i wanna date a musician

well, like I said, I am just a poser... not a real "rock dude"

so, I would not be what a rock chick is looking for...

we still see each other every now and then...

She comes to by band's shows. Nice to have your friends support.

Originally posted by puremagic
The reason for my question was because when people say they want a person that likes music. It is usually limited to their own personal musical tastes. Just a thought.

not me, I pretty much like all people that are passionate about music.

You really don't meet people that are passionate about pop music right? If you're into pop music you are basically just looking for a background track you aren't really listening.

I loved dating this musical theatre girl I dated for a while I got along better with her than anyone, unfortunately I always catch girls before they are in that transition stage when they always think after a while that maybe there is something else out there and they dump me and then date losers. I know because this particular girl dated this ugly goonlike moron for 3 years after she dumped me. Aparently I give them hope that there are good men in the world so they get bored with me and go look for losers. I am not dramatic enough.

Basically I date a lot of fickel immature selfish women.


In conclusion if you love music, look for a girl that also loves music chances are you and her can rub off on each other it's even better if you and she like different music.

You can't really do anything about them being selfish, immature, fickel or psycho hose beasts......

Originally posted by puremagic
I'm just going to assume this was directed to House and not me.

yeah. that's it. I shouldn't have quoted you. Unless you want to date a music girl too but you don't swing that way so I guess all that applies just change girl to guy. But you knew that.

Originally posted by exhausted
dating a musician would be great until it all went to shit and you both started writing songs about how much it sucked.

hey it worked for No Doubt. They made millions off of gwen and that wierd looking bass players misery.

Originally posted by puremagic
Then we'd end up like Nickelback and Puddle of Mud.

And Limp Bizkit.

Yeah, I know what you mean... it is frustrating when things go south... but you have to figure if it is going to end... the sooner the better.

If a girl doesn't want me anymore, I don't want her sticking around... "I want you, to want me" I tell them... "I need you, to need me..." and most importantly "I'd love for you, to love me."

But, if not then it is probably best to move on.

It is sometimes better to be on your own... and be able to just have a good time with people and be happy within yourself...

I look at relationships like this... (warning long post with House53's love insights)

When you start out you are completely you. Meaning: full and no other interests... your own (whatever they might be, which could involve charity work or something... but still all you).

When you make a place in your life for someone else... in whatever level... they hollow out a place in you and become a part of you. So, when that person is no longer a part of your life... there is an emptiness... so you look to fill that emptiness...

the next person comes along, and doesn't fit the mold exactly... but squeezes in, and hollows out some more of you... the space inside you gets bigger, and you are able to allow someone to be a bigger and bigger part of your life... the hole inside changes shape with each relationship until one day you meet someone that fits the hole perfectly and completes you again... in a much better form. Because you have learned to compromise and work with someone else as a part of your life.

Finding the right person to fit, after all of your past relationships is the hard part... and why timing plays such a big factor in these kinds of relationships.

I will shut up now...

To stay on topic: music is one of those holes... and that part of me, (music and my tastes) is pretty firmly rooted in me... no one has been able to modify or take up any of that part of me yet. So, yes, I am looking for someone to go along with my tastes in music.

Originally posted by Pacomc79
Fleetwood Mac anyone?

what a headfuck. playing guitar on a track about how much of an asshole you were to her.

Originally posted by exhausted
don't get me wrong. writing songs about how much love sucks is the touchstone for 99% of pop music.

but it would really suck trying to maintain a relationship whilst exorcising frustration in song and having your partner do the same.

It depends on how personal and detail the song got. If he's singing about smack my bitch up and she's singing about his touch was different. A family that plays together stays together, may not be the same for musicians.

My songs are always either about being upset about a girl or being upset about the president... one or the other...

I could name my album, Bad Girls and Cowboys. I like that.

Originally posted by House53
My songs are always either about being upset about a girl or being upset about the president... one or the other...

I could name my album, Bad Girls and Cowboys. I like that.

Make sure people know you aren't Bisexual.

Hiyo!