I lost my wife a week ago (play Come Back at Wrigley)

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  • javis el errante
    javis el errante Buenos Aires Posts: 6,144
    I'm deeply sorry for your loss, bro, my thoughts are with you and your family, hope you get Come Back at Wrigley
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  • Ellroy80
    Ellroy80 Posts: 137
    So sorry for your loss. I hope you get your request.
  • autumn
    autumn Posts: 191
    I am so sorry to hear about your loss. Please play Come Back for Sarah at Wrigley!!!
  • bigbiggzy
    bigbiggzy Posts: 840
    I'm so sorry....Will be praying and thinking of you and your loved ones..
  • SD48277
    SD48277 Posts: 12,243
    My deepest sympathies. You, your family, and Sarah's family are in my prayers.
    I hope you get your request.
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  • mfc2006
    mfc2006 HTOWN Posts: 37,491
    so sorry to hear of your loss. wishing you, both of your families & all of your friends the best.

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  • hrd2imgn
    hrd2imgn Southwest Burbs of Chicago Posts: 4,924
    I am sorry to hear about your loss, my prayers and thoughts are with you tonight. I hope your wish comes true, if not I will sing it to you in the parking lot after the show. I really mean that, not a joke.
  • KC138045
    KC138045 Columbus, OH Posts: 2,716
    I am deeply sorry for your loss. Like you I too got my wife into Pearl Jam. Our 10th anniversary is this Friday and we were planning to spend the weekend in Chicago but decided to delay our trip so we could go to Wrigley in July. Your wife will be there with you in spirit. I hope this is one post the band reads or ten club brings to their attention and they dedicate Come Back to your wife.
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  • lcusick
    lcusick Posts: 310
    My heart goes out to you! So sorry about your loss. Please play COME BACK - bump!!
  • jwhjr17
    jwhjr17 Posts: 2,078
    Another bump for this to be played at Wrigley. I will be attending with my wife and can't imagine being without her. My heart goes out to you for your loss.
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  • Smellyman
    Smellyman Asia Posts: 4,528
    Luckily I had to take a conference call at work because I was watching your video crying like crazy. I had to compose myself.

    Here's to Come Back being played
  • guitar59
    guitar59 Posts: 1,221
    Sorry for your loss, hope they play Come Back for you.
  • StillHere
    StillHere Posts: 7,795
    I'm so so sorry that you lost your beautiful wife. I'm glad you have so many happy memories of the both of you with smiles on your faces. Please PJ play Come Back for Adam and the love of his life.
    peace,
    jo

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  • rockpants
    rockpants BC Posts: 838
    My heartfelt condolences. I hope you get to hear Come Back at Wrigley. Take care.
  • Last-12-Exit
    Last-12-Exit Charleston, SC Posts: 8,661
    I have no doubt that if the band hears your story they will play come back. I can't imagine what your going through.
  • jumbojet
    jumbojet Posts: 1,484
    My condolescences. I was touched by the tribute video. Hope you get your request song. Take care.
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  • IamTom
    IamTom Posts: 1,138
    I'm so sorry.

    And I honour your courage to put your story up on here. And I hope Come Back gets played and you'll know there will be many people thinking of you and your wife.

    Bless you,your wife and all who have been touched by her life and death.



    Grief-


    When you lose someone you love,
    Your life becomes strange,
    The ground beneath you becomes fragile,
    Your thoughts make your eyes unsure;
    And some dead echo drags your voice down
    Where words have no confidence
    Your heart has grown heavy with loss;
    And though this loss has wounded others too,
    No one knows what has been taken from you
    When the silence of absence deepens.

    Flickers of guilt kindle regret
    For all that was left unsaid or undone.

    There are days when you wake up happy;
    Again inside the fullness of life,
    Until the moment breaks
    And you are thrown back
    Onto the black tide of loss.
    Days when you have your heart back,
    You are able to function well
    Until in the middle of work or encounter,
    Suddenly with no warning,
    You are ambushed by grief.

    It becomes hard to trust yourself.
    All you can depend on now is that
    Sorrow will remain faithful to itself.
    More than you, it knows its way
    And will find the right time
    To pull and pull the rope of grief
    Until that coiled hill of tears
    Has reduced to its last drop.

    Gradually, you will learn acquaintance
    With the invisible form of your departed;
    And when the work of grief is done,
    The wound of loss will heal
    And you will have learned
    To wean your eyes
    From that gap in the air
    And be able to enter the hearth
    In your soul where your loved one
    Has awaited your return
    All the time.

    John O'Donohue
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  • -Emma-
    -Emma- Posts: 2,864
    I'm so sorry for the loss of your wife :( .

    R.I.P. Sarah

    I hope they play Sarah's favourite song at Wrigley.
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  • juddboz80
    juddboz80 Posts: 2,141
    Deepest sympathy to you and your family.....life is so unfair! She will be right there with you at wrigley!
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  • dwhite76
    dwhite76 Posts: 2,801
    My heart goes out to you and your family. I sure hope this happens for you and you feel her presence with you on that night. I'm sure you will always feel her love and presence no matter the outcome.
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