Goodbye, this use to be a really cool place

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  • Big Bank Hank
    Big Bank Hank Seattle, WA Posts: 8,639
    I already admitted I was wrong, I thought it was something it isn't, and yes I left twice before, but my love of the music pulled me back, but since there is so little talk of that anymore than my presence on the Porch won't be missed anyway, I don't contribute near what I use to, and have been growing more and more detached anyway, I have seen people who have been members for 10 years plus leave since I have been here, so from that perspective my leaving pales greatly in comparison, not looking for sympathy or anything other than a place where talking about the music and the band and how that can make the world a better place is the focal point
  • hedonist
    hedonist Posts: 24,524

    hedonist said:

    change the world? Cameron really did romanticise it for you didnt he :wink:
    This place is whatever you want it to be, if you want to talk about a certain song then create a thread for it, if you want to talk about merch create a thread for it

    it is pointless it gets lost in the muck
    Ahhh. So the other posts are muck and yours aren't.

    I've found many treasures while digging in the so-called dirt (cue Peter Gabriel!).

    We're not all special little flowers, Hank.
    actually we all are special or at least have the potential to be, I need to be constantly evolving
    And the lack of that one forum is keeping you from it?

    I guess that's not what I'm getting.

    In the end, you're pissed and feel your progress is hampered because you didn't get a requested forum put into place and can't be arsed to sift through the dirt the rest of us created so that your views shine?

    Honestly, that's how it's coming across. If I'm incorrect, please feel free to set me straight.
  • Force Of Nature
    Force Of Nature York, England Posts: 1,141
    edited May 2015

    a place where talking about the music and the band and how that can make the world a better place is the focal point

    Can I check, what do you mean by making the world a better place?
    This is a band forum so there's only so much you should expect here.

    From my count on the first page there are:
    Chicago Wishlist Fundraiser
    memorial fundraiser
    Vitalogy foundation
    Flight to mars fundraiser
    Fellow fan in need raffle

    Thats not bad for a band 'making the world a better place'
  • Big Bank Hank
    Big Bank Hank Seattle, WA Posts: 8,639
    I do appreciate all the charity work they do and try to support as many of the causes as I can, but what I am talking about is about life and ideas and way to become better people and make the world a better place, which only comes from talking about feelings and emotions and love and wisdom
  • 2-feign-reluctance
    2-feign-reluctance TigerTown, USA Posts: 23,461
    You'll be back, again. This place is like sex.
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  • Big Bank Hank
    Big Bank Hank Seattle, WA Posts: 8,639

    You'll be back, again. This place is like sex.

    lol, thanks for the laugh
  • Suziemay
    Suziemay Posts: 11,168
    Why the need to be all or nothing? You're gonna go from posting lots to leaving? Maybe just take a break and lurk every now and then. Most things in life aren't black and white. There are a lot of good people here. Maybe they don't post all the time but they are here.

    Do whatever you want obviously, just think you're taking this board a bit too seriously.
  • on2legs
    on2legs Posts: 16,114
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  • ldent42
    ldent42 NYC Posts: 7,859
    hedonist said:


    We're not all special little flowers, Hank.

    I am a goddamned snowflake, I don't care WHAT Tyler Durden says.
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  • hedonist
    hedonist Posts: 24,524

    I do appreciate all the charity work they do and try to support as many of the causes as I can, but what I am talking about is about life and ideas and way to become better people and make the world a better place, which only comes from talking about feelings and emotions and love and wisdom

    This is strange to me, given the various threads not just about charity work of the band but of those who have given of themselves in so many ways, to both friends and strangers.

    The initial post was about something different, no? Band, tour dates and songs. I want my forum, dammit! - is how it came across.

    I think the other threads you mentioned up there address your latest post vs the first one.

    Have you changed course or am I missing something?
  • hedonist
    hedonist Posts: 24,524
    ldent42 said:

    hedonist said:


    We're not all special little flowers, Hank.

    I am a goddamned snowflake, I don't care WHAT Tyler Durden says.
    =)

    I also need deadendp and her asterisk!
  • PJForceofNature
    PJForceofNature Posts: 3,087
    Hank, I always enjoy your polls! Will miss them if you leave. ):
    "A beacon on dry land"
  • Ribbertron
    Ribbertron Posts: 165
    I've seen breakups less dramatic than this...
  • PJ_Soul
    PJ_Soul Vancouver, BC Posts: 51,029
    edited May 2015

    This all is a good reason for PJ to give us a SPIN THE BLACK CIRLCE place. Only vinyl talk allowed. Think that would solve you're problem ;). If I were you I would stay. I am not long on these boards and know that you're very much liked around these parts. Once the mystery vinyl is landed everywhere I think that will clear up the vinyl threads. Everything will turn to normal, I presume.

    I agree with this. A place just for talking about merch would be great. I like discussing merch - specifically vinyl - a lot. For collectors, there is a lot to say. It's a hobby, and it's good to talk it to death with like-minded people, lol. But separating it from discussing the band's music would be great, since I and we all love discussing the music too.
    That said, i kind of feel like just about everything that can be discussed about the music has already been said on these boards. Unless PJ are making new music, the heavy discussions about it about are bound to peter out. There continues to be new vinyl/merch to discuss, but very little new music. I think that's why we're seeing so many threads about merch now - that is simply what is currently happening in PJ land, and that is what we know is most likely to be coming down the pipe too.
    And JustaPJFan is right - once the mystery vinyl is all recieved and poured over, those threads will also go away.

    Besides, talking about PJ vinyl IS largely about the music. A lot of people are so excited about it because they get to spin it!
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  • mrk2
    mrk2 Finland Posts: 2,093
    FFS there's 2950 pages of threads on The Porch, if the ones on the first page aren't to your liking, move on to the next page.
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  • PJ_Soul
    PJ_Soul Vancouver, BC Posts: 51,029
    edited May 2015
    mrk2 said:

    FFS there's 2950 pages of threads on The Porch, if the ones on the first page aren't to your liking, move on to the next page.

    Also a very good point. The option is to keep starting your own threads of you're not happy with the ones that already exist.
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  • Force Of Nature
    Force Of Nature York, England Posts: 1,141
    mrk2 said:

    FFS there's 2950 pages of threads on The Porch, if the ones on the first page aren't to your liking, move on to the next page.

    Haha, this made me laugh. It gets a thumbs up from me :plus_one:
  • I counted 14 of the 28 threads on the first page were merchandise/vinyl related, it use to be that 80 to 90% of the threads were about the music or tour dates or stuff band related, and the merchandise threads keep taking over more and more of the porch, no offense to people who want to spend their time speaking about the merchandise, just not very inspiring for me, I joined this group because I assumed that it was a bunch of people who wanted to talk about the music. I know this thread will get locked because there is a constant attempt to limit free expression even when clearly nothing I have said violates the board rules. I will stay until they announce a Canadian Tour, but I will only be keeping that one thread active for my many friends in Canada, after that I am gone, probably going to let my membership expire too (I might keep it just for the setlist threads over in Given To Fly), I can always get tickets on Facebook. Maybe it is just me, but I can't see why it so hard to have a section just for people who want to talk about the band, the tour dates and the songs (although maybe this is the way the band wants it, as they play fewer and fewer shows, maybe they want it to be all about merchandise), but all these other threads make it too hard to sift through, so my best wishes, but this time is for good unless they create a forum that is about the songs, tour dates and the band, so good luck to everyone, this is a bummer, there were so many great discussions in here, my time on The Porch is nearing it's end, proof that not all change is for the good (although I am sure some are rejoicing, lol). No hard feelings, best wishes to everyone.
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    So go to the words and music section of the site. That's what that section is for. Problem solved.
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  • deadendp
    deadendp Northeast Ohio Posts: 10,434
    hedonist said:

    ldent42 said:

    hedonist said:


    We're not all special little flowers, Hank.

    I am a goddamned snowflake, I don't care WHAT Tyler Durden says.
    =)

    I also need deadendp and her asterisk!
    *
    We're all brilliant asterisks! (Ask, Hedonist, and ye shall receive!)

    In all seriousness, my time here on the boards has been brief in relation to time other people have been here. In my short time, I've noticed that the boards have seasons. When touring, you have the ISO (name your venue here) threads. During Mystery Box sales, we have those threads. Sometimes I sift. Sometimes I decide to fold the laundry and clean the dishes instead. But I do agree with 2-feign. =)

    The forum isn't time clock attached. Be in when you want to be. Be out when you want to be. Just make sure that you enjoy what you are doing. (Whether it be here or elsewhere.) If you aren't, then make a change.
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  • hedonist
    hedonist Posts: 24,524
    deadendp said:

    hedonist said:

    ldent42 said:

    hedonist said:


    We're not all special little flowers, Hank.

    I am a goddamned snowflake, I don't care WHAT Tyler Durden says.
    =)

    I also need deadendp and her asterisk!
    *
    We're all brilliant asterisks! (Ask, Hedonist, and ye shall receive!)

    In all seriousness, my time here on the boards has been brief in relation to time other people have been here. In my short time, I've noticed that the boards have seasons. When touring, you have the ISO (name your venue here) threads. During Mystery Box sales, we have those threads. Sometimes I sift. Sometimes I decide to fold the laundry and clean the dishes instead. But I do agree with 2-feign. =)

    The forum isn't time clock attached. Be in when you want to be. Be out when you want to be. Just make sure that you enjoy what you are doing. (Whether it be here or elsewhere.) If you aren't, then make a change.
    Ha! You rock, with this said not as a recipient.

    I'm actually listening to the Benny version of Down at the moment.

    PERFECT.

    Long live this music, and us with it, long as we may run.
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