Singles Awareness Day

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  • Heineken Helen
    Heineken Helen Posts: 18,095
    audiodave wrote:
    Well...maybe you should start!



    Sorry Helen, I couldn't resist. I realise that i'm now effectively on a death sentence. :D
    :eek:

    :mad:

    You just wait :p
    The Astoria??? Orgazmic!
    Verona??? it's all surmountable
    Dublin 23.08.06 "The beauty of Ireland, right there!"
    Wembley? We all believe!
    Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
    Chicago 07? And love
    What a different life
    Had I not found this love with you
  • Heineken Helen
    Heineken Helen Posts: 18,095
    PJPixie wrote:
    Wow, I met quite a few kids with TETROLOGY OF FALLOT during my son's last hospital stay for his OPEN HEART SURGERY. SO amazing! My son's Defect is called HYPOPLASTIC LEFT HEART SURGERY and I'm so lucky to have him. 20 years ago, kids born with this defect usually didn't survive.

    Here are some pics of my MIRACLE MAX!

    http://i62.photobucket.com/albums/h90/OffSheGoes/BridgeSchool07etc015.jpg
    Birthday Cake with Mom ( If you look close you can see some of his scars from his OPEN HEART SURGERIES)

    http://i62.photobucket.com/albums/h90/OffSheGoes/MaxTree.jpg
    Climbing a Tree - Nothing stops this kid!!

    http://i62.photobucket.com/albums/h90/OffSheGoes/MaxsCake.jpg
    Eating Birthday Cake Rock N' Roll Style!

    http://i62.photobucket.com/albums/h90/OffSheGoes/macucla1.jpg
    A visit to the ER a few months ago. He was fine!

    http://i62.photobucket.com/albums/h90/OffSheGoes/BridgeSchool07etc060.jpg
    Having Ice Cream at the Beach.
    oh he's gorgeous :o especially the one with the cake on his face :D brilliant... who needs a man to celebrate valentines with when you have him to love, eh? :)
    The Astoria??? Orgazmic!
    Verona??? it's all surmountable
    Dublin 23.08.06 "The beauty of Ireland, right there!"
    Wembley? We all believe!
    Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
    Chicago 07? And love
    What a different life
    Had I not found this love with you
  • dunkman
    dunkman Posts: 19,646
    Heineken Helen wrote:
    There doesn't have to be something wrong with ya because you've no interest in men right now.

    yes there does. if yu have no interest in the opposite sex/same sex/sex in general.. then there is something wrong. :)
    oh scary... 40000 morbidly obese christians wearing fanny packs invading europe is probably the least scariest thing since I watched an edited version of The Care Bears movie in an extremely brightly lit cinema.
  • Sian-of-the-dead
    Sian-of-the-dead Posts: 8,963
    dunkman wrote:
    yes there does. if yu have no interest in the opposite sex/same sex/sex in general.. then there is something wrong. :)

    agreed :p
    Been to this many PJ shows: Reading 2006 London 2007 Manchester & London 2009 Dublin, Belfast, London, Nijmegen & Berlin 2010 Manchester 1 & Manchester 2 2012...

    ... and I still think Drive-By Truckers are better.
  • genie
    genie Posts: 2,222
    NY PJ1 wrote:
    the day is bullcrap,, i dont need 1 day to tell someone i love them

    that should be everyday of the year

    yeah, i'm totally with ya.
  • Jamal
    Jamal Posts: 2,115
    dunkman wrote:
    yes there does. if yu have no interest in the opposite sex/same sex/sex in general.. then there is something wrong. :)
    disagree, you cn have times where you are fed up with love and thus, the attractin sex ...

    and then there's the fact that the other one needs to be attracted to you .. that's where it always goes wrong with me :o
    Surf little waves big... Charge big waves hard

    - Antwerp '06, Nijmegen '07, Werchter '07
  • genie
    genie Posts: 2,222
    GreenTeaDisease wrote:
    I don't feel sorry for myself...especially not in terms of being single. I don't know whether it's because I'm so drugged up or what, but I have no interest in men at the moment.

    it explains so much as to why you're so happy to be single.

    pill like that would sure help me........well i wouldn't take it all the time, but there are those days when i want to be free from thinking about sex
  • dunkman
    dunkman Posts: 19,646
    Jamal wrote:
    disagree, you cn have times where you are fed up with love and thus, the attractin sex ...

    and then there's the fact that the other one needs to be attracted to you .. that's where it always goes wrong with me :o

    well you've answered it very well... i said if you are not interested in sex then there's something wrong with you... and in your case its because you're fed up with love... ergo you have something wrong with you.

    and you dont need the other person to be attracted to you... right now i'm thinking of having sex with Angelina Jolie and 6 people from this forum... they all hate me.. but i like that :)
    oh scary... 40000 morbidly obese christians wearing fanny packs invading europe is probably the least scariest thing since I watched an edited version of The Care Bears movie in an extremely brightly lit cinema.
  • genie
    genie Posts: 2,222
    Jamal wrote:
    disagree, you cn have times where you are fed up with love and thus, the attractin sex ...

    and then there's the fact that the other one needs to be attracted to you .. that's where it always goes wrong with me

    cheer up :) finding love is like applying for jobs :D ( which is what i'm doing right now ) to get somekind of a job you've got to apply everywhere and even apply for vacancies that you think you won't get. and you've got to apply everyday!! and maybe after good 3 months you'll get what you're looking for.

    being fed up with sex???!!! what's that? i completely don't understand you ;):D:p
  • dunkman
    dunkman Posts: 19,646
    Sian-of-the-dead wrote:
    agreed :p

    oh i knew you'd agree :D


    genie wrote:
    but there are those days when i want to be free from thinking about sex

    but why? surely its a nice thing to think about rather than death, religion and death caused by religion... oh and rancid squirrels... and goats who do that weird noise thing and then pee on electric fences... etc etc
    oh scary... 40000 morbidly obese christians wearing fanny packs invading europe is probably the least scariest thing since I watched an edited version of The Care Bears movie in an extremely brightly lit cinema.
  • Heineken Helen
    Heineken Helen Posts: 18,095
    genie wrote:
    it explains so much as to why you're so happy to be single.
    WOW! Seriously people! Do you REALLY think people can't be happy single? And that they can't lose interest in the opposite sex? I was GENUINELY happy when I was single and really really got to know myself and enjoy my own company. I had no interest in finding somebody cos I didn't have a gap to fill. I've found somebody to SHARE it with, which is still great but to say that nobody can be happy single, just cos you can't, is a bit of a reach.
    The Astoria??? Orgazmic!
    Verona??? it's all surmountable
    Dublin 23.08.06 "The beauty of Ireland, right there!"
    Wembley? We all believe!
    Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
    Chicago 07? And love
    What a different life
    Had I not found this love with you
  • Heineken Helen
    Heineken Helen Posts: 18,095
    dunkman wrote:
    oh i knew you'd agree :D





    but why? surely its a nice thing to think about rather than death, religion and death caused by religion... oh and rancid squirrels... and goats who do that weird noise thing and then pee on electric fences... etc etc
    I think we all know sex is not the same as a relationship... you don't need to be in a relationship to have sex and you don't need to have sex to be eh... satisfied :)

    I thought everyone knew that :cool: . So you think somebody who's lost interest in relationships has lost interest in sex? :confused: what are ya all talking about?
    The Astoria??? Orgazmic!
    Verona??? it's all surmountable
    Dublin 23.08.06 "The beauty of Ireland, right there!"
    Wembley? We all believe!
    Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
    Chicago 07? And love
    What a different life
    Had I not found this love with you
  • genie
    genie Posts: 2,222
    dunkman wrote:
    oh i knew you'd agree :D





    but why? surely its a nice thing to think about rather than death, religion and death caused by religion... oh and rancid squirrels... and goats who do that weird noise thing and then pee on electric fences... etc etc

    yep, it is definitely better than thinking about death or suicide, no doubt about it.

    but here is the thing i'm single and i do want to find a good guy and not rush into things, well sort find love in a way. but thinking about sex messes everything up, i am more likely to say yes to the relationship when i know i'm going to get sex.:D but i would rather be friends for sometime and get to know the person without getting deeply involved until i know they're right for me. :)
  • dunkman
    dunkman Posts: 19,646
    Heineken Helen wrote:
    So you think somebody who's lost interest in relationships has lost interest in sex? :confused: what are ya all talking about?


    you said:-
    Originally Posted by Heineken Helen
    There doesn't have to be something wrong with ya because you've no interest in men right now.

    and i said:-
    yes there does. if you have no interest in the opposite sex/same sex/sex in general.. then there is something wrong.

    i stand by that... if i had no interest in my wife then something must be 'wrong' with me... i.e. i was depressed, stressed, hungry, etc etc... but if you arent interested in men/women then i think thats because you have something wrong with you.. not like a wonky eye or leprosy or something ... more a mental 'wrongness'
    oh scary... 40000 morbidly obese christians wearing fanny packs invading europe is probably the least scariest thing since I watched an edited version of The Care Bears movie in an extremely brightly lit cinema.
  • dunkman
    dunkman Posts: 19,646
    genie wrote:
    i am more likely to say yes to the relationship when i know i'm going to get sex.:D


    you're a girl... trust me, you're going to get sex :D

    genie wrote:
    but i would rather be friends for sometime and get to know the person without getting deeply involved until i know they're right for me. :)

    boring ;)

    nah thats nice actually :)



    p.s. its still boring though :runoutofsmiliequota:
    oh scary... 40000 morbidly obese christians wearing fanny packs invading europe is probably the least scariest thing since I watched an edited version of The Care Bears movie in an extremely brightly lit cinema.
  • genie
    genie Posts: 2,222
    Heineken Helen wrote:
    WOW! Seriously people! Do you REALLY think people can't be happy single? And that they can't lose interest in the opposite sex? I was GENUINELY happy when I was single and really really got to know myself and enjoy my own company. I had no interest in finding somebody cos I didn't have a gap to fill. I've found somebody to SHARE it with, which is still great but to say that nobody can be happy single, just cos you can't, is a bit of a reach.

    i do know how to loose interest in arguing though :D therefore i'm not going to argue with you today :p

    whatever you say goes
  • genie
    genie Posts: 2,222
    dunkman wrote:
    you're a girl... trust me, you're going to get sex :D

    true, i just need to go out there and apply to all the available men :D

    i'm sure if i was searching for guys similar to how i'm searching for jobs i'd be having a hell of a lot of it by now ;) but alas i just either sit at home or go out with my friends but don't do much searching. and with me i know that if i want to get something i need to put effort into it, cause nothing will come to me on the plate.........unlike my dinner of course :D
  • Heineken Helen
    Heineken Helen Posts: 18,095
    dunkman wrote:
    you said:-
    Originally Posted by Heineken Helen
    There doesn't have to be something wrong with ya because you've no interest in men right now.

    and i said:-
    yes there does. if you have no interest in the opposite sex/same sex/sex in general.. then there is something wrong.

    i stand by that... if i had no interest in my wife then something must be 'wrong' with me... i.e. i was depressed, stressed, hungry, etc etc... but if you arent interested in men/women then i think thats because you have something wrong with you.. not like a wonky eye or leprosy or something ... more a mental 'wrongness'
    I'm talking about single people... who simply aren't looking. I'm not talking about people in a committed relationship who lose all interest in their significant other. Have you never (before you met the wife) been genuinely happy being single and the thought of getting involved or even being chatted up is just an inconvenience? I have... and trust me that was a really happy phase... just as it is now. There's nothing wrong with either... but because you haven't felt something don't say there's something wrong with it.
    The Astoria??? Orgazmic!
    Verona??? it's all surmountable
    Dublin 23.08.06 "The beauty of Ireland, right there!"
    Wembley? We all believe!
    Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
    Chicago 07? And love
    What a different life
    Had I not found this love with you
  • Heineken Helen
    Heineken Helen Posts: 18,095
    genie wrote:
    i do know how to loose interest in arguing though :D therefore i'm not going to argue with you today :p

    whatever you say goes
    since when is any of this arguing? :confused: some of you are a tad sensitive. Just cos I think differently and say why... that's a debate, not an argument :) but if ya don't wanna get into it that's fine... but at least accept that other people are capable of feeling things that you've never felt.
    The Astoria??? Orgazmic!
    Verona??? it's all surmountable
    Dublin 23.08.06 "The beauty of Ireland, right there!"
    Wembley? We all believe!
    Copenhagen?? your light made us stars
    Chicago 07? And love
    What a different life
    Had I not found this love with you
  • dunkman
    dunkman Posts: 19,646
    Heineken Helen wrote:
    I'm talking about single people... who simply aren't looking. I'm not talking about people in a committed relationship who lose all interest in their significant other.

    they have something wrong with them.
    Heineken Helen wrote:
    Have you never (before you met the wife) been genuinely happy being single and the thought of getting involved or even being chatted up is just an inconvenience?

    absolutely never...
    Heineken Helen wrote:
    but because you haven't felt something don't say there's something wrong with it.

    but there is... and its my opinion... i'm completely interested in my wife/girl at the bus stop... if i dont feel interested then its because some external problem has made me think otherwise... and that means somethings wrong with me..
    oh scary... 40000 morbidly obese christians wearing fanny packs invading europe is probably the least scariest thing since I watched an edited version of The Care Bears movie in an extremely brightly lit cinema.

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