Sex Toy Parties

GreenTeaDisease · January 2008

jubilairesjl wrote:

Ok....I have a question. What happens at a sex toy party? Is it just to try and sell stuff or what?

yeah it's sort of like a tupperware party. a lady comes to the house and tries to sell stuff. the problem is that usually everyone at the party is required to buy something. the one I went to had some decent products in terms of lotions and things like that (that actually had multiple uses outside of sex). but it was long and got pretty boring just watching this lady present the products and try to convince us that the bride needed all of them (and I had just broken up with my boyfriend so it was kind of depressing to boot because I had no use for most of the stuff). You just sit there the whole time, can't really talk to your friends and stuff.

also the sales woman went into a little too much information on her own personal experiences with the products.

brainofPJ · January 2008

i want to get my wife some sex toys.

pjtradeking · January 2008

GreenTeaDisease wrote:

yeah it's sort of like a tupperware party. a lady comes to the house and tries to sell stuff. the problem is that usually everyone at the party is required to buy something. the one I went to had some decent products in terms of lotions and things like that (that actually had multiple uses outside of sex). but it was long and got pretty boring just watching this lady present the products and try to convince us that the bride needed all of them. You just sit there the whole time, can't really talk to your friends and stuff.

Either your friends are stuffy, or the rep sucked. It is all up to the rep to make the party fun and get people involved. If she is simply out to sell and that is it, then yea, they can be boring. My wife has been doing the in home party thing for 12 years now with candles, jewelry, stamps and passion passion parties, and makes her parties very fun. Alot of them are theme based and they have a very good time. You are not REQUIRED to buy anything and if you were told that, again, you had a bad rep showing you stuff...Trust me, I have had 100's of these things at my home, I know what they are like.

jammergirl · January 2008

i've been to a couple. they can get a little tedious if the lady selling them doesn't keep things going at a pace. they start with tame stuff like lotions and such, then move on to kinkier shit like anal beads and vibrators. the first one i went to, the lady was featuring something called "clit cream", and she suggested that we all go to the bathroom and put some of it ahem, down there and see if we liked it. so yeah, kind of fun stuff. ;-)

SPEEDY MCCREADY · January 2008

pjtradeking wrote:

Either your friends are stuffy, or the rep sucked. It is all up to the rep to make the party fun and get people involved. If she is simply out to sell and that is it, then yea, they can be boring. My wife has been doing the in home party thing for 12 years now with candles, jewelry, stamps and passion passion parties, and makes her parties very fun. Alot of them are theme based and they have a very good time. You are not REQUIRED to buy anything and if you were told that, again, you had a bad rep showing you stuff...Trust me, I have had 100's of these things at my home, I know what they are like.

so you have had ladies at your house drinking booze and buying dildos.....

over 100 times......

awesome.....

i am now going to discuss with my giirlfriend if WE can arrange a dildo selling party at our house......

GreenTeaDisease · January 2008

pjtradeking wrote:

Either your friends are stuffy, or the rep sucked. It is all up to the rep to make the party fun and get people involved. If she is simply out to sell and that is it, then yea, they can be boring. My wife has been doing the in home party thing for 12 years now with candles, jewelry, stamps and passion passion parties, and makes her parties very fun. Alot of them are theme based and they have a very good time. You are not REQUIRED to buy anything and if you were told that, again, you had a bad rep showing you stuff...Trust me, I have had 100's of these things at my home, I know what they are like.

well as I said some of the products were pretty good. and she got people involved in stuff and was very upbeat, but it was just very LONG (and she said that she didn't even sell a quarter of the stuff they have available). We were required to buy stuff because we only had about 6 people. So we each had to promise to buy one thing for ourselves and contribute to stuff for the bride.

and honestly, once you've seen one vibrator, you've seen them all. (and man, they are pricey!!! I spent $20 on lotion

)

pjtradeking · January 2008

brainofPJ wrote:

i want to get my wife some sex toys.

HAHAHA.I have heard that as well.

She has done a few that were couples, and she laughs, cause the guys all talk big you know. I'm gonna buy my wife this, and shes gonna use that and blah, blah, blah, but when it comes down to brass tax, and the toys and books and lotions and stuff are pulled out to show, she says that most of us big strong men turn red and just sit there and dont say much and the women take charge! hahaha

RolandTD20Kdrummer · January 2008

dunkman wrote:

Woody from ToyStory wasnt called Woody for nothing

yeah my wife has been to a few... i really should stop saying what my wife does

yes please....anything to save us from picturing you naked.

^_^

pjtradeking · January 2008

SPEEDY MCCREADY wrote:

so you have had ladies at your house drinking booze and buying dildos.....

over 100 times......

awesome.....

i am now going to discuss with my giirlfriend if WE can arrange a dildo selling party at our house......

LOL....Most of the parties that have been here, have been the other things she sells. When the passion parties happen, I am required to leave the premises so as not to be a hinderence to the ladies having a good time. She is a affraid that if I were around, the ladies woouldnt be themselves and thus not get involved as much.

brainofPJ · January 2008

pjtradeking wrote:

HAHAHA.I have heard that as well.

She has done a few that were couples, and she laughs, cause the guys all talk big you know. I'm gonna buy my wife this, and shes gonna use that and blah, blah, blah, but when it comes down to brass tax, and the toys and books and lotions and stuff are pulled out to show, she says that most of us big strong men turn red and just sit there and dont say much and the women take charge! hahaha

thing is, i have never talked to the wife about this.

only because i'm sure she wouldn't like it.

riffrandall · January 2008

Drink wine.
Buy an expensive vibrator.
Find out which of your friends is/are still uptight about masturbating/ sex because she turns all red and says "EEWWW" when they pass the goods around.

In a nutshell.. that's what happens at these parties. Some of the stuff is OK. Some is just odd- like, what woman needs a waterproof romance novel?

GreenTeaDisease · January 2008

riffrandall wrote:

Drink wine.
Buy an expensive vibrator.
Find out which of your friends is/are still uptight about masturbating/ sex because she turns all red and says "EEWWW" when they pass the goods around.

In a nutshell.. that's what happens at these parties. Some of the stuff is OK. Some is just odd- like, what woman needs a waterproof romance novel?

hahaha at the one I went to the woman made a guest who seemed pretty uptight try out the cream that was aforementioned earlier in the thread. she just walked back into the room looking like a deer in the headlights and sat kinda funny for the rest of the night.

SPEEDY MCCREADY · January 2008

what i wanna know.....and im serious....

is there a profit to be made at these dildo selling parties?????

pjtradeking · January 2008

brainofPJ wrote:

thing is, i have never talked to the wife about this.

only because i'm sure she wouldn't like it.

You would be surprised at what she would and wouldnt do. My wife has told me some stories of people you wouldnt beleive would enjoy themselves, or couldnt picture in that kind of atmosphere and they seem to lower their inhibitions when around a group of others. As I said, it helps if you have someone who is not stuffy and wants to have fun. My wife says that she usually breaks the ice by starting the show with something like

"Okay, ladies all together now..penis..penis..penis...vagina...vagina...vagina...These are NOT dirty words and you will here them alot so get the giggling out of the way now.."

After that, people are pretty loose and not as shy she says...All about presentation with this kind of thing..

QuarterToTen · January 2008

brainofPJ wrote:

thing is, i have never talked to the wife about this.

only because i'm sure she wouldn't like it.

talk to her, you may just be pleasantly suprised.

these parties are held for one reason, to make money.
they are usually very discreet when in comes to the actual purchases.

good for laughs at the very least.

riffrandall · January 2008

pjtradeking wrote:

"Okay, ladies all together now..penis..penis..penis...vagina...vagina...vagina...These are NOT dirty words and you will here them alot so get the giggling out of the way now.."

After that, people are pretty loose and not as shy she says...All about presentation with this kind of thing..

I'm sorry... but that made me laugh at how completely stupid it is!! Although I can see where the Ann Taylor suburbanites would get off on that & think that they were, actually, saying dirty words

Pass the white zinfandel!

GreenTeaDisease · January 2008

SPEEDY MCCREADY wrote:

what i wanna know.....and im serious....

is there a profit to be made at these dildo selling parties?????

yeah I think there can be profit. I don't think any of these sales reps becomes bill gates. You know, it's one of those things were the companies get the independent reps to buy the products and then they have to go out and sell them. it's like selling steak knives or tupperware or whatever.

SPEEDY MCCREADY · January 2008

GreenTeaDisease wrote:

yeah I think there can be profit. I don't think any of these sales reps becomes bill gates. You know, it's one of those things were the companies get the independent reps to buy the products and then they have to go out and sell them. it's like selling steak knives or tupperware or whatever.

cool....

i am now looking into my new career......

i am going to throw the best "FUCKING DILDO PARTIES" in Chicago.......

FLIPPING dildos sure sounds like alot more fun than flipping posters......

pjtradeking · January 2008

SPEEDY MCCREADY wrote:

what i wanna know.....and im serious....

is there a profit to be made at these dildo selling parties?????

Simply put SPEEDY...YES...There is alot of money to be made if you do it right. By that, I mean you(or your wife/gf) would have to get a good core group of people in whatever line she chose. The idea is that you get other people at the parties to book other parties and then you are exposed to that persons friends who in turn have other friends and word of mouth and on and on. If you get a good core, you can have a steady stream of shows and then you can do bridal functions and other stuff. Regulars will call and just buy stuff without having a party. Just depends on how hard you want to work. There are bonuses and things you can get as well. Free products, trips, all sorts of incentives if you work it right. Mine will be the first to admit that she doesn work it as well as she should. She does 2-3 other companies as well, so she has alot on her plateand does it mostly for spending money and something to do, but yes, there is $$ to be made.

patrickredeyes · January 2008

SPEEDY MCCREADY wrote:

cool....

i am now looking into my new career......

i am going to throw the best "FUCKING DILDO PARTIES" in Chicago.......

FLIPPING dildos sure sounds like alot more fun than flipping posters......

Driver by day, dildo seller by nite. hehehe

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