How long do I wait to call?

milarso

I'm sure this has prolly been asked before, but I'm too lazy to search.
I met this amazing girl on Friday, and we really seemed to hit it off, and before I left, I asked her if she wanted to get together and if I could get her number. She seemed interested and gave it too me. I'm just wondering (more from the girls' perspective) how long should I wait to get a hold of her? I don't want to desperate or needy, but I've been thinking about her all day.

dimitrispearljam

the one who dare wins.....

Sprunkn7

Call today. If you called her yesterday you may have been out together already!
Good luck!

Claireack

If it was Friday, I would say today (Sunday here) would be fine. If I was the girl and you left it too long I would think you weren't that bothered. Do it in the eve and do the 'how's your weekend been' thing. It's worth a go.

Mcam55

"When is the next Olympics?"

agfy

what's the number i'll call for you :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:

pandora

call now never hold back

81

call now. if she doesn't answer, leave a stumbling bumbling message ending in oh shit

then call back in 5 minutes. if she doesn't answer, leave anouther message apologoizing for your first message.

then call back in 20 minutes, but don't leave a a message

repeat half a dozen times

call back and leave a message saying sorry for all the calls

call back in 40 minutes

repeat as needed


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it shows you really are interested

oona left

81 wrote:

call now. if she doesn't answer, leave a stumbling bumbling message ending in oh shit

then call back in 5 minutes. if she doesn't answer, leave anouther message apologoizing for your first message.

then call back in 20 minutes, but don't leave a a message

repeat half a dozen times

call back and leave a message saying sorry for all the calls

call back in 40 minutes

repeat as needed


________


it shows you really are interested

This always works on me

SPEEDY MCCREADY

milarso wrote:

I'm sure this has prolly been asked before, but I'm too lazy to search.
I met this amazing girl on Friday, and we really seemed to hit it off, and before I left, I asked her if she wanted to get together and if I could get her number. She seemed interested and gave it too me. I'm just wondering (more from the girls' perspective) how long should I wait to get a hold of her? I don't want to desperate or needy, but I've been thinking about her all day.

Should have called her Saturday...

Why wait???

Why would you look desperate or needy??

You liked her...You found her interesting, exciting, blah blah blah......right???

So call her....

norm

when you do call, don't be this guy

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u0PUrNwvvBk

Bathgate66

SPEEDY MCCREADY wrote:

milarso wrote:

I'm sure this has prolly been asked before, but I'm too lazy to search.
I met this amazing girl on Friday, and we really seemed to hit it off, and before I left, I asked her if she wanted to get together and if I could get her number. She seemed interested and gave it too me. I'm just wondering (more from the girls' perspective) how long should I wait to get a hold of her? I don't want to desperate or needy, but I've been thinking about her all day.

Should have called her Saturday...

Why wait???

Why would you look desperate or needy??

You liked her...You found her interesting, exciting, blah blah blah......right???

So call her....

agree here.
don't put it off .
show her youre not a player
and I'd also open up with the fact that youve been thinking about her alot lately or ever since she gave you the number.

Good Luck !

youngster

General rule is 3 days for me. If it comes up why you didn't call sooner, just say you were swamped with work and you wanted to clear you're plate first.

Whizbang

cropduster82 wrote:

General rule is 3 days for me. If it comes up why you didn't call sooner, just say you were swamped with work and you wanted to clear you're plate first.

Just me as a woman....3 days is a good general rule. If I'm interested and we exchanged numbers, I'd call after three days.

'Bathgate66" wrote:

agree here.
don't put it off .
show her youre not a player
and I'd also open up with the fact that youve been thinking about her alot lately or ever since she gave you the number.[\quote]

While I wouldn't be weirded out if a guy called me he next day but the "thinking about you a lot lately" after one night would put that at an 8 on the Weird-O-Meter for me.

iamsam_pj

Whizbang wrote:

While I wouldn't be weirded out if a guy called me he next day but the "thinking about you a lot lately" after one night would put that at an 8 on the Weird-O-Meter for me.

i agree...that would definitely weird me out! just call her tonight and ask how the rest of her weekend went...maybe make plans to meet up some time this week or next weekend.

Heatherj43

You need to call now. She won't think you are desperate, she will think she is just that special. honest, I know that when I would meet a guy and I thought he thought I was special from the other girls he may had met that night, I expected a call the next day and if I didn't get one and he called later, I felt like maybe I could be a booty call.
It doesn't have to be a call to go a out tonight, but perhaps plan a date or as I did with my bf I have now, when he called the next day I invited him to a kid's party I was going to that day at my ex-husband's. We been together 10 years.

rrivers

Mcam55 wrote:

"When is the next Olympics?"

That made me laugh out loud.

81

by chance was her number 313-915-3115

Gary Carter

you wait 2-4 days. anything more or less than that and she wont care for you and return your call.

Whizbang

metsfan wrote:

you wait 2-4 days. anything more or less than that and she wont care for you and return your call.

See? I agree and disagree here. If a guy called me the next day, thanking me for a good night, I wouldn't think it weird/odd/desperate. Contrary to that, if he didn't call for 2-4 days or not at all, I wouldn't think he's an asshole, just not interested and move on with life. If I'm interested, I'm not likely to wait for him to call....but I'd probably adhere to the 2-4 day rule!

Gary Carter

Whizbang wrote:

metsfan wrote:

you wait 2-4 days. anything more or less than that and she wont care for you and return your call.

See? I agree and disagree here. If a guy called me the next day, thanking me for a good night, I wouldn't think it weird/odd/desperate. Contrary to that, if he didn't call for 2-4 days or not at all, I wouldn't think he's an asshole, just not interested and move on with life. If I'm interested, I'm not likely to wait for him to call....but I'd probably adhere to the 2-4 day rule!

i never call the next day and say i had a good night. sounds to weird/ "nice guy". the 2nd day after i would call and say "i had a good time and would like to see you again".

the 2-4 day rule is a weird for both sex