Question for the men

Heisenberg · February 2012

I only listen to Bach too

81 · February 2012

Heisenberg wrote:

I only listen to Bach too

well done....

81 · February 2012

so....are we sleeping with the guy or what? if not...i'm moving on to a new thread.

iluvcats · February 2012

I don't think she likes him (deep down) and I don't either

81 wrote:

so....are we sleeping with the guy or what? if not...i'm moving on to a new thread.

iluvcats · February 2012

The pic of seb bach that I got from his site was too many pixels and it would not let me paste it in! he's a tall guy.

Heisenberg wrote:

I only listen to Bach too

81 · February 2012

iluvcats wrote:

I don't think she likes him (deep down) and I don't either

81 wrote:

so....are we sleeping with the guy or what? if not...i'm moving on to a new thread.

that doesn't answer the question..

Black Diamond · February 2012

81 wrote:

iluvcats wrote:

I don't think she likes him (deep down) and I don't either

81 wrote:

so....are we sleeping with the guy or what? if not...i'm moving on to a new thread.

that doesn't answer the question..

stargirl69 · February 2012

iluvcats wrote:

I don't think she likes him (deep down) and I don't either

81 wrote:

so....are we sleeping with the guy or what? if not...i'm moving on to a new thread.

That will be no for a mass sex party then

_ · February 2012

pjl44 wrote:

Is there a chance that his conversation came across as pretentious at all? Knowledge takes a few different shapes and there's a pretty wide gap between arriving at your ideologies through comprehension and parroting back things you've learned. The way you described his approach seems a little intellectually aggressive in how he was controlling the conversation. Not trying to put you on the spot and feel free to take the question as rhetorical. Just wondering if you're taking responsibility for your apprehension when your instincts might be picking up on something else.

Great question! No, I really don't think he was being pretentious. I think he's just really intellectual and those are the kinds of things he likes to talk about. He is a professor, after all. I really enjoyed the conversation! I'm really happy that we talked about all those things. It just reminded me that I'm not in that place in my life anymore and I miss it. I don't work in that part of the university and most of the people I know don't talk about those things. I think I'm just projecting my insecurities onto him.

_ · February 2012

iluvcats wrote:

I honestly could not see myself dating or hanging around someone who exclusively listens to Bach.
Here is a link to brush up for your next date
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bach

was he belting out a bach tune at the karoke? sebastian bach, lol?

I'm glad you enjoyed your date with him. If he met me, I'm so dumb and hard of hearing esp with background noise, the conversation would have ended in 5 minutes!

Thanks for the link! I've decided that when I finally finish this master's degree (7 more weeks!

) I'm going to brush up on Bach and all the other things I loved learning & talking about when I was an undergrad and studied for the sake of learning.

Yeah, he hummed one of Bach's fugues at karaoke.

No, he sang Aerosmith (I think) and Barry Manilow.

The background noise was killing me. He really must think I was totally all over him based on how I was leaning across the table to hear him the whole time!

_ · February 2012

iluvcats wrote:

I don't think she likes him (deep down) and I don't either

81 wrote:

so....are we sleeping with the guy or what? if not...i'm moving on to a new thread.

So far I like him enough to have another conversation with him, but not enough to sleep with him just yet (unless there's a lot of alcohol involved & I get to touch his hair). :P

81 · February 2012

_ wrote:

iluvcats wrote:

I don't think she likes him (deep down) and I don't either

81 wrote:

so....are we sleeping with the guy or what? if not...i'm moving on to a new thread.

So far I like him enough to have another conversation with him, but not enough to sleep with him just yet (unless there's a lot of alcohol involved & I get to touch his hair). :P

game on....

lets get _ laid

if we don't hear anything back by wed of next week, we are going to need to make a move

_ · February 2012

81 wrote:

_ wrote:

So far I like him enough to have another conversation with him, but not enough to sleep with him just yet (unless there's a lot of alcohol involved & I get to touch his hair). :P

game on....

lets get _ laid

if we don't hear anything back by wed of next week, we are going to need to make a move

pjl44 · February 2012

_ wrote:

pjl44 wrote:

Is there a chance that his conversation came across as pretentious at all? Knowledge takes a few different shapes and there's a pretty wide gap between arriving at your ideologies through comprehension and parroting back things you've learned. The way you described his approach seems a little intellectually aggressive in how he was controlling the conversation. Not trying to put you on the spot and feel free to take the question as rhetorical. Just wondering if you're taking responsibility for your apprehension when your instincts might be picking up on something else.

Great question! No, I really don't think he was being pretentious. I think he's just really intellectual and those are the kinds of things he likes to talk about. He is a professor, after all. I really enjoyed the conversation! I'm really happy that we talked about all those things. It just reminded me that I'm not in that place in my life anymore and I miss it. I don't work in that part of the university and most of the people I know don't talk about those things. I think I'm just projecting my insecurities onto him.

Fair enough. I wasn't sure if there was the possibility of a Good Will Hunting moment in the future.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VmRe_fK7pbw

81 · February 2012

pjl44 wrote:

_ wrote:

pjl44 wrote:

Is there a chance that his conversation came across as pretentious at all? Knowledge takes a few different shapes and there's a pretty wide gap between arriving at your ideologies through comprehension and parroting back things you've learned. The way you described his approach seems a little intellectually aggressive in how he was controlling the conversation. Not trying to put you on the spot and feel free to take the question as rhetorical. Just wondering if you're taking responsibility for your apprehension when your instincts might be picking up on something else.

Great question! No, I really don't think he was being pretentious. I think he's just really intellectual and those are the kinds of things he likes to talk about. He is a professor, after all. I really enjoyed the conversation! I'm really happy that we talked about all those things. It just reminded me that I'm not in that place in my life anymore and I miss it. I don't work in that part of the university and most of the people I know don't talk about those things. I think I'm just projecting my insecurities onto him.

Fair enough. I wasn't sure if there was the possibility of a Good Will Hunting moment in the future.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VmRe_fK7pbw

you stop being a negative nancy....we have a guy to abuse :P

_ · February 2012

pjl44 wrote:

_ wrote:

pjl44 wrote:

Is there a chance that his conversation came across as pretentious at all? Knowledge takes a few different shapes and there's a pretty wide gap between arriving at your ideologies through comprehension and parroting back things you've learned. The way you described his approach seems a little intellectually aggressive in how he was controlling the conversation. Not trying to put you on the spot and feel free to take the question as rhetorical. Just wondering if you're taking responsibility for your apprehension when your instincts might be picking up on something else.

Great question! No, I really don't think he was being pretentious. I think he's just really intellectual and those are the kinds of things he likes to talk about. He is a professor, after all. I really enjoyed the conversation! I'm really happy that we talked about all those things. It just reminded me that I'm not in that place in my life anymore and I miss it. I don't work in that part of the university and most of the people I know don't talk about those things. I think I'm just projecting my insecurities onto him.

Fair enough. I wasn't sure if there was the possibility of a Good Will Hunting moment in the future.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VmRe_fK7pbw

I totally thought of that scene when I read your original post.

RKCNDY · February 2012

[quote="iluvcats"

I'm glad you enjoyed your date with him. If he met me, I'm so dumb and hard of hearing esp with background noise, the conversation would have ended in 5 minutes!

^^^this is me...I hate it when I have to ask people 'what' more than twice....too many damn concerts that I had to squeeze my way to the front.

stargirl69 · February 2012

_ wrote:

iluvcats wrote:

I don't think she likes him (deep down) and I don't either

81 wrote:

so....are we sleeping with the guy or what? if not...i'm moving on to a new thread.

So far I like him enough to have another conversation with him, but not enough to sleep with him just yet (unless there's a lot of alcohol involved & I get to touch his hair). :P

:? Ok this thread has gone from oddly amusing to weird

_ · February 2012

stargirl69 wrote:

_ wrote:

So far I like him enough to have another conversation with him, but not enough to sleep with him just yet (unless there's a lot of alcohol involved & I get to touch his hair). :P

:? Ok this thread has gone from oddly amusing to weird

What first attracted me to him was his great hair. It's so cool I just want to reach out and touch it! :P

81 · February 2012

that is how we roll in the AET

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