raise your hand if your divorced....

CHANGEinWAVES
CHANGEinWAVES Posts: 10,169
edited May 2008 in All Encompassing Trip
just seeing who's been thru this hell hole!!

*(i know i spelled the 2nd you're wrong! sorry....can't fix it now!)
"I'm not present, I'm a drug that makes you dream"
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  • OffHeGoes29
    OffHeGoes29 Posts: 1,240
    I don't plan on getting married to find out.

    Stay strong, because thats all you can do....
    BRING BACK THE WHALE
  • NYbenben
    NYbenben Posts: 1,020
    i have pondered the thought a several times but have yet to pull the trigger. it is a tough situation... compounded further if you have kids. if you dont, then it makes things a lot simpler.

    good luck with it.
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  • LONGRD
    LONGRD Posts: 6,036
    Don't know...I'm not married! ;)


    Best of luck with your situation. :)
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  • PJ_Saluki
    PJ_Saluki Posts: 1,006
    I haven't been divorced. Most likely it's because I've never been married.
    "Almost all those politicians took money from Enron, and there they are holding hearings. That's like O.J. Simpson getting in the Rae Carruth jury pool." -- Charles Barkley
  • _
    _ Posts: 6,657
    OffHeGoes29 wrote:
    I don't plan on getting married to find out.

    Marriage is the #1 cause of divorce, after all.
  • CHANGEinWAVES
    CHANGEinWAVES Posts: 10,169
    scb wrote:
    Marriage is the #1 cause of divorce, after all.
    smart observation ;)
    "I'm not present, I'm a drug that makes you dream"
  • harmless_little_f***
    harmless_little_f*** Posts: 8,005
    I'm going through it, yes..
    'We're learning songs for baby Jesus' birthday. His mum and dad were Merry and Joseph. He had a bed made of clay and the three kings bought him Gold, Frankenstein and Merv as presents.'

    - the great Sir Leo Harrison
  • wolfbear
    wolfbear Posts: 3,965
    It is hell. I've never been divorced, but I married someone who was and was friends with his wife if you can imagine. Not a fun one either. lol Plus, I've known lots who have gone through it. Just keep your head and try not to get to emotional, hard I know. Do you have a mutual friend? That is what I was and it truly seemed to help. Good luck and everything will work out eventually, even if you don't believe it now. :)
    "I'd rather be with an animal." "Those that can be trusted can change their mind." "The in between is mine." "If I don't lose control, explore and not explode, a preternatural other plane with the power to maintain." "Yeh this is living." "Life is what you make it."
  • HailHailVitalogy
    HailHailVitalogy Posts: 6,015
    I've been through my parent's getting divorced as a kid......twice

    It does suck, not just between the two people but between finances, and all that paper work bullshit....throw kids in it, and you got yourself a second job
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  • Dissidentman
    Dissidentman Posts: 15,378
    I'm 3 years post divorce. Lived 7 different places in the 1st year, ex and kids moved an hour away...
  • urbanhippie
    urbanhippie Posts: 3,007
    Currently in the middle of a not very friendly divorce.
    A human being that was given to fly.

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  • Jeremy1012
    Jeremy1012 Posts: 7,170
    scb wrote:
    Marriage is the #1 cause of divorce, after all.
    as sure as life is a sexually transmitted disease with 100% mortality rate
    "I remember one night at Muzdalifa with nothing but the sky overhead, I lay awake amid sleeping Muslim brothers and I learned that pilgrims from every land — every colour, and class, and rank; high officials and the beggar alike — all snored in the same language"
  • SENROCK
    SENROCK Posts: 10,736
    NYbenben wrote:
    i have pondered the thought a several times but have yet to pull the trigger. it is a tough situation... compounded further if you have kids. if you dont, then it makes things a lot simpler.

    good luck with it.
    does it REALLY make it easier if theres no kids? I have a friend thats married and wants a divorce. No kids but for some reason the emotional attachment is freakin CRAZY. Im not married nor do i ever plan to be so im just wondering....in general if its THAT easy without kids.
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  • urbanhippie
    urbanhippie Posts: 3,007
    SENROCK! wrote:
    does it REALLY make it easier if theres no kids? I have a friend thats married and wants a divorce. No kids but for some reason the emotional attachment is freakin CRAZY. Im not married nor do i ever plan to be so im just wondering....in general if its THAT easy without kids.
    Divorce is never easy, but kids add the complications of access and custody. If you want to make a clean break this can be difficult when you have to see your ex all the time. In my case all this has done is make a difficult thing even harder.
    A human being that was given to fly.

    Wembley 18/06/07

    If there was a reason, it was you.

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  • Dissidentman
    Dissidentman Posts: 15,378
    SENROCK! wrote:
    does it REALLY make it easier if theres no kids? I have a friend thats married and wants a divorce. No kids but for some reason the emotional attachment is freakin CRAZY. Im not married nor do i ever plan to be so im just wondering....in general if its THAT easy without kids.

    I would say if I did not have kids it would have been light years easier...
  • Dissidentman
    Dissidentman Posts: 15,378
    dissidentman wrote:
    I would say if I did not have kids it would have been light years easier...

    To clarify: easier does not = easy

    It's a fucking train wreck hell hole shit storm either way.
  • SENROCK
    SENROCK Posts: 10,736
    dissidentman wrote:
    To clarify: easier does not = easy

    It's a fucking train wreck hell hole shit storm either way.
    wow. nice description! :eek:
    ~~~~~~ALWAYS HAVE A GOOD TIME~~~~~~
    Sir Mike McCready is....THE MASTER!!! WAHHH!!!
    EVENFLOW PSYCHOS H.N.I.C~FEEL THE FLOW!!!

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    It takes balls to put out a UKE album!
  • SENROCK
    SENROCK Posts: 10,736
    urbanhippie wrote:
    Divorce is never easy, but kids add the complications of access and custody. If you want to make a clean break this can be difficult when you have to see your ex all the time. In my case all this has done is make a difficult thing even harder.
    i see. my apologies to all of you that have to go thru this.
    ~~~~~~ALWAYS HAVE A GOOD TIME~~~~~~
    Sir Mike McCready is....THE MASTER!!! WAHHH!!!
    EVENFLOW PSYCHOS H.N.I.C~FEEL THE FLOW!!!

    "Pearl Jam fans are obsessed, they'd see the boys in HELL if tickets were sold."-CROJAM95

    It takes balls to put out a UKE album!
  • urbanhippie
    urbanhippie Posts: 3,007
    dissidentman wrote:
    To clarify: easier does not = easy

    It's a fucking train wreck hell hole shit storm either way.
    Couldn't have said better myself.
    A human being that was given to fly.

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    If there was a reason, it was you.

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  • Brain of J.Lo
    Brain of J.Lo Posts: 3,259
    SENROCK! wrote:
    does it REALLY make it easier if theres no kids? I have a friend thats married and wants a divorce. No kids but for some reason the emotional attachment is freakin CRAZY. Im not married nor do i ever plan to be so im just wondering....in general if its THAT easy without kids.

    I once heard someone comment that calling divorce without kids "easier" is like telling a woman who just lost her legs "oh, well you didn't have any good shoes anyway..."

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