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My wife and I always balance things out one way or the other. If I go to Alpine for a weekend I give her a weekend of her own. That eliminates the guilt and envy.
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i take trips all the time without the woman...and she goes to NY with out me. works out for both of us since she dislikes pj and i dislike ny.
IMO, it's good to get away from each other a little bit.
My wife and I always balance things out one way or the other. If I go to Alpine for a weekend I give her a weekend of her own. That eliminates the guilt and envy.
this
i take trips all the time without the woman...and she goes to NY with out me. works out for both of us since she dislikes pj and i dislike ny.
IMO, it's good to get away from each other a little bit.
if hubby is down with that, then i agree
but if he's not willing for a trade off of freedom of his own for making her feel guilty for going...
im not sure its worth it.
a chat with hubby is in order.
Mansfield, MA - Jul 02, 2003; Mansfield, MA - Jul 03, 2003; Mansfield, MA - Jul 11, 2003; Boston, MA - Sep 29, 2004; Reading, PA - Oct 01, 2004; Hartford, CT - May 13, 2006; Boston, MA - May 24, 2006; Boston, MA - May 25, 2006; Hartford, CT - Jun 27, 2008; Mansfield, MA - Jun 28, 2008; Mansfield, MA - June 30, 2008; Hartford, CT - May 15, 2010; Boston, MA - May 17, 2010; [EV - Providence, RI - June 15, 2011; EV - Hartford, CT - June 18, 2011]; Worcester, MA - Oct. 15, 2013; Worcester, MA - Oct. 16, 2013; Hartford, CT - Oct. 25, 2013; Boston, MA - August 5, 2016; Boston, MA - August 7, 2016...
I have a chance to go to wrigley. I probably have enough airline miles to get me to Chicago free. The hotel room is booked and paid for. If I go, I will feel a little guilty taking off on my family, even though it would only be a couple of days. Also, we used our last batch of airline miles for me to fly to Tulsa last fall to see eddie solo. It's kinda time for hubby to do something for himself. The problem is that he won't. If I go there will be very subtle and long lasting hints of guilt thrown in my direction. If I go I may not be able to see the number of shows that I'd like to see on the fall tour. Assuming there is a fall tour in the northeast. I haven't seen pj in almost 15 years. It's time but it has to be right. I don't need more stress and it shouldn't be this hard. Ugh.
a chance? do you want to go or not? if so then go and don't let anyone lay a guilt trip on you. if hubby wont do anything that's his issue. the only pressure youre feeling is the pressure youre putting on yourself. he should be happy that youre happy.
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I have a chance to go to wrigley. I probably have enough airline miles to get me to Chicago free. The hotel room is booked and paid for. If I go, I will feel a little guilty taking off on my family, even though it would only be a couple of days. Also, we used our last batch of airline miles for me to fly to Tulsa last fall to see eddie solo. It's kinda time for hubby to do something for himself. The problem is that he won't. If I go there will be very subtle and long lasting hints of guilt thrown in my direction. If I go I may not be able to see the number of shows that I'd like to see on the fall tour. Assuming there is a fall tour in the northeast. I haven't seen pj in almost 15 years. It's time but it has to be right. I don't need more stress and it shouldn't be this hard. Ugh.
How long have you been married? I love when my wife's goes away for a few days.
My wife and I always balance things out one way or the other. If I go to Alpine for a weekend I give her a weekend of her own. That eliminates the guilt and envy.
this
i take trips all the time without the woman...and she goes to NY with out me. works out for both of us since she dislikes pj and i dislike ny.
IMO, it's good to get away from each other a little bit.
if hubby is down with that, then i agree
but if he's not willing for a trade off of freedom of his own for making her feel guilty for going...
im not sure its worth it.
a chat with hubby is in order.
Yes to all of the above. It's definitely nice to do fun things without each other but it's more complicated for him to take off because of his work. I need to convince him to do something too. Part of me says it would be better to be the adult that I am and go somewhere as a family together for a long weekend and hold out for the fall tour. The other part says... I've been waiting so long and missed so many chances to see them when the kids were babes I don't want to wait longer. We know wrigley will be epic!
5/3/92 Omaha, NE
6/19/95 Red Rocks
9/11/98 MSG
11/19/12 EV solo Tulsa
7/19/13 Wrigley 10/19/13 Brooklyn 2 10/21/13 Philly 1 10/22/13 Philly 2 10/25/13 Hartford
10/08/14 Tulsa 10/09/14 Lincoln
9/26/15 NYC Global Citizen
4/16/16 Greenville 4/28/16 Philly 1 4/29/16 Philly 2 5/1/16 MSG 1 5/2/16 MSG 2 8/7/16 Fenway 2 8/20/16 Wrigley 1 4/7/17 RRHOF New York City 9/2/18 Fenway 1 9/4/2018 Fenway 2 9/18/21 Asbury Park 2/4/22 EV Earthlings NYC 2/6/22 EV Earthlings Newark 9/11/22 MSG 9/14/22 Camden 9/3/24 MSG 1 9/4/24 MSG 2 9/7/24 Philly 1 9/9/24 Philly 2
I have a chance to go to wrigley. I probably have enough airline miles to get me to Chicago free. The hotel room is booked and paid for. If I go, I will feel a little guilty taking off on my family, even though it would only be a couple of days. Also, we used our last batch of airline miles for me to fly to Tulsa last fall to see eddie solo. It's kinda time for hubby to do something for himself. The problem is that he won't. If I go there will be very subtle and long lasting hints of guilt thrown in my direction. If I go I may not be able to see the number of shows that I'd like to see on the fall tour. Assuming there is a fall tour in the northeast. I haven't seen pj in almost 15 years. It's time but it has to be right. I don't need more stress and it shouldn't be this hard. Ugh.
How long have you been married? I love when my wife's goes away for a few days.
18 years :roll: it's not that he would miss me so much that he couldn't stand to see me go. That's not the issue
5/3/92 Omaha, NE
6/19/95 Red Rocks
9/11/98 MSG
11/19/12 EV solo Tulsa
7/19/13 Wrigley 10/19/13 Brooklyn 2 10/21/13 Philly 1 10/22/13 Philly 2 10/25/13 Hartford
10/08/14 Tulsa 10/09/14 Lincoln
9/26/15 NYC Global Citizen
4/16/16 Greenville 4/28/16 Philly 1 4/29/16 Philly 2 5/1/16 MSG 1 5/2/16 MSG 2 8/7/16 Fenway 2 8/20/16 Wrigley 1 4/7/17 RRHOF New York City 9/2/18 Fenway 1 9/4/2018 Fenway 2 9/18/21 Asbury Park 2/4/22 EV Earthlings NYC 2/6/22 EV Earthlings Newark 9/11/22 MSG 9/14/22 Camden 9/3/24 MSG 1 9/4/24 MSG 2 9/7/24 Philly 1 9/9/24 Philly 2
i take trips all the time without the woman...and she goes to NY with out me. works out for both of us since she dislikes pj and i dislike ny.
IMO, it's good to get away from each other a little bit.
if hubby is down with that, then i agree
but if he's not willing for a trade off of freedom of his own for making her feel guilty for going...
im not sure its worth it.
a chat with hubby is in order.
Yes to all of the above. It's definitely nice to do fun things without each other but it's more complicated for him to take off because of his work. I need to convince him to do something too. Part of me says it would be better to be the adult that I am and go somewhere as a family together for a long weekend and hold out for the fall tour. The other part says... I've been waiting so long and missed so many chances to see them when the kids were babes I don't want to wait longer. We know wrigley will be epic!
I hope i never become the adult that thinks family holidays are the path to sanity and a harmonious family life.
p.s. I just got back from a 5 week wander around the US(my 3rd in 18 months) and me and my family are better off for my little jaunts.
hear my name
take a good look
this could be the day
hold my hand
lie beside me
i just need to say
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This guy is too cute!!!
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i take trips all the time without the woman...and she goes to NY with out me. works out for both of us since she dislikes pj and i dislike ny.
IMO, it's good to get away from each other a little bit.
if hubby is down with that, then i agree
but if he's not willing for a trade off of freedom of his own for making her feel guilty for going...
im not sure its worth it.
a chat with hubby is in order.
always a fun and interesting topic.
take a good look
this could be the day
hold my hand
lie beside me
i just need to say
a chance? do you want to go or not? if so then go and don't let anyone lay a guilt trip on you. if hubby wont do anything that's his issue. the only pressure youre feeling is the pressure youre putting on yourself. he should be happy that youre happy.
take a good look
this could be the day
hold my hand
lie beside me
i just need to say
Taught by an Iranian :P
How long have you been married? I love when my wife's goes away for a few days.
the Persians have a very long, interesting and rich history. pay attention you might learn something. :P
take a good look
this could be the day
hold my hand
lie beside me
i just need to say
I've had him before
Yes to all of the above. It's definitely nice to do fun things without each other but it's more complicated for him to take off because of his work. I need to convince him to do something too. Part of me says it would be better to be the adult that I am and go somewhere as a family together for a long weekend and hold out for the fall tour. The other part says... I've been waiting so long and missed so many chances to see them when the kids were babes I don't want to wait longer. We know wrigley will be epic!
6/19/95 Red Rocks
9/11/98 MSG
11/19/12 EV solo Tulsa
7/19/13 Wrigley 10/19/13 Brooklyn 2 10/21/13 Philly 1 10/22/13 Philly 2 10/25/13 Hartford
10/08/14 Tulsa 10/09/14 Lincoln
9/26/15 NYC Global Citizen
4/16/16 Greenville 4/28/16 Philly 1 4/29/16 Philly 2 5/1/16 MSG 1 5/2/16 MSG 2 8/7/16 Fenway 2 8/20/16 Wrigley 1
4/7/17 RRHOF New York City
9/2/18 Fenway 1 9/4/2018 Fenway 2
9/18/21 Asbury Park
2/4/22 EV Earthlings NYC 2/6/22 EV Earthlings Newark 9/11/22 MSG 9/14/22 Camden
9/3/24 MSG 1 9/4/24 MSG 2 9/7/24 Philly 1 9/9/24 Philly 2
18 years :roll: it's not that he would miss me so much that he couldn't stand to see me go. That's not the issue
6/19/95 Red Rocks
9/11/98 MSG
11/19/12 EV solo Tulsa
7/19/13 Wrigley 10/19/13 Brooklyn 2 10/21/13 Philly 1 10/22/13 Philly 2 10/25/13 Hartford
10/08/14 Tulsa 10/09/14 Lincoln
9/26/15 NYC Global Citizen
4/16/16 Greenville 4/28/16 Philly 1 4/29/16 Philly 2 5/1/16 MSG 1 5/2/16 MSG 2 8/7/16 Fenway 2 8/20/16 Wrigley 1
4/7/17 RRHOF New York City
9/2/18 Fenway 1 9/4/2018 Fenway 2
9/18/21 Asbury Park
2/4/22 EV Earthlings NYC 2/6/22 EV Earthlings Newark 9/11/22 MSG 9/14/22 Camden
9/3/24 MSG 1 9/4/24 MSG 2 9/7/24 Philly 1 9/9/24 Philly 2
I hope i never become the adult that thinks family holidays are the path to sanity and a harmonious family life.
p.s. I just got back from a 5 week wander around the US(my 3rd in 18 months) and me and my family are better off for my little jaunts.
take a good look
this could be the day
hold my hand
lie beside me
i just need to say
"I need your strength for me to be strong...I need your love to feel loved"
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just pulled a united center, 319 (side stage, row 2) for $256
stuff? what kind of stuff?
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Well, I dunno, Im no designer, but im thinking James Bond gadgetry.
I wish I hadnt clicked that.
want to be enlightened"
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Looks like Don Knotts.
"I need your strength for me to be strong...I need your love to feel loved"
All that I once held as true
I stand alone without beliefs
The only truth I know is you.
All that I once held as true
I stand alone without beliefs
The only truth I know is you.