Love is Blind? Is 45 too old for a 33 year old?

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  • Bathgate66
    Bathgate66 Posts: 15,813
    age is a state of mind.

    go for it.
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  • LikeAnOcean
    LikeAnOcean Posts: 7,718
    tish wrote:
    I'm 33 year old female. I have a crush on a 45yr old male. Do you think it could work? Plus I want kids...
    You're both old so whats the difference? :p
  • prljmngrl
    prljmngrl Posts: 320
    tish wrote:
    I'm 33 year old female. I have a crush on a 45yr old male. Do you think it could work? Plus I want kids...
    I don't see a problem with it. Unless he has severe baggage .... that could be a HUGE problem.
  • Allie
    Allie Posts: 2,908
    I don't think there's anything wrong with a 33 yr old and a 45 yr old.

    My mother was 40 when she met my stepfather, who was 11 yrs older than her.
    "...like a word misplaced, nothing said, what a waste.."
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  • Spunkie
    Spunkie i come from downtown. Posts: 7,095
    Thanks Allie, that really gives me hope!
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  • Jeanie
    Jeanie Posts: 9,446
    Lizard wrote:
    45 year olds are HOTTTTT!!!!!!!!!

    So are 48 year olds! :D

    And 52 year olds even! haha! :D
    NOPE!!!

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  • Jeanie
    Jeanie Posts: 9,446
    tish, it's 12 years, not really that big of a deal. :)

    I have a girlfriend who's married to a guy 12 years her junior, they've been together for 10 years now I think.

    And I've dated guys 12 years older and almost 12 years younger.

    It's about the person not the number. :)
    NOPE!!!

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  • Allie
    Allie Posts: 2,908
    tish wrote:
    Thanks Allie, that really gives me hope!
    I'm glad! Good luck!
    "...like a word misplaced, nothing said, what a waste.."
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  • Cosmo
    Cosmo Posts: 12,225
    tish wrote:
    I'm 33 year old female. I have a crush on a 45yr old male. Do you think it could work? Plus I want kids...
    ...
    Here's what I do... if I were a 33 year old female.
    I'd find out from HIM how he feels about having kids. Chances are... he may already have a 20 year old kid of his own and probably does not want to deal with diapers and crying and baby stuff as he approaches 50.
    And imagine your kids... figure 2, 3 years of dating... 48/36... kid a year later... 49/37... the kid goes to kindergarden... 54/42... little league... 62/50. A 62 year old man trying to teach his 13 year old son to stay down on a grounder and take a bite from the ball if he has too. He's playing those numbers in his head, too.
    Do yourself a favor... if he ain't game... don't waste your time.
    If all you want to do is bang him... go for it.
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  • South of Seattle
    South of Seattle West Seattle Posts: 10,724
    Jeff has a lady Tish :)

    I can't believe how many people posting in this thread have no clue ;)
    NERDS!
  • Allie
    Allie Posts: 2,908
    South of Seattle wrote:
    Jeff has a lady Tish :)

    I can't believe how many people posting in this thread have no clue ;)
    I think people know, SoS, I think it is a combo of 'wishful thinking'/imagining, and joking :)
    "...like a word misplaced, nothing said, what a waste.."
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  • Cosmo
    Cosmo Posts: 12,225
    South of Seattle wrote:
    Jeff has a lady Tish :)

    I can't believe how many people posting in this thread have no clue ;)
    ...
    Count me in as the clueless.
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  • AllNiteThing
    AllNiteThing Posts: 1,115
    You know, for someone who started a big controversy on this board over your 'surprise' :rolleyes: that men whom you casually invite over to your place MAY anticipate something romantic to happen.......you sure do obsess over sex, 'signals' and crushes on this board. You really come off as an attention-seeking flirt, no offense. You continually vindicate everyone who called you out in that thread.

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  • patrickredeyes
    patrickredeyes Posts: 8,834
    tish wrote:
    I'm 33 year old female. I have a crush on a 45yr old male. Do you think it could work? Plus I want kids...


    Age is just a number.



    I hope everything works out for you. :)
  • in_hiding79
    in_hiding79 Posts: 4,315
    AllNiteThing wrote:
    You know, for someone who started a big controversy on this board over your 'surprise' :rolleyes: that men whom you casually invite over to your place MAY anticipate something romantic to happen.......you sure do obsess over sex, 'signals' and crushes on this board. You really come off as an attention-seeking flirt, no offense. You continually vindicate everyone who called you out in that thread.

    http://forums.pearljam.com/showthread.php?t=266191

    I remember this thread!!! :eek:
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  • thebetterman
    thebetterman Posts: 657
    tish wrote:
    I'm 33 year old female. I have a crush on a 45yr old male. Do you think it could work? Plus I want kids...

    I would say age does not matter, wanting the same things does though. If you click and want the same things for your future then who cares how old you are?
    -one thing to remember, always have a good time, all the time
  • AllNiteThing
    AllNiteThing Posts: 1,115
    in_hiding79 wrote:
    I remember this thread!!! :eek:


    Am I right here?? Comes across a little unbalanced to me.
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  • Cosmo
    Cosmo Posts: 12,225
    AllNiteThing wrote:
    You know, for someone who started a big controversy on this board over your 'surprise' :rolleyes: that men whom you casually invite over to your place MAY anticipate something romantic to happen.......you sure do obsess over sex, 'signals' and crushes on this board. You really come off as an attention-seeking flirt, no offense. You continually vindicate everyone who called you out in that thread.

    http://forums.pearljam.com/showthread.php?t=266191
    ...
    Hmmm...
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  • EquallyWorthless
    EquallyWorthless Posts: 3,993
    tish wrote:
    I'm 33 year old female. I have a crush on a 45yr old male. Do you think it could work? Plus I want kids...


    Half of his age plus seven is 31 so no....
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  • Jeanie
    Jeanie Posts: 9,446
    AllNiteThing wrote:
    You know, for someone who started a big controversy on this board over your 'surprise' :rolleyes: that men whom you casually invite over to your place MAY anticipate something romantic to happen.......you sure do obsess over sex, 'signals' and crushes on this board. You really come off as an attention-seeking flirt, no offense. You continually vindicate everyone who called you out in that thread.

    http://forums.pearljam.com/showthread.php?t=266191
    AllNiteThing wrote:
    Am I right here?? Comes across a little unbalanced to me.

    No more than you do with your constant need to rehash it. :rolleyes:
    NOPE!!!

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    The currents will shift

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