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slightlystoned
slightlystoned Posts: 229
edited March 2010 in All Encompassing Trip
My ex and i broke up a week ago and i find out today she is already with someone else. I love this girl and the split was not my idea. I just want to forget the whole thing because it hurts.
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  • Holtzmn
    Holtzmn Posts: 87
    Hate to break it to you but she was probably already seeing him before the break up and that's why she ended it.
  • LikeAnOcean
    LikeAnOcean Posts: 7,718
    Sorry to hear. Love is a funny thing. It's like a drug. It can be the best feeling possible, or can give you the worst feeling possible. I envy those who fall in love for life. It's rarely that simple.


    Hail, hail the lucky ones..
  • patrickredeyes
    patrickredeyes Posts: 8,834
    slightlystoned wrote:
    My ex and i broke up a week ago and i find out today she is already with someone else. I love this girl and the split was not my idea. I just want to forget the whole thing because it hurts.


    That totally freaking sucks.
  • slightlystoned
    slightlystoned Posts: 229
    We were having some problems because i have been depressed as of late and i have been going to counseling. She said she didnt want to be in a relationship right now and then i find this out. FUCK HER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  • thesewordselope
    thesewordselope Posts: 781
    slightlystoned wrote:
    We were having some problems because i have been depressed as of late and i have been going to counseling. She said she didnt want to be in a relationship right now and then i find this out. FUCK HER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Sounds like you are way better off without her. May not seem that way now because it hurts, but you will see it eventually, it will get better. Try and focus on yourself and your happiness....as hard as that may seem. All the best!!
  • dimitrispearljam
    dimitrispearljam Posts: 139,725
    sorry for that..i guess only time can help u..dont think of her..just think of your self..
    "...Dimitri...He talks to me...'.."The Ghost of Greece..".
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  • MrMerkinball
    MrMerkinball Posts: 1,978
    just think of all of the Married guys who would give anything to live the life of a single guy for just a week. The grass is always greener. You will be fine
  • pandora
    pandora Posts: 21,855
    Im sorry it hurts
    but you will love again
  • Get_Right
    Get_Right Posts: 14,202
    so go out and get some strange ;)
    there are so many wonderful women in this world to spend time with and get to know

    think of the break up as an opportunity to experience what the women of this world have to offer! Its her loss.
  • PatrickBateman
    PatrickBateman Posts: 2,243
    MrMerkinball wrote:
    just think of all of the Married guys who would give anything to live the life of a single guy for just a week. The grass is always greener. You will be fine

    I "get" to experience that now after 14 years of marriage.
    Sorry to hear about your breakup man, people are telling me it was meant to be
    But hey,it could be worse.. at least you dont have 4 children to be sad for as well
    If a man speaks in a forest and there is no woman around to hear him, is he still wrong?
  • dunkman
    dunkman Posts: 19,646
    women eh? can't live with them....
    oh scary... 40000 morbidly obese christians wearing fanny packs invading europe is probably the least scariest thing since I watched an edited version of The Care Bears movie in an extremely brightly lit cinema.
  • Claireack
    Claireack Posts: 13,561
    Try to focus on getting yourself better and in a good place. Agree rather too quick to be being with someone else.
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  • pandora
    pandora Posts: 21,855
    MrMerkinball wrote:
    just think of all of the Married guys who would give anything to live the life of a single guy for just a week. The grass is always greener. You will be fine
    if they really would "give anything" to do that then maybe they should give it all up and learn something. "You never know what you've got until it's gone". Appreciate what you have and show that appreciation to those you love.
  • the wolf
    the wolf Posts: 7,027
    I'm really sorry man.

    having just gone through close to the same thing, I wish there were something I could say.

    it just sucks, but you will get through it.

    My only advice would be to continue the counseling for sure.

    if you need an ear, I'm a pm away.

    be strong.


    -steve
    Peace, Love.

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    to not question your government is unpatriotic."
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  • demetrios
    demetrios Posts: 98,290
    slightlystoned wrote:
    We were having some problems because i have been depressed as of late and i have been going to counseling. She said she didnt want to be in a relationship right now and then i find this out. FUCK HER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Sorry what happen, but I agree with you. The hell with her! You were depressed & you were going through counseling. If she was interested in you she could of been by your side. Even helped you out. She was your ex. Say something. She tells you the relationship is over & now she's already in another relationship? Man, you can find somebody 100 times better then that woman. I was used many times & and passed out randomly cause of my depression. It was bad. Drugs didn't work at all. After reading & getting therapy, the best way to fight back is to ignore them. Don't even think of them again. People who were jealous, selfish, only cared for themselves let them roam around like pigs. Get rid of them. I couldn't take it anymore & I flipped out. It felt so good letting everything out. Now I'm happy! I'm meeting new friends. Going out on dates (where I used to be afraid cause of my shyness). Work is enjoyable then ever before & I'm having the time of my life, with people who understand me & people who care!

    Do take care slightlystoned. Every road you will find a bump. Drive around that bump & leave it behind. Don't look @ it again. Keep your eyes forward to a better tomorrow! :)
  • chadwick
    chadwick up my ass Posts: 21,157
    Get_Right wrote:
    so go out and get some strange ;)
    there are so many wonderful women in this world to spend time with and get to know

    think of the break up as an opportunity to experience what the women of this world have to offer! Its her loss.

    quite possibly the smartest person on this board.


    my dad's friend used to say "women, can't live with 'em and ya can't kick 'em in the nuts"

    good luck to the OP
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  • keeponrockin
    keeponrockin Posts: 7,446
    Good luck dude, that's all I can say.
    Believe me, when I was growin up, I thought the worst thing you could turn out to be was normal, So I say freaks in the most complementary way. Here's a song by a fellow freak - E.V
  • Get_Right
    Get_Right Posts: 14,202
    chadwick wrote:
    Get_Right wrote:
    so go out and get some strange ;)
    there are so many wonderful women in this world to spend time with and get to know

    think of the break up as an opportunity to experience what the women of this world have to offer! Its her loss.

    quite possibly the smartest person on this board.
    In my best elvis voice:
    thank you, thank you very much :oops:
  • mca47
    mca47 Posts: 13,342
    Sorry to hear that man.

    Chicks suck!



    Except for the chicks on here! :D
  • sandgroper
    sandgroper Posts: 172
    edited April 2010
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