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My Dad passed away.

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    g under pg under p Surfing The far side of THE Sombrero Galaxy Posts: 18,125
    My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. We sometimes take for granted our mortality and I'm so glad to hear how you were so close to your Dad. We just don't know when our end will come, treasure those moments with your loved ones.

    Stay strong this Thursday, 55 is far too young to leave this life may your father RIP.

    Peace
    *We CAN bomb the World to pieces, but we CAN'T bomb it into PEACE*...Michael Franti

    *MUSIC IS the expression of EMOTION.....and that POLITICS IS merely the DECOY of PERCEPTION*
    .....song_Music & Politics....Michael Franti

    *The scientists of today think deeply instead of clearly. One must be sane to think clearly, but one can think deeply and be quite INSANE*....Nikola Tesla(a man who shaped our world of electricity with his futuristic inventions)


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    ZiggyStarZiggyStar Posts: 14,328
    So very sad. I'm a BIG daddy's girl and this entire thread made me so sad.

    So sorry he went so young, Sian. :cry:
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    bigbadbillbigbadbill Posts: 1,758
    I am so sorry for your loss. I'm in grieving mode also. My father died in February this year. Stay strong!!
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    finnanniefinnannie Posts: 1,186
    ..no words -- :( so sad. Sorry for your loss Sian.
    *hugs*
    Won't let the light escape from me.
    Won't let the darkness swallow me.
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    CROJAM95CROJAM95 Posts: 9,231
    Huge hugs Audiosian...... :(
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    so sorry Sian
    chris&sue
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    DissidentmanDissidentman Posts: 15,378
    Sorry for your loss.

    Kevin&Michelle
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    PoncierPoncier Posts: 16,258
    Sian,
    I am very sorry for your loss. October will mark 5 years since my Dad passed. The sadness is offset by the memories, and it seems you must have a boatload of wonderful memories of time spent with your Dad. Cherish them always. My sincere condolences to you, your Mother and brothers.
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    Stone Is GodStone Is God Posts: 1,329
    Sorry for your loss. Just remember that your father will live on because of what he taught you as a person.
    I'll ride the wave where it takes me.
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    Gern BlanstenGern Blansten Your Mom's Posts: 17,989
    really sorry to see this....my best thoughts to you
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    Phantom PainPhantom Pain Posts: 9,876
    :(


    I'm so sorry for your loss..I can't believe how sudden it was

    That was such a great description of your Dad and your relationship

    Any parent reading that can only hope their son/daughter thinks the same way about them

    Take care of yourself and your Mom...it's not easy
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    The ChampThe Champ Posts: 4,063
    Everyday I will make my Dad proud.

    Sounds like your father was already extremely proud of you...so sorry for your loss..
    'I want to hurry home to you
    put on a slow, dumb show for you
    and crack you up
    so you can put a blue ribbon on my brain
    god I'm very, very frightening
    and I'll overdo it'
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    the wolfthe wolf Posts: 7,027
    Sian,

    I'm so sorry for your loss. Please feel free to PM me if you need or want to talk.

    I remember a few weeks after my father passed it hitting me that i was now without parents as my mom had passed 8 years earlier.

    again, i'm so very sorry.

    be strong, and cry when you need to cry. that is the best advice i have.

    thoughts, and prayers are with you.

    -steve
    Peace, Love.


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    to not question your government is unpatriotic."
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    Ms. HaikuMs. Haiku Washington DC Posts: 7,253
    I'm very sorry to hear about your dad. It sounds like you had an incredible relationship.
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    stargirl69stargirl69 Posts: 6,387
    I had tears in my eyes reading your story.

    Your dear dad must have been very proud of you.You are so right to encourage people to look after their parents,resolve any conflict and love the life they brought you into the world to have.

    My thought are with you and your family.
    xxxx
    “There should be a place where only the things you want to happen, happen”
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    rival.rival. Chicago Posts: 7,776
    i am so sorry to hear about your loss :(
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    PearlOfAGirlPearlOfAGirl Posts: 15,993
    I am so very sorry for your loss, he sounds like he was a terrific dad...

    Wish you were here...

    ~RIP Dad
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    decides2dreamdecides2dream Posts: 14,976
    OMG sian!!!
    :( :( :(

    i am so truly saddened by your loss, what a tragedy...he was so young! my heartfelt condolences to you and your family. i too know what it is like to lose your beloved father, i was there at 23, 4 months shy of my wedding. it is heartwrenching to lose a parent. i wish your father peace....and you and your family a lot of love to help you thru this most difficult time in your lives...


    Tidal waves don't beg forgiveness
    Crashed, then on their way
    Father he enjoyed collisions; others walked away
    A snowflake falls in May.
    And the doors are open now as the bells are ringing out
    Cause the man of the hour is taking his final bow
    Goodbye for now.

    Nature as its own religion; gospel from the land
    Father ruled by long division, young men they pretend
    Old men comprehend.

    And the sky breaks at dawn shedding light upon this town
    They'll all come around
    Cause the man of the hour is taking his final bow
    Goodbye for now.

    And the road
    The old man paved
    The broken seams along the way
    The rusted signs, left just for me
    He was guiding me, love, his own way
    Now the man of the hour is taking his final bow
    As the curtain comes down
    I feel that this is just goodbye for now



    much love!
    Stay with me...
    Let's just breathe...


    I am myself like you somehow


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    evenkatevenkat Posts: 380
    That's so sad. I'm sorry for your loss.
    "...believe in lies...to get by...it's divine...whoa...oh, you know what its like..."
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    OMG sian!!!
    :( :( :(

    i am so truly saddened by your loss, what a tragedy...he was so young! my heartfelt condolences to you and your family. i too know what it is like to lose your beloved father, i was there at 23, 4 months shy of my wedding. it is heartwrenching to lose a parent. i wish your father peace....and you and your family a lot of love to help you thru this most difficult time in your lives...


    Tidal waves don't beg forgiveness
    Crashed, then on their way
    Father he enjoyed collisions; others walked away
    A snowflake falls in May.
    And the doors are open now as the bells are ringing out
    Cause the man of the hour is taking his final bow
    Goodbye for now.

    Nature as its own religion; gospel from the land
    Father ruled by long division, young men they pretend
    Old men comprehend.

    And the sky breaks at dawn shedding light upon this town
    They'll all come around
    Cause the man of the hour is taking his final bow
    Goodbye for now.

    And the road
    The old man paved
    The broken seams along the way
    The rusted signs, left just for me
    He was guiding me, love, his own way
    Now the man of the hour is taking his final bow
    As the curtain comes down
    I feel that this is just goodbye for now



    much love!

    This song has never meant as much to me as it does now.

    Thank you D2D, so much x
    Been to this many PJ shows: Reading 2006 London 2007 Manchester & London 2009 Dublin, Belfast, London, Nijmegen & Berlin 2010 Manchester 1 & Manchester 2 2012...

    ... and I still think Drive-By Truckers are better.
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    JennytreeJennytree Posts: 5,340
    I only saw this now, and I was gonna text you but it's late in the night and I'm sure ye've had a rough few days without me buggin' you too!

    I'm so sorry, Sian and I'm totally gutted for you :cry: I can't even begin to imagine what it's like for you. My Dad means the world to me and I know yours does to you too. I dunno what else to say except you know where I am :(
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    HawkshoreHawkshore Posts: 2,148
    Sian

    Sorry to hear about your loss, may you have the strength to make through this
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    dcfaithfuldcfaithful Posts: 13,076
    Sian,
    I must start by saying that I know how you feel (losing someone so, so close). I also know that at this time, there are no words that will fill the void that is now present. But I hope that all the care, concern, and love you receive from your family on the board, along with all the beautiful memories you have of your father and your immediate family will help heal your wounds. It is true that time helps, but time cannot bring anyone back as we all know.

    Your father lives on with you.
    Your father lives on with his family, and his legacy.

    Never forget love and lessons you received from the wonderful man who will always be your father. :)

    I'm an open ear, as are a lot of people here.

    Much love,
    Dave
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    6/12/08 - Tampa, FL
    8/23/09 - Chicago, IL
    9/28/09 - Salt Lake City, UT (11 years too long!!!)
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    I am so sorry for your loss.
    I'll pray for you and your family.
    "In the age of darkness
    want to be enlightened"
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    __ Posts: 6,651
    Fuck.

    :cry::cry::cry:
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    YourDirtisMyfoodYourDirtisMyfood Boston Posts: 4,517
    I'm sorry to hear this Sain. I'm sure he was a special person to you.

    You were once my one companion
    You were all that mattered
    You were once a friend and father
    Then my world was shattered

    Wishing you were somehow here again
    Wishing you were somehow near
    Sometimes it seemed if I just dreamed
    Somehow you would be here


    Wishing I could hear your voice again
    Knowing that I never would
    Dreaming of you won't help me to do
    All that you dreamed I could


    Passing bells and sculpted angels
    Cold and monumental
    Seem for you the wrong companions
    You were warm and gentle


    Too many years fighting back tears
    Why can't the past just die?


    Wishing you were somehow here again
    Knowing we must say goodbye
    Try to forgive, teach me to live
    Give me the strength to try


    No more memories, no more silent tears
    No more gazing across the wasted years
    Help me say goodbye
    Help me say goodbye
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    dunkmandunkman Posts: 19,646
    Sian

    I have just seen this as well... my heart goes out to you and your family in this tough time.

    love
    Dunk
    oh scary... 40000 morbidly obese christians wearing fanny packs invading europe is probably the least scariest thing since I watched an edited version of The Care Bears movie in an extremely brightly lit cinema.
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    I can't say thank you enough to everyone; The list of shoulders to cry on grows daily. Thank you to all of you who have PMed, called, text or sent cards... you have no idea how much it is appreciated. I am truly blessed to have friends like you.

    My Dad's funeral was arranged yesterday. Myself and my older brother will be performing the eulogy and we are having Jethro Tull's 'Too Old to Rock and Roll, Too Young to Die' played as well as his favourite flute concerto... he would've liked that. I'm just hoping with all my energy that I can hold it together on the day.
    Been to this many PJ shows: Reading 2006 London 2007 Manchester & London 2009 Dublin, Belfast, London, Nijmegen & Berlin 2010 Manchester 1 & Manchester 2 2012...

    ... and I still think Drive-By Truckers are better.
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    g under pg under p Surfing The far side of THE Sombrero Galaxy Posts: 18,125
    I can't say thank you enough to everyone; The list of shoulders to cry on grows daily. Thank you to all of you who have PMed, called, text or sent cards... you have no idea how much it is appreciated. I am truly blessed to have friends like you.

    My Dad's funeral was arranged yesterday. Myself and my older brother will be performing the eulogy and we are having Jethro Tull's 'Too Old to Rock and Roll, Too Young to Die' played as well as his favourite flute concerto... he would've liked that. I'm just hoping with all my energy that I can hold it together on the day.

    No worries, I know you will. Your father's spirit and his WILL, will pull you through.

    Stand firm, Stand strong and Stay Human....Peace
    *We CAN bomb the World to pieces, but we CAN'T bomb it into PEACE*...Michael Franti

    *MUSIC IS the expression of EMOTION.....and that POLITICS IS merely the DECOY of PERCEPTION*
    .....song_Music & Politics....Michael Franti

    *The scientists of today think deeply instead of clearly. One must be sane to think clearly, but one can think deeply and be quite INSANE*....Nikola Tesla(a man who shaped our world of electricity with his futuristic inventions)


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    JaneNYJaneNY Posts: 4,438
    Oh gosh I just saw this - I am so sorry for your loss. Lost my Dad a couple years ago - its hard.
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