Inlaws Travelled to the inlaws today for a 2yr old bday tomorrow so they could see their grandson. Tonight he (grandpa) divulges that he possibly has a cancerous tumor in his chest and wanted to let it out tonight so we can enjoy the bday tomorrow instead. Wife is in hysterics and nothing at all is in my bones to celebrate my sons bday with all the kids tomorrow now. Wtf? He seems non-chalant by saying "enjoy life, things happen". Am I a dick to be thinking this is a dick move? He couldn't wait until the day after the party? Complete mindfuck to my wife (his daughter). 1hr ago was all smiles and happy times with them and the grandkids now it feels like I am in a morgue decorating it with balloons and streamers. Rant over.
your so spoilt you have no idea what love is bc you get everything on a silver platter so you appreciate stuffole and you think you can get a doll just to play with too to put on your strike list and play your stupid egotistical games all you do is think with your dick and your heart is with people who dont live your life well the poorer are more humble and love better and harder than you do and you have only proven me right so far and you lie to win what you want when your heart is not in it and you expect your commradaries to follow your ways and they do bc thats what stupid friends do but secretly in their own life they would not have a bar of it i used to care very deeply for you thought i could never let you go and love is not blindness it makes you see truth and what is in common and what feelings are shared and honesty and it also makes you see what is not and you my friend fall very very short and i dont care what your friends have to support you its only to make me a miserable person so they are not honest to themselves nor to me and i dont want to even be attached to your lot because i am a true person and anyone who supports you is just as foolish and if they pity you well too bad it taght you nothing you need a mother not a lover and you have the whole world to love you you get enough so you dont need me and i dont certainly need that im safe no matter how you want to deal with this..... because i doubt you have enough true love to realize or even change and i dont need your unconditional crap because its just an excuse to love poorly and to fall easily and waste someones time i on the other hand am strong and love hard true and deeply and i will have that in return and no less...
Thanks again for the wishes, everyone! I am overjoyed! Is it awful that the first thing that comes to mind after excitement is PJ? I keep thinking 'now I'll have the money, but not the time' But save those thoughts for later. I can't wait to get started!
Which place will I be jealous you have a job at this time? Haha
I assure you it's nothing to be jealous of, it's not in the field I want to ultimately be in. But it seems like a great, unique place to work where I'll learn a ton, and I really liked everyone I talked to there. Plus, they gave me chocolate at the interview and quickly offered me the job after...how could I say no? Haha
Well I'm glad that you found something relatively cool! Seems like a great place to work. You start Monday I'm guessing?
I start on Tuesday! Will be sleeping a lot between now and then haha!
"Sometimes you find yourself having to put all your faith in no faith."
~not a dude~
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2014: Leeds, Milton Keynes, Detroit
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Thanks again for the wishes, everyone! I am overjoyed! Is it awful that the first thing that comes to mind after excitement is PJ? I keep thinking 'now I'll have the money, but not the time' But save those thoughts for later. I can't wait to get started!
Which place will I be jealous you have a job at this time? Haha
I assure you it's nothing to be jealous of, it's not in the field I want to ultimately be in. But it seems like a great, unique place to work where I'll learn a ton, and I really liked everyone I talked to there. Plus, they gave me chocolate at the interview and quickly offered me the job after...how could I say no? Haha
Well I'm glad that you found something relatively cool! Seems like a great place to work. You start Monday I'm guessing?
I start on Tuesday! Will be sleeping a lot between now and then haha!
Absolutely wonderful news, Sam. Your persistence has paid off. We all knew it would - your character shines through! And a job with chocolate, too.
my small self... like a book amongst the many on a shelf
Thanks again for the wishes, everyone! I am overjoyed! Is it awful that the first thing that comes to mind after excitement is PJ? I keep thinking 'now I'll have the money, but not the time' But save those thoughts for later. I can't wait to get started!
Which place will I be jealous you have a job at this time? Haha
I assure you it's nothing to be jealous of, it's not in the field I want to ultimately be in. But it seems like a great, unique place to work where I'll learn a ton, and I really liked everyone I talked to there. Plus, they gave me chocolate at the interview and quickly offered me the job after...how could I say no? Haha
Well I'm glad that you found something relatively cool! Seems like a great place to work. You start Monday I'm guessing?
I start on Tuesday! Will be sleeping a lot between now and then haha!
Just give it a couple years... you will be up early on Saturday like the rest of us... haha
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Inlaws Travelled to the inlaws today for a 2yr old bday tomorrow so they could see their grandson. Tonight he (grandpa) divulges that he possibly has a cancerous tumor in his chest and wanted to let it out tonight so we can enjoy the bday tomorrow instead. Wife is in hysterics and nothing at all is in my bones to celebrate my sons bday with all the kids tomorrow now. Wtf? He seems non-chalant by saying "enjoy life, things happen". Am I a dick to be thinking this is a dick move? He couldn't wait until the day after the party? Complete mindfuck to my wife (his daughter). 1hr ago was all smiles and happy times with them and the grandkids now it feels like I am in a morgue decorating it with balloons and streamers. Rant over.
Sounds like a punch in the gut; sorry to hear it. You would know better than us whether it's characteristic of him to make it all about him or not. I'm guessing this is just so all-consuming for him he didn't really think it through; maybe also felt badly about "lying" to his daughter about how things really were.
my small self... like a book amongst the many on a shelf
Inlaws Travelled to the inlaws today for a 2yr old bday tomorrow so they could see their grandson. Tonight he (grandpa) divulges that he possibly has a cancerous tumor in his chest and wanted to let it out tonight so we can enjoy the bday tomorrow instead. Wife is in hysterics and nothing at all is in my bones to celebrate my sons bday with all the kids tomorrow now. Wtf? He seems non-chalant by saying "enjoy life, things happen". Am I a dick to be thinking this is a dick move? He couldn't wait until the day after the party? Complete mindfuck to my wife (his daughter). 1hr ago was all smiles and happy times with them and the grandkids now it feels like I am in a morgue decorating it with balloons and streamers. Rant over.
Since you asked, yes, you're being a dick. There is never a good time to tell a family about a tumor, and I'm sure he's dealing with it the best way he can. You should not be angry at someone who is waiting to hear if he has cancer because the news is upsetting to you and might ruin your good time.
I am very sorry to hear about your father-in-law.... though it doesn't sound like he is really diagnosed yet. That wait is really excruciating though, and he probably told you all because he needs the support NOW. Hopefully you can find it in yourself to give it to him, and to support whatever way he can find to deal with the fear he is undoubtedly feeling. I doubt you being annoyed is the best thing for your wife either. I have been through a scare like this with my dad more than once, and it is awful. But it is also an inevitable part of life, and yes, it does tend to get in the way of birthdays and Christmas and thanksgiving dinners, etc. Accept it and drop the attitude.
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thinking about the families and victims in yesterday's mass shooting at Umpqua Community College here in Oregon....it's so devestating...I was watching the news at lunch time in our lunchroom and 6 of the 9 victims who died were ages 18-20, and 3 were older, 33, 57 and 64...and it just breaks my heart!
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Looking forward to catching up with a friend I haven't seen in a while tomorrow.
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what..i said to my dad when i was a child we were at a horse and bull ranch call alco balla blanco the bull tamer had a red cloth and was fooling the bull with it it was amazing how he made the cloth disappear as the bull charged it without harming the man and the bull would turn around and be puzzled as to where the rag went and i said to my dad 3 years old '' i wish i could do that '' he exclaimed to me in shock ''what ?!?!'' then i repeated myself things went on from there yes i was an innocent child not accountable for anything and was doing what normal children do... had my colored imaginary friends and a shadow and could speak in harmony and sequencely with everybody and knew exactly where everybody was at then family and friends got to work and things happened then off to the park we went... and the rest is history... yes im mommies girl...
no time to make it to the bridge be long gone before that it only takes a few minutes way too hot it would be like lighting a match and putting your hand to the very top of the flame where invisible and scorching hot but all over your body not nice but do you know the causes why
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Travelled to the inlaws today for a 2yr old bday tomorrow so they could see their grandson. Tonight he (grandpa) divulges that he possibly has a cancerous tumor in his chest and wanted to let it out tonight so we can enjoy the bday tomorrow instead. Wife is in hysterics and nothing at all is in my bones to celebrate my sons bday with all the kids tomorrow now. Wtf? He seems non-chalant by saying "enjoy life, things happen". Am I a dick to be thinking this is a dick move? He couldn't wait until the day after the party? Complete mindfuck to my wife (his daughter). 1hr ago was all smiles and happy times with them and the grandkids now it feels like I am in a morgue decorating it with balloons and streamers. Rant over.
and play your stupid egotistical games all you do is think with your dick and your heart is with people who dont live your life well the poorer are more humble and love better and harder than you do
and you have only proven me right so far and you lie to win what you want when your heart is not in it and you expect your commradaries to follow your ways and they do bc thats what stupid friends do but secretly in their own life they would not have a bar of it
i used to care very deeply for you thought i could never let you go and love is not blindness it makes you see truth and what is in common
and what feelings are shared and honesty and it also makes you see what is not and you my friend fall very very short and i dont care what your friends have to support you its only to make me a miserable person so they are not honest to themselves nor to me and i dont want to even be attached to your lot because i am a true person and anyone who supports you is just as foolish and if they pity you well too bad it taght you nothing
you need a mother not a lover and you have the whole world to love you you get enough
so you dont need me and i dont certainly need that
im safe no matter how you want to deal with this.....
because i doubt you have enough true love to realize or even change and i dont need your
unconditional crap because its just an excuse to love poorly and to fall easily and waste someones time
i on the other hand am strong and love hard true and deeply
and i will have that in return and no less...
~not a dude~
2010: MSGx2
2012: Made In America
2013: Pittsburgh, Brooklynx2, Hartford, Baltimore
2014: Leeds, Milton Keynes, Detroit
2015: Global Citizen Festival
2016: Phillyx2, MSGx2, Fenwayx2
2018: Barcelona, Wrigleyx2
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2015: 9/23 NY, 9/26 NY ... 2016: 4/28 PA, 4/29 PA, 5/1 NY, 5/2 NY, 6/11 TN, 8/7 MA, 11/4 TOTD PA, 11/5 TOTD PA ... 2018: 8/10 WA
2022: 9/14 NJ ... 2024: 5/28 WA, 9/7 PA, 9/9 PA ---- http://imgur.com/a/nk0s7
and this..LOL..
Prague Krakow Berlin 2018. Berlin 2022
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I wish i was the souvenir you kept your house key on..
I am very sorry to hear about your father-in-law.... though it doesn't sound like he is really diagnosed yet. That wait is really excruciating though, and he probably told you all because he needs the support NOW. Hopefully you can find it in yourself to give it to him, and to support whatever way he can find to deal with the fear he is undoubtedly feeling. I doubt you being annoyed is the best thing for your wife either. I have been through a scare like this with my dad more than once, and it is awful. But it is also an inevitable part of life, and yes, it does tend to get in the way of birthdays and Christmas and thanksgiving dinners, etc. Accept it and drop the attitude.
so am hopping off the net now
hopefully we all stay safe..
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i wonder if tonight will be the same i hope not..
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2012: Made In America
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we were at a horse and bull ranch call alco balla blanco
the bull tamer had a red cloth and was fooling the bull with it
it was amazing how he made the cloth disappear as the bull charged
it without harming the man and the bull would turn around and be puzzled
as to where the rag went
and i said to my dad 3 years old '' i wish i could do that ''
he exclaimed to me in shock ''what ?!?!''
then i repeated myself
things went on from there
yes i was an innocent child not accountable for anything
and was doing what normal children do...
had my colored imaginary friends and a shadow
and could speak in harmony and sequencely with everybody
and knew exactly where everybody was at
then family and friends got to work and things happened
then off to the park we went...
and the rest is history...
yes im mommies girl...
no time to make it to the bridge be long gone before that it only takes a few minutes way too hot
it would be like lighting a match and putting your hand to the very top of the flame where invisible and scorching hot but all over your body not nice
but do you know the causes why