I've been to them with groups or a couple people at different times in my life, no biggy really. it is was it is.
just that he went alone, lied about it.
a month or two after I got back from PJ20 it came up in idle conversation with my sis-n-law that he had asked his brother to go but his brother didn't want to. so at that time I asked him and he said his brother was feeling down and "he just threw it out there as a suggestion." I didn't want to drill it into the ground so I let it go. He's quite professing when it comes to trust and integrity.
when I asked him about the two of us going, he just makes a sour face.
I trusted him, I want to trust him. I trusted completely before I found this out. I either have to trust him going forward or get out cause I'll go nuts analysing it. so much of marriage is trusting, but he don't trust me enough to be mature when he says "hey, I think we going to go to here tonight, just so you know".?
we've been together 10 years married 5 years and neither of us have ever slept on the couch due to a conflict. I can be bossy but I'm not unreasonable.
thanks for your 2c.
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