*Updated* Joshua - The Love Boat Captain
This is one of the few times I've posted on here, but I have something I really want to share with my "jamily". Please be kind, this is a heartfelt post.
My 9 year old son was born four weeks early and had severe delays early on. At 6 months old, we found out he had cerebral palsy. We were overwhelmed by this baby that would be inconsolable for hours on end. But, then we discovered the one thing that he loved. Live from Madison Garden. Literally this 6 month old baby, who was developmentally like a newborn... Would completely stop crying when Love Boat Captain could start. It was a incredible relief.
As he began therapy we would use Pearl Jam Music to get him through. When he would stop working, we would turn off the DVD and he'd snap to attention.
He didn't talk until he was five, but I accredit him learning from the countless hours listening to PJ and mimicking the sounds of the instruments and lyrics.
Joshua has been wheelchair bound his whole life. We've gone through several major surgeries to help his misaligned legs. He's spent months in a body cast and in inpatient therapy. And now at 9, he's very slowly learning to walk, as you can imagine it's a miracle to see.
Joshua's love for PJ has made the music part of our family. My husband and I have become the super fans we are today because it's part of our life. He knows the lyrics to every single song, even the Christmas singles... But yet he can't spell his own name.
Last year, we brought him to his first show in Milwaukee. He still talks about it and asks to go to the "concert". We are hoping for another tour very soon so he can have the opportunity to go again.
I've wanted to share his story for a while, but I'm very protective. People can be cruel and I never want anyone to think that I have selfish motivation.
But, he is a part of this community and I think that his story is pretty cool. (I know I'm biased being his mom lol)
Here is a link to my latest you tube video. Him and I are talking about the song Porch and he drops the f-bomb. It's kinda cute. There are also some random videos of him rocking out through the years.

Although I would love to see Joshua meet the band, or get on stage one day... I more or less just would love to gain some support through the community as he learns to walk. And, just gain some awareness of his disability and his fandom.
Last show we felt somewhat out of place bringing him along. So, hopefully next time you all will see us and say hi!
Thanks in advance for your support!
Peace, Love, PJ
Christina
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That is awesome. Thanks for sharing your story!!!!
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I would assume you have the Milwaukee show on CD. If not pm me and I will send you my extra copy. Good stuff right here. Give your boy some hugs from a fellow fan for me. Keep him rocking, see you at a show sometime...2006 Clev,Pitt; 2008 NY MSGx2; 2010 Columbus; 2012 Missoula; 2013 Phoenix,Vancouver,Seattle; 2014 Cincy; 2016 Lex, Wrigley 1&2; 2018 Wrigley 1&2; 2022 Louisville0
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awesome story!By The Time They Figure Out What Went Wrong, We'll Be Sitting On A Beach, Earning Twenty Percent.0
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Christina, please know that you have plenty of support here.
What an awesome guy! Thank you for sharing your story.
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Thank you all! The support is so awesome and I will read all of your comments to him after school. We do have MKE and he watches the multicam shows on you tube... This kid is so hard core he has preferences to which bootleg/song version he wants. It's frustrating at times because his vocabulary and speech is limited, so he will want a certain bootleg and I have to figure out which one!!! His favorite songs are You Are, Love Boat Captain ... Just like the rest of us, his other favorites change from time to time. haha
He's a crazy hardcore fan, just like the rest of us.0 -
This is amazing and that you for sharing.
I dont have the DVD of that Milwaukee show but wasn't sure if you knew you can watch on YouTube a great version....you probably already have seen this, but if not:
https://youtube.com/watch?v=EH0-zH0L40U
Keep on rocking Joshua!!The love he receives is the love that is saved0 -
Amazing post! Made my day!Do you know what it's like to fall in the mud and get kicked... in the head... with an iron boot? Of course you don't, no one does. It never happens. Sorry, Ted, that's a dumb question... skip that.0
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Thank You for sharing your inspirational, personal life experiences - "All you need is love". Peace to you and your family!1993 08-18 Toronto ON CNE w/ Neil Young, Soundgarden
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The love is overwhelming!! I haven't stopped crying. Haha I've thought about sharing for a while and I'm so glad I did! Pearl Jam fans really are the best! This band and community inspires us and I'm proud to be a part of it.
So, PJ if you're listening... Joshua wants another concert and to meet his new friends... Hint hint!0 -
Much support from here, and admiration for mixing the light into grey.
Anyone gives you guff for this post, I'll kick their ass
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I stopped everything I was doing to read this. I am so glad you shared Joshua's story Christina! What an incredible young man and you are one awesome mom. I will be thinking of you guys from now on. If he would like a poster from Celebrating The Who with Eddie Vedder at the Rosemont Theater from 5/14/15 pm me! I noticed you are from IL like me!0
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Thanks for sharing. I'm glad you had the courage to post and share your story. Hopefully he'll get a chance sooner than later to see another show.2018 - 8/8, 8/10
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Wow..just wow. I too stopped everything I was doing to read your post. Thank you so much for sharing. Joshua will continue to be an inspiration to everyone and I can only hope I'm as great of a parent as you are, Christina. Rock on dude!!!0
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Thank you for sharing this. Here's hoping Joshua gets a show soon! Wishing your family much love and happiness.0
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He's gonna be so excited to read your comments! Thank you again! Sharing one more video. This is right before the previous one. Sorry it's hard to hold the camera sideways lol I have arthritis and my hands shake bad when I do that!
We were practicing sitting...https://youtu.be/wX9ZFlT6kL8
Sending so much love and good energy to you all!0 -
Thank you so much! We do have one, my husband and I attended. Your kindness is so appreciated!!pearlgirl52 said:I stopped everything I was doing to read this. I am so glad you shared Joshua's story Christina! What an incredible young man and you are one awesome mom. I will be thinking of you guys from now on. If he would like a poster from Celebrating The Who with Eddie Vedder at the Rosemont Theater from 5/14/15 pm me! I noticed you are from IL like me!
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Thanks for sharing. Hey Joshua, ROCK ON0
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Awesome little fella! Much love to y'all.I SAW PEARL JAM0
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This is by far the post of the decade!!
Thanks for sharing
Keep on rockin Joshua!!
It is an honor to be a fan of the same band as your are..
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