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  • rick1zoo2
    rick1zoo2 between a rock and a dumb place Posts: 12,632
    81 wrote:
    that is how we roll in the AET


    :lol:
  • stargirl69
    stargirl69 Posts: 6,387
    _ wrote:
    stargirl69 wrote:
    _ wrote:
    :lol: So far I like him enough to have another conversation with him, but not enough to sleep with him just yet (unless there's a lot of alcohol involved & I get to touch his hair). :P

    :? Ok this thread has gone from oddly amusing to weird :D

    :lol: What first attracted me to him was his great hair. It's so cool I just want to reach out and touch it! :P

    Oh please judge the moment for doing that at the right time :? You don't want a security escort from the workplace
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  • _
    _ Posts: 6,657
    stargirl69 wrote:
    _ wrote:
    :lol: What first attracted me to him was his great hair. It's so cool I just want to reach out and touch it! :P

    Oh please judge the moment for doing that at the right time :? You don't want a security escort from the workplace

    Hmm... well I don't know... does the security escort have great hair too? :P
  • 81
    81 Needing a ride to Forest Hills and a ounce of weed. Please inquire within. Thanks. Or not. Posts: 58,276
    _ wrote:
    Hmm... well I don't know... does the security escort have great hair too? :P


    time to do some research
    81 is now off the air

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  • of.the.girl
    of.the.girl Posts: 10,026
    oh good gosh...we go from picking a guy up to stroking his hair :lol::lol:
  • stargirl69
    stargirl69 Posts: 6,387
    _ wrote:
    stargirl69 wrote:
    _ wrote:
    :lol: What first attracted me to him was his great hair. It's so cool I just want to reach out and touch it! :P

    Oh please judge the moment for doing that at the right time :? You don't want a security escort from the workplace

    Hmm... well I don't know... does the security escort have great hair too? :P

    This would be called having an two hour pass from the psych unit :lol:
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  • ZiggyStar
    ZiggyStar Posts: 14,328
    81 wrote:
    is it too soon to send him boobie shots? :?:

    Never too soon. :lol:
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  • 81
    81 Needing a ride to Forest Hills and a ounce of weed. Please inquire within. Thanks. Or not. Posts: 58,276
    ZiggyStar wrote:
    81 wrote:
    is it too soon to send him boobie shots? :?:

    Never too soon. :lol:



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  • mfc2006
    mfc2006 HTOWN Posts: 37,491
    81 wrote:
    that is how we roll in the AET

    :lol: :thumbup:
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  • dimitrispearljam
    dimitrispearljam Posts: 139,725
    good you enjoy the day..next time maybe will be better......
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  • Black Diamond
    Black Diamond Posts: 25,109
    Soooooooooo......
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  • _
    _ Posts: 6,657
    Black Diamond wrote:
    Soooooooooo......

    Nothing.
  • Black Diamond
    Black Diamond Posts: 25,109
    _ wrote:
    Black Diamond wrote:
    Soooooooooo......

    Nothing.
    So what's the plan stan?
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  • _
    _ Posts: 6,657
    Black Diamond wrote:
    _ wrote:
    Black Diamond wrote:
    Soooooooooo......

    Nothing.
    So what's the plan stan?

    The plan is to do nothing. I wanted to meet him and I did. If he wants to get together again, he can let me know. I'm still not 100% sure he's even available.
  • _
    _ Posts: 6,657
    Ugh. So now I'm starting to wonder if ths is some kind of double standard. I'm thinking the ball's in his court now; but if he had been the one to initially contact me, I'd still be thinking the ball was in his court. Maybe that's not fair. I don't know. :?
  • Carey
    Carey Posts: 2,361
    _ wrote:
    Ugh. So now I'm starting to wonder if ths is some kind of double standard. I'm thinking the ball's in his court now; but if he had been the one to initially contact me, I'd still be thinking the ball was in his court. Maybe that's not fair. I don't know. :?

    This is a tough call! If you are curious I don't think there is any harm in making one attempt to contact him and then leave it at that. What are you thinking?
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  • ZiggyStar
    ZiggyStar Posts: 14,328
    Just email him and say "want to catch up for another coffee?"

    It appears that you found him very interesting and enjoyed the conversation etc....so why not just try to form a friendship with him? And if it leads somewhere....good....but if not, you could still have an interesting friend who may introduce you to other interesting friends....which may lead to finding other attractive men to have coffee with? ;)
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  • kellanazzie
    kellanazzie Posts: 1,484
    edited February 2012
    ZiggyStar wrote:
    Just email him and say "want to catch up for another coffee?"

    It appears that you found him very interesting and enjoyed the conversation etc....so why not just try to form a friendship with him? And if it leads somewhere....good....but if not, you could still have an interesting friend who may introduce you to other interesting friends....which may lead to finding other attractive men to have coffee with? ;)
    Ziggy may be onto something here....

    Do you still have that yearning to know him? Not "KNOW HIM". know him, don't get excited boys ;)
    Maybe you could come up with some tickets to something "Hey, I have an extra ticket for "blah blah", would you like to join me?" Of course, tickets could be scarse for the next "Evolutionary Mating Practices of Baboons & the Hierarchial Nature Pertaining to Sibling Rivalry" event :? (still can't get over that amazing convo :lol: ) Anyway, you get my drift. How are you feeling about him?
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  • DS1119
    DS1119 Posts: 33,497
    _ wrote:
    Ugh. So now I'm starting to wonder if ths is some kind of double standard. I'm thinking the ball's in his court now; but if he had been the one to initially contact me, I'd still be thinking the ball was in his court. Maybe that's not fair. I don't know. :?


    Shoot him a message. Separate yourself from the situation and ask "what's the worst that can happen"? Only good can happen if you do this. Either you can see him again, or you know where you stand right?


    P.S. Guys are just as confused when it comes to this stuff too...maybe even more. He might be sitting around wondering the same stuff that you are. Take action.
  • Heisenberg
    Heisenberg Los Pollos Hermanos Posts: 4,958
    kellanazzie wrote:
    Ziggy may be onto something here....

    Ziggy is always onto something. She's like the 10c Yoda for male-female relationships ;)

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