i think i fell in love with my girlfriends friend....
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i'm a huge football fan. i live and die for the dallas cowboys. my whole life is structured around football. this has always caused problems in my reltionships with women because they feel like they are always second (which they are 
).
everyone always told me that i would never be able to find a girl who likes sports as much as me. i gave up on that awhile ago..until a week ago.
the girlfriend and i went to one of her friends birthday dinner. i've been told about this girl a little bit before. i briefly met her a couple times. but i was too wasted to remember. i really didn't want to go that night because my girlfriends friends are a little lame. the guys in the group are a little to fruity for my taste. so there isn't much to talk about. but she said "oh don't worry, the birthday girl loves sports. you will like talking to her".
oh did i.
i'll tell you that i can be an asshole towards alot of people and talking about sports. i can't stand people who claim they like football, hockey, baseball, basketball... any sport really, and then you get into a convo with them and they have no idea at all about that sport. you can usually tell within the first couple mins if they know what they are talking about. after that i don't want to talk to you about sports because you will probably say some ignorant comment about my team and i can only hold my tounge for so long.
i figured this would be the case with this girl.
not at all.
my mind was blown.
i sat across from her that night and we talked for a long time. i felt like i was on a first date with this girl. our eyes locked and we were having these crazy sports discussions. all of this going on with my girlfriend beside me. i could tell that my girlfriend was feeling a little jealous that i was having this crazy connection with this girl. she even made a comment afterwards that she has been avoiding us to me like that because she knew i would like this girl to much.
i've been wanting to message this girl on facebook so bad. i know its not a good idea. i'm not one to cheat or do anything behind anyones back. but its so weird this feeling that i've had for the past week.
the girlfriend and her aren't great friends. in fact they didn't talk for years and only started talking again recently because of common friends. i don't even know if this could be pulled off if i wanted to talk to her. i would feel pretty stupid if i fucked things up with the girlfriend and things went no where with the sports girl.
i feel like i'm living in a seinfeld episode.
should this be something i should even be considering?
bad idea or what? :?
).everyone always told me that i would never be able to find a girl who likes sports as much as me. i gave up on that awhile ago..until a week ago.
the girlfriend and i went to one of her friends birthday dinner. i've been told about this girl a little bit before. i briefly met her a couple times. but i was too wasted to remember. i really didn't want to go that night because my girlfriends friends are a little lame. the guys in the group are a little to fruity for my taste. so there isn't much to talk about. but she said "oh don't worry, the birthday girl loves sports. you will like talking to her".
oh did i.
i'll tell you that i can be an asshole towards alot of people and talking about sports. i can't stand people who claim they like football, hockey, baseball, basketball... any sport really, and then you get into a convo with them and they have no idea at all about that sport. you can usually tell within the first couple mins if they know what they are talking about. after that i don't want to talk to you about sports because you will probably say some ignorant comment about my team and i can only hold my tounge for so long.
i figured this would be the case with this girl.
not at all.
my mind was blown.
i sat across from her that night and we talked for a long time. i felt like i was on a first date with this girl. our eyes locked and we were having these crazy sports discussions. all of this going on with my girlfriend beside me. i could tell that my girlfriend was feeling a little jealous that i was having this crazy connection with this girl. she even made a comment afterwards that she has been avoiding us to me like that because she knew i would like this girl to much.
i've been wanting to message this girl on facebook so bad. i know its not a good idea. i'm not one to cheat or do anything behind anyones back. but its so weird this feeling that i've had for the past week.
the girlfriend and her aren't great friends. in fact they didn't talk for years and only started talking again recently because of common friends. i don't even know if this could be pulled off if i wanted to talk to her. i would feel pretty stupid if i fucked things up with the girlfriend and things went no where with the sports girl.
i feel like i'm living in a seinfeld episode.
should this be something i should even be considering?
bad idea or what? :?
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Peace.
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And then good luck with the new girl. Hope it works out!
This
you'll just be infatuated with her because she likes sports and you got on so well
you need to think about your relationship first, how much does your girlfriend mean to you and how true is the relationship.
i don't think you should message her on facebook, especially if your girlfriend and her only just became friends. it could lead to things that will ruin a relationship
sometimes things like this happen, where you meet someone who you get on with so well that you become infatuated with them and start to think there might be feelings or something. but it will pass, these feelings will pass
besides it's only been a week, you met her once - you can't really be in love with her can you?
don't beat yourself up about this, you seem to know that it's a bad idea to message her on facebook
and
sports isn't everything
if it was pj however....
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These players should be fucking ashamed of themselves, comparing playing in the NFL to slavery. I'm looking at you, #28.
In fact, I got into a heated argument last night with a friend of a friend while watching the UFC pay per view over this. His argument was that Police and Firefighters are paid too much and have benefits and pensions that they don't deserve. However, he feels that NFL players and professional athletes in general are "underpaid" because they "put their bodies on the line for the entertainment of others."
Okay, well, next time an NFL player crawls on his hands and knees, in a room where it's 800 degrees 3 feet off the ground, searching for a missing child, and the ceiling falls on his fucking head, maybe he can attest that my job is a little bit tougher than his.
I think it's ridiculous that professional sports teams mean so much to people that they're willing to alienate friends and family, at times, over disagreements. Just like politics and religion, they're really more for entertainment. That's the point I'm getting at.
If you're willing to drop your girl over a conversation with her friend about a sports team, you'd better hope that this new broad is compatible with you in some other areas. This whole thing sounds a little too childish.
To do anything else is immature but by your "issue" with sport I'd suspect you may be young as if you are you will learn that it's not everything and if you are going to base your compatibality with partners based on their knowledge and love of sport to match yours you may be destined for a lonely life ... but I guess you will have your sport :roll:
If you end up getting this sport girl,good luck.
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If a girl called a guy "the boyfriend," I doubt anyone would be up in arms about her objectifying him.
Just sayin', the dude's got bigger issues than looking at this chick as an object. I think the TS needs a wake-up call, to learn what life is really about. Anyone who bases so much off of a fucking group of rich thugs and glorified HS gym teachers might not have a proper grasp of what truly matters.
i agree with this
most cowboys fans are so deep in the closet they can find christmas presents
sorry all love PEARL JAM HATE THE COWBOYS and or anything to do with them
Um....
You know, I love sport.... The only thing I want from a girl in regards to sport is respect that I love it. I want them to know that every week I am going to watch my team play... much like how I would like them to be with pj... respect that I love them, they don't need to like it, but if a girl hated it and stopped me from listening to pj or watching my sport it would be time to part ways...
It sounds like your girl respects your love at sport.. It sounds like you are lucky to have her..
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My wife respects my hobbies but I don't force her to indulge in them...
The grass always looks greener on the other side ofthe fence...sometimes it is but sometimes it's just as brown & shitty as your current grass.
At least have the balls to know what you want, make your decision & live with that choice.
if you go for this girl. just go all out and play everything honest. Dont creep around.
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Strange...I would never drop my husband if I met a guy who was just as passionate about shoes as I :think: :problem:
"I need your strength for me to be strong...I need your love to feel loved"
But my boyfriend loved the color red.
I once met a guy that loved the color green as much as me.....
Its pretty much just as absurd, right?
awesome!
I love green too
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I cheated on the red-loving fuckwad and ran away to Vegas with my fellow-greener and have an incredible life.
We finish each others sentences, our babies look better than Brad Pitt (circa Fight Club), we never argue and when we make love, angels actually cry. We both quit our jobs as well so we can stay home and rub green paint all over each other and eat spinach all day long. Life couldn't be better.
:roll:
*searching facebook for pjfan31, thinking he's probably the one*
If it was your main interest in life though, maybe it wouldn't seem so strange?
If it's bigger like that, sometimes having a common obsession IS a way that people connect.
Only you can decide how important something is to you.
Well then, I guess I have zero chance.