Ben Roethlisberger

milarsomilarso Posts: 1,280
edited October 2010 in All Encompassing Trip
I'm not trying to flame anyone from the City of Champs, and I think the guy is a great quarterback, however, and this is only my opinion, I think he did everything that girl said he did. And I honestly believe that although there were no charges filed, I don't think we've heard the last of this incident.
Again, only my opinion, if something comes out that completely takes away all doubt of my perception of his guilt, I'll be the first to apologize.
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  • lukin2006lukin2006 Posts: 9,087
    milarso wrote:
    I'm not trying to flame anyone from the City of Champs, and I think the guy is a great quarterback, however, and this is only my opinion, I think he did everything that girl said he did. And I honestly believe that although there were no charges filed, I don't think we've heard the last of this incident.
    Again, only my opinion, if something comes out that completely takes away all doubt of my perception of his guilt, I'll be the first to apologize.

    I'm just wondering why the DA did not proceed with the case. Do you think he will be in Pittsburgh next year? I have my doubts. The Steelers from what I see publicly are one of the best run organizations in pro sports who like to keep their image clean.

    Just my opinion, I still believe your innocent till proven guilty.
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  • milarsomilarso Posts: 1,280
    lukin2006 wrote:

    I'm just wondering why the DA did not proceed with the case. Do you think he will be in Pittsburgh next year? I have my doubts. The Steelers from what I see publicly are one of the best run organizations in pro sports who like to keep their image clean.

    Just my opinion, I still believe your innocent till proven guilty.

    From the way it sounded, he just wasn't confident there was enough evidence to prove him guilty in a courtroom. I agree that the Steelers are one of the best run organization, and that would be such an unreal precedence to set if they got rid of him- Roethisberger is the kind of quarterback that any team in need would gladly scoop up. So if you are the Steelers, what do you gain by getting rid of him if he will easily find another job? It would really show that the team is going zero tolerance for shady-dealing players, but I don't know if a stance like that will win Superbowls.

    And I get what you are saying about being innocent until proven guilty. It's a good system, and it's surely in place to keep guys like me from making assumptions that might not be factual.
    But with the only police officer who interviewed Big Ben resigning, and the security video tape in the hallway magically disappearing, I do think more facts will come out. I guess we'll see.
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  • DewieCoxDewieCox Posts: 11,425
    He did it...I'm all for innocent til proven guilty, too, and to me his guilt has been proven. Who the hell takes a drunk chick into a bathroom and has his goons guard the door? The answer, a rapist.
  • lukin2006lukin2006 Posts: 9,087
    milarso wrote:
    lukin2006 wrote:

    I'm just wondering why the DA did not proceed with the case. Do you think he will be in Pittsburgh next year? I have my doubts. The Steelers from what I see publicly are one of the best run organizations in pro sports who like to keep their image clean.

    Just my opinion, I still believe your innocent till proven guilty.

    From the way it sounded, he just wasn't confident there was enough evidence to prove him guilty in a courtroom. I agree that the Steelers are one of the best run organization, and that would be such an unreal precedence to set if they got rid of him- Roethisberger is the kind of quarterback that any team in need would gladly scoop up. So if you are the Steelers, what do you gain by getting rid of him if he will easily find another job? It would really show that the team is going zero tolerance for shady-dealing players, but I don't know if a stance like that will win Superbowls.

    And I get what you are saying about being innocent until proven guilty. It's a good system, and it's surely in place to keep guys like me from making assumptions that might not be factual.
    But with the only police officer who interviewed Big Ben resigning, and the security video tape in the hallway magically disappearing, I do think more facts will come out. I guess we'll see.

    Those are things I did not know, and it now makes me wonder. As for the steelers getting rid of him it will be done before the draft if they do, I'm sure they would have no problem getting a first round pick, maybe Cleveland, they've been accumulating quarterbacks :D.
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  • jimed14jimed14 Posts: 9,488
    Wow, it was barely over a year ago, Roethlisberger to Holmes to win the Superbowl ...

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    ... now one has been traded, the other may go and both will be suspended to start the 2010 season.

    Shit's crazy.

    As far as Ben is concerned ... when people are all liquored up, consent in a he said/she said situation becomes such a dicey case to prove. But, it seems with this guy there's a pattern. The line of rape may or may not have been crossed .... but the line of inappropriate douchebag has long been passed.
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  • Heatherj43Heatherj43 Posts: 1,254
    Where there's smoke there's fire and this thing is smoking all over the place.
    Save room for dessert!
  • FlaggFlagg Posts: 5,856
    He's a scumbag.
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  • HorosHoros Posts: 4,518
    Flagg wrote:
    He's a scumbag.
    Then when they deal him he'll be a perfect fit for the Cowboys. ;)
    #FHP
  • FenwayFaithfulFenwayFaithful Posts: 8,626
    jimed14 wrote:
    The line of rape may or may not have been crossed .... but the line of inappropriate douchebag has long been passed.
    Well said.

    Wasn't there also a report that he pulled out his wang in front of everybody at the bar that night too?
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  • FlaggFlagg Posts: 5,856
    Horos wrote:
    Flagg wrote:
    He's a scumbag.
    Then when they deal him he'll be a perfect fit for the Cowboys. ;)

    We have our share. Can't be greedy you know?
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  • canoegirlcanoegirl Posts: 295
    i'm going to have to retire my #7 jersey it's the only football jersey i ever wore besides my brothers in high school, second questionable offense towards a woman, shits not cool, anyone up for a round of golf today, lol
  • canoegirlcanoegirl Posts: 295
    but then i could look at this from another view, ugh ok i'm undecided and its not football season, its baseball season three strikes your out
  • StarfallStarfall Posts: 548
    Horos wrote:
    Flagg wrote:
    He's a scumbag.
    Then when they deal him he'll be a perfect fit for the Cowboys. ;)
    Don't you mean the Raiders? :lol:


    Well, the young woman can always go after him in civil court.
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  • Solat13Solat13 Posts: 6,996
    Starfall wrote:

    Well, the young woman can always go after him in civil court.

    I doubt it though. The main reason she didn't press charges is that she didn't want her name brought into the public light.

    In a civil case, I don't think there's the same shield that a criminal case has for victims.

    If she brought a civil case, her picture would be all over the internet and any stories of questionable decisions she's made in her own life would be made public so I think things in Georgia will just stay where they're at right now.
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  • normnorm Posts: 31,146
    jimed14 wrote:
    it seems with this guy there's a pattern.
    Flagg wrote:
    He's a scumbag.
  • Solat13Solat13 Posts: 6,996
    norm wrote:
    jimed14 wrote:
    it seems with this guy there's a pattern.
    Flagg wrote:
    He's a scumbag.

    I agree, but I think he only gets a 2 game suspension - maybe 4 at tops.
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  • normnorm Posts: 31,146
    Solat13 wrote:
    norm wrote:
    jimed14 wrote:
    it seems with this guy there's a pattern.
    Flagg wrote:
    He's a scumbag.

    I agree, but I think he only gets a 2 game suspension - maybe 4 at tops.

    most likely...which is sad...he'll come back and win (with pitt or some other team) and his behavior will be forgotten...just like kobe
  • blackredyellowblackredyellow Posts: 5,889
    edited April 2010
    There are some idiots in the media saying that he should be suspended for the season... on what grounds? Yes, he's apparently scumbag and has done some idiotic things, but how do you suspend a guy who has never been charged of wrongdoing for an entire season? The NFL players associations would grieve that (and win) in a heartbeat. They should suspend him for a couple of games, make him do a bunch of charity work for women's causes, etc., and move on.

    I'm a Steelers fan, and there is no way they are getting rid of him... he's one of the top 5-6 QB's in the league, and they have $30+ million guaranteed (plus a lot more of a cap hit) in him. If he inexplicably does something else like this again, then maybe, but moving him really hurts the franchise for years.



    On a side note (and this is no way justifying what he probably did), but did anyone see the two police reports? (http://www.post-gazette.com/pg/pdf/2010 ... _files.pdf)

    The first one was written that night, and it looks like it was written by a toddler.... the second one the next day is MUCH neater. She had to have been EXTREMELY shitfaced to write that sloppy.
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  • SPEEDY MCCREADYSPEEDY MCCREADY Posts: 25,468
    So???

    Is this guy, a rapist, piece of shit???

    Or just a piece of shit????
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  • dcfaithfuldcfaithful Posts: 13,076
    DewieCox wrote:
    He did it...I'm all for innocent til proven guilty, too, and to me his guilt has been proven. Who the hell takes a drunk chick into a bathroom and has his goons guard the door? The answer, a rapist.

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  • lukin2006lukin2006 Posts: 9,087
    There are some idiots in the media saying that he should be suspended for the season... on what grounds? Yes, he's apparently scumbag and has done some idiotic things, but how do you suspend a guy who has never been charged of wrongdoing for an entire season? The NFL players associations would grieve that (and win) in a heartbeat. They should suspend him for a couple of games, make him do a bunch of charity work for women's causes, etc., and move on.

    I'm a Steelers fan, and there is no way they are getting rid of him... he's one of the top 5-6 QB's in the league, and they have $30+ million guaranteed (plus a lot more of a cap hit) in him. If he inexplicably does something else like this again, then maybe, but moving him really hurts the franchise for years.



    On a side note (and this is no way justifying what he probably did), but did anyone see the two police reports? (http://www.post-gazette.com/pg/pdf/2010 ... _files.pdf)

    The first one was written that night, and it looks like it was written by a toddler.... the second one the next day is MUCH neater. She had to have been EXTREMELY shitfaced to write that sloppy.

    I doubt it, pacman jones come to mind? He was never convicted of anything yet was suspended. Even if the league can't, and i happen to think they can, Pittsburgh can because I'm willing to bet he has a moral clause in his contract.
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  • JonnyPistachioJonnyPistachio Posts: 10,217
    I havent followed this story much, but just saw the police report, but...did anyone read and think the girls statement was a little strange?

    Accuser: "I went to the first door I saw, which happened to be a bathroom. He followed me into the bathroom & shut the door behind him. I still said no, this is not ok, and he then had sex with me. He said it was ok. Then he left without saying anything. I went out of the hallway..."

    Did she mention anywhere that she yelled or tried to physically stop him?
    I would think that someone would explain a little better/more detail. it just reads a little fishy to me.
    Has Roethlisberger said anything about it?
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  • untill turning on OTL just now, i completely forgot this wasnt even handled yet. hell, i forgot what the guy did. im also starting to confuse the nfl with the nba.thank god baseball is back and the nhl playoffs are on.
  • I think having this a-hole work with abused women would be insulting. Unlike other behaviors, sexual proclivities are unchangeable. This is most obvious at the extreme side of the spectrum when you study sexual predators, but it's just as true for what most people consider harmless fetishes.

    I keep seeing people ask why someone in his position, surrounded by willing women, would keep choosing to behave this way. It's simple: he gets off on it. He will never not get off on it no matter how much therapy he has. He might learn to control it, at best, but that will be difficult.

    I bet this isn't the last time we'll hear about Ben trying to force a woman to have sex with him. I doubt this guy will be around in the NFL in five years, no matter how good he is.
  • jimed14jimed14 Posts: 9,488
    On a side note (and this is no way justifying what he probably did), but did anyone see the two police reports? (http://www.post-gazette.com/pg/pdf/2010 ... _files.pdf)

    The first one was written that night, and it looks like it was written by a toddler.... the second one the next day is MUCH neater. She had to have been EXTREMELY shitfaced to write that sloppy.

    Actually for someone that may be extremely shitfaced, I'm amazed that each and every word is within the lines. Sloppy, yes ... but, if I was drunk, my words would be written all over the paper.

    She was probably buzzin' at the least, but remember, I assume she was also very upset which would lead to messy writing as well.
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  • DewieCoxDewieCox Posts: 11,425
    There are some idiots in the media saying that he should be suspended for the season... on what grounds? Yes, he's apparently scumbag and has done some idiotic things, but how do you suspend a guy who has never been charged of wrongdoing for an entire season? The NFL players associations would grieve that (and win) in a heartbeat.

    I'm a Steelers fan, and there is no way they are getting rid of him... he's one of the top 5-6 QB's in the league, and they have $30+ million guaranteed (plus a lot more of a cap hit) in him. .

    The NFLPA can appeal Goodells decision, but then it just goes back to Goodell. Whatever he says is gonna stand.

    The Steeler could easily get rid of him. They are class, he's a scum bag. He's fairly easily replaceable in such a well run organization. Take his 2 rings away and he's middle of the road, with all the quality qb's around these days.
  • pjsteelerfanpjsteelerfan Posts: 9,895
    DewieCox wrote:
    There are some idiots in the media saying that he should be suspended for the season... on what grounds? Yes, he's apparently scumbag and has done some idiotic things, but how do you suspend a guy who has never been charged of wrongdoing for an entire season? The NFL players associations would grieve that (and win) in a heartbeat.

    I'm a Steelers fan, and there is no way they are getting rid of him... he's one of the top 5-6 QB's in the league, and they have $30+ million guaranteed (plus a lot more of a cap hit) in him. .

    The NFLPA can appeal Goodells decision, but then it just goes back to Goodell. Whatever he says is gonna stand.

    The Steeler could easily get rid of him. They are class, he's a scum bag. He's fairly easily replaceable in such a well run organization. Take his 2 rings away and he's middle of the road, with all the quality qb's around these days.

    Not that I am defending him, but no he is not fairly easily replaceable. There are not a lot of good QB's at all in the NFL right now. The Steelers would be looking at 2-3 losing years in a row, minimum. But, one more incident, and I think he is gone.

    And again, while I do think he may be guilty in at least this one, he has not even been charged in any crimes. It has been noted the NFLPA would have a much harder time appealing an NFL suspension than a team one. And it has been noted that Ben will not contest any ruling.

    I do think he should be suspended, and he has already lost in the court of public opinion. It is interesting to see what Goodell does, as Ben has not been charged. And waht the NFLPA does about it. I personally think 4 games is too little. He should also be required to take a lot of therapy. And get a common sense agent to follow him around.

    But this is also a league where you can kill someone and still be playing the next year or so, Donte Stallworth and Leanord Little. Or torture animals, Mike Vick. Or who knows what else, Pacman Jones.
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  • DewieCoxDewieCox Posts: 11,425
    DewieCox wrote:
    There are some idiots in the media saying that he should be suspended for the season... on what grounds? Yes, he's apparently scumbag and has done some idiotic things, but how do you suspend a guy who has never been charged of wrongdoing for an entire season? The NFL players associations would grieve that (and win) in a heartbeat.

    I'm a Steelers fan, and there is no way they are getting rid of him... he's one of the top 5-6 QB's in the league, and they have $30+ million guaranteed (plus a lot more of a cap hit) in him. .

    The NFLPA can appeal Goodells decision, but then it just goes back to Goodell. Whatever he says is gonna stand.

    The Steeler could easily get rid of him. They are class, he's a scum bag. He's fairly easily replaceable in such a well run organization. Take his 2 rings away and he's middle of the road, with all the quality qb's around these days.

    Not that I am defending him, but no he is not fairly easily replaceable. There are not a lot of good QB's at all in the NFL right now. The Steelers would be looking at 2-3 losing years in a row, minimum. But, one more incident, and I think he is gone.

    They could pretty easily get a suitable replacement in a trade. You can't just cut somebody with so much value. A great run organization such as the Steelers doesn't have to have great QB, they only need good to real good, like Roethlisberger.

    The position of QB is the deepest it's ever been in the NFL. After Manning, Brees and Brady, there's a pretty narrow margin from the 4th best to 15th best or so.
  • Jason PJason P Posts: 19,138
    I havent followed this story much, but just saw the police report, but...did anyone read and think the girls statement was a little strange?

    Accuser: "I went to the first door I saw, which happened to be a bathroom. He followed me into the bathroom & shut the door behind him. I still said no, this is not ok, and he then had sex with me. He said it was ok. Then he left without saying anything. I went out of the hallway..."

    Did she mention anywhere that she yelled or tried to physically stop him?
    I would think that someone would explain a little better/more detail. it just reads a little fishy to me.
    Has Roethlisberger said anything about it?
    I think the fact that Ben immediately hired Stabby Lewis’ lawyer was a big indicator that he did something wrong.

    The Rooney family holds a high standard and Ben should be thankful that the NFL is a pass-happy league right now. I do think he is down to his last strike though.
  • JonnyPistachioJonnyPistachio Posts: 10,217
    Jason P wrote:
    I havent followed this story much, but just saw the police report, but...did anyone read and think the girls statement was a little strange?

    Accuser: "I went to the first door I saw, which happened to be a bathroom. He followed me into the bathroom & shut the door behind him. I still said no, this is not ok, and he then had sex with me. He said it was ok. Then he left without saying anything. I went out of the hallway..."

    Did she mention anywhere that she yelled or tried to physically stop him?
    I would think that someone would explain a little better/more detail. it just reads a little fishy to me.
    Has Roethlisberger said anything about it?
    I think the fact that Ben immediately hired Stabby Lewis’ lawyer was a big indicator that he did something wrong.

    The Rooney family holds a high standard and Ben should be thankful that the NFL is a pass-happy league right now. I do think he is down to his last strike though.

    He did!? woah, that seems like a silly thing to do. :roll: that does make it look a little strange.
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