If you and your girlfriend have no future, you are quite sure she is not the one,
let her go she deserves this and pursue your new found friend.
Only your heart knows if it is an opportunity that should go un-missed
or if it was a just a 'what if' situation.
Know your heart, follow it and tread lightly on others.
was your girlfriends friends name TONY ROMO ? lol
most cowboys fans are so deep in the closet they can find christmas presents
sorry all love PEARL JAM HATE THE COWBOYS and or anything to do with them
Whatever. I guess that explains Stone wearing his Cowboys hat all through the early 90s. there are several pics with him and that blue star on his hat. God love him!
why are you people jumping down the OP's throat about his passion? priorities are priorities for a relationship, who the hell are you people to judge?
thing is, OP, is that one person is right. if you thinking about "testing the waters" to see if this girl is interested, and just going back to the current girlfriend if football girl doesn't bite, it's not really that fair to current girl.
it's kind of like emotional cheating. I guess it all depends how old you are, as I did this exact same thing in my teens. I had a girlfriend for 6 months. I went to my buddy's cottage, met this girl and cheated on my g/f with her. Got back to the city and dumped my g/f for new girl. New girl, I found out later, had a boyfriend. I ended up with nobody.
However, 8 years later, new girl and that guy (the singer of my band!) broke up, a year after that new girl and I started dating, and now we're married with two kids. And ocassionally we actually hang out with cheated-on girl and her husband, who she started dating a week after I dumped her!
So go for it if you're willing to wait a decade for football girl.
PD....*Nice story tell it to Reader's Digest*.....Dave Mustaine
Peace
*We CAN bomb the World to pieces, but we CAN'T bomb it into PEACE*...Michael Franti
*MUSIC IS the expression of EMOTION.....and that POLITICS IS merely the DECOY of PERCEPTION*
.....song_Music & Politics....Michael Franti
*The scientists of today think deeply instead of clearly. One must be sane to think clearly, but one can think deeply and be quite INSANE*....Nikola Tesla(a man who shaped our world of electricity with his futuristic inventions)
i'm a huge football fan. i live and die for the dallas cowboys. my whole life is structured around football. this has always caused problems in my reltionships with women because they feel like they are always second (which they are ).
everyone always told me that i would never be able to find a girl who likes sports as much as me. i gave up on that awhile ago..until a week ago.
the girlfriend and i went to one of her friends birthday dinner. i've been told about this girl a little bit before. i briefly met her a couple times. but i was too wasted to remember. i really didn't want to go that night because my girlfriends friends are a little lame. the guys in the group are a little to fruity for my taste. so there isn't much to talk about. but she said "oh don't worry, the birthday girl loves sports. you will like talking to her".
oh did i.
i'll tell you that i can be an asshole towards alot of people and talking about sports. i can't stand people who claim they like football, hockey, baseball, basketball... any sport really, and then you get into a convo with them and they have no idea at all about that sport. you can usually tell within the first couple mins if they know what they are talking about. after that i don't want to talk to you about sports because you will probably say some ignorant comment about my team and i can only hold my tounge for so long.
i figured this would be the case with this girl.
not at all.
my mind was blown.
i sat across from her that night and we talked for a long time. i felt like i was on a first date with this girl. our eyes locked and we were having these crazy sports discussions. all of this going on with my girlfriend beside me. i could tell that my girlfriend was feeling a little jealous that i was having this crazy connection with this girl. she even made a comment afterwards that she has been avoiding us to me like that because she knew i would like this girl to much.
i've been wanting to message this girl on facebook so bad. i know its not a good idea. i'm not one to cheat or do anything behind anyones back. but its so weird this feeling that i've had for the past week.
the girlfriend and her aren't great friends. in fact they didn't talk for years and only started talking again recently because of common friends. i don't even know if this could be pulled off if i wanted to talk to her. i would feel pretty stupid if i fucked things up with the girlfriend and things went no where with the sports girl.
i feel like i'm living in a seinfeld episode.
should this be something i should even be considering?
bad idea or what? :?
Forget ALL the other stuff..sports etc what you NEED to do is give her the test, THE DOOR TEST give it a look.
I did this exact test with my fiance on our first date years ago. I insisted on my client's old Buick which had one of those locks that you could pull up. My door was locked, I escorted her to the car opened the door, she got in I closed the door and BEFORE I could get to the back window to look in she had already opened my door enthusiastically I KNEW then she was the one. Give it a shot, she doesn't open that door....dump her.
Peace
*We CAN bomb the World to pieces, but we CAN'T bomb it into PEACE*...Michael Franti
*MUSIC IS the expression of EMOTION.....and that POLITICS IS merely the DECOY of PERCEPTION*
.....song_Music & Politics....Michael Franti
*The scientists of today think deeply instead of clearly. One must be sane to think clearly, but one can think deeply and be quite INSANE*....Nikola Tesla(a man who shaped our world of electricity with his futuristic inventions)
i'm a huge football fan. i live and die for the dallas cowboys. my whole life is structured around football. this has always caused problems in my reltionships with women because they feel like they are always second (which they are ).
everyone always told me that i would never be able to find a girl who likes sports as much as me. i gave up on that awhile ago..until a week ago.
the girlfriend and i went to one of her friends birthday dinner. i've been told about this girl a little bit before. i briefly met her a couple times. but i was too wasted to remember. i really didn't want to go that night because my girlfriends friends are a little lame. the guys in the group are a little to fruity for my taste. so there isn't much to talk about. but she said "oh don't worry, the birthday girl loves sports. you will like talking to her".
oh did i.
i'll tell you that i can be an asshole towards alot of people and talking about sports. i can't stand people who claim they like football, hockey, baseball, basketball... any sport really, and then you get into a convo with them and they have no idea at all about that sport. you can usually tell within the first couple mins if they know what they are talking about. after that i don't want to talk to you about sports because you will probably say some ignorant comment about my team and i can only hold my tounge for so long.
i figured this would be the case with this girl.
not at all.
my mind was blown.
i sat across from her that night and we talked for a long time. i felt like i was on a first date with this girl. our eyes locked and we were having these crazy sports discussions. all of this going on with my girlfriend beside me. i could tell that my girlfriend was feeling a little jealous that i was having this crazy connection with this girl. she even made a comment afterwards that she has been avoiding us to me like that because she knew i would like this girl to much.
i've been wanting to message this girl on facebook so bad. i know its not a good idea. i'm not one to cheat or do anything behind anyones back. but its so weird this feeling that i've had for the past week.
the girlfriend and her aren't great friends. in fact they didn't talk for years and only started talking again recently because of common friends. i don't even know if this could be pulled off if i wanted to talk to her. i would feel pretty stupid if i fucked things up with the girlfriend and things went no where with the sports girl.
i feel like i'm living in a seinfeld episode.
should this be something i should even be considering?
bad idea or what? :?
Forget ALL the other stuff..sports etc what you NEED to do is give her the test, THE DOOR TEST give it a look.
I did this exact test with my fiance on our first date years ago. I insisted on my client's old Buick which had one of those locks that you could pull up. My door was locked, I escorted her to the car opened the door, she got in I closed the door and BEFORE I could get to the back window to look in she had already opened my door enthusiastically I KNEW then she was the one. Give it a shot, she doesn't open that door....dump her.
i'm a huge football fan. i live and die for the dallas cowboys. my whole life is structured around football. this has always caused problems in my reltionships with women because they feel like they are always second (which they are ).
everyone always told me that i would never be able to find a girl who likes sports as much as me. i gave up on that awhile ago..until a week ago.
the girlfriend and i went to one of her friends birthday dinner. i've been told about this girl a little bit before. i briefly met her a couple times. but i was too wasted to remember. i really didn't want to go that night because my girlfriends friends are a little lame. the guys in the group are a little to fruity for my taste. so there isn't much to talk about. but she said "oh don't worry, the birthday girl loves sports. you will like talking to her".
oh did i.
i'll tell you that i can be an asshole towards alot of people and talking about sports. i can't stand people who claim they like football, hockey, baseball, basketball... any sport really, and then you get into a convo with them and they have no idea at all about that sport. you can usually tell within the first couple mins if they know what they are talking about. after that i don't want to talk to you about sports because you will probably say some ignorant comment about my team and i can only hold my tounge for so long.
i figured this would be the case with this girl.
not at all.
my mind was blown.
i sat across from her that night and we talked for a long time. i felt like i was on a first date with this girl. our eyes locked and we were having these crazy sports discussions. all of this going on with my girlfriend beside me. i could tell that my girlfriend was feeling a little jealous that i was having this crazy connection with this girl. she even made a comment afterwards that she has been avoiding us to me like that because she knew i would like this girl to much.
i've been wanting to message this girl on facebook so bad. i know its not a good idea. i'm not one to cheat or do anything behind anyones back. but its so weird this feeling that i've had for the past week.
the girlfriend and her aren't great friends. in fact they didn't talk for years and only started talking again recently because of common friends. i don't even know if this could be pulled off if i wanted to talk to her. i would feel pretty stupid if i fucked things up with the girlfriend and things went no where with the sports girl.
i feel like i'm living in a seinfeld episode.
should this be something i should even be considering?
bad idea or what? :?
Forget ALL the other stuff..sports etc what you NEED to do is give her the test, THE DOOR TEST give it a look.
I did this exact test with my fiance on our first date years ago. I insisted on my client's old Buick which had one of those locks that you could pull up. My door was locked, I escorted her to the car opened the door, she got in I closed the door and BEFORE I could get to the back window to look in she had already opened my door enthusiastically I KNEW then she was the one. Give it a shot, she doesn't open that door....dump her.
Peace
haha, Awesome G.. I have done that too!
J....You should have seen my face I must have jumped 3 feet with excitement. I took her to the Kravis Center in Palm Beach to see Julio Iglesias the day before Valentine's Day 4 rows back isle seats man. We had the best time.
Peace
*We CAN bomb the World to pieces, but we CAN'T bomb it into PEACE*...Michael Franti
*MUSIC IS the expression of EMOTION.....and that POLITICS IS merely the DECOY of PERCEPTION*
.....song_Music & Politics....Michael Franti
*The scientists of today think deeply instead of clearly. One must be sane to think clearly, but one can think deeply and be quite INSANE*....Nikola Tesla(a man who shaped our world of electricity with his futuristic inventions)
As a few others have said, sports passion aside, don't lead your current girlfriend on if you have no intention of really loving/being in love with her. If you're just keeping her next to you because she's nice to have at the current moment, it's not fair to her. Truthfully, from solely reading your post, it doesn't seem like you're very into her at this point in your life.
As for the facebook thing, this is NEVER a good way to go about pursuing someone. (Plus, your g/f will have written evidence of your sneaky unfaithfulness from her -not your- friend).
You're young. Do what you want, do what makes you happy. Take chances. Love the things you are passionate about. But try not to hurt others in the process.
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'11 Detroit (Eddie solo), Toronto 1 and 2, Ottawa, Hamilton
'13 London, Pittsburgh, Buffalo
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J....You should have seen my face I must have jumped 3 feet with excitement. I took her to the Kravis Center in Palm Beach to see Julio Iglesias the day before Valentine's Day 4 rows back isle seats man. We had the best time.
Peace
Awesome!
And I have to agree with everyone else in here, you've obviously been with your current g/f for awhile, and if you're not in love with her, you better start thinking about whether or not that is healthy. Its not fair to her.
Also, what Pandora says makes sense, you will have many temptations in life. There are amazing people all over the world. Just make sure your bond with the one you are with is most important. But you seem young.. have some fun man.
why are you people jumping down the OP's throat about his passion? priorities are priorities for a relationship, who the hell are you people to judge?
thing is, OP, is that one person is right. if you thinking about "testing the waters" to see if this girl is interested, and just going back to the current girlfriend if football girl doesn't bite, it's not really that fair to current girl.
it's kind of like emotional cheating. I guess it all depends how old you are, as I did this exact same thing in my teens. I had a girlfriend for 6 months. I went to my buddy's cottage, met this girl and cheated on my g/f with her. Got back to the city and dumped my g/f for new girl. New girl, I found out later, had a boyfriend. I ended up with nobody.
However, 8 years later, new girl and that guy (the singer of my band!) broke up, a year after that new girl and I started dating, and now we're married with two kids. And ocassionally we actually hang out with cheated-on girl and her husband, who she started dating a week after I dumped her!
So go for it if you're willing to wait a decade for football girl.
PD....*Nice story tell it to Reader's Digest*.....Dave Mustaine
Peace
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Gimli 1993
Fargo 2003
Winnipeg 2005
Winnipeg 2011
St. Paul 2014
why are you people jumping down the OP's throat about his passion? priorities are priorities for a relationship, who the hell are you people to judge?
thing is, OP, is that one person is right. if you thinking about "testing the waters" to see if this girl is interested, and just going back to the current girlfriend if football girl doesn't bite, it's not really that fair to current girl.
it's kind of like emotional cheating. I guess it all depends how old you are, as I did this exact same thing in my teens. I had a girlfriend for 6 months. I went to my buddy's cottage, met this girl and cheated on my g/f with her. Got back to the city and dumped my g/f for new girl. New girl, I found out later, had a boyfriend. I ended up with nobody.
However, 8 years later, new girl and that guy (the singer of my band!) broke up, a year after that new girl and I started dating, and now we're married with two kids. And ocassionally we actually hang out with cheated-on girl and her husband, who she started dating a week after I dumped her!
So go for it if you're willing to wait a decade for football girl.
PD....*Nice story tell it to Reader's Digest*.....Dave Mustaine
Peace
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Hey PD I'm not saying that in anyway negative...it's really meant to be a joke and if not taken that way please forgive me I apologise. In fact I loved your story it's quite amusing.
Peace
*We CAN bomb the World to pieces, but we CAN'T bomb it into PEACE*...Michael Franti
*MUSIC IS the expression of EMOTION.....and that POLITICS IS merely the DECOY of PERCEPTION*
.....song_Music & Politics....Michael Franti
*The scientists of today think deeply instead of clearly. One must be sane to think clearly, but one can think deeply and be quite INSANE*....Nikola Tesla(a man who shaped our world of electricity with his futuristic inventions)
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Notice the face I just used.
Yeah, see, I pay attention, because your interests are important to me.
Do you think maybe we should take this to the next step?
I agree.
I just think no one can know how important this is to him except him. It's not like they're married with kids...
Thought you'd never ask.
I think I'll start a thread about it asking for everyone's advice.
"I fell in love with a girl after finding out we both like the color green."
"I need your strength for me to be strong...I need your love to feel loved"
Have I just been friend laddered?
Nobody friend ladders Johnny A.
"I need your strength for me to be strong...I need your love to feel loved"
you're right. in not in love with her. it is just an infatuation. its more of a nice idea i guess.
and the people who say its dumb to like a sport that much. well......... how would you feel if pearl jam was playing 10mins from your house and you couldn't go because your girlfriend or boyfriend wanted to go do something instead? I bet that would go over great with you. :roll:
its the same thing. its what you like. i happen to like football.
and i think this goes back to just not understanding. i think that is the problem that i have with these women. they don't get why i care so much about this game. i couldn't even give you an answer either. people have asked me before why i care so much and i could never really give a straight answer. maybe its because it has always been a part of my life. i don't know.
i don't feel like i have a problem. you just don't get it.
my girlfriend is pretty good about it. but she's only been with me through one football season.
I'm just like this about the color green but do I need for my fiance to love or like the color green? Hell No.
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*MUSIC IS the expression of EMOTION.....and that POLITICS IS merely the DECOY of PERCEPTION*
.....song_Music & Politics....Michael Franti
*The scientists of today think deeply instead of clearly. One must be sane to think clearly, but one can think deeply and be quite INSANE*....Nikola Tesla(a man who shaped our world of electricity with his futuristic inventions)
thing is, OP, is that one person is right. if you thinking about "testing the waters" to see if this girl is interested, and just going back to the current girlfriend if football girl doesn't bite, it's not really that fair to current girl.
it's kind of like emotional cheating. I guess it all depends how old you are, as I did this exact same thing in my teens. I had a girlfriend for 6 months. I went to my buddy's cottage, met this girl and cheated on my g/f with her. Got back to the city and dumped my g/f for new girl. New girl, I found out later, had a boyfriend. I ended up with nobody.
However, 8 years later, new girl and that guy (the singer of my band!) broke up, a year after that new girl and I started dating, and now we're married with two kids. And ocassionally we actually hang out with cheated-on girl and her husband, who she started dating a week after I dumped her!
So go for it if you're willing to wait a decade for football girl.
Fargo 2003
Winnipeg 2005
Winnipeg 2011
St. Paul 2014
fade away...
I am at peace with my lust.....for Eddie.
Often of the opposite sex when you are already spoken for.
A lot of 'what ifs' happen in a lifetime.
If you really love your current girlfriend, feel there is a future together,
then chalk it up to an enjoyable random meeting with the sports fan you were attracted to momentarily.
If you and your girlfriend have no future, you are quite sure she is not the one,
let her go she deserves this and pursue your new found friend.
Only your heart knows if it is an opportunity that should go un-missed
or if it was a just a 'what if' situation.
Know your heart, follow it and tread lightly on others.
Whatever. I guess that explains Stone wearing his Cowboys hat all through the early 90s. there are several pics with him and that blue star on his hat. God love him!
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MTL-9/15/05, OTT-9/16/05
PHL-5/27/06,5/28/06,10/30/09,10/31/09
CHI-8/2/07,8/5/07,8/23/09,8/24/09
HTFD-6/27/08
ATX-10/4/09, 10/12/14
KC-5/3/2010,STL-5/4/2010
Bridge School-10/23/2010,10/24/2010
PJ20-9/3/2011,9/4/2011
OKC-11/16/13
SEA-12/6/13
TUL-10/8/14
PD....*Nice story tell it to Reader's Digest*.....Dave Mustaine
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*MUSIC IS the expression of EMOTION.....and that POLITICS IS merely the DECOY of PERCEPTION*
.....song_Music & Politics....Michael Franti
*The scientists of today think deeply instead of clearly. One must be sane to think clearly, but one can think deeply and be quite INSANE*....Nikola Tesla(a man who shaped our world of electricity with his futuristic inventions)
Forget ALL the other stuff..sports etc what you NEED to do is give her the test, THE DOOR TEST give it a look.
I did this exact test with my fiance on our first date years ago. I insisted on my client's old Buick which had one of those locks that you could pull up. My door was locked, I escorted her to the car opened the door, she got in I closed the door and BEFORE I could get to the back window to look in she had already opened my door enthusiastically I KNEW then she was the one. Give it a shot, she doesn't open that door....dump her.
Peace
*MUSIC IS the expression of EMOTION.....and that POLITICS IS merely the DECOY of PERCEPTION*
.....song_Music & Politics....Michael Franti
*The scientists of today think deeply instead of clearly. One must be sane to think clearly, but one can think deeply and be quite INSANE*....Nikola Tesla(a man who shaped our world of electricity with his futuristic inventions)
haha, Awesome G.. I have done that too!
J....You should have seen my face I must have jumped 3 feet with excitement. I took her to the Kravis Center in Palm Beach to see Julio Iglesias the day before Valentine's Day 4 rows back isle seats man. We had the best time.
Peace
*MUSIC IS the expression of EMOTION.....and that POLITICS IS merely the DECOY of PERCEPTION*
.....song_Music & Politics....Michael Franti
*The scientists of today think deeply instead of clearly. One must be sane to think clearly, but one can think deeply and be quite INSANE*....Nikola Tesla(a man who shaped our world of electricity with his futuristic inventions)
As for the facebook thing, this is NEVER a good way to go about pursuing someone. (Plus, your g/f will have written evidence of your sneaky unfaithfulness from her -not your- friend).
You're young. Do what you want, do what makes you happy. Take chances. Love the things you are passionate about. But try not to hurt others in the process.
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Awesome!
And I have to agree with everyone else in here, you've obviously been with your current g/f for awhile, and if you're not in love with her, you better start thinking about whether or not that is healthy. Its not fair to her.
Also, what Pandora says makes sense, you will have many temptations in life. There are amazing people all over the world. Just make sure your bond with the one you are with is most important. But you seem young.. have some fun man.
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Sammi: Wanna just break up?
but don't worry about the rest of the cowpokes since they couldn't stop a fiat with a train
Hey PD I'm not saying that in anyway negative...it's really meant to be a joke and if not taken that way please forgive me I apologise. In fact I loved your story it's quite amusing.
Peace
*MUSIC IS the expression of EMOTION.....and that POLITICS IS merely the DECOY of PERCEPTION*
.....song_Music & Politics....Michael Franti
*The scientists of today think deeply instead of clearly. One must be sane to think clearly, but one can think deeply and be quite INSANE*....Nikola Tesla(a man who shaped our world of electricity with his futuristic inventions)