How long do I wait to call?

Whizbang

metsfan wrote:

Whizbang wrote:

metsfan wrote:

you wait 2-4 days. anything more or less than that and she wont care for you and return your call.

See? I agree and disagree here. If a guy called me the next day, thanking me for a good night, I wouldn't think it weird/odd/desperate. Contrary to that, if he didn't call for 2-4 days or not at all, I wouldn't think he's an asshole, just not interested and move on with life. If I'm interested, I'm not likely to wait for him to call....but I'd probably adhere to the 2-4 day rule!

i never call the next day and say i had a good night. sounds to weird/ "nice guy". the 2nd day after i would call and say "i had a good time and would like to see you again".

the 2-4 day rule is a weird for both sex

Yes, it is a weird rule that we all seem to follow. Seriously though, if you called the next day, said you had a good time and would like to see me again, that would be cool. Someone mentioned earlier, call the next day and say you've been thinking about her a lot. That just screams that you've added her to your most recent "spank bank" to me and registers a full 8 on the Weird-O-Meter.

dimitrispearljam

81 wrote:

call now. if she doesn't answer, leave a stumbling bumbling message ending in oh shit

then call back in 5 minutes. if she doesn't answer, leave anouther message apologoizing for your first message.

then call back in 20 minutes, but don't leave a a message

repeat half a dozen times

call back and leave a message saying sorry for all the calls

call back in 40 minutes

repeat as needed


________


it shows you really are interested

dimitrispearljam

SO U CALL OR WHAT???

PatrickBateman

norm wrote:

when you do call, don't be this guy

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u0PUrNwvvBk

first movie that came to mind

decides2dream

SPEEDY MCCREADY wrote:

milarso wrote:

I'm sure this has prolly been asked before, but I'm too lazy to search.
I met this amazing girl on Friday, and we really seemed to hit it off, and before I left, I asked her if she wanted to get together and if I could get her number. She seemed interested and gave it too me. I'm just wondering (more from the girls' perspective) how long should I wait to get a hold of her? I don't want to desperate or needy, but I've been thinking about her all day.

Should have called her Saturday...

Why wait???

Why would you look desperate or needy??

You liked her...You found her interesting, exciting, blah blah blah......right???

So call her....

this.

hopefully you've already called her by now and set up a date.

81

if you haven't called by now, the best thing to do is wait until friday, then go out to the bars, kick back half a dozen drinks, then call her around closing time and ask her if she wants to do something.

Heatherj43

81 wrote:

by chance was her number 313-915-3115

Hey thats a number in the area I live.

81

Heatherj43 wrote:

81 wrote:

by chance was her number 313-915-3115

Hey thats a number in the area I live.

give her a call and say hi.

pandora

I don't agree with the game playing makes for more games and it just gets stupid.
Hard enough meeting new people wondering if they like you and all then to have someone pretending they aren't all that interested.
You've probably already called hopefully

milarso

decides2dream wrote:

hopefully you've already called her by now and set up a date.

Yeah- I called her last night (So two days) and we're going out Wednesday.
Pretty excited

dimitrispearljam

milarso wrote:

decides2dream wrote:

hopefully you've already called her by now and set up a date.

Yeah- I called her last night (So two days) and we're going out Wednesday.
Pretty excited

..who dare wins..way to go man..

Heatherj43

Nice work!

Jennytree

You Americans are so classy with your calling each other!

Here, we just wait to cross each others paths in the pub again, and lob the gob

dimitrispearljam

Jennytree wrote:

You Americans are so classy with your calling each other!

Here, we just wait to cross each others paths in the pub again, and lob the gob

u irish never leave the pub!!!!!!!

megatron

what ya gonna do on a wednesday?
only thing worse is a lunch date... oh i hope its not that

j/k.
go wings

milarso

We're going to go get dinner and then see a band that is playing at bar a few towns over. It should be fun.

megatron

nice.
ive givin up on dating. i keep blowing it
i'm developing a breathalyzer for my iphone. may heed more success

stargirl69

milarso wrote:

We're going to go get dinner and then see a band that is playing at bar a few towns over. It should be fun.

Wow good call for a first proper date ... well done .... have a blast ... you handled that well.

Whizbang

milarso wrote:

decides2dream wrote:

hopefully you've already called her by now and set up a date.

Yeah- I called her last night (So two days) and we're going out Wednesday.
Pretty excited

Glad to hear it!

RoughMix

milarso wrote:

We're going to go get dinner and then see a band that is playing at bar a few towns over. It should be fun.

Lafayette Coney Island and then The Polish Muslims in Hamtramck?