I'd be creeped out. I'd have to know the person first. And I'd use the first excuse I could think of to get away from the interaction.
If he is interested, he should get one of his female friends to go in and get her nails done, and maybe try to find out something about the one he's interested in. For all he knows she's already married or in a relationship.
Why does it matter if she's already married or in a relationship? That's just a chance he's taking and something he'll find out if he talks to her. Shouldn't be something that stops him from approaching her!
What does it matter? Of course it matters. It matters quite a bit. You asked the opinion of women in this thread. If all you're going to do is argue, why bother asking? Then Just tell him to do whatever he wants and deal with whatever happens and who cares what ladies think.
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I'd be creeped out. I'd have to know the person first. And I'd use the first excuse I could think of to get away from the interaction.
If he is interested, he should get one of his female friends to go in and get her nails done, and maybe try to find out something about the one he's interested in. For all he knows she's already married or in a relationship.
Why does it matter if she's already married or in a relationship? That's just a chance he's taking and something he'll find out if he talks to her. Shouldn't be something that stops him from approaching her!
What does it matter? Of course it matters. It matters quite a bit. You asked the opinion of women in this thread. If all you're going to do is argue, why bother asking? Then Just tell him to do whatever he wants and deal with whatever happens and who cares what ladies think.
I wasn't arguing about anything. You say it matters quite a bit but fail to elaborate. Basically what I gather from you is you think all single people should avoid approaching those they are attracted to because there is a 50% chance they could be in a relationship? C'mon, makes no sense. He'll find out her relationship status when he starts talking to her...not an issue.
I wasn't arguing about anything. You say it matters quite a bit but fail to elaborate. Basically what I gather from you is you think all single people should avoid approaching those they are attracted to because there is a 50% chance they could be in a relationship? C'mon, makes no sense. He'll find out her relationship status when he starts talking to her...not an issue.
If she doesn't have a ring, it's impossible to know whether she is single or not but this shouldn't deter your cousin. Just got to take the plunge and hope for the best!
If some guy you've never met approached you and asked you out...how would you feel? Lets say the guy is close to your age and is well dressed, groomed nicely.
Doesn't matter if you are single or in a relationship. Would you feel flattered, creeped out?
If some guy you've never met approached you and asked you out...how would you feel? Lets say the guy is close to your age and is well dressed, groomed nicely.
Doesn't matter if you are single or in a relationship. Would you feel flattered, creeped out?
I'd be creeped out. I'd have to know the person first. And I'd use the first excuse I could think of to get away from the interaction.
If he is interested, he should get one of his female friends to go in and get her nails done, and maybe try to find out something about the one he's interested in. For all he knows she's already married or in a relationship.
What does it matter? Of course it matters. It matters quite a bit. You asked the opinion of women in this thread. If all you're going to do is argue, why bother asking? Then Just tell him to do whatever he wants and deal with whatever happens and who cares what ladies think.
I wasn't arguing about anything. You say it matters quite a bit but fail to elaborate. Basically what I gather from you is you think all single people should avoid approaching those they are attracted to because there is a 50% chance they could be in a relationship? C'mon, makes no sense. He'll find out her relationship status when he starts talking to her...not an issue.
i think her point was simply, that it does matter for him to have a shot, that's all. that he could be investing all this time/energy in wishing to have a date with this girl, and she may already be involved and therefore, all a moot point, that's all. obviously, it 'doesn't matter' in regards to him approaching her, but it will matter after the fact. so if he spends a good deal of time thinking about her, etc....and then it ends up she's already married, in a serious relationship, whatever...just a waste of time is all.
bascially, if he is so interested, he should just go in and get a haircut or get someone else to do so and he accompanies her to the appointment, or take ziggy's earlier suggestion....whatever. just do something! :P
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Hi mets!
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★ 2011 - EV Newcastle, Melbourne 1, Melbourne 2 ★
hi ziggy
Sammi: Wanna just break up?
What does it matter? Of course it matters. It matters quite a bit. You asked the opinion of women in this thread. If all you're going to do is argue, why bother asking? Then Just tell him to do whatever he wants and deal with whatever happens and who cares what ladies think.
R.i.p. My Dad - May 28, 2007
R.i.p. Black Tail (cat) - Sept. 20, 2008
I wasn't arguing about anything. You say it matters quite a bit but fail to elaborate. Basically what I gather from you is you think all single people should avoid approaching those they are attracted to because there is a 50% chance they could be in a relationship? C'mon, makes no sense. He'll find out her relationship status when he starts talking to her...not an issue.
If she doesn't have a ring, it's impossible to know whether she is single or not but this shouldn't deter your cousin. Just got to take the plunge and hope for the best!
Let us know how he goes!
★ 2009 - Sydney, Brisbane, Auckland, Christchurch ★
★ 2011 - EV Newcastle, Melbourne 1, Melbourne 2 ★
If he looks something like this http://www.flickr.com/photos/33550676@N02/3125787728/
I'd be flattered.
want to be enlightened"
Mmmmmm.....nice pic!
★ 2009 - Sydney, Brisbane, Auckland, Christchurch ★
★ 2011 - EV Newcastle, Melbourne 1, Melbourne 2 ★
i think her point was simply, that it does matter for him to have a shot, that's all. that he could be investing all this time/energy in wishing to have a date with this girl, and she may already be involved and therefore, all a moot point, that's all. obviously, it 'doesn't matter' in regards to him approaching her, but it will matter after the fact. so if he spends a good deal of time thinking about her, etc....and then it ends up she's already married, in a serious relationship, whatever...just a waste of time is all.
bascially, if he is so interested, he should just go in and get a haircut or get someone else to do so and he accompanies her to the appointment, or take ziggy's earlier suggestion....whatever. just do something! :P
Let's just breathe...
I am myself like you somehow
The risk I took was calculated, but man, am I bad at math - The Mincing Mockingbird
hahahahahahahahahahaha.....awesome post!
Let's just breathe...
I am myself like you somehow