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Love is Blind? Is 45 too old for a 33 year old?

SpunkieSpunkie i come from downtown. Posts: 6,755
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  • AmentsChickAmentsChick Posts: 6,969
    Sure, why not? Does he like you? Does he want kids?
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  • LindaLinda Posts: 1,656
    tish wrote:
    I'm 33 year old female. I have a crush on a 45yr old male. Do you think it could work? Plus I want kids...


    sure....

    the rule is half his age plus 7....

    so you are in the clear...

    now go make babies...:D
    i'm not happy yet.....
  • Jeremy1012Jeremy1012 Posts: 7,170
    tish wrote:
    I'm 33 year old female. I have a crush on a 45yr old male. Do you think it could work? Plus I want kids...
    I don't see why that would have to be a problem. If he wanted kids too that is. 12 years difference really isn't worth passing up what could be a great chance. It's not that big of a deal in the grand scheme of things. Go for it. I also know PLENTY of people my age (19/20) who have 70 year old dads so it's not unusually old for a guy to have kids obviously.
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  • Ledbetterman10Ledbetterman10 Posts: 16,929
    tish wrote:
    I'm 33 year old female. I have a crush on a 45yr old male. Do you think it could work? Plus I want kids...

    now do you really have to ask this question of an internet message pit? you have to already know the answer to this
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  • SpunkieSpunkie i come from downtown. Posts: 6,755
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  • AmentsChickAmentsChick Posts: 6,969
    tish wrote:
    Hee hee hee. Does anyone know if Jeff wants kids? :D

    LOL!!! Get in line, honey! ;):D
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  • drtyfrnk29drtyfrnk29 Posts: 846
    Hell nah!!! Now take life by the saggy balls!!! :D
    I'm so dangerous I smoke dynamite.

  • LindaLinda Posts: 1,656
    tish wrote:
    Hee hee hee. Does anyone know if Jeff wants kids? :D


    hahahahahaha...funny tish....:D
    i'm not happy yet.....
  • SpunkieSpunkie i come from downtown. Posts: 6,755
    I've beaten bigger girls than you ;) Take THAT mckb!
  • SpunkieSpunkie i come from downtown. Posts: 6,755
    edited October 2023
    drtyfrnk29 wrote:
    Hell nah!!! Now take life by the saggy balls!!! D
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  • ReleaseMe...ReleaseMe... Posts: 494
    33 year olds still have crushes? haha jk

    do whatever you feel like
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  • drtyfrnk29drtyfrnk29 Posts: 846
    tish wrote:
    Hey! They're big. Not saggy ;)
    Fantastic. I hate to see you spend the rest of your life with a dude that has a sack like a uvula
    I'm so dangerous I smoke dynamite.

  • AmentsChickAmentsChick Posts: 6,969
    drtyfrnk29 wrote:
    Fantastic. I hate to see you spend the rest of your life with a dude that has a sack like a uvula

    Gross. :eek:
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  • SpunkieSpunkie i come from downtown. Posts: 6,755
    drtyfrnk29 wrote:
    Fantastic. I hate to see you spend the rest of your life with a dude that has a sack like a uvula

    vulva? ova? I'd spend the rest of my life with him happily.
  • AmentsChickAmentsChick Posts: 6,969
    tish wrote:
    vulva? ova? I'd spend the rest of my life with him happily.

    Uvula = thingy that hangs in the back of your throat.
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  • SpunkieSpunkie i come from downtown. Posts: 6,755
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  • LizardLizard So Cal Posts: 12,091
    45 year olds are HOTTTTT!!!!!!!!!
    So I'll just lie down and wait for the dream
    Where I'm not ugly and you're lookin' at me
  • Vedderlution_BabyVedderlution_Baby Posts: 2,535
    What two consenting adults choose to do shouldn't be problematic for either one, especially when it comes to something such as this. If they're able to deal with the judgments of other people, then good for them.
  • SpunkieSpunkie i come from downtown. Posts: 6,755
    Ledbetterman10 wrote:
    now do you really have to ask this question of an internet message pit? you have to already know the answer to this

    Good point.
  • drtyfrnk29drtyfrnk29 Posts: 846
    tish wrote:
    Tonsil? Oh great. Now my mind is in the gutter thinking of Jeff and my tonsils.
    Common misperception. It's a uvula. Could be wrong but I think it has something to do with your gag reflex.
    I'm so dangerous I smoke dynamite.

  • Bathgate66Bathgate66 Posts: 15,813
    age is a state of mind.

    go for it.
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  • LikeAnOceanLikeAnOcean Posts: 7,718
    tish wrote:
    I'm 33 year old female. I have a crush on a 45yr old male. Do you think it could work? Plus I want kids...
    You're both old so whats the difference? :p
  • prljmngrlprljmngrl Posts: 320
    tish wrote:
    I'm 33 year old female. I have a crush on a 45yr old male. Do you think it could work? Plus I want kids...
    I don't see a problem with it. Unless he has severe baggage .... that could be a HUGE problem.
  • AllieAllie Posts: 2,908
    I don't think there's anything wrong with a 33 yr old and a 45 yr old.

    My mother was 40 when she met my stepfather, who was 11 yrs older than her.
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  • SpunkieSpunkie i come from downtown. Posts: 6,755
    Thanks Allie, that really gives me hope!
  • JeanieJeanie Posts: 9,446
    Lizard wrote:
    45 year olds are HOTTTTT!!!!!!!!!

    So are 48 year olds! :D

    And 52 year olds even! haha! :D
    NOPE!!!

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  • JeanieJeanie Posts: 9,446
    tish, it's 12 years, not really that big of a deal. :)

    I have a girlfriend who's married to a guy 12 years her junior, they've been together for 10 years now I think.

    And I've dated guys 12 years older and almost 12 years younger.

    It's about the person not the number. :)
    NOPE!!!

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  • AllieAllie Posts: 2,908
    tish wrote:
    Thanks Allie, that really gives me hope!
    I'm glad! Good luck!
    "...like a word misplaced, nothing said, what a waste.."
    "Sometimes life should be consumed in measured doses"
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  • CosmoCosmo Posts: 12,225
    tish wrote:
    I'm 33 year old female. I have a crush on a 45yr old male. Do you think it could work? Plus I want kids...
    ...
    Here's what I do... if I were a 33 year old female.
    I'd find out from HIM how he feels about having kids. Chances are... he may already have a 20 year old kid of his own and probably does not want to deal with diapers and crying and baby stuff as he approaches 50.
    And imagine your kids... figure 2, 3 years of dating... 48/36... kid a year later... 49/37... the kid goes to kindergarden... 54/42... little league... 62/50. A 62 year old man trying to teach his 13 year old son to stay down on a grounder and take a bite from the ball if he has too. He's playing those numbers in his head, too.
    Do yourself a favor... if he ain't game... don't waste your time.
    If all you want to do is bang him... go for it.
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  • South of SeattleSouth of Seattle West Seattle Posts: 10,724
    Jeff has a lady Tish :)

    I can't believe how many people posting in this thread have no clue ;)
    NERDS!
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