Donate to help + chance for PJ20 Billboard UPDATE FROM CHRIS
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Congratzz to the winners and a big Hail Hail for all involved in this awesome topic... :clap: :thumbup:
10c jammers are realy special people and its great to see so much love is shared here..
Be well everyone
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congrats to the winners..and great job Suzie May.."...Dimitri...He talks to me...'.."The Ghost of Greece..".
"..That's One Happy Fuckin Ghost.."
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Congrats to all the winners, but most importantly a big thanks should go out to Suziemay for stepping up and helping a family in grief.0
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Congratulations to the winners!! THANK YOU SUZIEMAY for getting this together and to all the 10c members that participated!! Raising that amount of $$ is such a beautiful thing.
Cheers to Suziemay and the winners!!
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great work Su May

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Congratulations to the winners, and great job Suziemay!!
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barger395 wrote:Congratulations to the winners!! THANK YOU SUZIEMAY for getting this together and to all the 10c members that participated!! Raising that amount of $$ is such a beautiful thing.
Cheers to Suziemay and the winners!!
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Can't be said enough: Big props to everyone who donated their money and their posters, and a huge thanks to Su May for her inspirational work.
Hopefully, this gesture shines a little light on an otherwise dark time for Francisco's family and friends. Let's continue to keep them in our thoughts.I SAW PEARL JAM0 -
Suziemay wrote:Cupcake for pre-draw anxiety (huge responsibility to pick the winning names!)

Next time, one of these & I'm in!!!0 -
Hi everyone,
Chris received the money and has picked out a headstone with Francisco's mom. He wishes he could thank everyone individually but is dealing with a lot right now, and isn't on the board often. He promises to come back soon, maybe talk about some PJ/EV shows
Below is the note Chris sent me, posted with his permission. Thank you everyone again for your contributions. We were able to make a huge difference to Francisco's family with just a small gesture on our parts.
xx
Su May
From Chris (chrishermano3):
Just took Francisco's family to a place where we basically created a headstone. The reason that there's two books is because the spot where he is buried is specifically for two people, so his mother is going to be buried with him and eventually her stone will be filled in (though nothing is in her book for superstitious reasons) I found it cool that they wanted to put beloved brother (he actually has no brothers or sisters) because he was so close to his cousins and friends as if they were brothers. The man at the place was very knowledgeable when it came to creating the headstone, he knew that because of where Francisco was located he had to get a specific headstone with specific measurements and everything, so we got all of that done. He also gave us 10% off of the headstone because of what we (including mainly all of you awesome 10c members) did for Francisco. I just want to thank you so much for all that you have done and sorry for being absent its really hard right now with everything going on
Also I attached the basic picture of his headstone. It only cost $1,200 and the rest went towards the setting fee at the cemetery ($350) with a little leftover for his mom, plus all of the iTunes money that will be coming in next month. And the headstone will be at his grave in approximately 8-10 weeks!
Thank you all so very much, especially you Su May, you inspired me and his family to be the best people we can be, and great things will come your way. What you did was amazing and I hope for the best for you
To be able to see Francisco's mother's face when I told her the headstone was being paid for was amazing and I wish you could have seen it.
Thank you very much Su May
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Thank you for posting the message from Chris. I got choked up reading it.ELITIST FUK0
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Suziemay wrote:Hi everyone,
Chris received the money and has picked out a headstone with Francisco's mom. He wishes he could thank everyone individually but is dealing with a lot right now, and isn't on the board often. He promises to come back soon, maybe talk about some PJ/EV shows
Below is the note Chris sent me, posted with his permission. Thank you everyone again for your contributions. We were able to make a huge difference to Francisco's family with just a small gesture on our parts.
xx
Su May
From Chris (chrishermano3):
Just took Francisco's family to a place where we basically created a headstone. The reason that there's two books is because the spot where he is buried is specifically for two people, so his mother is going to be buried with him and eventually her stone will be filled in (though nothing is in her book for superstitious reasons) I found it cool that they wanted to put beloved brother (he actually has no brothers or sisters) because he was so close to his cousins and friends as if they were brothers. The man at the place was very knowledgeable when it came to creating the headstone, he knew that because of where Francisco was located he had to get a specific headstone with specific measurements and everything, so we got all of that done. He also gave us 10% off of the headstone because of what we (including mainly all of you awesome 10c members) did for Francisco. I just want to thank you so much for all that you have done and sorry for being absent its really hard right now with everything going on
Also I attached the basic picture of his headstone. It only cost $1,200 and the rest went towards the setting fee at the cemetery ($350) with a little leftover for his mom, plus all of the iTunes money that will be coming in next month. And the headstone will be at his grave in approximately 8-10 weeks!
Thank you all so very much, especially you Su May, you inspired me and his family to be the best people we can be, and great things will come your way. What you did was amazing and I hope for the best for you
To be able to see Francisco's mother's face when I told her the headstone was being paid for was amazing and I wish you could have seen it.
Thank you very much Su May

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Me too. So sad seeing the dates, breaks my heart. When I lost a good friend, people couldn't understand why I grieved for so long, I took great comfort in knowing it was OK to do it in my own way.SD48277 wrote:Thank you for posting the message from Chris. I got choked up reading it.
"I can choose to accept or resist my grief, but I cannot end it & I would not want to, because grieving is the other face of love, it is the inevitable consequence of change...of life." Paul Bennett
Chris, may you find your rituals for comfort & one day may your memories be sweet.0 -
This is awesome and I'm so glad that it worked out for Francisco's family to have had this done for him. It's very heartwarming to read the note from Chris.
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That is a beautiful quote.kellanazzie wrote:
Me too. So sad seeing the dates, breaks my heart. When I lost a good friend, people couldn't understand why I grieved for so long, I took great comfort in knowing it was OK to do it in my own way.SD48277 wrote:Thank you for posting the message from Chris. I got choked up reading it.
"I can choose to accept or resist my grief, but I cannot end it & I would not want to, because grieving is the other face of love, it is the inevitable consequence of change...of life." Paul Bennett
Chris, may you find your rituals for comfort & one day may your memories be sweet.0 -
I have to admit that I teared up reading the note from Chris.
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derbydave wrote:I have to admit that I teared up reading the note from Chris.
I feel very fortunate to be a member of the 10 Club Family!!! :ugeek:
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thanks for the update, Su May
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