However, two things I'd like to say - firstly, you will never find happiness outside yourself, no matter how you try. Nothing - a job, a relationship, a house... can ever substitute for true happiness. Nurture your own needs first. And when you become happy, you will attract good people back into your life.
And secondly, no matter how much you may have been hurt, the longer you hold on to the pain and the anger, the longer she will have power over you. I realize this might sound cliched, but the sooner you forgive her, to let go of the hurt, the sooner you'll be free.
Good luck.
Smart motherfucker, right here.
yep. I've taken this approch since my gf left in January. I was talking to my ex-wife last night and she said she has never heard me sound so happy. My sister then made close to the same comment about an hour later.
Shit sucks at times, money issues now, and I'm not sure where I'll even be living at the end of this month, but all that aside, I'm actually in the best frame of mind that i've been in years.
Peace, Love.
"To question your government is not unpatriotic --
to not question your government is unpatriotic."
-- Sen. Chuck Hagel
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yep. I've taken this approch since my gf left in January. I was talking to my ex-wife last night and she said she has never heard me sound so happy. My sister then made close to the same comment about an hour later.
Shit sucks at times, money issues now, and I'm not sure where I'll even be living at the end of this month, but all that aside, I'm actually in the best frame of mind that i've been in years.
"To question your government is not unpatriotic --
to not question your government is unpatriotic."
-- Sen. Chuck Hagel