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  • CJMST3K
    CJMST3K Posts: 9,722
    Holtzmn wrote:
    Hate to break it to you but she was probably already seeing him before the break up and that's why she ended it.



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  • Starfall
    Starfall Posts: 548
    That's really unfortunate.

    However, two things I'd like to say - firstly, you will never find happiness outside yourself, no matter how you try. Nothing - a job, a relationship, a house... can ever substitute for true happiness. Nurture your own needs first. And when you become happy, you will attract good people back into your life.

    And secondly, no matter how much you may have been hurt, the longer you hold on to the pain and the anger, the longer she will have power over you. I realize this might sound cliched, but the sooner you forgive her, to let go of the hurt, the sooner you'll be free.

    Good luck.
    "It's not hard to own something. Or everything. You just have to know that it's yours, and then be willing to let it go." - Neil Gaiman, "Stardust"
  • LikeAnOcean
    LikeAnOcean Posts: 7,718
    Starfall wrote:
    That's really unfortunate.

    However, two things I'd like to say - firstly, you will never find happiness outside yourself, no matter how you try. Nothing - a job, a relationship, a house... can ever substitute for true happiness. Nurture your own needs first. And when you become happy, you will attract good people back into your life.

    And secondly, no matter how much you may have been hurt, the longer you hold on to the pain and the anger, the longer she will have power over you. I realize this might sound cliched, but the sooner you forgive her, to let go of the hurt, the sooner you'll be free.

    Good luck.


    Best advice ever.
  • LikeAnOpeningBandForTheSun
    LikeAnOpeningBandForTheSun Posts: 6,097
    she was probably a whore anyway. better off without her.
  • yellowporch
    yellowporch Posts: 510
    MrSmith wrote:
    she was probably a whore anyway. better off without her.

    Quite the realist approach.
  • i_lov_it
    i_lov_it Perth, Western Australia Posts: 4,007
    slightlystoned wrote:
    We were having some problems because i have been depressed as of late and i have been going to counseling. She said she didnt want to be in a relationship right now and then i find this out. FUCK HER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    SHE had HIM lined up...DUMP you...FREE to go with "HIM"... :?
  • Kevinman
    Kevinman Atlanta, GA USA Posts: 1,921
    Better to have loved and lost, than to never have loved at all?

    Time does wonderful things, sorry for your pain.
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  • dimitrispearljam
    dimitrispearljam Posts: 139,725
    thats why BLACK is the best song ever written......talks about something we all was,are,will be....
    "...Dimitri...He talks to me...'.."The Ghost of Greece..".
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  • morello
    morello Auckland, New Zealand Posts: 6,217
    Sorry, haven't read the whole thread but from what I read at the start I want to recommend this website & forum: survivinginfidelity dot com

    The people there absolutely got me through when my now ex-husband left me for someone else in 2005!! I absolutely recommend that website!
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  • Danimal
    Danimal Posts: 2,000
    Starfall wrote:
    That's really unfortunate.

    However, two things I'd like to say - firstly, you will never find happiness outside yourself, no matter how you try. Nothing - a job, a relationship, a house... can ever substitute for true happiness. Nurture your own needs first. And when you become happy, you will attract good people back into your life.

    And secondly, no matter how much you may have been hurt, the longer you hold on to the pain and the anger, the longer she will have power over you. I realize this might sound cliched, but the sooner you forgive her, to let go of the hurt, the sooner you'll be free.

    Good luck.

    Smart motherfucker, right here.
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  • the wolf
    the wolf Posts: 7,027
    Danimal wrote:
    Starfall wrote:
    That's really unfortunate.

    However, two things I'd like to say - firstly, you will never find happiness outside yourself, no matter how you try. Nothing - a job, a relationship, a house... can ever substitute for true happiness. Nurture your own needs first. And when you become happy, you will attract good people back into your life.

    And secondly, no matter how much you may have been hurt, the longer you hold on to the pain and the anger, the longer she will have power over you. I realize this might sound cliched, but the sooner you forgive her, to let go of the hurt, the sooner you'll be free.

    Good luck.

    Smart motherfucker, right here.

    yep. I've taken this approch since my gf left in January. I was talking to my ex-wife last night and she said she has never heard me sound so happy. My sister then made close to the same comment about an hour later.
    Shit sucks at times, money issues now, and I'm not sure where I'll even be living at the end of this month, but all that aside, I'm actually in the best frame of mind that i've been in years.
    Peace, Love.

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