Kiss and Tell?

libragirl
libragirl Posts: 4,632
edited June 2008 in All Encompassing Trip
This question is for both you ladies and guys...

Do you tell your friends about your past "experiences" or for that matter your current boyfriends or girlfriends? Now I don't mean the disclosure people should do about their sexual history, I mean details about acts. I think that is in such poor taste. I had someone tell me this stuff and I thought it was awful, like how would I feel if someone was saying that type of stuff about me. Who knows if it was even true? I even had somone I dated confide in me that his sibling asked if we had sex. I was so offended. How is that would that be their business and why would they want to know..that is sick.
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  • NY PJ1
    NY PJ1 Posts: 9,533
    just tell us
  • libragirl
    libragirl Posts: 4,632
    Nah..It was just a general question. I was just thinking about a convo I had with my sister.
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  • NY PJ1
    NY PJ1 Posts: 9,533
    libragirl wrote:
    Nah..It was just a general question. I was just thinking about a convo I had with my sister.


    make something up
  • pjhunz28
    pjhunz28 Posts: 206
    I wouldn't
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  • libragirl
    libragirl Posts: 4,632
    NY PJ1 wrote:
    make something up

    well it was more of a question for everyone else...Kind of want to see how people feel about it.
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  • pjhunz28
    pjhunz28 Posts: 206
    i agree. it is sick. it seems people want to know and share way too much lately!!
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  • libragirl
    libragirl Posts: 4,632
    pjhunz28 wrote:
    i agree. it is sick. it seems people want to know and share way too much lately!!

    Definitely...Sometimes it's mean spirited too.
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  • pjhunz28
    pjhunz28 Posts: 206
    that's just wrong.
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  • Pacomc79
    Pacomc79 Posts: 9,404
    I just assume everyone in a relationship does, so I don't tend to tell stories or ask questions.
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  • pearljamjen
    pearljamjen Posts: 13,578
    No. Sometimes my best friend and I will discuss things that I wouldn't discuss with anyone else...but even then there are some things that I wouldn't share.

    My ex used to always want me to talk about details with past people I had fooled around with or dated. It used to make me uncomfortable. He only did this when he was drunk though...and then he would make a big scene when I wouldn't tell him. It was embarrassing because we would be out in public or in front of my friends. I don't know why I stayed with him for so long. When he was sober, he was the most jealous guy ever...and then when he was drunk, he would want to talk about past details. I'm getting off track though.

    So no, I think there are certain things you shouldn't discuss with people.
  • libragirl
    libragirl Posts: 4,632
    Pacomc79 wrote:
    I just assume everyone in a relationship does, so I don't tend to tell stories or ask questions.

    Well yeah I understand that.
    pearljamjen wrote:

    My ex used to always want me to talk about details with past people I had fooled around with or dated. It used to make me uncomfortable. He only did this when he was drunk though...and then he would make a big scene when I wouldn't tell him. It was embarrassing because we would be out in public or in front of my friends. I don't know why I stayed with him for so long. When he was sober, he was the most jealous guy ever...and then when he was drunk, he would want to talk about past details. I'm getting off track though.

    So no, I think there are certain things you shouldn't discuss with people.

    Yeah I think it's sad when people need to brag about past conquests to look worldly. I always feel it's at another's expense. I remember someone doing this w/me and I felt kind of bad for the person they were talking about. It wasn't right. I have no idea if it was even true.
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  • Bathgate66
    Bathgate66 Posts: 15,813
    i thought this was a Bryan Ferry Roxy Music Thread,....
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  • Get_Right
    Get_Right Posts: 14,206
    never kiss and tell
    but this one time at band camp...................
    :D

    seriously, women talk more than men about that kinda stuff, at least in my experience
    I never tell, but might reference a past experience in detail without naming names

    man this one chick was into...................blah blah blah
  • libragirl
    libragirl Posts: 4,632
    oh yeah women do it a lot. My sister tells me her coworkers talk about the dirtiest things at work..in front of customers! It's a salon...maybe that's okay there but she still says it's disgusting.

    Get_Right wrote:
    never kiss and tell
    but this one time at band camp...................
    :D

    seriously, women talk more than men about that kinda stuff, at least in my experience
    I never tell, but might reference a past experience in detail without naming names

    man this one chick was into...................blah blah blah
    These cuts are leaving creases. Trace the scars to fit the pieces, to tell the story, you don't need to say a word.
  • FinsburyParkCarrots
    FinsburyParkCarrots Seattle, WA Posts: 12,223
    Definitely, if the story is hilarious enough.
  • pearljamjen
    pearljamjen Posts: 13,578
    Get_Right wrote:
    never kiss and tell
    but this one time at band camp...................
    :D

    seriously, women talk more than men about that kinda stuff, at least in my experience
    I never tell, but might reference a past experience in detail without naming names

    man this one chick was into...................blah blah blah

    What's weird though is my guy friends try to fish WAAAAAY more details out of me than my female friends! :eek:
  • pearljamjen
    pearljamjen Posts: 13,578
    FinsburyParkCarrots wrote:
    Definitely, if the story is hilarious enough.

    Yeah, if it is a very funny story, then I will tell. :p
  • Get_Right
    Get_Right Posts: 14,206
    pearljamjen wrote:
    What's weird though is my guy friends try to fish WAAAAAY more details out of me than my female friends! :eek:

    Guys like to hear chicks talk about sex.
    But women are more chatty about it. At least it seems that way
  • libragirl
    libragirl Posts: 4,632
    FinsburyParkCarrots wrote:
    Definitely, if the story is hilarious enough.

    for fuck sake that is not cool!
















    ha..ha...just kidding.
    These cuts are leaving creases. Trace the scars to fit the pieces, to tell the story, you don't need to say a word.
  • Lukin66
    Lukin66 Posts: 3,063
    libragirl wrote:
    This question is for both you ladies and guys...

    Do you tell your friends about your past "experiences" or for that matter your current boyfriends or girlfriends? Now I don't mean the disclosure people should do about their sexual history, I mean details about acts. I think that is in such poor taste. I had someone tell me this stuff and I thought it was awful, like how would I feel if someone was saying that type of stuff about me. Who knows if it was even true? I even had somone I dated confide in me that his sibling asked if we had sex. I was so offended. How is that would that be their business and why would they want to know..that is sick.
    It's strange to me how many people just blab about relationships. The things that happen between myself and past significant others (even the current) is no one's business but my own. I don't understand how someone can disregard that and just gossip gossip gossip about things that should rightly stay private.
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