My Dog Sasha

CitizenRick · January 2008

So sorry about Sasha. I lost my cat of 8 years last xmas...as he was hit by a car. I still have great memories of him and the way he always greeted me at the door whenever I got home from work.

She'll always be in your heart.

Red mosquita · January 2008

I'm so sorry for your loss :(
You're both in my thoughts today.
Hope you feel better soon.

RipitLikePujols · January 2008

Put my Wheaten down nine years ago now, still miss her. Mom still cries sometimes, never been able to get another dog since. Sasha looks like a sweetie. Take comfort knowing she'll be carefree and free of pain, and able to run forever in her next destination.

And take comfort in knowing that you will meet up with her again, someday, perhaps sixty, seventy, eighty years from now. A long time perhaps, but you will meet with her spirit again, I'm sure.

Great picture of Sasha. Just let her know she is safe during the procedure by touching and talking to her, I think that is reassuring for the dog.

I'm so sorry for your loss. I'll be thinking about you guys today and I'll say a prayer for Sasha for her journey.

Peace to you and your husband, Darby.

SENROCK · January 2008

this thread hurts. :( im not one for attention so those who know me, know why it hurts. *sigh* hug sasha as much as u can today.

tkepearljamn · January 2008

I am sorry. When I was nine we had to have my families Black Lab put to sleep. That day my brother came home from college with a Golden Retriever Puppy that was 6 weeks old. 13 years later to the day, when I was in college, I had to make the call to have her put to sleep. It was one of the hardest things to do, But I know she didn't hurt anymore more.

I didn't think it was right to get another dog. Nothing could replace my friend. However, My family now has an 8 month old Golden. It is fun all over again. Making that relationship between "dog" and "man". You might not be ready at first, but it would help very much down the line.

My heart goes out to you and your family.

HatredThrownDown · January 2008

i had to watch my 15 year old dachsund (who hated my guyts) to sleep. It was one of the hardest and saddest days ever. Now I have a Boston Terrier and we are best buddies..I am dreading "that day". I feel for you and I will even pray for yours.

nukeboot · January 2008

I'm very sorry you're going through this. But at the same time I'm happy for you that Sasha has been in your life such a long time, especially given the way she came to you.

It's a tough call to make, but it sounds like you're doing the right thing. I've had to do it twice and it's still tough to think about it.

The first time I stayed for the whole process, but the second time my vet made a suggestion that I'll pass along - be there for the sedative, but leave when she falls asleep. That way you know that she is at peace at the end, but you don't witness the actual event. It helped me, if only a little.

Prayers sent to you at this difficult time.

DarbyCrash · January 2008

Thank you, everyone, for the sweet replies...made me feel at least a little better. I am about to make Sasha a steak...she loves them.

Again, I appreciate this forum and all of the wonderful, caring people in it. Thanks. From both me and Sasha.

pj.uw.laura · January 2008

Aw, I'm so sorry. It's so hard to go through that. We put our 16-year-old golden retriever to sleep a couple years ago, and even though we knew it was best for her, it was really tough. Just remember all the good memories, and know how lucky she was to have been blessed by coming into your family, who obviously loved and cared for her very much. Know how grateful she was to be welcomed into a home that was good to her. Dogs understand. She understands that it's time and that you guys love her. They know much more than we think they do. She knows that you guys are sad and that this needs to happen. Enjoy your last moments together, and be thankful for the 15+ years you spent together. She was obviously a very happy dog if she lived this long.

By the way, the picture of her is adorable.

«¤tîg®ê§§¤» · January 2008

oh my gosh.... your story is ripping me up.

She was so lucky that you found her and loved her, and you were so lucky that she found you and loved you

I cannot imagine how you are feeling right now, but I know your story made a cry baby out of me. If anything happened to my beloved Dogs I would be a freakin mess!

I dont really know what to say to you both.
I hope that when she drifts off and heads towards the rainbow bridge, that you both feel comfort knowing she is goin to have some fun there with her Furry friends, and that she will never forget you, because dogs love you unconditionally, always.

Rhyno · January 2008

What a beautiful dog and wonderful story about her long life in such a loving home. You'll have to think about all of the good times you had with her and all of the smiles she brought and will continue to bring to you and your husband.

Dogs are amazing creatures! My wife and I have a huskie/lab mix. We rescued her from a shelter about 4 years ago and can't believe how someone could have given her up. Dogs have the innate ability of bringing out the joy in life.

Anyway, my sincere condolences to you and your family. I will give my dog a big hug in honor of Sasha!

mookie9999 · January 2008

Sorry about your pup. Giver her a hug from all of us!

norm · January 2008

for shasha......

True Love

It was a hard day.
Full of frustrations;
The world succeeded
In beating me down
No matter how hard I fought.
Home at last,
I opened the door
To your admiring, loving face,
And kisses like I'd been gone
A lifetime.
Warm caresses, healing love--
I felt the cares of the world
Slide off my back.
I held you in my arms
And only love and happiness
Surround me.
and I remembered
Why I love, so much,
Coming home...
You're such a good little dog.

DarbyCrash · January 2008

Thank you to everyone who took the time to write all of these sweet messages.

It is 11:30pm Chicago time and our Sasha is now gone.

I have finally stopped sobbing. The trip to the vet was the most horrific ride I have ever taken. The only thing that made it bearable was the fact that Sasha loves a good car ride and even wagged her tail for a bit (which she hasn't done in weeks). Taking her in the office was a little surreal. Usually she is terrified of the vet, but this time (almost as if she knew what was going on and was relieved) she walked right in and seemed quite comfortable.

I won't go into the details of how it was done, but I will say that she was sedated and had her big Mastiff head on my leg the whole time.

My husband and I said "I love you" right before she went and her ears perked up just a little...I hope she heard us.

Everyone who has a dog, hug them really tightly tonight.

vedderfan10 · January 2008

I hope you can feel me giving you a hug...this type of loss is so devastating...I've been there and know exactly how it feels...been thinking about this all day, and hugging my dogs a little more than usual...they're all "WTF?? Leave me alone!!!"

Anyway...my thoughts are with you and your husband. Sasha was giving you a pretty clear signal that she knew it was time. We had our vet come to our home to put down our little Pinkerton...and usually she didn't think much of him, but when he came over, she trotted up to him and wagged her tail....

Take care...and no amount of crying is too much crying...

laurababy0105 · January 2008

Oh my what a beautiful creature!

I am sorry, but remember, you gave her a great life. The previous owners gave up on her, so did the Vet. You didn't. She knows that. She is holding on for you, like you did for her. Dogs are funny that way, very loyal to those they know love them. My heart breaks for you and for her.

I still miss my Mattie, it has been almost 6 years now. She was wonderful. Anyway, keep the memories alive. I would suggest getting another puppy as soon as you feel able. It doesn't replace, but it helps. You can love and help another life that no one else wants. In her memory.

Peace and Love to you.
L

DarbyCrash · January 2008

I wanted to post another picture of Sasha...during healthier, happier times...and it's how I'd like to remember her. Tongue hanging out, running towards me, trying to knock the camera out of my hand. She was at about 190 lbs here.

http://i40.photobucket.com/albums/e222/danajohnson/sj-1.jpg

SDHSClassof82 · January 2008

Ohhh....what a sweetheart of a dog. She experienced real love her whole long life with you and a safe healthy home. What else could any of us ask for?

I had to put down my adored 15 year old cat, Boo-boo, two years ago when it was clear she would not survive cancer. I was blown away how many people were truly understanding about what a huge loss it is. It hurt like hell; and I was sure I would never be able to be so closely bonded to another pet again.

Two months ago I adopted a kitten (Mookie) and it brought a whole new positive energy to my home and life. I didn't have to build up my attachment to her. I found fifteen years of companionship with Boo-boo had expanded my capacity to care deeply for an animal, so we just started at the point I had left off with Boo-boo and took off from there.

The day before Christmas she was diagnosed with a terminal disease. It was a dreary holiday season for me in a lot of ways, but I have been savoring every moment with her. Boy is she indulged and pampered too. I want her short life to be the best a cat could have.

You did that for Sasha for 15 years. Superbly well done! When you feel up to it, adopt a new dog friend and honor Sasha by continuing on the love.

Sorry about the length of my post and the general sappiness. Sasha's picture really got to me. I'm thinking of you both. Take care.

Jeanie · January 2008

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8BdeO9nwz7w

Thinking of you all.

Just A Fan · January 2008

I'm so sorry to hear this news, its so hard, I have been there. Just know that she had the best life ever and was loved well. , and she loved you just as much.

Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge.

When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge.
There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together.
There is plenty of food, water and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable.

All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor; those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by.
The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing; they each miss someone very special to them, who had to be left behind.

They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. His bright eyes are intent; His eager body quivers. Suddenly he begins to run from the group, flying over the green grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster.

You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head, and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your life but never absent from your heart.

Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together....

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My Dog Sasha

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