I've questioned myself numerous times if I am a cynic or becoming one. I just don't know the answer but I do know that as time goes on I can point out the cynics.
Honestly I had to google this word As we don't use it at much at home purely because We believe or I should say I believe that a cynic person Possibly may have become cynic due to various Misfortunes , bad luck ,suffering and bitterness and Then become cynical it's the outcome of looking For a fair go to make up for so much shit But I do believe some are raised to be selfish For no apparent reason and this we could call selfish This cynic and selfishness I don't appreciate But I'm a firm believer in fairness
We live in a selfish world and if you give an inch people take miles sometimes with no thankyous and it eventually takes its wear on you till your walked all over so in all honesty you have to become a little selfish to survive this world or get trashed
I think we're inherently selfish; it's survivalism and not a negative if you don't treat people like shit in the process.
I try to just be decent and as open-minded as I can because it's the right thing for me to do. Not easy either. Still, I'd rather someone prove me wrong in my confidence in them than my going into it assuming they'll do that anyway.
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As we don't use it at much at home purely because
We believe or I should say I believe that a cynic person
Possibly may have become cynic due to various
Misfortunes , bad luck ,suffering and bitterness and
Then become cynical it's the outcome of looking
For a fair go to make up for so much shit
But I do believe some are raised to be selfish
For no apparent reason and this we could call selfish
This cynic and selfishness I don't appreciate
But I'm a firm believer in fairness
I try to just be decent and as open-minded as I can because it's the right thing for me to do. Not easy either. Still, I'd rather someone prove me wrong in my confidence in them than my going into it assuming they'll do that anyway.
Great post on the first page that addressed this.