Christmas and Consumerism

JeanwahJeanwah Posts: 6,363
edited December 2009 in A Moving Train
Christmas time, or "the holiday season" if you prefer gentler, more politically correct words in your ears, carries with it a frantic all-out blitz of seasonal advertising. As the end of the year approaches, consumers are reminded constantly to go ahead and spend any cash we may have managed to save during the year. The companies desperate for our dollars are merciless in their attack. Any reason their research indicates might possibly entice a consumer to purchase a product becomes a lofty principle woven between alluring images. Shopping rises to foremost concern in the national agenda.

In our daily lives within this capitalist culture, we are exposed to advertisements at such a constant rate that I don't think I would even want to know a statistical estimate. In fact, I'm sure my brain has a stat stored away that it overheard somewhere, but did not allow access to my consciousness in a vain attempt to protect me from pain. Despite the obvious inundation of manipulative messages, how often do people actually take the time to contemplate what they are absorbing? Most are too afraid to consider the situation seriously.

A closer look at some of the ludicrous pitches is instantly offensive to anyone with even a slight sensitivity. The most shockingly offensive holiday commercials for me are those that casually encourage people to purchase absurdly luxurious items for their loved ones this holiday season.

Lexus, in a series of commercials depicting some alternate universe of infinite wealth and leisure, sets the standard for upper crust gift giving. We are shown just how happy and proud our husband or father will be when he sees his gigantic new SUV with the leather interior and CD player sitting in the driveway wrapped in a red bow. Who buys someone a car for Christmas? Especially a luxury car! Is Lexus targeting the elusive professional athlete demographic, or just trying to make the rest of us feel bad about ourselves? Even Shaq only bought each of his teammates a Rolex after winning the NBA title. He didn't give out a fleet of giant luxury vehicles to show his thanks.

Meanwhile, jewelry cartels and department stores conspire to counsel men that no gift pleases a wife more than a diamond necklace, ring, bracelet, or at least earrings. Grateful wives clad in silky lingerie imply exactly what gift men should expect in return for their expenditure. The price is not quite as lavish as the tag on a Yuletide Lex, but we're still talking about dropping five grand on a single gift. Of course, the wives see the ads too, so the gift certainly would produce some level of perceived happiness as promised. Diamonds are pretty and expensive; it can't be denied.

These advertisements are not spoon-feeding us complete lies, but they are clearly intended to manipulate. Every day, we sit prone for hours before television screens and passively absorb images and words intended to convince us that the purchase of certain products will satisfy something inside us, or in some way improve our lives. It might be different if these assertions were founded in some sort of rational thought. Personally, I find it difficult to justify how spending far too much money on an overpriced, unpractical vehicle or fashion accessory could provide any valid or spiritually sound sense of happiness.

There is absolutely nothing wrong with the unselfish pleasure experienced by witnessing the appreciative excitement a well-chosen gift produces in its recipient. And I don't think there's anything inherently wrong with getting giddy when someone gives you a great gift either. As long as the reaction is true, there is no problem. The difficulty arises in determining for one's self exactly which reactions are in fact true reactions. We must learn to step back and question the nature of our desires in order to find out whether they originated from an ad we saw fifty times this week, or if they arose from honest, spontaneous emotion. Sifting through the overabundance of external information and influence to discover our true selves is the tricky part.
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  • I love Christmas.....

    I love everything about it...........
    Take me piece by piece.....
    Till there aint nothing left worth taking away from me.....
  • Pepe SilviaPepe Silvia Posts: 3,758
    :clap::clap::clap::clap:

    i'm glad i don't watch much tv, occasionally i flip around and some of the shows and commercials remind me why i don't watch....
    don't compete; coexist

    what are you but my reflection? who am i to judge or strike you down?

    "I will promise you this, that if we have not gotten our troops out by the time I am president, it is the first thing I will do. I will get our troops home. We will bring an end to this war. You can take that to the bank." - Barack Obama

    when you told me 'if you can't beat 'em, join 'em'
    i was thinkin 'death before dishonor'
  • My family did no presents last year (little kids excluded), and it was GREAT. We're doing it again this year.

    It's not even the money, although it is great to NOT drop tons of dough at the end of the year-- it's more a matter of convenience. None of us need anything, thankfully. None of us are big into shopping, especially at this time of year when people will (ironically) kill for a parking spot, or run you over bouncing from store to store-- maybe this only happens in NY ;) ? We figured, why put ourselves through it all just because everyone else is?

    Looking forward to another stress-free, peaceful, Christmas!
  • JeanwahJeanwah Posts: 6,363
    :clap::clap::clap::clap:

    i'm glad i don't watch much tv, occasionally i flip around and some of the shows and commercials remind me why i don't watch....
    Me, too.

    I have a media marketing degree because I loved the psychology and business behind advertising. Now I can't stand what it does to people. It's really quite sick the intentional manipulation it plays and society that falls for it all.

    Things do not equal happiness. Obligatory spending at Christmas is nothing but what society expects, even when most gifts are crap and things that no one even truly needs or wants.
  • JeanwahJeanwah Posts: 6,363
    My family did no presents last year (little kids excluded), and it was GREAT. We're doing it again this year.

    It's not even the money, although it is great to NOT drop tons of dough at the end of the year-- it's more a matter of convenience. None of us need anything, thankfully. None of us are big into shopping, especially at this time of year when people will (ironically) kill for a parking spot, or run you over bouncing from store to store-- maybe this only happens in NY ;) ? We figured, why put ourselves through it all just because everyone else is?

    Looking forward to another stress-free, peaceful, Christmas!

    Right on, Vinny! Convincing my family the same is extra difficult as they are a materialistic brood.
  • Jeanwah wrote:
    :clap::clap::clap::clap:

    i'm glad i don't watch much tv, occasionally i flip around and some of the shows and commercials remind me why i don't watch....
    Me, too.

    I have a media marketing degree because I loved the psychology and business behind advertising. Now I can't stand what it does to people. It's really quite sick the intentional manipulation it plays and society that falls for it all.

    Things do not equal happiness. Obligatory spending at Christmas is nothing but what society expects, even when most gifts are crap and things that no one even truly needs or wants.

    I would hate to have the outlook that you have...

    The world is going to shit
    The government sucks
    My job sucks
    I hate Christmas......
    Take me piece by piece.....
    Till there aint nothing left worth taking away from me.....
  • Pepe SilviaPepe Silvia Posts: 3,758
    Jeanwah wrote:
    :clap::clap::clap::clap:

    i'm glad i don't watch much tv, occasionally i flip around and some of the shows and commercials remind me why i don't watch....
    Me, too.

    I have a media marketing degree because I loved the psychology and business behind advertising. Now I can't stand what it does to people. It's really quite sick the intentional manipulation it plays and society that falls for it all.

    Things do not equal happiness. Obligatory spending at Christmas is nothing but what society expects, even when most gifts are crap and things that no one even truly needs or wants.

    I would hate to have the outlook that you have...

    The world is going to shit
    The government sucks
    My job sucks
    I hate Christmas......


    is christmas only about buying people cheap crap (most likely made in china) that they will hardly ever to very rarely (if ever) use? really?

    better than the outlook you seem to have of 'meh, my life and small bubble is ok, fuck everyone else!!'
    don't compete; coexist

    what are you but my reflection? who am i to judge or strike you down?

    "I will promise you this, that if we have not gotten our troops out by the time I am president, it is the first thing I will do. I will get our troops home. We will bring an end to this war. You can take that to the bank." - Barack Obama

    when you told me 'if you can't beat 'em, join 'em'
    i was thinkin 'death before dishonor'


  • is christmas only about buying people cheap crap (most likely made in china) that they will hardly ever to very rarely (if ever) use? really?
    If that is what YOU believe Christmas is all about....

    Then that is your choice.....

    Im glad I dont have your attitude either.......
    Take me piece by piece.....
    Till there aint nothing left worth taking away from me.....
  • i_lov_iti_lov_it Perth, Western Australia Posts: 4,007
    Well...IMO it's getting TOO 'Commercialised'...Buy this!...Buy that!...and it's a Bit "Hypocritical"...It's a DAY of 'Giving' and 'Caring'.....Hang on! Shouldn't people be LIKE that EVERY DAY of the Year?
  • JeanwahJeanwah Posts: 6,363
    Jeanwah wrote:
    :clap::clap::clap::clap:

    i'm glad i don't watch much tv, occasionally i flip around and some of the shows and commercials remind me why i don't watch....
    Me, too.

    I have a media marketing degree because I loved the psychology and business behind advertising. Now I can't stand what it does to people. It's really quite sick the intentional manipulation it plays and society that falls for it all.

    Things do not equal happiness. Obligatory spending at Christmas is nothing but what society expects, even when most gifts are crap and things that no one even truly needs or wants.

    I would hate to have the outlook that you have...

    The world is going to shit
    The government sucks
    My job sucks
    I hate Christmas......
    At least I don't sit back and believe that living the American Dream of owning crap and living in a bubble is essential to being happy.
    Things don't make one truly happy Speedy. And I never said my job sucked.
  • JeanwahJeanwah Posts: 6,363
    i_lov_it wrote:
    Well...IMO it's getting TOO 'Commercialised'...Buy this!...Buy that!...and it's a Bit "Hypocritical"...It's a DAY of 'Giving' and 'Caring'.....Hang on! Shouldn't people be LIKE that EVERY DAY of the Year?
    Exactly. It's not "giving" nor "caring" if it only happens once a year.

    I'd like to know how a gift of the Clapper or a Snuggie defines how one feels about another person.
  • Jeanwah wrote:
    At least I don't sit back and believe that living the American Dream of owning crap and living in a bubble is essential to being happy.
    Things don't make one truly happy Speedy. And I never said my job sucked.
    Instead you sit back and let life pass you by...

    Because you are too busy whining and complaining about everything.
    Take me piece by piece.....
    Till there aint nothing left worth taking away from me.....
  • JeanwahJeanwah Posts: 6,363
    Jeanwah wrote:
    At least I don't sit back and believe that living the American Dream of owning crap and living in a bubble is essential to being happy.
    Things don't make one truly happy Speedy. And I never said my job sucked.
    Instead you sit back and let life pass you by...

    Because you are too busy whining and complaining about everything.
    Assumptions, assumptions... :roll:
  • Jeanwah wrote:
    Jeanwah wrote:
    At least I don't sit back and believe that living the American Dream of owning crap and living in a bubble is essential to being happy.
    Things don't make one truly happy Speedy. And I never said my job sucked.
    Instead you sit back and let life pass you by...

    Because you are too busy whining and complaining about everything.
    Assumptions, assumptions... :roll:
    Exactly...

    Like you assume I own crap and live in a bubble....
    Take me piece by piece.....
    Till there aint nothing left worth taking away from me.....
  • Pepe SilviaPepe Silvia Posts: 3,758


    is christmas only about buying people cheap crap (most likely made in china) that they will hardly ever to very rarely (if ever) use? really?
    If that is what YOU believe Christmas is all about....

    Then that is your choice.....

    Im glad I dont have your attitude either.......


    well, no, that's not all i think it's about but that is the aspect being discussed here and you seemed to disagree
    don't compete; coexist

    what are you but my reflection? who am i to judge or strike you down?

    "I will promise you this, that if we have not gotten our troops out by the time I am president, it is the first thing I will do. I will get our troops home. We will bring an end to this war. You can take that to the bank." - Barack Obama

    when you told me 'if you can't beat 'em, join 'em'
    i was thinkin 'death before dishonor'
  • SPEEDY MCCREADYSPEEDY MCCREADY Posts: 25,766
    edited December 2009
    Jeanwah wrote:
    i_lov_it wrote:
    Well...IMO it's getting TOO 'Commercialised'...Buy this!...Buy that!...and it's a Bit "Hypocritical"...It's a DAY of 'Giving' and 'Caring'.....Hang on! Shouldn't people be LIKE that EVERY DAY of the Year?
    Exactly. It's not "giving" nor "caring" if it only happens once a year.

    I'd like to know how a gift of the Clapper or a Snuggie defines how one feels about another person.
    Have you ever given or received The Clapper for a Christmas gift??

    Would you ever buy one of these for your parents??
    Your children??
    Your nieces/nephews???
    Would you go out and buy one for grandma/grandpa???

    Or would you maybe take a little time, and put some thought and effort, in to buying a loved one something they actually might cherish and enjoy???
    Post edited by SPEEDY MCCREADY on
    Take me piece by piece.....
    Till there aint nothing left worth taking away from me.....
  • philthehipphilthehip Posts: 2,084
    Wow, how can Christmas create so much tension? The original poster is entitled to his opinion but I have to disagree totally with his view of Christmas. Its a wonderful time of the year when families and friends come together and put everything else aside. I get the point about expensive gifts a,d cars and diamonds. I agree with you there but just dont buy them, and dude, stop watching telly if it turns you into a rabid buyer. I dont let advertising get past my eye lenses. Im a retailers worst nightmare. Noone can make me part with my money unless I have thought it through and feel that what Im buying is going to be a benefit to the person intended. Christmas is about sharing and hopefully re connecting with the people you love. Good food, drink and conversation. Some time off work for most.

    I work at a christmas soup kitchen in the morning (7am til 2pm) on the day and then go home for dinner with my family, pop around and see friends. Get home at about 8pm and get drunk and listen to PJ, have more food. Thats a magical day and I love it. If someone has no where to go that day and wants to have dinner with me and my family then they are welcome, the more the better in my opinion. Some might be eating cheese and crackers but we have plenty of drink :-)

    Anyways, christmas is a fantastic time and I love it!
  • polaris_xpolaris_x Posts: 13,559
    i am for the most part anti-consumerism but i understand the hypocrisy in that in owning an iPhone ... having said that - i'm part of a birthday group of friends where when it's someone's bday - we'll all pool our money to get one thing they really want ... for me - they make a donation to a charity on my behalf ... it's the best gift i can ever get ...
  • DeLukinDeLukin Posts: 2,757
    Very well written by the OP. As a parent, the toughest part of the year is trying to swing the pendulum in my kids' hearts between the true spirit of Christmas (the giving) vs. the true spirit of consumerism (the getting). We abandoned the 'gift orgy' Christmas morning a while ago (for financial reasons when our family was younger, but for other reasons now). Each member of our family buys one gift for every other member of the family and then everyone gets one from 'Santa.' On Christmas morning, everyone watches as one painstakingly chosen gift at a time is presented and opened. It's something very special and my kids have actually said they prefer that to opening a pile of presents twice as big all at once (as they do when we inevitably visit the grandparents during the holidays). Anyway, that works for us. As the years have gone by and money has become a little less scarce, we've resisted the urge to buy more and have never regretted it.

    So I guess holiday consumerism isn't a bad thing, as long as it's not the ONLY thing, IMO.
    I smile, but who am I kidding...
  • i_lov_iti_lov_it Perth, Western Australia Posts: 4,007
    philthehip wrote:
    Wow, how can Christmas create so much tension? The original poster is entitled to his opinion but I have to disagree totally with his view of Christmas. Its a wonderful time of the year when families and friends come together and put everything else aside. I get the point about expensive gifts a,d cars and diamonds. I agree with you there but just dont buy them, and dude, stop watching telly if it turns you into a rabid buyer. I dont let advertising get past my eye lenses. Im a retailers worst nightmare. Noone can make me part with my money unless I have thought it through and feel that what Im buying is going to be a benefit to the person intended. Christmas is about sharing and hopefully re connecting with the people you love. Good food, drink and conversation. Some time off work for most.

    I work at a christmas soup kitchen in the morning (7am til 2pm) on the day and then go home for dinner with my family, pop around and see friends. Get home at about 8pm and get drunk and listen to PJ, have more food. Thats a magical day and I love it. If someone has no where to go that day and wants to have dinner with me and my family then they are welcome, the more the better in my opinion. Some might be eating cheese and crackers but we have plenty of drink :-)

    Anyways, christmas is a fantastic time and I love it!

    Wow...The only CHRISTMAS'S I remember is where YOUR trying to have an ENJOYABLE Day!...yet ALLLLL Day your getting...from Everyone is "When are you getting a Job?"...or "When are you Moving OUT?"...or "What are you doing with your LIFE?"...COMBINE that with the 'HYPOCRISY' of the Whole DAY!!!...
    :? :?
  • FiveB247xFiveB247x Posts: 2,330
    I hate this time of the year. People are more fake and false. It shouldn't take some holiday or season for people to act like good, moral, nice people who care...this is something people should do all the time. It doesn't take a holiday to recognize the love of your family or friends or appreciate what you have in life. By doing so, as a whole, it shows how truly shallow and misguided people actually are in our society. People celebrate this holiday season, yet don't follow the codes of the religion, instead they've merely installed traditions to follow which relate to it - yes things we've made up... trees, presents, santa, spirit, etc.. it's all bogus nonsense we've made up for commercial gain or some insignificant meaning which has zero to do with the actual practice of religious code or text.

    http://www.apoplecticpress.org/Card%20Doubles%20Large/011.jpg
    CONservative governMENt

    Our government is the potent, the omnipresent teacher. For good or for ill, it teaches the whole people by its example. Crime is contagious. If the government becomes a law-breaker, it breeds contempt for law; it invites every man to become a law unto himself; it invites anarchy. - Louis Brandeis
  • FiveB247x wrote:
    I hate this time of the year. People are more fake and false. It shouldn't take some holiday or season for people to act like good, moral, nice people who care...this is something people should do all the time. It doesn't take a holiday to recognize the love of your family or friends or appreciate what you have in life. By doing so, as a whole, it shows how truly shallow and misguided people actually are in our society. People celebrate this holiday season, yet don't follow the codes of the religion, instead they've merely installed traditions to follow which relate to it - yes things we've made up... trees, presents, santa, spirit, etc.. it's all bogus nonsense we've made up for commercial gain or some insignificant meaning which has zero to do with the actual practice of religious code or text.

    http://www.apoplecticpress.org/Card%20Doubles%20Large/011.jpg
    Disagree...

    Maybe it is you people, who "hate" Christmas...

    That are the ones who are shallow and misguided.....
    Take me piece by piece.....
    Till there aint nothing left worth taking away from me.....
  • FiveB247x wrote:
    I hate this time of the year. People are more fake and false. It shouldn't take some holiday or season for people to act like good, moral, nice people who care...this is something people should do all the time. It doesn't take a holiday to recognize the love of your family or friends or appreciate what you have in life. By doing so, as a whole, it shows how truly shallow and misguided people actually are in our society. People celebrate this holiday season, yet don't follow the codes of the religion, instead they've merely installed traditions to follow which relate to it - yes things we've made up... trees, presents, santa, spirit, etc.. it's all bogus nonsense we've made up for commercial gain or some insignificant meaning which has zero to do with the actual practice of religious code or text.

    http://www.apoplecticpress.org/Card%20Doubles%20Large/011.jpg

    wow...

    If Christmas and the consumerism around it bother you so much, then don't participate.

    The commercialism of it is a joke, but we all know that... no tv commercial is making me feel guilty for not buying my wife a car or diamond earings, I chuckle at the commercials and move on.

    And while "it doesn't take a holiday to recognize the love of your family or friends or appreciate what you have in life" is absolutely true, but with people living in different cities and everyone's work/life schedules the holiday does give us a chance to get together and enjoy spending time as a family. If in your opinion spending time with our families and giving a nice gift or two make us "truly shallow and misguided", then I don't know what to tell you.
    My whole life
    was like a picture
    of a sunny day
    “We can complain because rose bushes have thorns, or rejoice because thorn bushes have roses.”
    ― Abraham Lincoln
  • __ Posts: 6,651
    Excellent post, Jeanwah. I totally agree. I found the consumer messaging to be so bad that I had to get rid of my TV.

    Have you seen the film "What would Jesus buy?"
  • FiveB247xFiveB247x Posts: 2,330
    Firstly, I do not participate in it. I am making an observation about the consumer driven society around us. Perhaps many of you do not fit the characterzation I have given, but that doesn't mean it is not true either. Have a look at the society and people around us, and it does hold true. It may not be you specifically, but as a whole it is what represents us. Whether it's people acting awful to one another on Black Friday or spoiled children whining over what santa did or didn't bring to them. It's all around us.

    Secondly, why not be "jolly" or "merry" any time of the year? Does anyone really need a specific calender date to be good or buy a present for a family member or similar? The fact is these things are predicated on the notion of Christmas but has absolutely nothing to do with the actual holiday other than what we've as humans added to it because it suited our own needs and wants. This is something you or anyone else has yet to acknowledge. It's tradition that we've completely made up which has zero to do with the meaning of the actual holiday. And in terms of the actual holiday and that belief system, Jesus was about helping the poor, equality and similar all the time - none of which we actually practice in our society. So let's mass celebrate his birth and apply our own misguided message of his ideologies for our own purposes when we don't actually practice what his message was and foresake it all? That's Christmas in our society.
    wow...

    If Christmas and the consumerism around it bother you so much, then don't participate.

    The commercialism of it is a joke, but we all know that... no tv commercial is making me feel guilty for not buying my wife a car or diamond earings, I chuckle at the commercials and move on.

    And while "it doesn't take a holiday to recognize the love of your family or friends or appreciate what you have in life" is absolutely true, but with people living in different cities and everyone's work/life schedules the holiday does give us a chance to get together and enjoy spending time as a family. If in your opinion spending time with our families and giving a nice gift or two make us "truly shallow and misguided", then I don't know what to tell you.
    CONservative governMENt

    Our government is the potent, the omnipresent teacher. For good or for ill, it teaches the whole people by its example. Crime is contagious. If the government becomes a law-breaker, it breeds contempt for law; it invites every man to become a law unto himself; it invites anarchy. - Louis Brandeis
  • polaris_xpolaris_x Posts: 13,559
    can we at least mandate cussin' christmas music only be allowed to be played for the 7 days leading up to the day?
  • Pepe SilviaPepe Silvia Posts: 3,758
    i don't think most of the people are saying they hate christmas but rather they hate what christmas has become
    don't compete; coexist

    what are you but my reflection? who am i to judge or strike you down?

    "I will promise you this, that if we have not gotten our troops out by the time I am president, it is the first thing I will do. I will get our troops home. We will bring an end to this war. You can take that to the bank." - Barack Obama

    when you told me 'if you can't beat 'em, join 'em'
    i was thinkin 'death before dishonor'
  • Pepe SilviaPepe Silvia Posts: 3,758
    Jeanwah wrote:
    i_lov_it wrote:
    Well...IMO it's getting TOO 'Commercialised'...Buy this!...Buy that!...and it's a Bit "Hypocritical"...It's a DAY of 'Giving' and 'Caring'.....Hang on! Shouldn't people be LIKE that EVERY DAY of the Year?
    Exactly. It's not "giving" nor "caring" if it only happens once a year.

    I'd like to know how a gift of the Clapper or a Snuggie defines how one feels about another person.
    Have you ever given or received The Clapper for a Christmas gift??

    Would you ever buy one of these for your parents??
    Your children??
    Your nieces/nephews???
    Would you go out and buy one for grandma/grandpa???

    Or would you maybe take a little time, and put some thought and effort, in to buying a loved one something they actually might cherish and enjoy???


    i don't think Jeanwah was saying she felt she HAD to buy these things but was commenting on how it is pushed in our culture, you can't deny were an overly consumeristic society and this is what people are bombarded with. sure, you can say 'then don't watch tv!' but this is simply ignoring the problem.
    don't compete; coexist

    what are you but my reflection? who am i to judge or strike you down?

    "I will promise you this, that if we have not gotten our troops out by the time I am president, it is the first thing I will do. I will get our troops home. We will bring an end to this war. You can take that to the bank." - Barack Obama

    when you told me 'if you can't beat 'em, join 'em'
    i was thinkin 'death before dishonor'
  • CommyCommy Posts: 4,984
    my grandma used to give us a donation to the charity of our choice instead of an actual gift. it was always the best present i got at christmas.
  • yahamitayahamita Posts: 1,514
    here are my thoughts on Xmas..DON'T CELEBRATE!
    http://www.fossilizedcustoms.com/asherah.html
    I knew all the rules, but the rules did not know me...GUARANTEED!

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