Love is Blind? Is 45 too old for a 33 year old?

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  • haffajappa
    haffajappa British Columbia Posts: 5,955
    tish wrote:
    I'm 33 year old female. I have a crush on a 45yr old male. Do you think it could work? Plus I want kids...
    its better than 20 having a crush on a 30 year old!
    ... which may or may not be the situation i'm in...

    *avoids eye contact*
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  • edvedder913
    edvedder913 Posts: 1,810
    i do not think that is bad at all! age is just a number.

    as far as the kids go, you would have to ask him how he feels about that. i know men that age who want kids and i know those who don't. it depends on the person.
  • South of Seattle
    South of Seattle West Seattle Posts: 10,724
    Allie wrote:
    I think people know, SoS, I think it is a combo of 'wishful thinking'/imagining, and joking :)

    See, Cosmo didn't know ;) and he probably makes the most sense of anyone on these boards :)
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  • Allie
    Allie Posts: 2,908
    South of Seattle wrote:
    See, Cosmo didn't know ;) and he probably makes the most sense of anyone on these boards :)
    Fair enough,
    but I knew :)
    And I think it's a fair bet to say AC knows as well :)
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  • haffajappa
    haffajappa British Columbia Posts: 5,955
    EquallyWorthless wrote:
    Half of his age plus seven is 31 so no....
    oh yah! that rule... hahah
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  • vedder_soup
    vedder_soup Posts: 5,861
    doin'the-evolution wrote:
    its better than 20 having a crush on a 30 year old!
    ... which may or may not be the situation i'm in...

    *avoids eye contact*

    :eek:

    but he is taken by cameron diaz these days ;)
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  • haffajappa
    haffajappa British Columbia Posts: 5,955
    vedder_soup wrote:
    :eek:

    but he is taken by cameron diaz these days ;)
    oh gerard! WHY?! and ps, hes like 40 dude... well, 40 and still smokin'. but i dont go for 20 years over. :)
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  • vedder_soup
    vedder_soup Posts: 5,861
    doin'the-evolution wrote:
    oh gerard! WHY?! and ps, hes like 40 dude... well, 40 and still smokin'. but i dont go for 20 years over. :)

    40 :eek:
    you wouldn't!
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    2006 - Reading Festival,
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    2008 - MSG x2, Hartford, Mansfield x2, Beacon Theater,
    2009 - Melbourne, Sydney,
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  • Spunkie
    Spunkie i come from downtown. Posts: 7,095
    Cosmo wrote:
    ...
    all you want to do is bang him...quote

    How's that for a misquote! Nope, I want it all.
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  • Spunkie
    Spunkie i come from downtown. Posts: 7,095
    AllNiteThing wrote:
    You know, for someone who started a big controversy on this board over your 'surprise' :rolleyes: that men whom you casually invite over to your place MAY anticipate something romantic to happen.......you sure do obsess over sex, 'signals' and crushes on this board. You really come off as an attention-seeking flirt, no offense. You continually vindicate everyone who called you out in that thread.

    http://forums.pearljam.com/showthread.php?t=266191

    I didn't read it all.
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  • Cosmo
    Cosmo Posts: 12,225
    tish wrote:
    Cosmo wrote:
    ...
    all you want to do is bang him...quote

    How's that for a misquote! Nope, I want it all.
    ...
    Hey, Baby... taken a little out of context... wouldn't you say? Here it is in context:
    Cosmo: "If all you want to do is bang him... go for it."
    As in, looking for a relationship... find out what he wants and cut and run if he says, "No" to kids.
    If you're cool with that and just want to fuck... go for it. I'm sure he'd be game (unless he's gay).
    ...
    But you... you actually know Avril Levigne lyrics. All I know is, 'Da duh dada, lala la la... Skater Boy... skater boy. Nana nada. Da duh dada... Skater boy... skater boy'
    ...
    And it was just joke, Love.
    Except for the part of finding out where he stands about kids. Because as an old guy, myself... the thought of an infant... crying at 3 A.M.... changing diapers filled with toxic waste... fuckin' aye.
    But, the part about just banging... fuckin' aye, Jack!
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  • ladygooddiva
    ladygooddiva Posts: 4,169
    what?whyare you asking ..go for it
  • MattCameronKicksButt
    MattCameronKicksButt Posts: 4,317
    ladygooddiva wrote:
    what?whyare you asking ..go for it

    I'm not sure either if this is a Jeff Ament joke or if she's being serious.

    In my personal experience, I know a few people in relationships with big age gaps and none of them are working well... but the age gap may or may not be the cause for it?

    I wish you the best tish - unless you're talking about Jeff, in which case it might be a good idea to get over your crush a little bit. :):):)
  • SENROCK
    SENROCK Posts: 10,736
    tish wrote:
    I'm 33 year old female. I have a crush on a 45yr old male. Do you think it could work? Plus I want kids...
    i think theres no problem? SUPPOSEDLY the person i like is 56....... HAHAHHAHAHAHA and im no where NEAR that!!!
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  • harmless_little_f***
    harmless_little_f*** Posts: 8,005
    Yeah, well I'm seven years my girlfriend's junior, so I say go for it, make babies with Jeff Ament. He'd probably like it. :)
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  • iluvcats
    iluvcats Posts: 5,153
    tish wrote:
    I'm 33 year old female. I have a crush on a 45yr old male. Do you think it could work? Plus I want kids...

    think about the future...

    ok, my dad and my step mom are 13 years apart. they got married when she was 18 and had 3 kids. now she is 60 and my dad is 73. she seems 40 and with his bad feet, he seems 80 compared to her. he can still do alot but he can't go for a walk around the neighborhood with her for example. when she wanted to go to a concert, she had to go with her daughters.

    it could work though!!!
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  • NY PJ1
    NY PJ1 Posts: 9,533
    not at all pork it
  • urbanhippie
    urbanhippie Posts: 3,007
    Age is just a number...


    But then, I would say that... my bf is younger than me :p:D
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  • iluvcats
    iluvcats Posts: 5,153
    harmless_little_f*** wrote:
    Yeah, well I'm seven years my girlfriend's junior, so I say go for it, make babies with Jeff Ament. He'd probably like it. :)

    I'm nearly 9 years older than my husband. He's my second husband. My first husband was almost 3 years older and very immature. My second husband is nicer :)
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  • AllNiteThing
    AllNiteThing Posts: 1,115
    Jeanie wrote:
    No more than you do with your constant need to rehash it. :rolleyes:


    Constant? I'm pretty sure this is the first time I've brought it up. Just noticed how hypocritical it is.
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