went to strip club while I was PJ20

madtowndave

LloydXmas wrote:

SatansFuton wrote:

amethgr8 wrote:

yea, I'm analytical, a "why" child I was. I know it can get the best of me. just a bump in the road I guess.

thanks for the help over the bump.

amy

we like titties.

you got that right

+1

I'm a Truck

Can't wait for Staysea to chime in! She always has good advice for this shit.















I like boobies too!!

Pjzepp67

amethgr8 wrote:

found out thru happenstance that hubby made a trip, by himself, to polekatz while I was away at PJ20 with my brother. Totally gave hubby the chance to go, and wanted him to, but he has seen them 4 times and brother was in town, so he gracefully bowed out.

what should I make of it?

amy

As Chris Rock says, "there aint no sex in the Champagne Room"...strip clubs are not brothels...they are (forgive the pun) titilation at best, a relief for sexual boredom at worst. I would however have to question his commitment to PJ...even if he had seen them 4x before and even if it was your brother. Strip clubs are nothing to stress about... :fp:
Tell him the only way he can make it up to you is a trip to Chicago on July, 19th, with a "show" thrown in...

c u there...

Pjzepp67

I'm a Truck wrote:

Can't wait for Staysea to chime in! She always has good advice for this shit.
















I like boobies too!!

You picked a name for the bambino yet... :fp:

I'm a Truck

Pjzepp67 wrote:

I'm a Truck wrote:

Can't wait for Staysea to chime in! She always has good advice for this shit.
















I like boobies too!!

You picked a name for the bambino yet... :fp:

yeah right! We've got months to debate. Last kid didn't have a name for 4 days after he was born.

F Me In The Brain

LloydXmas wrote:

SatansFuton wrote:

amethgr8 wrote:

yea, I'm analytical, a "why" child I was. I know it can get the best of me. just a bump in the road I guess.

thanks for the help over the bump.

amy

we like titties.

you got that right

Yes. Yes we do.

FrankieG

You are asking for relationship advice on a PJ forum because the said act in question happened while you were at a PJ event? :fp:

SatansFuton

F Me In The Brain wrote:

LloydXmas wrote:

SatansFuton wrote:

we like titties.

you got that right

Yes. Yes we do.

As evidenced by the fact that the Official Kate Upton Thread is 12 Pages long. That's more than the "Downton Abbey" and "The Americans" threads combined.

The moral of the story is that Maggie Smith needs to take her top off

LloydXmas

SatansFuton wrote:

As evidenced by the fact that the Official Kate Upton Thread is 12 Pages long. That's more than the "Downton Abbey" and "The Americans" threads combined.

The moral of the story is that Maggie Smith needs to take her top off

:corn: :corn:

mysticweed

amethgr8 wrote:

found out thru happenstance that hubby made a trip, by himself, to polekatz while I was away at PJ20 with my brother. Totally gave hubby the chance to go, and wanted him to, but he has seen them 4 times and brother was in town, so he gracefully bowed out.

what should I make of it?

amy

as long as it's not a habit

i just cannot believe that four shows was enough for him

dimitrispearljam

number 1 in relationships is trust..

if you trust him ,all seems ok...if not...you should tell him right away that you dont like the idea of him going..

cubBEE_girl

i think that if you are still thinking about it over a year after it happened and seeking advice you should talk to your husband about it. ask him why he wasn't upfront with you about it...that seems to be the crux of the issue, not that he actually went to a strip club, but that he wasn't upfront with you about it. maybe he was embarrassed that he went by himself. maybe he thought you'd be upset that he went while you were out of town. if you are still thinking about it, you need to talk to him about it, otherwise it will just keep bothering you.

amethgr8

FrankieG wrote:

You are asking for relationship advice on a PJ forum because the said act in question happened while you were at a PJ event? :fp:

yes, I guess I am. huh. not sure if I would have if, it would have been a non-PJ event, but no matter.. too late now. not really advise, just what you makes of it.

cubBEE_girl wrote:

if you are still thinking about it, you need to talk to him about it, otherwise it will just keep bothering you.

I wasn't thinking about it at all, I ran across the information by happenstance and it was brought to my attention. no way for me to hold shit in for a year and stew about it. I accepted his answer at the time, no problem, I was in the PJ20 haze for days.

guess I just needed to vent, get the initial shock out of my mind. at the end of the day it doesn't much change the way I feel about him. in the scope of all the time we have together, such a small amount, one day, no vows were broke. we didn't waste much time on it.

dankind

SatansFuton wrote:

we like titties.

As evidenced by the fact that the Official Kate Upton Thread is 12 Pages long. That's more than the "Downton Abbey" and "The Americans" threads combined.

The moral of the story is that Maggie Smith needs to take her top off

Room 237!

polaris_x

uhhh ... no one wants to ask i guess ... so i will ...

what's the sex life situation like?

voidofman

LloydXmas wrote:

polekatz. Sounds like a Polish Delicatessen to me.

That's an awful name since a polecat is another name for a skunk.

JonnyPistachio

amethgr8 wrote:

found out thru happenstance that hubby made a trip, by himself, to polekatz while I was away at PJ20 with my brother. Totally gave hubby the chance to go, and wanted him to, but he has seen them 4 times and brother was in town, so he gracefully bowed out.

what should I make of it?

amy

Nothings registering with me.. I still cant comprehend why he didnt go with you to PJ20.

But yeah, I'd assume something weird is up with him.. going to a strip club by yourself is very odd.

BinauralJam

going to a strip club by yourself is very odd. :? :oops:

RKCNDY

amethgr8 wrote:

I wasn't thinking about it at all, I ran across the information by happenstance and it was brought to my attention.

so you 'just found out' now? :?

amethgr8

RKCNDY wrote:

so you 'just found out' now?

amethgr8 wrote:

a month or two after I got back from PJ20 it came up in idle conversation with my sis-n-law that he had asked his brother to go but his brother didn't want to. so at that time I asked him and he said his brother was feeling down and "he just threw it out there as a suggestion." I didn't want to drill it into the ground so I let it go.

yea, I just found out through happenstance that what he told me back in 2011 was bullshit.

yea, I still don't understand why he wouldn't go to PJ20 with me either, but hey, to each their own I'm not going to twist his arm to go to a great show, wonderful venue, and with his wife in a fan-freakingtastic mood all weekend. :P